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Totally New. Genuine. Help please. Female only..thanks

By *tomachButterfly OP Man over a year ago

Wakefield

Hi all,

I’m new and have never met anyone officially to do anything naughty or anything, obviously it’s happened but never organised.

I’d really appreciate and be grateful to any girls I. The yorkshire region to meet in a pub or public place, just to verify me and have a chat about everything. Not to do anything in particular organised apart from sincerely a pub chat and drink.

I want to get started but I want to be very careful and selective, and not feel awkward or embarrassed as I get anxierty unfortunately,

There’s nothing on earth that beats those lower tummy butterflies and adrenaline rush of an encounter or scenario that ‘gets’ you clacking in your mouth. Lol. Trouble is, I don’t want just anyone. I’d be very very grateful for help, Chat, a drink even.

Thanks all.

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Good luck

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"Hi all,

I’m new and have never met anyone officially to do anything naughty or anything, obviously it’s happened but never organised.

I want to get started but I want to be very careful and selective, and not feel awkward or embarrassed as I get anxierty unfortunately,

Thanks all.

If it's only for a chat why does being very selective matter? Surely just someone friendly who is willing to help you is enough?

I think maybe you might have more luck if you widened your search maybe?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You've been on here for over 3 years. Hardly new.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is exactly what an organised social meet is. A few like minded people meeting somewhere for a drink and a chat.

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By *tomachButterfly OP Man over a year ago

Wakefield

I’m really sorry if that sounded wrong, what I meant is I wouldn’t like to find myself being charged or anything, friendly is perfect.

I wasn’t expecting or hoping it’d come across negative

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"I’m really sorry if that sounded wrong, what I meant is I wouldn’t like to find myself being charged or anything, friendly is perfect.

I wasn’t expecting or hoping it’d come across negative "

People charge for a social?

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By *tomachButterfly OP Man over a year ago

Wakefield

What I meant is yes I registered 3 yrs ago, but then became involved and didn’t visit the site again.

I’m genuine and respectful and would appreciate same

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By *tomachButterfly OP Man over a year ago

Wakefield

Sounds good thank you for the response.

I think I’d prefer a one to one chat first if possible. I do go red easy in groups lo.

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By *tomachButterfly OP Man over a year ago

Wakefield

I’m sorry I’m not au fait with all the lingo yet,

I just meant someone willing to help and decent and easy going

This is tough

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By *.W CPLCouple over a year ago

PRESTON

Pics uploaded in 2016 not really new are you T

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By *tomachButterfly OP Man over a year ago

Wakefield

jeez is everyone as friendly.

Whats wrong with folks?

Actually, makes it all the easier to realise whos decent and who isn't.

Ive just been waiting for new photo to be approved.

What do Women WANT to see? Surely not a DICK PIC straight away??

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"jeez is everyone as friendly.

Whats wrong with folks?

Actually, makes it all the easier to realise whos decent and who isn't.

Ive just been waiting for new photo to be approved.

What do Women WANT to see? Surely not a DICK PIC straight away??"

I don't think anyone has been unfriendly. I like some torso shots, a tasteful clothed shot.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Type in ‘Yorkshire social’ into the forum search and there’s several to choose from

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By *tomachButterfly OP Man over a year ago

Wakefield

Cheers Steve.

I'd not be able to face a 'group' meet

Just really was hoping to find someone similar to myself but dont think there's anyone.

Nice one pal.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You're already verified, and that was 4 yrs ago. I don't understand your "new and naive" approach.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"jeez is everyone as friendly.

Whats wrong with folks?

Actually, makes it all the easier to realise whos decent and who isn't.

Ive just been waiting for new photo to be approved.

What do Women WANT to see? Surely not a DICK PIC straight away??"

Everyone is here for themselves exactly the same as you are. They'll meet you if THEY want to, not cos you want them to. If they read this thread then.... They won't want to.

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