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By *elrose57 OP Couple
over a year ago
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so many types of mmf , there is the straight guys who like to see there wife fucked, the sissy cuck who likes to dress up the mild cuck who likes to join in and help out , what would be good is to get a perspective from other couples, also from the guys view, the bull what does he expect from meeting other couples, and what can be bought in to enhance everyone's understanding and enjoyment, after all looks like there is a growing trend to invite more guys into the couples lives |
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By *elrose57 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"We like to think of it as just sex.
It's a threesome, you don't have to worry about labels like cuckold or bull. It's two men having sex with a hot girl. That's fun right? "
what ever way everyone likes it , makes it good, its all about enjoyment |
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"so many types of mmf , there is the straight guys who like to see there wife fucked, the sissy cuck who likes to dress up the mild cuck who likes to join in and help out , what would be good is to get a perspective from other couples, also from the guys view, the bull what does he expect from meeting other couples, and what can be bought in to enhance everyone's understanding and enjoyment, after all looks like there is a growing trend to invite more guys into the couples lives "
Definitely agree -many different types of mfm fun
Just to give one example, one couple friends of mine - we alway meet in bar of the hotel they are staying at - partly its to catch up but also its so i can flirt with the hotwife - its such a turn on. She will wear something classy bit tight, and will sit next to me. its such a turn on, putting my arm around her waist, on her thigh, and then pecking her on the check/lips, in front of her husband. For all three of us, its a huge turn...
To the rest of the world - we are jus three people having a drink - though I am sure it looks bit strange...but to us three..its a mind blowing... |
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over a year ago
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It is about the mutual pleasure that can be provided without the inhibitions..
So there maybe cock on cock activity whilst pleasuring the woman and assuming all involved are consenting..what is the problem..?
Another mouth or tongue activity on the erogenous zones will definitely prolongue the combined pleasures... |
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"Its really varied. Have had meets where I have fucked her 1st while she is getting acquainted. Had meets where I've watched and filmed for ages . Just depends on the night "
I find the filming a turn on - fucking a lovely hotwife while her hubby takes pics is a real turn on. For my couple friend - its serves as reminder what a pornstar his wife is.. |
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Never had one but got one planned  Im not a watcher and like to be very hands on, this works very well in an ffm but I have mixed feelings about the mfm, I don’t want to be too greedy or in the way but I also don’t want to be wanking in a corner 
Jo is super excited about it and most of the threads on here tell the opinions of either the lady (obvious how they feel ) the cuck type/watcher who enjoys watching another man fuck his wife, again that’s not me, I don’t even watch mf porn cos I don’t like dicks
Or the view of the person joining the couple and again it’s kind of obvious why they enjoy it so much 
Would love to hear from others who are similar to us about your experiences
Nice thread OP I have been looking for a thread similar to this for a couple of days and the ones that are there have only made me feel worse about it! 
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By *elrose57 OP Couple
over a year ago
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I love to see my wife being enjoyed by another guy, and we do like a more assertive guy, and being involved and joining in, for many bulls have found that a big turn on for him as well as us, watching is just a big turn on, her legs open his hand in her knickers the bulging silky material as he delves inside , feeling her smoothness, and her look of enjoyment as they kiss |
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By *elrose57 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"It’s certainly on the to do list for 2020.... what ever the dynamics, I’m sure to be the centre of attention. Greedy girl, I hope x  "
well go for it,, you will get so much out of it and wish you had done sooner, its good to treat a lady to a very sexy time , a time she can look on with enjoyment |
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"I love to see my wife being enjoyed by another guy, and we do like a more assertive guy, and being involved and joining in, for many bulls have found that a big turn on for him as well as us, watching is just a big turn on, her legs open his hand in her knickers the bulging silky material as he delves inside , feeling her smoothness, and her look of enjoyment as they kiss "
I find knowing that husband is watching while his wife and I play to be huge turn on...its the taboo aspect of it that is such a turn on..being watched by the lady’s partner, being filmed by him or having him drive us around.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We like to think of it as just sex.
It's a threesome, you don't have to worry about labels like cuckold or bull. It's two men having sex with a hot girl. That's fun right? "
We're in the same place as you. The labels are always open to interpretation and so can't be relied upon. Besides, how we want a meet to go varies from meet to meet, so we take care to let our guest know beforehand exactly our wants and needs, and to understand his. It's always worked for us. |
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By *earlaitCouple
over a year ago
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"We like to think of it as just sex.
It's a threesome, you don't have to worry about labels like cuckold or bull. It's two men having sex with a hot girl. That's fun right? "
Exactly this !!!?????? |
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I arranged a surprise blindfolded threesome with a guy from here for the missus a while back .
It was brilliant.
She kept the blindfold on until the end as it heightend the erotism .
Bonus brownie points that night !. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We like to think of it as just sex.
It's a threesome, you don't have to worry about labels like cuckold or bull. It's two men having sex with a hot girl. That's fun right? "
Thus is how I see it as well, why does it have to be anymore than three people enjoying their time together. |
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For me its actually very important to know what kind of couple I'm meeting. When meeting a cuckold couple my mind works very differently than when I'm meeting a Stag-Vixen/hotwife or a bi couple.
Yes boxes may sound restrictive but for me they are a good starting point when I'm getting to know a couple.
Were I to meet a couple with a whole bunch of assumptions in my head it could lead to a very unsatisfactory meet for all concerned. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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Only had one mmf where I had the full attention of both guys the whole time.
I felt like a queen, it was amazing. I was very conscious of not giving one more attention than the other. They knew each other already which definitely helped everyone relax.
Might have a wank over that later!! |
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"We like to think of it as just sex.
It's a threesome, you don't have to worry about labels like cuckold or bull. It's two men having sex with a hot girl. That's fun right? "
This.
Trying to pigeon hole the scene into cuck or hotwife etc is taking away all the parameters available. We like the extra cock in our bed, to label it otherwise demeans one of us |
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"Threads like this rarely seem to consider what the woman actually wants from it"
Every mmf I have had has been principally about the woman, making her the centre of attention and made to feel amazing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Threads like this rarely seem to consider what the woman actually wants from it"
On this thread it looks like the needs and wants of the woman are pretty central |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Threads like this rarely seem to consider what the woman actually wants from it
On this thread it looks like the needs and wants of the woman are pretty central"
It's mostly guys writing about what they like to see happen to the woman |
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"We like to think of it as just sex.
It's a threesome, you don't have to worry about labels like cuckold or bull. It's two men having sex with a hot girl. That's fun right? "
....this is exactly how it is for us x |
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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago
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We’ve had repeat mmfs with one person and it was enjoyable for all involved. I enjoyed the feeling of wandering hands, the feeling full and pleasing the men at the same time. Mr enjoyed the fact that they could edge me to ensure I was fully satisfied by switching roles with the other. At times he did like to step back and admire the pleasure I was getting and seeing how I react but majority of the time was fully involved without the ‘wanking in a corner’ as someone mentioned. xT |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"We look for a toy and not a marriage material. A genuine respectful is enough for the us as an add-on.
One reason I'm not keen on couples. 'Toy' or an 'add on' ~ charming!"
Exactly. Singles are not accessories to a couple, we are our own people with our own wants and needs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We look for a toy and not a marriage material. A genuine respectful is enough for the us as an add-on."
Number 1 reason most women are apprehensive about meeting couples |
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By *elrose57 OP Couple
over a year ago
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its about open fun and enjoyment for all no mater what, when a couple goes looking for another guy, they openly talk about it, they both want it the guy wants it, its just the way different couples and guys like to play so many variations, I was only asking how others like to enjoy a mmf we are not trying to sort out Brexit here |
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Can I take the chat back one stage?
I'm due a social meet with a couple, hoping if we get on to arrange an mmf. Would be my first.
I'm unsure how to be towards her. Am I to flirt, etc like I would a single lady meet or just chat like acquaintances? |
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By *elrose57 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Can I take the chat back one stage?
I'm due a social meet with a couple, hoping if we get on to arrange an mmf. Would be my first.
I'm unsure how to be towards her. Am I to flirt, etc like I would a single lady meet or just chat like acquaintances? "
take it easy don't try and run listen to them yet keep the conversation running , and don't be to eager be yourself after all its yourself that has got this far,, and have fun, laughter is best ,, others will say other things follow your mind only you know that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can I take the chat back one stage?
I'm due a social meet with a couple, hoping if we get on to arrange an mmf. Would be my first.
I'm unsure how to be towards her. Am I to flirt, etc like I would a single lady meet or just chat like acquaintances? "
Also make sure you talk and socialize with him as well. Flirt with her but remember they are a couple x |
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"Can I take the chat back one stage?
I'm due a social meet with a couple, hoping if we get on to arrange an mmf. Would be my first.
I'm unsure how to be towards her. Am I to flirt, etc like I would a single lady meet or just chat like acquaintances?
Also make sure you talk and socialize with him as well. Flirt with her but remember they are a couple x"
I've made it clear I'm straight but I'll definitely be chatting to him no less than her. I'm always careful to compliment and address couple profiles as plural, being conscious of this.
I just don't know how I should come across to her. You seem to be assuming flirting is acceptable... |
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"Can I take the chat back one stage?
I'm due a social meet with a couple, hoping if we get on to arrange an mmf. Would be my first.
I'm unsure how to be towards her. Am I to flirt, etc like I would a single lady meet or just chat like acquaintances?
take it easy don't try and run listen to them yet keep the conversation running , and don't be to eager be yourself after all its yourself that has got this far,, and have fun, laughter is best ,, others will say other things follow your mind only you know that "
When you say try and run do you mean run the conversation? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can I take the chat back one stage?
I'm due a social meet with a couple, hoping if we get on to arrange an mmf. Would be my first.
I'm unsure how to be towards her. Am I to flirt, etc like I would a single lady meet or just chat like acquaintances?
Also make sure you talk and socialize with him as well. Flirt with her but remember they are a couple x
I've made it clear I'm straight but I'll definitely be chatting to him no less than her. I'm always careful to compliment and address couple profiles as plural, being conscious of this.
I just don't know how I should come across to her. You seem to be assuming flirting is acceptable... "
I always welcome a bit of flirting and hubby doesn't mind as long as the guy isn't taking the mick. |
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"Can I take the chat back one stage?
I'm due a social meet with a couple, hoping if we get on to arrange an mmf. Would be my first.
I'm unsure how to be towards her. Am I to flirt, etc like I would a single lady meet or just chat like acquaintances?
Also make sure you talk and socialize with him as well. Flirt with her but remember they are a couple x
I've made it clear I'm straight but I'll definitely be chatting to him no less than her. I'm always careful to compliment and address couple profiles as plural, being conscious of this.
I just don't know how I should come across to her. You seem to be assuming flirting is acceptable...
I always welcome a bit of flirting and hubby doesn't mind as long as the guy isn't taking the mick. "
Its a fine line. I'll probably wait for signs from her, too shy to be pushy when I think it might not be wanted  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can I take the chat back one stage?
I'm due a social meet with a couple, hoping if we get on to arrange an mmf. Would be my first.
I'm unsure how to be towards her. Am I to flirt, etc like I would a single lady meet or just chat like acquaintances?
Also make sure you talk and socialize with him as well. Flirt with her but remember they are a couple x
I've made it clear I'm straight but I'll definitely be chatting to him no less than her. I'm always careful to compliment and address couple profiles as plural, being conscious of this.
I just don't know how I should come across to her. You seem to be assuming flirting is acceptable...
I always welcome a bit of flirting and hubby doesn't mind as long as the guy isn't taking the mick.
Its a fine line. I'll probably wait for signs from her, too shy to be pushy when I think it might not be wanted "
Good luck x |
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"Can I take the chat back one stage?
I'm due a social meet with a couple, hoping if we get on to arrange an mmf. Would be my first.
I'm unsure how to be towards her. Am I to flirt, etc like I would a single lady meet or just chat like acquaintances?
Also make sure you talk and socialize with him as well. Flirt with her but remember they are a couple x
I've made it clear I'm straight but I'll definitely be chatting to him no less than her. I'm always careful to compliment and address couple profiles as plural, being conscious of this.
I just don't know how I should come across to her. You seem to be assuming flirting is acceptable...
I always welcome a bit of flirting and hubby doesn't mind as long as the guy isn't taking the mick.
Its a fine line. I'll probably wait for signs from her, too shy to be pushy when I think it might not be wanted
Good luck x"
Thank you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I (K) like a mixture of watching the amazing view of D playing and then joining in, I can never resist. D loves the attention of having two guys all to herself |
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"its about open fun and enjoyment for all no mater what, when a couple goes looking for another guy, they openly talk about it, they both want it the guy wants it, its just the way different couples and guys like to play so many variations, I was only asking how others like to enjoy a mmf we are not trying to sort out Brexit here "
I agree - having played with several couples, each is different - as you would expect. And having played with the same couple several times, all parties open up about what turns them on. And what turns me on. I love flirting with a lovely lady in a bar (discreetly) in front of her hubby - its the fact that its kind of a taboo thing that turns me and my couple friends on... |
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"so many types of mmf , there is the straight guys who like to see there wife fucked, the sissy cuck who likes to dress up the mild cuck who likes to join in and help out , what would be good is to get a perspective from other couples, also from the guys view, the bull what does he expect from meeting other couples, and what can be bought in to enhance everyone's understanding and enjoyment, after all looks like there is a growing trend to invite more guys into the couples lives "
Straight, all involved all get pleasure, all cum and all satisfied at the end |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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to those that are scared of playing where guys may touch in one way or another have a chat about it first with the other bloke and come to an arrangement |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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and to the guys that dont know if they should flirt, flirting shows attraction and is part of the turn on( foreplay )thens a fine line between flirting and being letchy though. having a laugh with some play ground touching is good enough in which case read the signals |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We look for a toy and not a marriage material. A genuine respectful is enough for the us as an add-on.
Number 1 reason most women are apprehensive about meeting couples "
The topic is about MMF and not MFF, u r comparing oranges and apples ladies .
Relax...
Most cpls here are looking for an additional toy in a single guy scenario. You won't understand it as you don't meet that criteria anyway .lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"to those that are scared of playing where guys may touch in one way or another have a chat about it first with the other bloke and come to an arrangement"
Totally agreed . Explaining their precise role |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We look for a toy and not a marriage material. A genuine respectful is enough for the us as an add-on.
One reason I'm not keen on couples. 'Toy' or an 'add on' ~ charming!"
Offcourse ..adding spice to the fun
Do you look for a guy on Fab to settle down with ?
We all are here for fun  |
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The ones I have been involved in over the last 3 years have had different requirements from the couple. It's always best to have a good honest chat about what they need so I don't overstep their boundaries. Each meet can have different needs which often happens depending on possible role plays interests etc. I love being the one who helps them to have fun that's my role. |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
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I have done most Had gus watch me have aex with their wives and take pics or film
The most interesting one was.me having sex with a guys wife and her friend while he watched which felt odd.
I like threesomes where we all join in. Best fun I did have was with three guys and two girls. Not only was it a great turn on we also had a laugh as well. Was a really great night |
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By *hamesGentMan
over a year ago
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Likewise, I've enjoyed a variety of scenarios. Sometimes the man just wants to watch his lady and I play together, which is fine, but I much prefer the dynamic when we're all involved, indulging and spoiling the lady together as she wishes with four hands, two mouths and cocks, bodies entwined, pleasure being shared altogether.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Her at the centre and go with the flow, i dont get the idea of a structured MMF. I'm not bi, so aside from that i prefer to just go with with what makes her feel amazing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had a few, depends on the couple, mood and preferences i guess.
All fucked. Another time his wife and i being watched by as we fucked. On another occasion his wife and I having some foreplay before he was then tied to a chair, then as it got interesting he was blindfolded and could only then hear is playing etc |
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"Love love a mmf where hubby is bi 3 way oral and fun where everyone is the centre of attention and everyone cums "
couldnt agree more. This is our thing exactly apart from its me who ends up being the centre of attention Being
Being pleasured by both the guys xx |
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