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Is fab a secret or not?!?
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"Kind of secret, someone at work was on it and was really open, I watched the situation from afar.....people were awfully quick to judge.
Was that person male or female? "
Female |
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"Kind of secret, someone at work was on it and was really open, I watched the situation from afar.....people were awfully quick to judge.
Was that person male or female?
Female
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The answer I more or less expected. I imagine there would have been less (or more positive) judgements if it had been a bloke.
We've (i.e. society) still a way to go haven't we?! |
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Just having this discussion with Mr earlier this eve. Casual sex is just so frowned upon within a marriage but singles are free to enjoy it. Sex is a physical act just like tennis or going to the cinema in our eyes, lol. We keep it a secret between us. Only one friend knows. She doesn't judge but equally doesn't understand. S&L x |
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Unfortunately, people are quick to judge but the reality we should all be entitled to explore our sexual desires and pleasures...
I mean the Romans and Egyptians would have mass Orgy's without people even blinking an eye lid... Where did the world all go wrong? |
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Best friend knows but wouldnt dream of telling my family. After all it's our private life and I dont want to know theirs. They could be on here for all I know  |
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"Unfortunately, people are quick to judge but the reality we should all be entitled to explore our sexual desires and pleasures...
I mean the Romans and Egyptians would have mass Orgy's without people even blinking an eye lid... Where did the world all go wrong? "
How do you know that? |
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"Best friend knows but wouldnt dream of telling my family. After all it's our private life and I dont want to know theirs. They could be on here for all I know "
I always think I'm going to find a family member on here one day! |
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"Best friend knows but wouldnt dream of telling my family. After all it's our private life and I dont want to know theirs. They could be on here for all I know
I always think I'm going to find a family member on here one day! "
you never know do you. That's why we keep our face photos private. Too risky |
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"Unfortunately, people are quick to judge but the reality we should all be entitled to explore our sexual desires and pleasures...
I mean the Romans and Egyptians would have mass Orgy's without people even blinking an eye lid... Where did the world all go wrong?
How do you know that? "
Well documented across a variety of history reading... Knowledge is power
https://listverse.com/2018/09/10/10-moments-in-the-history-of-the-orgy/ |
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"Just having this discussion with Mr earlier this eve. Casual sex is just so frowned upon within a marriage but singles are free to enjoy it. Sex is a physical act just like tennis or going to the cinema in our eyes, lol. We keep it a secret between us. Only one friend knows. She doesn't judge but equally doesn't understand. S&L x "
You have an amazing body btw Saz! X |
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"Unfortunately, people are quick to judge but the reality we should all be entitled to explore our sexual desires and pleasures...
I mean the Romans and Egyptians would have mass Orgy's without people even blinking an eye lid... Where did the world all go wrong? "
That question could be asked about many, many things |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unfortunately, people are quick to judge but the reality we should all be entitled to explore our sexual desires and pleasures...
I mean the Romans and Egyptians would have mass Orgy's without people even blinking an eye lid... Where did the world all go wrong?
How do you know that?
Well documented across a variety of history reading... Knowledge is power
https://listverse.com/2018/09/10/10-moments-in-the-history-of-the-orgy/"
Okay if you believe it |
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"Just wondering if people keep the world of fab and swinging as a secret or are you open with family and friends? X"
It’s a secret to everyone because this is for me
Because this is what I desire, I’m not sure any of my friends can comprehend that, it has come up in conversation loosely before after several Jack Daniels, It was shut down immediately so I didn’t offer any more information |
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I told my best friend but part of me wishes that I hadn't. He loves hearing about what I get up to and inspired me into blogging about some of my adventures.
BUT he just doesn't get why I don't want to eventually get married again and live a monogamous lifestyle. I sometimes find that a bit frustrating. Hence why I rarely tell him what I get up to these days. |
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(Lou) we havent told anyone and never will, this is our thing and we love knowing that we have our own little secret that none of our family/friends can stick their nose in. When we go to the attic they all think we are going clubbing in derby x   |
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At first I kept it quiet now I'm open about it with my close friends. Not family, they are die hard Catholics. No sex before marriage and all that bollocks  |
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"Just wondering if people keep the world of fab and swinging as a secret or are you open with family and friends? X"
No definitely not you should always tell our Nan what you get up to on here its in the site rules. |
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I'm very open, family know and most of my vanilla friends know(some I know couldn't understand it so we leave them thinking the world is the lovely little place they believe it to be), although for over a decade now most of my best friends are people I've met though here and chames and some of them are more family to me than my own family have ever been, I've been at the weddings and other events |
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We are not open about it to anyone. Far too many judgemental people about plus we would be horrified if any of our kids found out. Somehow we don't think they'll be understanding. Not worth the risk. X |
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"Just wondering if people keep the world of fab and swinging as a secret or are you open with family and friends? X"
If questioned we would talk about our lifestyle choice, but it's not something that we openly bring up in conversation. |
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He has no issue being open about the scene, she however is much more reserved as she feels that she would be more harshly judged 
A few close friends know but then quite a few of our closest friends have been met through the scene too. |
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