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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If distance was taken out of the equation as a limitation, would you?
And whether it's yes or no, why?
(Setting myself up for a roasting here methinks, haha)"
No, honestly your photos would put me off. I don't like dick photos or action shots.
That and I just don't think we'd be compatible, sexually. |
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
Thank you. Some constructive criticism there so will take into consideration and adjust accoedingly.
Although I must say there are double standards and hypocrisy being displayed by some - stating that I have dick pics and yet having been with numerous people with dick pic profiles (one particular person has been with someone whose profile contains nothing but dick pics). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If distance was taken out of the equation as a limitation, would you?
And whether it's yes or no, why?
(Setting myself up for a roasting here methinks, haha)"
no end of  |
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"Thank you. Some constructive criticism there so will take into consideration and adjust accoedingly.
Although I must say there are double standards and hypocrisy being displayed by some - stating that I have dick pics and yet having been with numerous people with dick pic profiles (one particular person has been with someone whose profile contains nothing but dick pics)."
You dont know the circumstances of the meet could have been a club meet or the message they sent and you wernt asking about their meets you were asking if they would meet you ... guessing you didn't like their reply  |
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Nope from me - we're not sexually compatible.
You're not what I need. There is nothing wrong with that, just means we're not into the same things.
I liked that you had written a decent amount on the profile and indicated what you are looking for which I appreciate.
The bit at the end about no stealing pics or profiles is meaningless though. Not worth taking up space on your profile. |
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Nope from me - we're not sexually compatible.
You're not what I need. There is nothing wrong with that, just means we're not into the same things.
I liked that you had written a decent amount on the profile and indicated what you are looking for which I appreciate.
The bit at the end about no stealing pics or profiles is meaningless though. Not worth taking up space on your profile."
Thank you. That was good feedback |
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Not for me. The photos are dull, the profile text is duller, the fact that you can’t apparently be honest about your sexuality is a real shame - if you can’t own it on here, where can you? "
Sorry? How is my sexuality ambiguous on my profile...? It shouldn't be. If it is then it's a mistake. |
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"No OP, I prefer tall guys plus your newest veri is 4 years old which would also put me off."
It does say on my profile that I have been out of Fab action for a while and now getting back into it. So how do I fix that. I'm not one of those who fabricates veris I'm afraid. |
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"No. Dunno what your face looks like but your photos and profile would put me off. I wouldn’t reply to a message "
Ok I think I get the issue with the photos. I might know what to do about that. What does the profile need...? That would be more helpful. |
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Alot off dick pics is a no no for me i dont mind one just to seen what ur packing but ur penis looks abit large for my personal preference but other may enjoy"
Thanks.
Hmmm....there are 3 pics that feature my penis out of 6. One is a full frontal, 1 admittedly IS a cock pic and 1 is supposed to be a little arty farty in the shadows. |
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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago
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Your veris are too old - I know you're only just getting back into it. 
And I don't snog. So I'm afraid I wouldn't.
But this thread just shows you, no matter what you do you cannot please everyone. I, personally, like dick pics! |
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"Not for me. The photos are dull, the profile text is duller, the fact that you can’t apparently be honest about your sexuality is a real shame - if you can’t own it on here, where can you?
Sorry? How is my sexuality ambiguous on my profile...? It shouldn't be. If it is then it's a mistake."
The person didn’t see veri from a guy was signed off by a lady I assume  |
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Hello OP.
To answer your question.... no.
Your pics aren't enough to make me want to look twice, or find out more. For instance the closest thing you have to a face pic is seven years old, and we don't all grow old gracefully so we would question how accurate it is as a portrayal of you today. Also the legal nonsense is pointless and shows a level of naivety.
Things change and people change, we have no issue with that. But you last verification was from a man saying about what you got up to, yet your profile clearly says your straight. That makes us wonder what else may or may not be truthful.
Good luck  |
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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago
Heaven in the Midlands |
"Not for me. The photos are dull, the profile text is duller, the fact that you can’t apparently be honest about your sexuality is a real shame - if you can’t own it on here, where can you?
Sorry? How is my sexuality ambiguous on my profile...? It shouldn't be. If it is then it's a mistake.
The person didn’t see veri from a guy was signed off by a lady I assume "
This would cause confusion. Even tho signed off by a woman it's from a Male profile. That would make me question it. |
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"The person didn’t see veri from a guy was signed off by a lady I assume "
Good point. However there is nothing on the veri to say whether the sign off name was an actual woman, a FWB or partner of the single mans profile, a nickname for the single male, a name once used by someone who once identified as a woman or any other possible connection. The truth is that if you follow the veri to it's source you will see that the verifying profile was once a couple, now a single male. But most people won't do that, and in truth the single male only has to rewrite his profile and that part of the puzzle is lost forever.
In a world where people make snap judgements I personally believe the OP would be better off leaving the summary on his profile and removing the actual veri text itself. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"If distance was taken out of the equation as a limitation, would you?
And whether it's yes or no, why?
(Setting myself up for a roasting here methinks, haha)"
Some will some won't but you started the thread and people can be harsh at times |
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"The person didn’t see veri from a guy was signed off by a lady I assume
Good point. However there is nothing on the veri to say whether the sign off name was an actual woman, a FWB or partner of the single mans profile, a nickname for the single male, a name once used by someone who once identified as a woman or any other possible connection. The truth is that if you follow the veri to it's source you will see that the verifying profile was once a couple, now a single male. But most people won't do that, and in truth the single male only has to rewrite his profile and that part of the puzzle is lost forever.
In a world where people make snap judgements I personally believe the OP would be better off leaving the summary on his profile and removing the actual veri text itself."
Ok. Let me go and see that veri. Gotta sort that out. If nothing else, at least that's been brought to my attention. |
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"If distance was taken out of the equation as a limitation, would you?
And whether it's yes or no, why?
(Setting myself up for a roasting here methinks, haha)
Some will some won't but you started the thread and people can be harsh at times"
I've seen you around on other threads. You've always got such level headed things to say! |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"If distance was taken out of the equation as a limitation, would you?
And whether it's yes or no, why?
(Setting myself up for a roasting here methinks, haha)
Some will some won't but you started the thread and people can be harsh at times
I've seen you around on other threads. You've always got such level headed things to say!"
Thankyou xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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9/10 wong because you ain't their type at first glance, just like it's the same for most guys.
I'd say women but most men arent fussy about who they dip in, sadly.
I think I've had about 10 profile views this week, no messages, no replies, women delete me faster than I can message them
But that's the way it is. I dont get sad about it, it's a waiting game. Everyone thinks because it's a site full of kinky folk that everyone is instantly gonna get some. Sadly it doesnt work like that.
Be calm, dont expect anything and eventually something happens. Be positive.
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"No coz asking in the forums seems like you are a bit desperate."
A bit harsh and unnecessarily so. Did you say that just for the sake of saying something?
If asking for opinion is being needy then everytime a woman asks her friends "do I look okay in this dress" is....? |
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"9/10 wong because you ain't their type at first glance, just like it's the same for most guys.
I'd say women but most men arent fussy about who they dip in, sadly.
I think I've had about 10 profile views this week, no messages, no replies, women delete me faster than I can message them
But that's the way it is. I dont get sad about it, it's a waiting game. Everyone thinks because it's a site full of kinky folk that everyone is instantly gonna get some. Sadly it doesnt work like that.
Be calm, dont expect anything and eventually something happens. Be positive.
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Thanks mate.
It wasn't a moan. I have given exactly the same advice to other (bluntly moaning) threads.
Mine was an honest request for feedback - I do that periodically to test the temperature.
Albeit I did put it out in a little tongue in cheek style. But some people always get so judgy in forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It just shows you can't please everyone. My profile is good and I know it is because I've been told numerous times. But nevertheless I'm one male among 1000s on fab. Therefore it doesn't matter. You will appeal to some and not to others. |
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"It just shows you can't please everyone. My profile is good and I know it is because I've been told numerous times. But nevertheless I'm one male among 1000s on fab. Therefore it doesn't matter. You will appeal to some and not to others. "
True |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not me for either, I have to be intrigued by the photos, looking through my hotlist the photos of men are very mysterious and a lot of them in black and white, wearing a shirt, wearing boxes etc.....just enough tease and intrigue without giving everything away.
I can’t stand photos taken in the mirror, do people not know there is a timer in the camera settings of the phone? Put the timer on, reverse the screen and voila. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not me for either, I have to be intrigued by the photos, looking through my hotlist the photos of men are very mysterious and a lot of them in black and white, wearing a shirt, wearing boxes etc.....just enough tease and intrigue without giving everything away.
I can’t stand photos taken in the mirror, do people not know there is a timer in the camera settings of the phone? Put the timer on, reverse the screen and voila."
Yeh it's a right faff though.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not me for either, I have to be intrigued by the photos, looking through my hotlist the photos of men are very mysterious and a lot of them in black and white, wearing a shirt, wearing boxes etc.....just enough tease and intrigue without giving everything away.
I can’t stand photos taken in the mirror, do people not know there is a timer in the camera settings of the phone? Put the timer on, reverse the screen and voila."
I'm curious as to why they are wearing boxes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can already feel the no's ha ha"
You seem nice but a bit showy with the jet etc which is a turn off for me. Just be yourself, you have a lovely face and body xx |
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I can already feel the no's ha ha
You seem nice but a bit showy with the jet etc which is a turn off for me. Just be yourself, you have a lovely face and body xx"
....Jet....?
I have a jet in my photo!? |
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"No. Dunno what your face looks like but your photos and profile would put me off. I wouldn’t reply to a message "
So elaborate, what's actually wrong with the profile? That would be more helpful.
A solution with criticism is constructive. Criticism on its own is just judgemental. |
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"No coz asking in the forums seems like you are a bit desperate.
A bit harsh and unnecessarily so. Did you say that just for the sake of saying something?
If asking for opinion is being needy then everytime a woman asks her friends "do I look okay in this dress" is....?"
No i said it coz opinions were asked for and that was mine. |
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"No coz asking in the forums seems like you are a bit desperate.
A bit harsh and unnecessarily so. Did you say that just for the sake of saying something?
If asking for opinion is being needy then everytime a woman asks her friends "do I look okay in this dress" is....?
No i said it coz opinions were asked for and that was mine."
additionally you asked for yes or no answers and a reason, you got mine coz this is a public forums and anyone can post here. |
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I can't say for sure as I don't know you, and can't see your face. All signs at the moment point to probably not though. "
Most don't put their face in the public profile anyway. As for not knowing me - that is an extremely fair point and relevant. People can be surprisingly attractive or unattractive in person. Are you the type that has a social first then? |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"I can't say for sure as I don't know you, and can't see your face. All signs at the moment point to probably not though.
Most don't put their face in the public profile anyway. As for not knowing me - that is an extremely fair point and relevant. People can be surprisingly attractive or unattractive in person. Are you the type that has a social first then?"
I understand most people don't have their face public, the point stands though, I couldn't say if I was attracted to you without seeing it. Nor could the majority of people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can't say for sure as I don't know you, and can't see your face. All signs at the moment point to probably not though.
Most don't put their face in the public profile anyway. As for not knowing me - that is an extremely fair point and relevant. People can be surprisingly attractive or unattractive in person. Are you the type that has a social first then?
I understand most people don't have their face public, the point stands though, I couldn't say if I was attracted to you without seeing it. Nor could the majority of people. "
I’ve shown my face many times in 8 pictures |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you. Some constructive criticism there so will take into consideration and adjust accoedingly.
Although I must say there are double standards and hypocrisy being displayed by some - stating that I have dick pics and yet having been with numerous people with dick pic profiles (one particular person has been with someone whose profile contains nothing but dick pics).
You dont know the circumstances of the meet could have been a club meet or the message they sent and you wernt asking about their meets you were asking if they would meet you ... guessing you didn't like their reply "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you. Some constructive criticism there so will take into consideration and adjust accoedingly.
Although I must say there are double standards and hypocrisy being displayed by some - stating that I have dick pics and yet having been with numerous people with dick pic profiles (one particular person has been with someone whose profile contains nothing but dick pics).
You dont know the circumstances of the meet could have been a club meet or the message they sent and you wernt asking about their meets you were asking if they would meet you ... guessing you didn't like their reply
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Everyone got there own taste end of the day |
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