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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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...... So I had a meet 1st in a while, I thought it all went really well despite me being really nervous.
So move forward 2 weeks and I've hardly had a conversation with them and veri I gave hasn't been acknowledged I understand we have life beyond here but now I just feel like maybe it was that I'm not what they expected and now being ghosted
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well don't. You were wonderful and if they can't message or acknowledge now, then they're not worthy of your time. X"
Yep will move on I guess thank you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you want to meet him again?
xN
I would "
Well, just message them, then! At least you'll know the truth. If you message them and you find yourself blocked, then your ego will be bruised a little, but you'll know better next time...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well don't. You were wonderful and if they can't message or acknowledge now, then they're not worthy of your time. X
Exactly.... onwards and upwards, if you enjoyed it - job done . "
Exactly my take on it. You need to put yourself first |
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It's the nature of fab. Nsa to some people means keeping in touch. To others it's doesn't. You have no reason to feel bad about yourself because someone else hasn't acted the way you would like them to |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Do you want to meet him again?
xN
I would
Well, just message them, then! At least you'll know the truth. If you message them and you find yourself blocked, then your ego will be bruised a little, but you'll know better next time...
xN"
That's the thing I'm not blocked even had new pics fabbed just not as chatty as before
Any way shall not give it any more time |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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It happens OP - sometimes people just want a one-off, sometimes they want more - sometimes life gets in the way and it's a minefield at times understanding - so best bet is to try not to work it out as it will drive you crazy.
Know that's easier said than done especially if you've had a really good time.
If they're still fabbing your pics and sending (albeit infrequent) messages then maybe they've just ramped things back a little now you've met, which quite often happens on here, and things will pick up again in time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"...... So I had a meet 1st in a while, I thought it all went really well despite me being really nervous.
So move forward 2 weeks and I've hardly had a conversation with them and veri I gave hasn't been acknowledged I understand we have life beyond here but now I just feel like maybe it was that I'm not what they expected and now being ghosted
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thats life sometimes once is all they need, just move on thats all you can do  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"...... So I had a meet 1st in a while, I thought it all went really well despite me being really nervous.
So move forward 2 weeks and I've hardly had a conversation with them and veri I gave hasn't been acknowledged I understand we have life beyond here but now I just feel like maybe it was that I'm not what they expected and now being ghosted
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thats life sometimes once is all they need, just move on thats all you can do |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"...... So I had a meet 1st in a while, I thought it all went really well despite me being really nervous.
So move forward 2 weeks and I've hardly had a conversation with them and veri I gave hasn't been acknowledged I understand we have life beyond here but now I just feel like maybe it was that I'm not what they expected and now being ghosted
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thats life sometimes once is all they need, just move on thats all you can do |
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