"What a person looks like or what size they are?
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It depends what you want from that person.
For a long term friendship/relationship, probably less important.
For a one night NSA sexual experience, then it is probably more important.
However, everyone is different and will prioritise different things when making these judgements. |
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Attraction is paramount, but good looks and sexy photos aren't the be all and end all - I'm equally attracted to personality, intelligence, sense of humour and sheer pheremone-fuelled animal magnetism. Hence preferring a social meet with no real expectations beyond a natter over some drinks in the first instance. So many people are way sexier than their photos and profile text make out (and vice versa!) so I like to make decisions based on actual face to face interaction. |
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What I do know is that (in my experience) physical looks have absolutely nothing to do with how good the sex is. Fancying someone on first looks can very quickly disappear once you start chatting and visa versa. It may be just me, but looks are nowhere near the top of my list for a one off or longterm playmate. |
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Feelings and attraction are totally different things but we wouldn't just entertain anyone, to us “a fuck is not just a fuck” there has to be a connection in some form |
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"Attraction is paramount, but good looks and sexy photos aren't the be all and end all - I'm equally attracted to personality, intelligence, sense of humour and sheer pheremone-fuelled animal magnetism. Hence preferring a social meet with no real expectations beyond a natter over some drinks in the first instance. So many people are way sexier than their photos and profile text make out (and vice versa!) so I like to make decisions based on actual face to face interaction. "
Exactly this! |
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