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My current partner and I have a great sex life and I often tell him sex with him is the best sex I've experienced in my life even though he has never made me orgasm . The problem arises that he doesn't believe me because I've orgasmed fairly often with a handful of previous partners through sex and oral and he struggles to accept that it can't be the best sex I've experienced if I can't reach a climax . Does any other ladies feel the same as I do about sex with a partner being great but no orgasm  |
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Why can't he make you orgasm..
When I practiced tantra, they teach us that psychologically, you have to be in the right mindframe to be able to climax.
It is possible to have an orgasm without even having sex.
They're is something about your partner which stops you from hitting that point.
It might be physical, emotional or mental. But you have to get to the bottom of this and then you can bridge the wall and finally have the "O" moment.
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It's not only ladies who have this issue, can also apply to guys.
There are times when I have sex and enjoy every minute without actually reaching an orgasm. More like edging or tantra without going over the edge.
The issue is really with the partner, psychologically they feel inadequate unless they see you orgasm. They have to accept that you do not always need to orgasm to be fully satisfied and happy. |
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It's not uncommon for me (Luke) not to orgasm when we have sex and it's still the best I've ever had.
If I was told what you said I would have a hard time processing it. Maybe you could answer a couple of questions for us readers:
In what way is it the best despite not orgasming when you have with other people?
Is there something you two could do differently so you do reach orgasm? |
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I would say firstly stop worrying about the orgasm. Sex can be great without one.
Stressing about it won't help.
If you are happy with the sex then it should all be good. Sometimes it takes a while to read each other at a deep level and that's okay too 
It doesn't have to be a fault with one/either of you. |
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"It's not uncommon for me (Luke) not to orgasm when we have sex and it's still the best I've ever had.
If I was told what you said I would have a hard time processing it. Maybe you could answer a couple of questions for us readers:
In what way is it the best despite not orgasming when you have with other people?
Is there something you two could do differently so you do reach orgasm? "
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Sex with him just feels wonderful I love the feeling of him inside me and I get so turned on just looking at him I myself can't understand why it has never happened but I know it gets to him at times but he doesn't say it |
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"Sex with him just feels wonderful I love the feeling of him inside me and I get so turned on just looking at him I myself can't understand why it has never happened but I know it gets to him at times but he doesn't say it "
maybe knowing how much he wants you to have an orgasm is subconsciously putting you under pressure and killing it
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"Why can't he make you orgasm..
When I practiced tantra, they teach us that psychologically, you have to be in the right mindframe to be able to climax.
It is possible to have an orgasm without even having sex.
They're is something about your partner which stops you from hitting that point.
It might be physical, emotional or mental. But you have to get to the bottom of this and then you can bridge the wall and finally have the "O" moment.
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Of course it’s possible to orgasm without having sex |
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My ex partner was able to orgasm when she was really in the mood and focused on having an orgasm but after having an epidural for her second child she found it impossible to orgasm since. Maybe its if not mental issue or physical issue then a health one |
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