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Ever been recognised?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you?
Was anything said, or did anything pleasant or unexpected occur?
As a tgurl, I'm apprehensive of being recognised."
I was outed at work. Still dont know who the fuck it was, although have suspicions.
Very awkward meeting with the bosses. It wasn't a problem per second, but they quite reasonably thought I should know. It was an anonymous letter. Hasnt affected my employment, and the top brass were very discrete |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve been recognised by a guy at the gym from my tattoos, but the best one is I recognised my neighbour and decided to reveal myself through here and ever since we have had such a laugh and have got on fantastically well. Made a proper friend for life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone in a local pub shouted fabswingers after I walked past her, I found that amusing.
I've also been outed in work for the use of a different site, that was hysterical, I was privvy to colleagues group chat and the things they discussed about me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve not been recognised but have recognised a couple on here, one of which I do bump into occasionally. I won’t say a word though as it’s not my business what others do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been recognised a couple of times. One person challenged me about it but never mentioned it to anyone (that I know of) The other is a really good friend and we regularly meet up for fun.
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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago
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I can think of two or three occasions, inside or outside a bar in Bristol, when someone wondered if they recognised me from Fab.
A few messages, asking if I was person walking on such and such street.
Some years ago, someone at my work too it upon themselves to circulate images and a corrupted story about doing a strip-tease at a swingers club.
A colleague alerted me and the IT people offered to block a link to some long-forgotten image on Flickr (nothing rude).
I removed the page myself rather than involve the company.
Once I got over the initial surprise, it turned out to be a liberating experience.
I still work for the same company, and it appears to have caused no harm.
I'm required to complete a security vetting exercise annually. I'm asked to declare anything that would make me vulnerable to bl@ckmail. My family all know of my lifestyle and nothing I do is illegal, so it's always a "nothing to declare'. |
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We’ve had a couple of messages from guys that say they’ve recognised Dee while she’s been out and about.
All pretty innocent but one guy asked if it was ok to wank over her pictures on here after seeing her out and about, which we obviously said we didn’t mind, but strange he asked for permission lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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one of my college gfs mum was on here we planned a meet which turned out to be awkward..... but now we are friends she likes to share her stories and likes teasing |
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Ive seen you in the street Tinkerbell but i wouldnt come up to without messaging you first, at my sons school theres two mums from here, i messaged a couple i see a lot about to see if its ok to say hello next time i see them but they read it and no reply. So i guess thats a no then. Lol |
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I live on the Isle of Man so it’s a fairly regular occurrence. I’m not worried who knows, and if I recognise anyone then I’ll be totally discreet about it.
In the mid 2010’s I had a fuck buddy who was a family friend and we grew up together as kids. She had returned to the island after moving away and I stumbled on her profile. We met for a chat and just decided to get on with the sex! Loads of fun for a couple of years then she got married. Still very good friends now though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been heckled whilst dog walking by a guy I'd previously met, we live in same village, he drive past, reversed level with me and shouted his metal detector was On! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I went shopping once and when I got home had a message from a bloke of here telling me he followed me round. Stocker lol
That's weird I know freaked me out some what lol"
Did you report? |
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By *exsenceCouple
over a year ago
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"I went shopping once and when I got home had a message from a bloke of here telling me he followed me round. Stocker lol
That's weird I know freaked me out some what lol
Did you report? " no just ignored it didn’t bother me again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never have but I have spotted a few local to me out and about. I just inwardly smile and move without saying anything. I would never do anything stupid like that public |
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I never have but I have spotted a few local to me out and about. I just inwardly smile and move without saying anything. I would never do anything stupid like that public
Hope I wasn’t one of them lol |
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I've seen two people in shops that I've had sex with but they didn't recognise me in male mode which was good.
Quite often when I'm out as Lisa in the bars etc people ask me if I'm Lisa Belle from fab. This actually happened to me on Monday night in Manchester while I was stood outside a bar having a cig xx |
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Total sideways but... Lola Belle and Lisa Belle, don't suppose you are sisters? Cousins? Maybe identical twins
Back to the OP, i don't recall ever being accosted in public for being on here, though i did once get a message from someone that said they saw me in tesco (must have been the bright green hair, four inch heels and backseam stockings that gave me away - post club late night shopping lol).
I do regularly get approached just for being myself though. Possibly the most bizarre was the guy I'd never seen before who just walked up and asked if i was married! He didn't look like a multi-billionaire with a dodgy heart though, so i thanked him for the compliment but turned him down |
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"Total sideways but... Lola Belle and Lisa Belle, don't suppose you are sisters? Cousins? Maybe identical twins
Back to the OP, i don't recall ever being accosted in public for being on here, though i did once get a message from someone that said they saw me in tesco (must have been the bright green hair, four inch heels and backseam stockings that gave me away - post club late night shopping lol).
I do regularly get approached just for being myself though. Possibly the most bizarre was the guy I'd never seen before who just walked up and asked if i was married! He didn't look like a multi-billionaire with a dodgy heart though, so i thanked him for the compliment but turned him down "
Haha, me and Lola are trans-lesbian lovers or at least we would be if we weren't 200 miles apart. Maybe, both slut sisters.
If you do find that billionaire on his last legs then send him my way! |
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A couple I know recognised me on here, said hi, it was all fine. I did have someone send me a message with their face and I knew him and his wife (who definitely doesn't know he's on fab). Messaged to say I recognised him then blocked him ASAP, fairly sure he blocked me back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I walked into a York social 3 or 4 years back and bumped into someone I knew through work.
He was there with his wife and they had a couples profile.
We didn’t play together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've not been recognised but was talking to a girl on here who said she came from a town about 10 miles away but when she sent me her pic I recognised her as a girl from the same village as me. I never said a word. Still pass her fairly regularly but she's none the wiser and I would never say anything. |
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"Total sideways but... Lola Belle and Lisa Belle, don't suppose you are sisters? Cousins? Maybe identical twins
Back to the OP, i don't recall ever being accosted in public for being on here, though i did once get a message from someone that said they saw me in tesco (must have been the bright green hair, four inch heels and backseam stockings that gave me away - post club late night shopping lol).
I do regularly get approached just for being myself though. Possibly the most bizarre was the guy I'd never seen before who just walked up and asked if i was married! He didn't look like a multi-billionaire with a dodgy heart though, so i thanked him for the compliment but turned him down
Haha, me and Lola are trans-lesbian lovers or at least we would be if we weren't 200 miles apart. Maybe, both slut sisters.
If you do find that billionaire on his last legs then send him my way! "
Hey sis xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. I was gutted. My so called work friend was browsing his mates fab and outed me. I know the guy he told can't hold his piss so the work people on here all know. If not more
But then I'm single so who cares |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Messaged my mates sister without knowing it was her. She said "umm, you are a family friend!"
Also that she liked that I had a misheavious and kinky unknown side.
Strange one, I liked the naughty feeling.
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"Lost my job of 20 years
Self employed now, don't care"
If that’s the case I hope you won the tribunal?
You can’t be fired from legal employment for being on a site like this or living a lifestyle you choose ..
I represent clients like this all day long .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve been recognised loads of times ..I think it’s funny if a guy says don’t I know you ?or you look familiar ? I’ve even had a guy message to say he has been next to me at traffic lights and described my car |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive had two men message me saying your X Mum i recognise you anywhere i really fancy you....but deffo wasnt me when i said it wasnt me got very arsey n blocked me lol 2nd man was convinced i was nurse thst treated him in a and e he still dont believe me lol i must have two twin sisters out there haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was recognised by my nephews mate who said I'd made his teenage boys dreams come true. Confessed he had always had a crush on me lol. "
Did u act on crush |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was recognised by my nephews mate who said I'd made his teenage boys dreams come true. Confessed he had always had a crush on me lol.
Did u act on crush" nooooo lol. I'd known him since he was 9 years old. I couldnt do it even though hes in his 30s now lol. |
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I get spotted almost on a weekly basis
Shopping, gym and even driving (mainly in summer with the roof down)
Only been approached a couple times in person , normally get a message on here to ssh they have seen me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get spotted almost on a weekly basis
Shopping, gym and even driving (mainly in summer with the roof down)
Only been approached a couple times in person , normally get a message on here to ssh they have seen me "
You do certainly stand out! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Couple of guys have recognised me locally then messaged on here and one recognised me from school"
I find the guys from School that recognise me funny! Would look at me in school! “Interested now then, boys” lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Couple of guys have recognised me locally then messaged on here and one recognised me from school
I find the guys from School that recognise me funny! Would look at me in school! “Interested now then, boys” lol "
I find it hilarious the guy in question showed zero interest at school but now I cant shake him off on here. I find it entertaining that I'm fuel for his masturbation sessions now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine tried to out my bi side amongst rugby mates which could have caused problems with my coaching of kids"
Why would your sexual preference make you a risk to kids? |
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"I was recognised by a woman on here that I'd gone to High School with. She refused to tell me her name but she definitely knew me. Freaked me out for a while to be fair. "
Had a few do this to me. Think it’s a right twats trick to ‘taunt’ someone like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lost my job of 20 years
Self employed now, don't care
If that’s the case I hope you won the tribunal?
You can’t be fired from legal employment for being on a site like this or living a lifestyle you choose ..
I represent clients like this all day long .."
I’ll think you’ll find you can. |
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"I was recognised by a woman on here that I'd gone to High School with. She refused to tell me her name but she definitely knew me. Freaked me out for a while to be fair.
Had a few do this to me. Think it’s a right twats trick to ‘taunt’ someone like that. "
Absolutely hun. I wouldn't mind but I'm hardly likely to tell people that she's on it am I! |
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I've been recognised in a pub then contacted through other social media to tell me, tbh I find that creepy as fuck, it makes my skin crawl, I never go down the pub when I know they will be there now. |
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We had a guy recognise us that lives local and female knows (but hates) he recognised male on his single profile when we were first together and then sent screenshots to female saying 'look what he does, he fucks trannies and you still shag him' to which female replied, I know everything he does. He then blocked female on Faceboo.k after she refused to sleep with him.
Couple of months pass and he messages our single profile and sends a lot of face pictures, we then block him because we don't want the hassle to which he then starts harassing female on Instagra.m Eventually he blocks her on that too after she didn't reply.
Looking at his profile he is incredibly discreet and uses a different name, his bio is all lies and he doesn't want to be found out.
We won at the end of the day because he's wanted to fuck female for a long time and he's going nowhere near her |
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"I've been recognised in a pub then contacted through other social media to tell me, tbh I find that creepy as fuck, it makes my skin crawl, I never go down the pub when I know they will be there now."
Same here. I’d rather have him just come over and said Hi |
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So many worrying stories on this thread, but mine is amusing !
Working I the store where I work one day a very pretty young lady spoke to me and said 'are you a lord of the rings fan' I looked at her, confused and said 'sort of' she laughed and walked off saying 'have a FAB day'.
I looked for her profile on here but have never yet found it, and I see her in store now and again and she always smiles at me.
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Been recognised both on here from people I know or know a family member (usually my son) and out and about from people on here. To be honest years ago it freaked me out but now I am ok with it. My family and close friends know about this side of me and all good with it, they are all I care about plus I am more comfortable and open about myself now, took me a while to get there x |
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"I've been recognised in a pub then contacted through other social media to tell me, tbh I find that creepy as fuck, it makes my skin crawl, I never go down the pub when I know they will be there now.
Same here. I’d rather have him just come over and said Hi"
Me too xxx |
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After sending a face pic to a local ish lady she revealed herself as someone I used to work with. Although we don’t work together anymore we message now and again on here about a common interest.
We do see each other out and about now and again. It’s never mentioned and never will be. |
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Not yet but it's bound to happen eventually, Exeter's a small place. Saying that, I don't really mind. I'm not in a monogamous partnership or cheating on anyone, I don't do the kind of job where being open about this kind of thing could do any damage, my friends are all open-minded enough not to care and there's always the chance that someone sexy from here might see me out and about, like the look of me in real life better than they did my profile pictures and come chat me up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We received a message last week from a guy who stated his first name, location and profession in his message to us...wasn’t hard to find him on the email address book at work! would never expose or mention it if we crossed paths, but was fun finding I wasn’t the only one in our organisation |
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I've never been outed though there's a bully in work that would love for it to happen as company would sack me.
I've recognised a few people but I'd never out them, I'd respect their privacy just like I'd hope they'd respect mine |
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"I've been recognised in a pub then contacted through other social media to tell me, tbh I find that creepy as fuck, it makes my skin crawl, I never go down the pub when I know they will be there now.
Same here. I’d rather have him just come over and said Hi"
That's a tough call to make to be fair as I think just as many people would prefer that not to happen, especially if they're out with friends/colleagues/partners etc.
My way of handling it would probably be to make that person aware of my presence by just saying "hi" in passing, leave it at that and then message the next day saying "was that you I saw in the Dog and Duck, I was the bloke in the black hat and jacket who said hi when you were having a smoke in the beer garden" or whatever. That way you respect people's space, maintain discretion and hopefully are recognisable enough/made enough of an impression so that they remember you from the night before. |
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"I've never been outed though there's a bully in work that would love for it to happen as company would sack me.
I've recognised a few people but I'd never out them, I'd respect their privacy just like I'd hope they'd respect mine "
That's sad there's a bully at your work place, its a shame you can't get anything on that person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve never been noticed as far as I’m aware but I now call some people I’ve met from here friends and people I see occasionally, but I’d love to be recognised |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Until this thread it's never occurred to me someone I already know might also be on fab. But of course it's possible..." I always ask married cheating men what would they do if they found out their wives was on here. Wonder if it would spice up the marriage or end it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was recognized about a year ago by a young lad who i sent a face pic too. Said he went to a social club i went to as a teenager but from his info and pics, i had no idea who he could be because he was a good deal younger than me if details were correct. Made me very anxious as it means he knows my gf too but nothing ever came of it.
I assumed that he blocked me but i think he deleted his whole profile because im on a new account now and still cant find him.
To be fair, id love to be recognized by a close mate on here and have someone to confide in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The people we recognise on here are actually the ones who introduced us to swinging and who also suggested this site.
However, we have recognised two couples on here from nearby, who the Mrs. deals with in her work life. Now, whether or not they've come across our profile and identified us remains to be seen.
Whatever the situation we'd never out anyone, and we have chatted to both couples at business network meetings and surprisingly Fab was never mentioned! |
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"The people we recognise on here are actually the ones who introduced us to swinging and who also suggested this site.
However, we have recognised two couples on here from nearby, who the Mrs. deals with in her work life. Now, whether or not they've come across our profile and identified us remains to be seen.
Whatever the situation we'd never out anyone, and we have chatted to both couples at business network meetings and surprisingly Fab was never mentioned! "
I think if someone messaged us to say they’d seen us out and about it would be quite nice in a way.
I would be very surprised if anyone would ‘out’ anyone in public as it would just make themselves look stupid ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The people we recognise on here are actually the ones who introduced us to swinging and who also suggested this site.
However, we have recognised two couples on here from nearby, who the Mrs. deals with in her work life. Now, whether or not they've come across our profile and identified us remains to be seen.
Whatever the situation we'd never out anyone, and we have chatted to both couples at business network meetings and surprisingly Fab was never mentioned!
I think if someone messaged us to say they’d seen us out and about it would be quite nice in a way.
I would be very surprised if anyone would ‘out’ anyone in public as it would just make themselves look stupid !"
We agree. However, some in this thread have been 'outed' with seemingly malicious intent and it's had an effect on their work lives.
Some nasty folk around. |
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"Lost my job of 20 years
Self employed now, don't care
If that’s the case I hope you won the tribunal?
You can’t be fired from legal employment for being on a site like this or living a lifestyle you choose ..
I represent clients like this all day long ..
I’ll think you’ll find you can."
Not legally !!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Until this thread it's never occurred to me someone I already know might also be on fab. But of course it's possible..."
Yes ive seen 2 fems and 3 guys who ive known one way or another, never told the guys, but did the fems and had a laugh. With all though, whats on fab, stays on fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a had a guy come up to me in Tescos and ask if I was on Fab. Turned out he was the male in a couple I was messaging.
Also found out a lady I was flirting with, when to the same school as me. She was a couple of years above me, so I did not know her at School though. Small world! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been messaged on here by work colleagues and a few chaps in our local and once someone saw us in Tesco, didn't speak to us but for some reason left us a veri"
Tesco's must be the supermarket of choice for Swingers |
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Not that i know of no but i have seen loads on here that are tvs or trans that i recognise them. Never mentioned to them apart from one bloke who asked if i knew who he was as from same town.
Seen people here who i used to work with talked to even and they never mentioned they knew me. Not sure if been polite or just the make up disguised me.
Scary but thrilling |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lost my job of 20 years
Self employed now, don't care
If that’s the case I hope you won the tribunal?
You can’t be fired from legal employment for being on a site like this or living a lifestyle you choose ..
I represent clients like this all day long ..
I’ll think you’ll find you can.
Not legally !!
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Nope your wrong |
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My brother was browsing the photos of a kinky party and spotted a photo of me (non-explicit!) and decided he wouldn't go. :,D
A friend shared the photos of a guy who messaged her on a kink site and I recognised his tattoos - my brother again!
London scene is a smaller world than you might expect... We're both comfortable enough knowing each others' interests but pleased not to have ended up at the same parties! |
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Yep, we spent a few hours messaging a lovely MF couple, we arranged to meet at a bar 20miles away from our home, they arrived and just happend to be our next door neighbours. Several fun night was had after all the shock had weared of.
Sophie |
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Not yet as I don't post pictures. First swinger club visit I was so paranoid about bumping into someone who saw me being interested in swinging I went to a club some distance away. Now I'm much more relaxed |
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We've been recognised a few times. Once by our neighbours, who never said a word for two years until the night before we moved 600 miles from them.
We were also recognised in a nightclub once when some idiot decided to get our profile up and show pictures to our friends! |
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"I've never been outed though there's a bully in work that would love for it to happen as company would sack me.
I've recognised a few people but I'd never out them, I'd respect their privacy just like I'd hope they'd respect mine
That's sad there's a bully at your work place, its a shame you can't get anything on that person. "
I've got loads and I'm continuing to build a solid case but it takes time. I'm doing it the right way rather than piping up about her drug use although I'm heavily advising the company does random drug and breath testing to make sure nobody is putting the clients in a predicament |
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"Thankfully I have been recognised.
Meant that the socials went ok and must mean my pictures do look a little like me. "
You were recognised by the person you were having a social with? Don’t know if that even counts lol |
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By *ocusMan
over a year ago
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I’m pretty sure there are a couple of people on here I recognise but I wouldn’t call them out.
I’m sure there are people I know on here too.
The gas mask in my pic hangs up from the door in our living room so it might too easy for someone to make the connection |
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"Have you?
Was anything said, or did anything pleasant or unexpected occur?
As a tgurl, I'm apprehensive of being recognised.
I was outed at work. Still dont know who the fuck it was, although have suspicions.
Very awkward meeting with the bosses. It wasn't a problem per second, but they quite reasonably thought I should know. It was an anonymous letter. Hasnt affected my employment, and the top brass were very discrete "
Good for them - and good for you! Very well handled by the sound of it! |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Lost my job of 20 years
Self employed now, don't care
If that’s the case I hope you won the tribunal?
You can’t be fired from legal employment for being on a site like this or living a lifestyle you choose ..
I represent clients like this all day long ..
I’ll think you’ll find you can.
Not legally !!
Nope your wrong "
Exactly.
I had a 'reputational disrepute' clause in the contract fro the company I worked for for over 15 years. They sacked people for posts on social media that would cause embarrassment to the company, one for getting d*unk and walking naked down a corridor in a hotel at a business conference and another a messy affair with a client's wife.
Losing your job for being a swinger is perfectly possible. Simple to avoid with common sense of course but in no way illegal.
Oh - and yes we've been recognised by someone as when we first started out someone tipped off the MIL.
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I bumped into my cousin at a local tgirls night. I had no idea he was an admirer & sufficient to say it's complicated but it's put me off ever going there again. |
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I'll add here that I already knew my cousin had a connection to the TV/TG world. He visited a TV dressing shop while I was there back in the 90s & I arranged a straight talk over a pint, where we agreed to keep our secrets a secret & ourselves to ourselves - a pity cos I'd have loved a friend to go out on the town with back then. Running into him at a local tgirl night at a swingers club really upset my mojo & apparently cramped his style too lol.
But yeah it's definitely made me think again about visiting. It'd be different I guess if he was a neighbour or coworker but family? Nah that's too close for comfort. A big shame because it's one of my favourite haunts! |
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"I bumped into my cousin at a local tgirls night. I had no idea he was an admirer & sufficient to say it's complicated but it's put me off ever going there again.
Did he recognise you? "
....just seen your follow up message x |
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By *acplayMan
over a year ago
Melton Mowbray |
"Twice, but I think we're all in the same boat so WTF lol... "
Totally agreed. Met an old school friend (female) in a club once and a work mate.(and his wife) created quite a giggle after the initial surprise. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
"I've only ever sacked on person (I'm a nice boss, honest) but two months later I bumped into them at a club. Very awkward "
Business is business and pleasure is pleasure. Did you get any 'angry sex'? Often some of the best sex going. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Twice, both times when out shopping, one guy messaged us on here afterwards to let us know he followed us for a bit because of how beautiful we look in person, ...cause that's not going to creep us out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Got it a lot in my old job repairing caravans and motorhomes
Lots of subtle hints like including the word fab a lot haha
Like that's fab you've done a fab job also had the no messing types that just outright said are you on fab haha |
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By *mids LadMan
over a year ago
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Been recognised by a work colleague, had a couple come into my place of work and blatantly ask me out right if I was on fab swingers, that was a bit of a shock lol.... And I got viewed by someone once, when I messaged turned out to be my Aunt lol |
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Yes. Work colleague of M at Chams, we shook hands and he spoke about business!
Mrs W has been mistaken for a local celebrity and the guy wouldn’t believe her when she said she wasn’t that person so that got awkward.
Have suspicions about a few people recognising us but nothing has been said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been recognised by a guy he made all sorts of nasty threats thankfully never carried them out! I recognised a couple but have said nothing if they choose to contact me that's fine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Remember the EU law on Privacy states that individuals shall enjoy a "private" life, so your employer cannot sack you because they saw you on say one of my videos, or you are a swinger or like to wear womens panties on a weekend.
Subsequently those threating to expose you are breaking the law, and reporting to the police is highly recommended as it comes under the new harassment law.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Last time I visited my mum, down in Kent, about 3 years after my previous trip, even she didn't recognise me lol.
I had lost 5 stone in between times, but FFS |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve been recognised by a guy at the gym from my tattoos, but the best one is I recognised my neighbour and decided to reveal myself through here and ever since we have had such a laugh and have got on fantastically well. Made a proper friend for life "
Love that x |
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