When I first joined the site about a year and a half ago, I did manage to get a meet in the first couple of weeks, at the time I really didn't understand the importance of being verified and by the time I realised and tried to ask her for a veri, she turned UNLOS!
Since then I have not met anyone via the site. A few meets have been arranged but they flaked at the last minute. I've attended my local club a few times and had a great time but in the heat of the moment I neglected to ask any of the people I played with if they had a Fab profile.
Increasingly I am seeing profiles with things like 'if you've been here for over six months with no verified meets we won't talk to you' - is it worth me deleting my profile and starting over? I tend to think no as surely people would recognise me from the old one, but what do you think? Should I delete and start over or just stick to my guns? I've even posted statuses offering to get the drinks in at a social meet in exchange for a verification but surprise surprise no takers either. What to do? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I first joined the site about a year and a half ago, I did manage to get a meet in the first couple of weeks, at the time I really didn't understand the importance of being verified and by the time I realised and tried to ask her for a veri, she turned UNLOS!
Since then I have not met anyone via the site. A few meets have been arranged but they flaked at the last minute. I've attended my local club a few times and had a great time but in the heat of the moment I neglected to ask any of the people I played with if they had a Fab profile.
Increasingly I am seeing profiles with things like 'if you've been here for over six months with no verified meets we won't talk to you' - is it worth me deleting my profile and starting over? I tend to think no as surely people would recognise me from the old one, but what do you think? Should I delete and start over or just stick to my guns? I've even posted statuses offering to get the drinks in at a social meet in exchange for a verification but surprise surprise no takers either. What to do? "
why not just go to a club and get your veries going from there? You are sound as though you dont struggle there so shouldnt be that hard |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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"You'd think so but the only people I've interacted within the club and recognised off here block single males or have other filters in place stopping me. "
Ask the staff or ask whoever you chat with. It's usually easy to get verifications from people in club's . Maybe try an organised social |
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"You'd think so but the only people I've interacted within the club and recognised off here block single males or have other filters in place stopping me. "
What im saying is go back to the club, meet again or different ones and ask them politely to verify you when they get home or the next day. |
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