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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Been swinging over a month now and i was talking with the gf lastnight about everything, i asked her what sex used to be like with her ex, i wanted to know for a while, and she addmited he was actually better when it came to sex and was well hung, not really what i wanted to hear but at the same time as a cuck that is really what i wanted to hear ! Lol anyway i asked her if she would be up for meeting him and she said yes but is it really a good idea ? Or should i keep it as a fantasy ? |
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"Been swinging over a month now and i was talking with the gf lastnight about everything, i asked her what sex used to be like with her ex, i wanted to know for a while, and she addmited he was actually better when it came to sex and was well hung, not really what i wanted to hear but at the same time as a cuck that is really what i wanted to hear ! Lol anyway i asked her if she would be up for meeting him and she said yes but is it really a good idea ? Or should i keep it as a fantasy ?"
Keep as fantasy for God's sake! |
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Cuck is a good idea but not with the ex because there maybe too many emotions, but with a neutral man there will be no emotions just great sex so I say go and enjoy just not with the ex, after all it’s about having fun and not causing any stress or unnecessary complications |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What do you think op?
What are the advantages and what are the pitfalls, is he/she even likely to agree? "
well she said she would be up for it but ive auggested maybe blindfolding her so theres no connection sort of thing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Cuck is a good idea but not with the ex because there maybe too many emotions, but with a neutral man there will be no emotions just great sex so I say go and enjoy just not with the ex, after all it’s about having fun and not causing any stress or unnecessary complications"
your right maybe its just best to stick too strangers
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"What do you think op?
What are the advantages and what are the pitfalls, is he/she even likely to agree? well she said she would be up for it but ive auggested maybe blindfolding her so theres no connection sort of thing"
I personally don't think a blindfold will stop a physical or emotional connection. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"What do you think op?
What are the advantages and what are the pitfalls, is he/she even likely to agree? well she said she would be up for it but ive auggested maybe blindfolding her so theres no connection sort of thing
I personally don't think a blindfold will stop a physical or emotional connection. "
Beat me to it 
I get the whole cuck thing OP but do you really think it's a good idea, and have you really thought this through?
I'd suggest you've not and it's a nice fantasy to have but the reality is likely to be very different - you've already said that being told her ex was better wasn't what you wanted to hear - so now imagine that being made reality right in front of you - how do you really think that will make you feel? |
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"Been swinging over a month now and i was talking with the gf lastnight about everything, i asked her what sex used to be like with her ex, i wanted to know for a while, and she addmited he was actually better when it came to sex and was well hung, not really what i wanted to hear but at the same time as a cuck that is really what i wanted to hear ! Lol anyway i asked her if she would be up for meeting him and she said yes but is it really a good idea ? Or should i keep it as a fantasy ?"
meet up and tell us what happened........ deal?    |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What do you think op?
What are the advantages and what are the pitfalls, is he/she even likely to agree? well she said she would be up for it but ive auggested maybe blindfolding her so theres no connection sort of thing
I personally don't think a blindfold will stop a physical or emotional connection.
Beat me to it
I get the whole cuck thing OP but do you really think it's a good idea, and have you really thought this through?
I'd suggest you've not and it's a nice fantasy to have but the reality is likely to be very different - you've already said that being told her ex was better wasn't what you wanted to hear - so now imagine that being made reality right in front of you - how do you really think that will make you feel?"
like crap x10 lol |
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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago
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God no! It's an awful idea unless you like the thought of your relationship imploding!  one of our top rules is we don't play with anyone we know in the vanilla world. It's opening a can of worms, and those works like to get messy!
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By *ng1983Couple
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"God no! It's an awful idea unless you like the thought of your relationship imploding! one of our top rules is we don't play with anyone we know in the vanilla world. It's opening a can of worms, and those works like to get messy!
Gem"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"God no! It's an awful idea unless you like the thought of your relationship imploding! one of our top rules is we don't play with anyone we know in the vanilla world. It's opening a can of worms, and those works like to get messy!
Gem"
You think if i blindfolded her but told her who it was, and just let her give him a blowjob infront of me would be ok ?
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"God no! It's an awful idea unless you like the thought of your relationship imploding! one of our top rules is we don't play with anyone we know in the vanilla world. It's opening a can of worms, and those works like to get messy!
GemYou think if i blindfolded her but told her who it was, and just let her give him a blowjob infront of me would be ok ?
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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago
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"God no! It's an awful idea unless you like the thought of your relationship imploding! one of our top rules is we don't play with anyone we know in the vanilla world. It's opening a can of worms, and those works like to get messy!
GemYou think if i blindfolded her but told her who it was, and just let her give him a blowjob infront of me would be ok ?
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Nope! She's still gonna know who it is Blindfolded or not. You don't need your eyes for an emotional connection |
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"Been swinging over a month now and i was talking with the gf lastnight about everything, i asked her what sex used to be like with her ex, i wanted to know for a while, and she addmited he was actually better when it came to sex and was well hung, not really what i wanted to hear but at the same time as a cuck that is really what i wanted to hear ! Lol anyway i asked her if she would be up for meeting him and she said yes but is it really a good idea ? Or should i keep it as a fantasy ?"
Nothing could possibly go wrong with this. It's a brilliant idea. Go for it |
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"Very bad idea. Stick to strangers. Can't believe she agreed to be honest. well she showed me a pic of his dick and i dont blame her tbh lol"
Why does she still have dick pics of her ex? There’s a reason she’s kept it and why she’d be willing to involve him in your relationship. How long ago did they separate?
If you really love each other and want a future together keep the past where it belongs. If you’re just having fun together and you don’t mind losing her then go for it.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Very bad idea. Stick to strangers. Can't believe she agreed to be honest. well she showed me a pic of his dick and i dont blame her tbh lol
Why does she still have dick pics of her ex? There’s a reason she’s kept it and why she’d be willing to involve him in your relationship. How long ago did they separate?
If you really love each other and want a future together keep the past where it belongs. If you’re just having fun together and you don’t mind losing her then go for it.
Lou x "
the6 broke up nealy a year ago, says she forgot they were on her phone, i messaged the ex myself and talked to him avout it lol |
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Dont do it why would you even think about it ffs an ex is an ex for reason and I'm sorry but if shes up for it clearly theres still some connection attraction whatever there so it's going to end badly I'd say.
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over a year ago
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too many red flags for me.
she 'forgot' she had dick pics on her phone for at least a year until this conversation and then suddenly found them
admits the sex was better with him
would like to revisit sex with her ex
not many people would want to go near an ex when it's truely over
id have major concerns encouraging this unless you're happy to lose her to him
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"too many red flags for me.
she 'forgot' she had dick pics on her phone for at least a year until this conversation and then suddenly found them
admits the sex was better with him
would like to revisit sex with her ex
not many people would want to go near an ex when it's truely over
id have major concerns encouraging this unless you're happy to lose her to him
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yeah i know it dosnt look great, i really dont think she has feelings for him still, it was her who ended their relationship and it was me who suggested meeting him, at first she wasnt having it but after talking about the sex they used to have we thought it would be really horny, i know there still could be a risk but the situation would be so exiting |
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I kind of disagree with other posters here. I think that the fact he’s her ex makes it less risky. She’s been there done that - knows it didn’t work out as a relationship, but he was just good at fucking her (which a stranger might not be). I had an ex I used to hook up for booty calls who was in a relationship. She’d come over to my place , usually after a night on the lash with her mates for a bit of “big fun” as she used to call it, lol. But there was never any question of her leaving her bf or us getting back together. And guess what, she ended up marrying him! |
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"I kind of disagree with other posters here. I think that the fact he’s her ex makes it less risky. She’s been there done that - knows it didn’t work out as a relationship, but he was just good at fucking her (which a stranger might not be). I had an ex I used to hook up for booty calls who was in a relationship. She’d come over to my place , usually after a night on the lash with her mates for a bit of “big fun” as she used to call it, lol. But there was never any question of her leaving her bf or us getting back together. And guess what, she ended up marrying him!"
this is kinda what im thinking, been there done that and over him, but he happend to be 5he best sex shes ever had, why say no if your partners says yeah ? Think ladies would you ? And she dumped him he has tried getting her back in the past but she wont have it
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"I kind of disagree with other posters here. I think that the fact he’s her ex makes it less risky. She’s been there done that - knows it didn’t work out as a relationship, but he was just good at fucking her (which a stranger might not be). I had an ex I used to hook up for booty calls who was in a relationship. She’d come over to my place , usually after a night on the lash with her mates for a bit of “big fun” as she used to call it, lol. But there was never any question of her leaving her bf or us getting back together. And guess what, she ended up marrying him!"
exactly she just needs some 'big fun ' who am i to deny her that lol
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"I kind of disagree with other posters here. I think that the fact he’s her ex makes it less risky. She’s been there done that - knows it didn’t work out as a relationship, but he was just good at fucking her (which a stranger might not be). I had an ex I used to hook up for booty calls who was in a relationship. She’d come over to my place , usually after a night on the lash with her mates for a bit of “big fun” as she used to call it, lol. But there was never any question of her leaving her bf or us getting back together. And guess what, she ended up marrying him! this is kinda what im thinking, been there done that and over him, but he happend to be 5he best sex shes ever had, why say no if your partners says yeah ? Think ladies would you ? And she dumped him he has tried getting her back in the past but she wont have it "
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No, I wouldn't even entertain the idea.
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"I kind of disagree with other posters here. I think that the fact he’s her ex makes it less risky. She’s been there done that - knows it didn’t work out as a relationship, but he was just good at fucking her (which a stranger might not be). I had an ex I used to hook up for booty calls who was in a relationship. She’d come over to my place , usually after a night on the lash with her mates for a bit of “big fun” as she used to call it, lol. But there was never any question of her leaving her bf or us getting back together. And guess what, she ended up marrying him! this is kinda what im thinking, been there done that and over him, but he happend to be 5he best sex shes ever had, why say no if your partners says yeah ? Think ladies would you ? And she dumped him he has tried getting her back in the past but she wont have it I
No, I wouldn't even entertain the idea.
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"I kind of disagree with other posters here. I think that the fact he’s her ex makes it less risky. She’s been there done that - knows it didn’t work out as a relationship, but he was just good at fucking her (which a stranger might not be). I had an ex I used to hook up for booty calls who was in a relationship. She’d come over to my place , usually after a night on the lash with her mates for a bit of “big fun” as she used to call it, lol. But there was never any question of her leaving her bf or us getting back together. And guess what, she ended up marrying him! this is kinda what im thinking, been there done that and over him, but he happend to be 5he best sex shes ever had, why say no if your partners says yeah ? Think ladies would you ? And she dumped him he has tried getting her back in the past but she wont have it I
No, I wouldn't even entertain the idea.
maybe because you still have feelings ? "
what
My most recent ex is my first husband who I left over 40 years ago. I had no positive feelings for him then and it hasn't changed in that time. I wouldn't do it hypothetically because the potential for it to go wrong is too great . If you want to do it, do it. |
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"I kind of disagree with other posters here. I think that the fact he’s her ex makes it less risky. She’s been there done that - knows it didn’t work out as a relationship, but he was just good at fucking her (which a stranger might not be). I had an ex I used to hook up for booty calls who was in a relationship. She’d come over to my place , usually after a night on the lash with her mates for a bit of “big fun” as she used to call it, lol. But there was never any question of her leaving her bf or us getting back together. And guess what, she ended up marrying him! this is kinda what im thinking, been there done that and over him, but he happend to be 5he best sex shes ever had, why say no if your partners says yeah ? Think ladies would you ? And she dumped him he has tried getting her back in the past but she wont have it I
No, I wouldn't even entertain the idea.
maybe because you still have feelings ? what
My most recent ex is my first husband who I left over 40 years ago. I had no positive feelings for him then and it hasn't changed in that time. I wouldn't do it hypothetically because the potential for it to go wrong is too great . If you want to do it, do it."
sorry wasnt trying to be funny just curious, i tottaly get your point. Wow you look amazing you have a lucky husbund lol |
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"Been swinging over a month now and i was talking with the gf lastnight about everything, i asked her what sex used to be like with her ex, i wanted to know for a while, and she addmited he was actually better when it came to sex and was well hung, not really what i wanted to hear but at the same time as a cuck that is really what i wanted to hear ! Lol anyway i asked her if she would be up for meeting him and she said yes but is it really a good idea ? Or should i keep it as a fantasy ?"
Depends why he is an ex tbh.
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By (user no longer on site)
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OP many many people have said in their opinion it's not a good idea, including women
you seem to want us to agree with you
if you want to do it, go ahead
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"Been swinging over a month now and i was talking with the gf lastnight about everything, i asked her what sex used to be like with her ex, i wanted to know for a while, and she addmited he was actually better when it came to sex and was well hung, not really what i wanted to hear but at the same time as a cuck that is really what i wanted to hear ! Lol anyway i asked her if she would be up for meeting him and she said yes but is it really a good idea ? Or should i keep it as a fantasy ?"
Mortified to even read you are considering this! What (almost) everyone said - keep this as a fantasy if you must. Otherwise it will end in tears.
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"What do you think op?
What are the advantages and what are the pitfalls, is he/she even likely to agree? well she said she would be up for it but ive auggested maybe blindfolding her so theres no connection sort of thing"
Both of you be blindfolded.....such fun! |
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"Been swinging over a month now and i was talking with the gf lastnight about everything, i asked her what sex used to be like with her ex, i wanted to know for a while, and she addmited he was actually better when it came to sex and was well hung, not really what i wanted to hear but at the same time as a cuck that is really what i wanted to hear ! Lol anyway i asked her if she would be up for meeting him and she said yes but is it really a good idea ? Or should i keep it as a fantasy ?
Mortified to even read you are considering this! What (almost) everyone said - keep this as a fantasy if you must. Otherwise it will end in tears.
xN"
right so most people think she will leave me for him |
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"What do you think op?
What are the advantages and what are the pitfalls, is he/she even likely to agree? well she said she would be up for it but ive auggested maybe blindfolding her so theres no connection sort of thing
Both of you be blindfolded.....such fun! "
you done that ? |
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I think , for what it’s worth, that you seem to be role playing this via the forum.
If it real then no way should you do it as you seem far too fragile and it would blow up in your face(not in a nice way) |
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"I think , for what it’s worth, that you seem to be role playing this via the forum.
If it real then no way should you do it as you seem far too fragile and it would blow up in your face(not in a nice way) "
ive already started to arrange im giving it ago my gut says it will be fine i know its just fun |
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"I think , for what it’s worth, that you seem to be role playing this via the forum.
If it real then no way should you do it as you seem far too fragile and it would blow up in your face(not in a nice way) ive already started to arrange im giving it ago my gut says it will be fine i know its just fun"
Then do it. Good luck. The end. |
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"Been swinging over a month now and i was talking with the gf lastnight about everything, i asked her what sex used to be like with her ex, i wanted to know for a while, and she addmited he was actually better when it came to sex and was well hung, not really what i wanted to hear but at the same time as a cuck that is really what i wanted to hear ! Lol anyway i asked her if she would be up for meeting him and she said yes but is it really a good idea ? Or should i keep it as a fantasy ?
Mortified to even read you are considering this! What (almost) everyone said - keep this as a fantasy if you must. Otherwise it will end in tears.
xN right so most people think she will leave me for him "
No, not necessarily. But you need to have a full on solid relationship, as once you see something you really can't unsee it! And this isn't just another bloke that you met on fab - there's emotions there for both of you!
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"I think , for what it’s worth, that you seem to be role playing this via the forum.
If it real then no way should you do it as you seem far too fragile and it would blow up in your face(not in a nice way) ive already started to arrange im giving it ago my gut says it will be fine i know its just fun
Then do it. Good luck. The end. "
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"God no! It's an awful idea unless you like the thought of your relationship imploding! one of our top rules is we don't play with anyone we know in the vanilla world. It's opening a can of worms, and those works like to get messy!
GemYou think if i blindfolded her but told her who it was, and just let her give him a blowjob infront of me would be ok ?
No."
Duuuuude, you've seen her give other guys blowjobs right?
What if during this one there was something different about it? That alone would probably be enough to make your mind kick into overdrive.
Bad news written all over it.
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"Been swinging over a month now and i was talking with the gf lastnight about everything, i asked her what sex used to be like with her ex, i wanted to know for a while, and she addmited he was actually better when it came to sex and was well hung, not really what i wanted to hear but at the same time as a cuck that is really what i wanted to hear ! Lol anyway i asked her if she would be up for meeting him and she said yes but is it really a good idea ? Or should i keep it as a fantasy ?
Mortified to even read you are considering this! What (almost) everyone said - keep this as a fantasy if you must. Otherwise it will end in tears.
xN right so most people think she will leave me for him "
It's not about her leaving you for him, it's about the emotional damage and wobbles that can come from it.
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"God no! It's an awful idea unless you like the thought of your relationship imploding! one of our top rules is we don't play with anyone we know in the vanilla world. It's opening a can of worms, and those works like to get messy! Onley swung once and had a mmf threeway with sum guy we were talking too that was amazing experience, but her ex is extra kinda wrong, which just turns me on alot more evan thou it shouldnt
GemYou think if i blindfolded her but told her who it was, and just let her give him a blowjob infront of me would be ok ?
No.
Duuuuude, you've seen her give other guys blowjobs right?
What if during this one there was something different about it? That alone would probably be enough to make your mind kick into overdrive.
Bad news written all over it.
P"
Onley swung once and had a mmf threeway with sum guy we were talking too that was amazing experience, but her ex is extra kinda wrong, which just turns me on alot more evan thou it shouldnt
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"Been swinging over a month now and i was talking with the gf lastnight about everything, i asked her what sex used to be like with her ex, i wanted to know for a while, and she addmited he was actually better when it came to sex and was well hung, not really what i wanted to hear but at the same time as a cuck that is really what i wanted to hear ! Lol anyway i asked her if she would be up for meeting him and she said yes but is it really a good idea ? Or should i keep it as a fantasy ?
Mortified to even read you are considering this! What (almost) everyone said - keep this as a fantasy if you must. Otherwise it will end in tears.
xN right so most people think she will leave me for him
It's not about her leaving you for him, it's about the emotional damage and wobbles that can come from it.
P"
all part of being a cuck i suppose |
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"Been swinging over a month now and i was talking with the gf lastnight about everything, i asked her what sex used to be like with her ex, i wanted to know for a while, and she addmited he was actually better when it came to sex and was well hung, not really what i wanted to hear but at the same time as a cuck that is really what i wanted to hear ! Lol anyway i asked her if she would be up for meeting him and she said yes but is it really a good idea ? Or should i keep it as a fantasy ?
Depends why he is an ex tbh.
Ms Icebreaker "
mrs here, we actually broke up because we just fell out of love with eachother and turned out to be way different, and he wasnt around alot after joining the army, me and the hubby had a big chat about it all and we wouldnt do it if i thought it could effect our relationship |
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"I kind of disagree with other posters here. I think that the fact he’s her ex makes it less risky. She’s been there done that - knows it didn’t work out as a relationship, but he was just good at fucking her (which a stranger might not be). I had an ex I used to hook up for booty calls who was in a relationship. She’d come over to my place , usually after a night on the lash with her mates for a bit of “big fun” as she used to call it, lol. But there was never any question of her leaving her bf or us getting back together. And guess what, she ended up marrying him! this is kinda what im thinking, been there done that and over him, but he happend to be 5he best sex shes ever had, why say no if your partners says yeah ? Think ladies would you ? And she dumped him he has tried getting her back in the past but she wont have it I
No, I wouldn't even entertain the idea.
maybe because you still have feelings ? what
My most recent ex is my first husband who I left over 40 years ago. I had no positive feelings for him then and it hasn't changed in that time. I wouldn't do it hypothetically because the potential for it to go wrong is too great . If you want to do it, do it. sorry wasnt trying to be funny just curious, i tottaly get your point. Wow you look amazing you have a lucky husbund lol"
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"Been swinging over a month now and i was talking with the gf lastnight about everything, i asked her what sex used to be like with her ex, i wanted to know for a while, and she addmited he was actually better when it came to sex and was well hung, not really what i wanted to hear but at the same time as a cuck that is really what i wanted to hear ! Lol anyway i asked her if she would be up for meeting him and she said yes but is it really a good idea ? Or should i keep it as a fantasy ?
Depends why he is an ex tbh.
Ms Icebreaker mrs here, we actually broke up because we just fell out of love with eachother and turned out to be way different, and he wasnt around alot after joining the army, me and the hubby had a big chat about it all and we wouldnt do it if i thought it could effect our relationship "
Good! Go ahead and enjoy it.
It isn't just about if you think it will affect the relationship though is it. It might affect your partner in ways neither of you have thought of. However if you've talked over the possibilities that you have thought of and are prepared to accept that if it raises unacceptable uncomfortable feelings you won't do it again you should be ok.
The one person not mentioned do far is your ex. Does he agree? How will you come as a couple if he wants more and you don't? Does he have a partner and how would they feel about this? |
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"*cope as a couple"
hey thanks for your reply, well my bf has talked to my ex and arrangrd it for this evening, my ex agreed right away and he was told the rules i dont want to talk with him atall
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"*cope as a couple hey thanks for your reply, well my bf has talked to my ex and arrangrd it for this evening, my ex agreed right away and he was told the rules i dont want to talk with him atall "
he dosnt have a gf or so he says, he says hes not into me like that atall and not to worry, so hopfully he sticks to his words
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"*cope as a couple hey thanks for your reply, well my bf has talked to my ex and arrangrd it for this evening, my ex agreed right away and he was told the rules i dont want to talk with him atall he dosnt have a gf or so he says, he says hes not into me like that atall and not to worry, so hopfully he sticks to his words"
Yes, hopefully.
It's just sex after all.
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"*cope as a couple hey thanks for your reply, well my bf has talked to my ex and arrangrd it for this evening, my ex agreed right away and he was told the rules i dont want to talk with him atall he dosnt have a gf or so he says, he says hes not into me like that atall and not to worry, so hopfully he sticks to his words
Yes, hopefully.
It's just sex after all.
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just sex...... the most intimate thing two three four five six seven people can do together....... just sex omg |
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"*cope as a couple hey thanks for your reply, well my bf has talked to my ex and arrangrd it for this evening, my ex agreed right away and he was told the rules i dont want to talk with him atall he dosnt have a gf or so he says, he says hes not into me like that atall and not to worry, so hopfully he sticks to his words
Yes, hopefully.
It's just sex after all.
just sex...... the most intimate thing two three four five six seven people can do together....... just sex omg "
well if she has no feelings for him... |
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Ultimate cuck experience what a buzz, pretty much went to plan, he turned up i let him in and took him up to the bedroom where my beautiful girl was waiting sitting on the bed, he walked in and they both nervously smirked at eachother then looked away lol
I was already feeling extra jelous as normal but just went with it, so he walks up to her and she starts undoing his jeans and im like wow as ahe pulls it out hes huge and i can see the exitment on her face that she's trying to hide from me but cant.
She sucked him off a while, he put his hand around her head to throat fuck her a few times,but she took his hand off each time and did it herself as if she didnt want him being in control, then she layed down ready for the best part, it took about 10 minites of him easing his cock in with alot of lube for him to fuck her properly she wasnt used to bigger than me. as soon ad he put the tip in she made groan i never heard her make with me before, every thrust. I did nealy go to stop them a few times i was that jelous but i couldnt, but sje did habe to tell him to slow down, she said he was fuclin her alot more ruff than before. Butt all in all everybody enjoyed
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"Ultimate cuck experience what a buzz, pretty much went to plan, he turned up i let him in and took him up to the bedroom where my beautiful girl was waiting sitting on the bed, he walked in and they both nervously smirked at eachother then looked away lol
I was already feeling extra jelous as normal but just went with it, so he walks up to her and she starts undoing his jeans and im like wow as ahe pulls it out hes huge and i can see the exitment on her face that she's trying to hide from me but cant.
She sucked him off a while, he put his hand around her head to throat fuck her a few times,but she took his hand off each time and did it herself as if she didnt want him being in control, then she layed down ready for the best part, it took about 10 minites of him easing his cock in with alot of lube for him to fuck her properly she wasnt used to bigger than me. as soon ad he put the tip in she made groan i never heard her make with me before, every thrust. I did nealy go to stop them a few times i was that jelous but i couldnt, but sje did habe to tell him to slow down, she said he was fuclin her alot more ruff than before. Butt all in all everybody enjoyed
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Horny! Did he cum inside her? |
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