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Everyone should be photo verified to get rid of fake couples
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I can’t tell you how many fake couples are on here but a lot. If the site made you photo verified before you could have a profile I think that would get rid of a load of them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know as a newbie I’m a bit dumb but I thought every one had to be photo verified as whatever their profile is ie couple or single male or female??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely agree with you ?? % |
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I’m not photo verified and I’m not fake |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with that too |
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I'm not photo verified and I'm definitely not fake.
What do you deem to be a fake. This word gets thrown around often but are these profiles really "fake" or is it that for one reason or another a meet does not come to fruition. Oh so they must be "fake"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought everyone had to be photo verified to become a site member |
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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago
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Doesn't everyone have to be photo verified? I no we had to when we joined |
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"I can’t tell you how many fake couples are on here but a lot. If the site made you photo verified before you could have a profile I think that would get rid of a load of them? "
How exactly would it do that? I'm not trying to be argumentative, but nobody over the years has ever been able to explain this to me...
verified as what, by who, against what criteria of actual proof? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been on the site over ten years,not photo verified,never will be.
We must be fakes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are not photo verified, better tell the peeps we have met on here that they never really did meet us. |
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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago
Stafford |
I'm not photo verified. Does that mean all my veris make me fake.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not photo verified and it hasn't made a difference for me.
Also not something I feel I need to do.
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
We’re not photo verified, been on the site about 5 years and as you can see from our veris we are not fake   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some men would get their mom in the pic and tell her it's a selfie  |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"Some men would get their mom in the pic and tell her it's a selfie "
Eewwww that’s just wrong lol  |
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Most organized socials etc require you to be either photo verified or meet verified I think its more important for single men most others can get meet verified fairly easily |
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If a couple has been on the site and active for over a month but not verified then we get suspicious ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Or you can make your own rules up. If you dont want to meet people that arent photo verified then dont. |
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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago
nottingham |
I agreeeee as long as photos confidential I agree |
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I don't tend to look if people are photo verified, I look to see if they have verifications of meets be that from a social event or a play meet,if they only have one verification, then I look to see if the person that verified them has also been verified by someone other than them |
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If a profile has been here a while and has no photos up, public or private I always steer clear.
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I'm not photo verified and I'm definately not fake but I can also say I've met one or two fakes who were, photo verified. It's a bit odd when you see a pic that's been verified and someone entirely different turns up at a meet. When I questioned it I get the answer that they didn't want to send me their real photo in case I was put off. Really.... Now what was that all about. Being dishonest and deceitful doesn't wash with me |
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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago
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If the profile only has photos of her and not them together then perhaps approach with caution but I'm not photo verified and I'm very real and having great fun on this site between the forum and meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wanders in ...
Reads thread...
Seems I must be a fake. Explains a lot.
Wanders back to my fake cave and contemplates reality....
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Not photo verified and never will be.
There are photo verified and verified by meets people who mess people around. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most organized socials etc require you to be either photo verified or meet verified I think its more important for single men most others can get meet verified fairly easily "
More important for single men you say?
Let me give you an example of how important it is to single men in our experience.
We only meet,other meet verified singles and couples.we only meet weekends.
Like many many other couples and single ladies we are inundated by guys asking to meet when it's clear we obviously can't.
Last Xmas, Dec18,we decided to try a little experiment.we were in Belfast for a drink and put up a meet for unverified guys to join us for a drink,get that first veri.again, inundated with responses, inundated.
Do you know how many turned up?
None
Zero
Ziltch
We will never make such an offer again.
To too many it's all a game,it's the chase,with no intention to follow up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can’t tell you how many fake couples are on here but a lot. If the site made you photo verified before you could have a profile I think that would get rid of a load of them?
How exactly would it do that? I'm not trying to be argumentative, but nobody over the years has ever been able to explain this to me...
verified as what, by who, against what criteria of actual proof?"
Agree.. you can put any pic on with a bit of photoshopping... i like if people have physical meets.. |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
Wakefield |
"I can’t tell you how many fake couples are on here but a lot. If the site made you photo verified before you could have a profile I think that would get rid of a load of them? "
Why, it would be very easy to fake a photo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Verifications, photo or cam or meet, are not proof that anyone is genuine. There are many many other ways to make sure people are genuine early one and ways of spotting fakes. There are many other sites that offer greater security but they are more expensive. We are all here because it is cheap and has a high membership.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the point the OP was trying to make was that it would make it harder to join if you are a fake. All you people saying your not pic verified and not fake it wouldn’t be an issue as your genuine, but someone say a man pretending to be a woman would have to photo verify and think ahhhh fuck it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're not photo verified we are so obviously fake |
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We're also unverified but very much real! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Photo verification won't stop fakes and it certainly won't stop timewasters and fakes.
Just block non-verified if you think it will |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can’t tell you how many fake couples are on here but a lot. If the site made you photo verified before you could have a profile I think that would get rid of a load of them? "
We're fed up of them too, always ends up where the woman isn't available! Started to recognise the flags in profile and messages.
I agree, we should have to provide several pics to admin, as it won't be a problem to us genuine bi couples x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can’t tell you how many fake couples are on here but a lot. If the site made you photo verified before you could have a profile I think that would get rid of a load of them? "
you have to be photo verified to post in forums   |
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"I can’t tell you how many fake couples are on here but a lot. If the site made you photo verified before you could have a profile I think that would get rid of a load of them? you have to be photo verified to post in forums "
do you? we're not... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’re not photo verified and are genuine we just can’t be arsed to take a photo with a name written on it and all that x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We’re not photo verified and are genuine we just can’t be arsed to take a photo with a name written on it and all that x"
how odd as a single guy i couldn't post in forums unless i got photo verified |
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I don't see why single men would need to be photo verified because it's not unusual and I don't see why anybody would pretend to be one.
It would make more sense for couples and single women but I'm not sure it should be compulsory. If somebody is gingerly working out whether to take the plunge then I wouldn't want to put them off. Maybe there should be restrictions on messaging and forum-use instead.
I do think that FF couples should be photo-verified because they are rare and most of the ones I have come across looked very suspect to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seems to be logic deficit here.
How would anyone know other are a fake or not because they have had a picture ticked by admin.
Or perhaps OP you may like to define fake? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We’re not photo verified and are genuine we just can’t be arsed to take a photo with a name written on it and all that xhow odd as a single guy i couldn't post in forums unless i got photo verified "
Probably because you aren't or weren't meet verified |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"We’re not photo verified and are genuine we just can’t be arsed to take a photo with a name written on it and all that xhow odd as a single guy i couldn't post in forums unless i got photo verified "
Anyone posting must be either meet or photo verified. It's nothing to do with being a single guy or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By *pmsldCouple
over a year ago
kettering |
If you are only interested in verified people then the site offers 2 filters to do that already.
Message filters - you can block people who arent verified from messaging you
Search - you can tick a box to only show verified profiles
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can’t tell you how many fake couples are on here but a lot. If the site made you photo verified before you could have a profile I think that would get rid of a load of them? "
Couldn't agree with you more. Seen some couples who have been on over a year and still not photo verified. Sorry but screams fake to us x |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"I can’t tell you how many fake couples are on here but a lot. If the site made you photo verified before you could have a profile I think that would get rid of a load of them?
Couldn't agree with you more. Seen some couples who have been on over a year and still not photo verified. Sorry but screams fake to us x"
So do think all the non photo verified people on this thread look fake? |
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I don’t think we’re photo verified but not sure that has made a difference to our interactions to be honest
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not if meet verified. But more if couples / single guys and females have been on over a year that are not either photo verified or meet verified and not displaying any pictures and without a profile write up x |
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Your a man. We are taking about couples |
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"I'm not photo verified and I'm definitely not fake.
What do you deem to be a fake. This word gets thrown around often but are these profiles really "fake" or is it that for one reason or another a meet does not come to fruition. Oh so they must be "fake"
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It’s men posing as couples we are on about |
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"I can’t tell you how many fake couples are on here but a lot. If the site made you photo verified before you could have a profile I think that would get rid of a load of them?
How exactly would it do that? I'm not trying to be argumentative, but nobody over the years has ever been able to explain this to me...
It’s easy. There are so many men on here posing as a couple
verified as what, by who, against what criteria of actual proof?"
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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago
Babbacombe Torquay |
Have had meets with various Fab members so don't feel the need for photo verification... Anyone who doesn't accept that can please themselves |
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"Been on the site over ten years,not photo verified,never will be.
We must be fakes "
Why give such a stupid answer. Read the question. I said there are so many fakes on here I DID NOT SAY EVERYONE!!! it would get rid of a lot of them |
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"I'm not photo verified and it hasn't made a difference for me.
Also not something I feel I need to do.
And over a year without a meeting???? Rest my case
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"We are not photo verified, better tell the peeps we have met on here that they never really did meet us. "
For you you have verification I am on about the ones on here for years and never had a meeting and make excuses after excuses |
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I don’t think the photo veri works. I’ve seen numerous accounts that are photo verified but still obviously fake. Anyone can send a pic for verification. Do you think someone is sat there thinking “yeah that cock/tit/pussy/arse/leg looks like it could belong that girl/guy/couple on their photo they sent in” .... send a photo of yourself holding the paper the upload as many fakes as you like. Who is gonna know? |
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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago
Babbacombe Torquay |
People spend far too much time worrying about how others use the site, it's pretty damn easy really, if it bothers you that much just ignore those that are not photo verified |
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"Wanders in ...
Reads thread...
Seems I must be a fake. Explains a lot.
Wanders back to my fake cave and contemplates reality....
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It’s about couples. Who gives a shit if it’s a man |
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By *niper oneMan
over a year ago
DERBY/Notts border |
This site is riddled with fake profiles and get worse each year |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know as a newbie I’m a bit dumb but I thought every one had to be photo verified as whatever their profile is ie couple or single male or female??
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Me too? |
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"I can’t tell you how many fake couples are on here but a lot. If the site made you photo verified before you could have a profile I think that would get rid of a load of them?
How exactly would it do that? I'm not trying to be argumentative, but nobody over the years has ever been able to explain this to me...
It’s easy. There are so many men on here posing as a couple
verified as what, by who, against what criteria of actual proof?"
but what would photo verifying do to get rid of them? it's so easily faked it's utterly meaningless |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been on the site over ten years,not photo verified,never will be.
We must be fakes
Why give such a stupid answer. Read the question. I said there are so many fakes on here I DID NOT SAY EVERYONE!!! it would get rid of a lot of them "
Then ignore the fakes,its not difficult,unless it's just attention you're after |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe an early fem/ fem phone chat. But even verified people can be timewasters .we haven't met anyone off here for ages and are on our 3rd profile so only have 2 veris we are not fake but are not particularly bothered if others think we are . |
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"Most organized socials etc require you to be either photo verified or meet verified I think its more important for single men most others can get meet verified fairly easily
More important for single men you say?
Let me give you an example of how important it is to single men in our experience.
We only meet,other meet verified singles and couples.we only meet weekends.
Like many many other couples and single ladies we are inundated by guys asking to meet when it's clear we obviously can't.
Last Xmas, Dec18,we decided to try a little experiment.we were in Belfast for a drink and put up a meet for unverified guys to join us for a drink,get that first veri.again, inundated with responses, inundated.
Do you know how many turned up?
None
Zero
Ziltch
We will never make such an offer again.
To too many it's all a game,it's the chase,with no intention to follow up."
Well well that’s a surprise |
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It’s mostly very easy to spot people on here that will never meet ,if they have been on few years with no meets obviously they don’t want to meet ,verifications are the most useful tool on here |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
Forum Mod O o O oo |
https://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters
If you use your filters non verified people will not be able to mail you. You can avoid any communication with non verified people yourself by not mailing any
If you think a profile is fake you can help Admin by reporting it saying why you think they are fake
Finally, lets be civil when answering people please. |
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