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how to seduce a mature woman ?
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"Treat them like any other woman....you might be surprised to find they're no different " That's bollocks! There's no way I'm looking for the same as a 20 something on here!!!  | |||
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"Treat them like any other woman....you might be surprised to find they're no different That's bollocks! There's no way I'm looking for the same as a 20 something on here!!! ". What you looking for ? | |||
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"I didn't mean to offend with my answer..I always treat every woman the same regardless of age, always polite and never pushy" Don’t worry about it, some people on here love being offended, they’re even offended if they don’t get offended | |||
"I've always wanted to try "That leads me to wonder if you normally go for immature women? | |||
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"Werther's originals everytime lol " Thats kids  | |||
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"Not quite sure what to make of these forums ....people obviously dont take them Serious with some of these answers lol" They are making me smile lol | |||
"I've always wanted to try "Start by not calling her mature Ms Icebreaker | |||
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"Trip to the sea side... but never actually leave your car, just park along the front and drink tea out of a thermos flask ... romantic " But, I don't like the taste of tea out of a thermos!  | |||
"Trip to the sea side... but never actually leave your car, just park along the front and drink tea out of a thermos flask ... romantic But, I don't like the taste of tea out of a thermos! "And a nice tartan blanket to throw over my knees | |||
"Trip to the sea side... but never actually leave your car, just park along the front and drink tea out of a thermos flask ... romantic But, I don't like the taste of tea out of a thermos!
And a nice tartan blanket to throw over my knees "Oohh I might need that... Stop me old arthritic knees from seizing up | |||
"Buy her a stair lift and a walk in bath..." Never could understand a walk in Bath. Surely the feet would be all wrinkled by the time the knees would get warm. | |||
"Horlicks or Ovaltine Works every time "Well in that case I have both | |||
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"I didn't mean to offend with my answer..I always treat every woman the same regardless of age, always polite and never pushy" I wouldn't apologise mate, some idiots on here get 'offended' at the slightest thing. Just goes to show how weak they are if an honest answer offends them. | |||
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"I've always wanted to try "Treat her the same as you would any Lady. | |||
"Trip to the sea side... but never actually leave your car, just park along the front and drink tea out of a thermos flask ... romantic But, I don't like the taste of tea out of a thermos! "Ok what about a coach trip to Keswick pencil museum and their in house tea rooms for a scone and a pot of homemade jam.... | |||
"Buy her a stair lift and a walk in bath..." | |||
"It's good to have a laugh and not take things to seriously. But was the guy who asked the original question looking for advice or to be ridiculed. I am sitting on the fence on this. A mature woman is like any other woman. Needs and should be treated with respect. " That's the irony ...and I think the reason he's getting lots of sarcastic suggestions....what even constitutes a mature woman and why would you treat a more mature woman any different | |||
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I'd suggest when it comes to swinging, be respectful, read their profile (seems crazy to have to point that out, but by the number of single men that message us it's patently obvious most don't), take on board what they want and what they're looking for, read their verifications and the verifications they've left for others. In other words, do your homework, if nothing else it will make people feel like you're interested in them and not just their body, a point many single men miss.
The first couple I met when swinging were much older, the husband was very much the gate keeper, and if people didn't come across genuine and sincere they were told to get lost sharpish. Great first meet, great intro to swinging and a memory I'm happy to have. | |||
"I dated a woman 21 years older than me for about 8 months, she was in her late 60s and still a fitness instructor, absolutely lovely woman. How did I seduce her, with a little more tact maybe, but still wooed her like any other woman, I disnr rush her or throw the lips on at the first opportunity, however we had really good sex for a while and then I moved away with work, which killed it off. Ok I'm no youngster myself, I'm passing through middle age like a comet through the night sky, but being with an older woman, even at my age was still a thrill, I loved being a middle aged toy boy
I'd suggest when it comes to swinging, be respectful, read their profile (seems crazy to have to point that out, but by the number of single men that message us it's patently obvious most don't), take on board what they want and what they're looking for, read their verifications and the verifications they've left for others. In other words, do your homework, if nothing else it will make people feel like you're interested in them and not just their body, a point many single men miss.
The first couple I met when swinging were much older, the husband was very much the gate keeper, and if people didn't come across genuine and sincere they were told to get lost sharpish. Great first meet, great intro to swinging and a memory I'm happy to have." | |||
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"I've always wanted to try "Read their profiles. Don't assume | |||
"Trip to the sea side... but never actually leave your car, just park along the front and drink tea out of a thermos flask ... romantic But, I don't like the taste of tea out of a thermos!
Ok what about a coach trip to Keswick pencil museum and their in house tea rooms for a scone and a pot of homemade jam...."Oohh I'm in!!! | |||
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" Just don't wipe your dick on the curtains." That's ruined my future prospects then ?? | |||
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"Some tea and scones would be a good social meet for me "No probs.. last count Dave the driver said there where 8 spaces left... | |||
"Some tea and scones would be a good social meet for me
No probs.. last count Dave the driver said there where 8 spaces left..."I'm in | |||
"Trip to the sea side... but never actually leave your car, just park along the front and drink tea out of a thermos flask ... romantic But, I don't like the taste of tea out of a thermos!
Ok what about a coach trip to Keswick pencil museum and their in house tea rooms for a scone and a pot of homemade jam....
Oohh I'm in!!! "Excellent ...all booked...bring your pack a mac as it could rain | |||
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"Murray mints or extra strong mints work for me "Always got a extra strong mint on me ?? | |||
"Quite depressing really being a young lad on the site myself and maybe five percent of the comments are actually helpful and answer the OPs question. I have wanted to try and have an older lady but not worked for me yet. I've heard people have more luck with an older lady in a nightclub, don't know if there's any accuracy to that, may be down to local trends I guess. " Ok your 20... so I guess any lady over say 35/40 would be mature to you ?...if so ...get yourself a smart haircut... some clean jeans...smother yourself from head to toe in lynx Africa...have a few quid in your pocket and get yourself in wheatherspoons/ Yates wine lodge/ or any pub/bar where the drinks are cheap tonight.. don't go too early ..say about 8.30...and if by 10.o'clock you haven't got at least 2 GILF's hanging off every word your saying and offering to suck you off for a Keebab...well then I'd quit the dating game and become a monk.... | |||
"I've always wanted to try "How to seduce a mature woman? Don’t call her mature | |||
"A lot of sarcasm, generalisation and lack of empathy going on here. What a shame that younger single men aren't shown a more welcoming side to the forum. " Its just light hearted fun. They're young so will get it. | |||
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"Quite depressing really being a young lad on the site myself and maybe five percent of the comments are actually helpful and answer the OPs question. I have wanted to try and have an older lady but not worked for me yet. I've heard people have more luck with an older lady in a nightclub, don't know if there's any accuracy to that, may be down to local trends I guess. Ok your 20... so I guess any lady over say 35/40 would be mature to you ?...if so ...get yourself a smart haircut... some clean jeans...smother yourself from head to toe in lynx Africa...have a few quid in your pocket and get yourself in wheatherspoons/ Yates wine lodge/ or any pub/bar where the drinks are cheap tonight.. don't go too early ..say about 8.30...and if by 10.o'clock you haven't got at least 2 GILF's hanging off every word your saying and offering to suck you off for a Keebab...well then I'd quit the dating game and become a monk.... " That seems a plan and a half, will have to give that a try and feedback to you. I dress quite smart anyway as had a good upbringing and my day job is a structural engineer so I have to be suited and booted a lot lmao. Thankyou O | |||
"We're meeting a man younger than our power age limit soon. He approached us, spoke to us in the same way he spoke to every one else and piqued our interest. Critically he has the same interests as us." Lucky guy! Hmm so are you daying that having similar interests may fo the trick?  Haha I need to get myself some interests... | |||
"Offer to pay for a nice South facing plot of land and a promise of the finest granite money can buy " Pmsl.. love it.. Harry | |||
"Quite depressing really being a young lad on the site myself and maybe five percent of the comments are actually helpful and answer the OPs question. I have wanted to try and have an older lady but not worked for me yet. I've heard people have more luck with an older lady in a nightclub, don't know if there's any accuracy to that, may be down to local trends I guess. " Just curious about why you 'want' an older lady? What are you wanting or expecting? | |||
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"We're meeting a man younger than our power age limit soon. He approached us, spoke to us in the same way he spoke to every one else and piqued our interest. Critically he has the same interests as us. Lucky guy! Hmm so are you daying that having similar interests may fo the trick? Haha I need to get myself some interests... "Lol. Similar interests, the possibility that we might learn something from him he we like him. There's no trick | |||
"I've always wanted to try "Beat me on the bottom with a women's weekly Tee | |||
"Quite depressing really being a young lad on the site myself and maybe five percent of the comments are actually helpful and answer the OPs question. I have wanted to try and have an older lady but not worked for me yet. I've heard people have more luck with an older lady in a nightclub, don't know if there's any accuracy to that, may be down to local trends I guess. Ok your 20... so I guess any lady over say 35/40 would be mature to you ?...if so ...get yourself a smart haircut... some clean jeans...smother yourself from head to toe in lynx Africa...have a few quid in your pocket and get yourself in wheatherspoons/ Yates wine lodge/ or any pub/bar where the drinks are cheap tonight.. don't go too early ..say about 8.30...and if by 10.o'clock you haven't got at least 2 GILF's hanging off every word your saying and offering to suck you off for a Keebab...well then I'd quit the dating game and become a monk.... That seems a plan and a half, will have to give that a try and feedback to you. I dress quite smart anyway as had a good upbringing and my day job is a structural engineer so I have to be suited and booted a lot lmao. Thankyou O " Do not go into weatherspoons in a suit...you will get glassed as people will think your a copper or work for the social....stay safe and good luck | |||
 telling me things you think I want to hear, that are impossible for you to know or assuming you know what I would want would be an instant and definite "no thanks".
At the end of the day the goal for men on this site is sex. They can protest all you like but ultimately they want a shag.
Thing is I know what I want and would make you work harder for what you want. I will only engage when I actually feel like it and not just because you wanted it.
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"A lot of sarcasm, generalisation and lack of empathy going on here. What a shame that younger single men aren't shown a more welcoming side to the forum. " | |||
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"I didn't mean to offend with my answer..I always treat every woman the same regardless of age, always polite and never pushy" I think there's the op's answer tred on egg shell's as some get a bit 'aggy' with age | |||
"mature women are just women who got old. The best way to get involved with a mature woman is to talk to them and find out what makes them tick " | |||
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"Not quite sure what to make of these forums ....people obviously dont take them Serious with some of these answers lol" ‘Some’ of the posts don’t warrant a serious answer in our humble opinion lol | |||
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"I've always wanted to try "a gift of fixadent they love it | |||
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"Send them a dick pic & a "how you doing?" message. That always works " So that's where I've been going wrong? | |||
"With a bag of worthers "You might want to try Werthers but they are better known as Pe@do sweets | |||
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"I've always wanted to try "Start by the lessons around drinking gorgeous aged wine. Make sure the laying down is good.... (Your turn) | |||
"I've always wanted to try
Start by the lessons around drinking gorgeous aged wine.
Make sure the laying down is good....
(Your turn) "Okay I’ll keep going, savour her, in many way, let you tongue explore what she has to offer. | |||
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