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Socials, Are they worth it?
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Time is precious to us and we have had a number of full on meets which have been great. We’ve been let down too, sat in a hotel wearing stockings and nobody to play with which left me feeling shit.
Is a ‘social’ a good bridge to a meet?
Is it still exciting?
Don’t you just want to rip each others clothes off?
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Yes we enjoy socials,
Cheaper than a hotel room
Can see if the face matches their pics
Zero stress/pressure
Can always play straight after a social if everyone is inclined to take it further. Mrs dresses up under her clothes just in case..... |
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Have attended social events with a partner and solo... generally have found them to be a great way to break the ice and meet others in an environment where there are no expectations.
Saying that, you do have very specific 'desires' and looking at your [gorgeous] photographs i'm amazing anyone would let you down.
Perhaps chat more and/or cam with prospective guys before committing to a hotel maybe a better route?
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over a year ago
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We always go for a social first, to make sure there is a chemistry and that we are all on the same page. Normally happy to play straight after if we all click.
It's a good way to take the pressure off and enjoy a bit of banter first. |
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"Have attended social events with a partner and solo... generally have found them to be a great way to break the ice and meet others in an environment where there are no expectations.
Saying that, you do have very specific 'desires' and looking at your [gorgeous] photographs i'm amazing anyone would let you down.
Perhaps chat more and/or cam with prospective guys before committing to a hotel maybe a better route?
Mrs classy slut: thanks and thanks for the compliments babe
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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago
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We always meet for a social first. You're sat there all dressed up, chatting and flirting. Everything is going well and you're dying to rip each others clothes off but can't. It's like a big tease. Makes the next meet, when you meet to play amazing because there has been such a big build up!
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Thought the social was the talking bit before you start fucking?!......Yeah haven’t really got time to go out for chatting, may as well just get on with it if you at all click |
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"We always meet for a social first. You're sat there all dressed up, chatting and flirting. Everything is going well and you're dying to rip each others clothes off but can't. It's like a big tease. Makes the next meet, when you meet to play amazing because there has been such a big build up!
Gem"
MrsClassySlut: yes that sounds great |
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over a year ago
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We think so yes.
We've had quite a few socials which have led to playing s little further down the line.
We've also had socials that haven't. We have socials because we've have played on first meet and theres been no spark. Also we think it helps to settle things before the next stage x |
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We have had socials before meets too, its nice to have a few drinks with the couple and all have a good chat together and all ours have ended up with having fun with the couples afterwards too  |
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"My bike related socials have been good fun.. And made some new friends... Play in the future is a bonus..but not expected..."
I like the idea of bike related socials. Is it strictly ladies or can men pop along? |
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"Thanks all.
Makes me think they are a good idea.
I suppose it must still get your heart racing, nervous tension etc"
I find there is still excitement with a social and I never assume I will play ever even on a so called play meet. I just go with the flow. |
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When I was active on here I always tried to avoid socials if I could as it was hard enough trying to arrange a meet anyway. But the way we did it was to usually meet at mine for a glass of wine and chat and if all agreed it would progress to the bedroom (or lounge rug!). This would mainly be couples though so safety wasn’t an issue. I did meet a couple of ladies in a neutral venue close to mine with a view to play on the same night if all went well. |
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We always have a social people can look and chat different in the flesh ,usual we have to travel about an hour for a social so if its someone we have video chatted with too we have moved onto the bedroom after in some cases ,i usually dress up underneath just in case ..   |
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"We always have a social people can look and chat different in the flesh ,usual we have to travel about an hour for a social so if its someone we have video chatted with too we have moved onto the bedroom after in some cases ,i usually dress up underneath just in case .. "
Always best to dress up just in case ! |
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a social is part of the build up you get to meet the guy , and the guy gets to meet you, there is the way you all get on is there an attraction, does the conversation flow , does the wife and guy flirt, yes very important part for us |
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"Time is precious to us and we have had a number of full on meets which have been great. We’ve been let down too, sat in a hotel wearing stockings and nobody to play with which left me feeling shit.
Is a ‘social’ a good bridge to a meet?
Is it still exciting?
Don’t you just want to rip each others clothes off?
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Its a safe option, especially if you're single! |
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"Try out something like ours maybe.
Strictly social until 18:00 then for club entrance, folk can stay and enjoy the facilities naked should they want to.
T."
Sounds a great concept. Shame I am not close to there. |
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I always have a social meet 1st. There's people who you talk to for weeks on here and you think that they are a perfect match for you. But when you meet them for a social they are nothing what you thought they were. Can't beat a good social especially when you click with whoever your meeting  |
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"Try out something like ours maybe.
Strictly social until 18:00 then for club entrance, folk can stay and enjoy the facilities naked should they want to.
T."
This social; highly recommended.
And there's cake.
Great people.
Cake.
Fantastic venue.
Cake.
Friendly and helpful management team.
Did I mention there's cake? |
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As I met at home and don't play "nice" I had to feel comfortable with who I invited home. I also had to want to play with them.
Meeting for a social separated the wheat from the chaff for me: dodged many a bullet! |
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