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"Anyone who judges you harshly for changing your plans is not worth your time. That's a lovely thing you are doing and I would do the exact same thing x" I just got the usual get lost like I made it up. Now I feel like crap for not meeting her. I told her as son as i found out about my friend | |||
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"It doesn't. You did the right thing. Your ill friend may not be there to talk to for very long. Sadly, there is an inexhaustible supply of self-regarding (often for so little discernible reason..) idiots to give you a hard time for not complying with their idea of what you should do, when and how. " Thank you for that she is only 27 with two kids I was and still am devastated. | |||
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"Anyone who judges you harshly for changing your plans is not worth your time. That's a lovely thing you are doing and I would do the exact same thing x I just got the usual get lost like I made it up. Now I feel like crap for not meeting her. I told her as son as i found out about my friend " In my opinion that was a meet worth avoiding. I’ve been that jealous silly single female on fab. Not nice or clever. Can’t say I would of gotten funny over this though. It’s no reflection on you. Only her. I think it’s actually a great quality you have. Should be encouraged and given a “ well done” | |||
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"Sorry to hear about your friend xx" Thank you it's so sad I was just a little taken aback by the reaction. Now I feel bad for not going to the.meet | |||
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"Anyone that cannot understand your reasons are no way worth your time, they must have a seriously selfish and uncaring attitude. You are doing the right thing 100% by supporting your friend, that is more important than a bunch of selfish swingers " | |||
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"It doesn't. You did the right thing. Your ill friend may not be there to talk to for very long. Sadly, there is an inexhaustible supply of self-regarding (often for so little discernible reason..) idiots to give you a hard time for not complying with their idea of what you should do, when and how. Thank you for that she is only 27 with two kids I was and still am devastated. " I lost my mum to cancer, she was just 46. Such a devastating disease. But don’t give up! Who knows. There’s always hope OP | |||
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"Anyone who judges you harshly for changing your plans is not worth your time. That's a lovely thing you are doing and I would do the exact same thing x I just got the usual get lost like I made it up. Now I feel like crap for not meeting her. I told her as son as i found out about my friend " Do you think she didn't believe you and thought it may just be an excuse? | |||
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"Couldn't you manage both " A lot of men on here bottle when it comes to a meet some enjoy the thrill of the chase but when it comes to the time to talk the talk and walk the walk they run and make excuses I'm not saying that's what you did but couldn't you have met with your friend before or after the meet ? I'm sure your friend would not have minded | |||
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"Anyone who judges you harshly for changing your plans is not worth your time. That's a lovely thing you are doing and I would do the exact same thing x I just got the usual get lost like I made it up. Now I feel like crap for not meeting her. I told her as son as i found out about my friend " Hi you do what you think is right at the time, you need to thank the time wasters/ messers of fab probably for your meets thoughts that you could be fibbing about why you cancelled hopefully your meet will re think and reschedule if not her loss Good luck OP | |||
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"Anyone who judges you harshly for changing your plans is not worth your time. That's a lovely thing you are doing and I would do the exact same thing x I just got the usual get lost like I made it up. Now I feel like crap for not meeting her. I told her as son as i found out about my friend Do you think she didn't believe you and thought it may just be an excuse?" Its not something you make up. It's been a hell.of a year. Parents being.poorly and now this. I would rather do the right thing though | |||
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"Anyone who judges you harshly for changing your plans is not worth your time. That's a lovely thing you are doing and I would do the exact same thing x I just got the usual get lost like I made it up. Now I feel like crap for not meeting her. I told her as son as i found out about my friend Do you think she didn't believe you and thought it may just be an excuse? Its not something you make up. It's been a hell.of a year. Parents being.poorly and now this. I would rather do the right thing though " It may not be something a normal person makes up,but if you read the stuff on here some come up with some right whoppers. | |||
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"Then they're not worth your time. Your friend however is very much worth your time. Sorry to hear. Cancer is a cruel cruel soab." She is only 26 I wouldnt make an excuse like that up. | |||
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"Couldn't you manage both A lot of men on here bottle when it comes to a meet some enjoy the thrill of the chase but when it comes to the time to talk the talk and walk the walk they run and make excuses I'm not saying that's what you did but couldn't you have met with your friend before or after the meet ? I'm sure your friend would not have minded " I was.with her as soon as I heard when.i was there I coukdnr just leave she was in a state. She has battled with his for a long time and at 256 with two kids. I offered to reschedule the meet but got Not Interested | |||
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"Couldn't you manage both " Really? I doubt that anyone would be in the mood after visiting a sick friend | |||
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"You never know. You might get a sympathy fuck from this thread " Right now.that is the last.thing on my mind | |||
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"Couldn't you manage both Really? I doubt that anyone would be in the mood after visiting a sick friend" I would not have been good company | |||
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"Anyone who judges you harshly for changing your plans is not worth your time. That's a lovely thing you are doing and I would do the exact same thing x" Am with Red OP on what she says | |||
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"I think the choice you made makes you a very attractive guy x" Not attractive enough to give mr benefit of the doubt. I dont regret it though | |||
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"You never know. You might get a sympathy fuck from this thread Right now.that is the last.thing on my mind" And being on fab I’d imagine. You’re friend is in my thoughts | |||
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"A friend I care about has after dealing with glandular cancer has now been diagnosed with stage 2 skin cancer. I cancelled.a meet to go and see her I explained why and tried to reschedule. I will also spend New Years eve and have to cancel.a party I was going to. Why dies that now make me swingers enemy number one for trying to do the right thing?" People need to be accommodating Yes, life outside here we all have Meets cancelled because of you spending time with your friend who has stage 2 cancer.. I gave up my job to care for my ex with stage 2 throat cancer | |||
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"I think the choice you made makes you a very attractive guy x Not attractive enough to give mr benefit of the doubt. I dont regret it though " Unless it becames a habbit because last person I saw off here kept making excuses for meeting just saying | |||
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" She is only 26 I wouldnt make an excuse like that up. " You said before she is 27. | |||
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"Couldn't you manage both A lot of men on here bottle when it comes to a meet some enjoy the thrill of the chase but when it comes to the time to talk the talk and walk the walk they run and make excuses I'm not saying that's what you did but couldn't you have met with your friend before or after the meet ? I'm sure your friend would not have minded I was.with her as soon as I heard when.i was there I coukdnr just leave she was in a state. She has battled with his for a long time and at 256 with two kids. I offered to reschedule the meet but got Not Interested " 256? | |||
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"Anyone who judges you harshly for changing your plans is not worth your time. That's a lovely thing you are doing and I would do the exact same thing x I just got the usual get lost like I made it up. Now I feel like crap for not meeting her. I told her as son as i found out about my friend Do you think she didn't believe you and thought it may just be an excuse?" Plenty of players on here that's for sure as well as genuine people | |||
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"Is it a big deal in the grand scheme of things? Fab meets get cancelled, people get blocked, who really cares if they were right or wrong to do so? I would be more focused on my friend, a block on fab wouldn't even register on my radar. " It was.my first meet.in.a.while | |||
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"I think the choice you made makes you a very attractive guy x Not attractive enough to give mr benefit of the doubt. I dont regret it though " For what you say your friend is going through, your troubles on here are insignificant so I am surprised you are letting it bother you so much to start a thread about it | |||
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"Is it a big deal in the grand scheme of things? Fab meets get cancelled, people get blocked, who really cares if they were right or wrong to do so? I would be more focused on my friend, a block on fab wouldn't even register on my radar. " | |||
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"I think the choice you made makes you a very attractive guy x Not attractive enough to give mr benefit of the doubt. I dont regret it though For what you say your friend is going through, your troubles on here are insignificant so I am surprised you are letting it bother you so much to start a thread about it " Yes but maybe there’s a hope the woman in question will have read it? | |||
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"A friend I care about has after dealing with glandular cancer has now been diagnosed with stage 2 skin cancer. I cancelled.a meet to go and see her I explained why and tried to reschedule. I will also spend New Years eve and have to cancel.a party I was going to. Why dies that now make me swingers enemy number one for trying to do the right thing?" It doesn't at all you acted like a decent bloke , I wouldn't let it bother you if a meet can't accept that I'd say it's a meet worth not having | |||
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"Anyone who judges you harshly for changing your plans is not worth your time. That's a lovely thing you are doing and I would do the exact same thing x I just got the usual get lost like I made it up. Now I feel like crap for not meeting her. I told her as son as i found out about my friend " Sadly many do make up heartbreaking excuses. I had someone tell me his granddad had died the night before and he was up all night making arrangements. The more he told me, the more I knew it was made up. | |||
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"Anyone who judges you harshly for changing your plans is not worth your time. That's a lovely thing you are doing and I would do the exact same thing x I just got the usual get lost like I made it up. Now I feel like crap for not meeting her. I told her as son as i found out about my friend Sadly many do make up heartbreaking excuses. I had someone tell me his granddad had died the night before and he was up all night making arrangements. The more he told me, the more I knew it was made up. " in my case I tried to reschedule the meet for another time So | |||
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"Anyone who judges you harshly for changing your plans is not worth your time. That's a lovely thing you are doing and I would do the exact same thing x I just got the usual get lost like I made it up. Now I feel like crap for not meeting her. I told her as son as i found out about my friend Sadly many do make up heartbreaking excuses. I had someone tell me his granddad had died the night before and he was up all night making arrangements. The more he told me, the more I knew it was made up. " Yep someone I knew lost a father AND a grandfather. A simple ‘I’ve changed my mind’ would have sufficed. | |||
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"Anyone who judges you harshly for changing your plans is not worth your time. That's a lovely thing you are doing and I would do the exact same thing x I just got the usual get lost like I made it up. Now I feel like crap for not meeting her. I told her as son as i found out about my friend " , Your friend is far more important | |||
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"I have stage two cancer with no cure " I hope you're receiving the best care for your cancer and that stage 2 lasts a long time with all symptoms eased. | |||
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"Anyone who judges you harshly for changing your plans is not worth your time. That's a lovely thing you are doing and I would do the exact same thing x I just got the usual get lost like I made it up. Now I feel like crap for not meeting her. I told her as son as i found out about my friend Sadly many do make up heartbreaking excuses. I had someone tell me his granddad had died the night before and he was up all night making arrangements. The more he told me, the more I knew it was made up. in my case I tried to reschedule the meet for another time So " I am just giving an example as to why the woman may be cynical. Don't worry about it and follow your heart. | |||
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"I have stage two cancer with no cure I hope you're receiving the best care for your cancer and that stage 2 lasts a long time with all symptoms eased. " , I hope so too a family member was diagnosed stage 4 and lived a full life for another 7 years | |||
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"Sorry to hear about your friend xx Thank you it's so sad I was just a little taken aback by the reaction. Now I feel bad for not going to the.meet " Don't, you did absolutely the right thing, and I suspect best everybody here would have since exactly the same. I've lost friends at a young age and the last thing on my mind would have been shagging. | |||
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"A friend I care about has after dealing with glandular cancer has now been diagnosed with stage 2 skin cancer. I cancelled.a meet to go and see her I explained why and tried to reschedule. I will also spend New Years eve and have to cancel.a party I was going to. Why dies that now make me swingers enemy number one for trying to do the right thing?" Good on you big man there should be more people like you and forget about everybody and anything else | |||
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"No disrespect, but why feel you need to Post this? Explain to your potential meet but there is no need to share your news on Fab x" where would you talk about your fab problems if you don't have anyone else to talk to about your fab problems? | |||
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"No disrespect, but why feel you need to Post this? Explain to your potential meet but there is no need to share your news on Fab x where would you talk about your fab problems if you don't have anyone else to talk to about your fab problems? " Just being Cynical as I’m sure others are | |||
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"No disrespect, but why feel you need to Post this? Explain to your potential meet but there is no need to share your news on Fab x" , Why not? | |||
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"Couldn't you manage both A lot of men on here bottle when it comes to a meet some enjoy the thrill of the chase but when it comes to the time to talk the talk and walk the walk they run and make excuses I'm not saying that's what you did but couldn't you have met with your friend before or after the meet ? I'm sure your friend would not have minded I was.with her as soon as I heard when.i was there I coukdnr just leave she was in a state. She has battled with his for a long time and at 256 with two kids. I offered to reschedule the meet but got Not Interested " That's fair enough did you give her plenty of warning ? If you didn't maybe that's the main reason for the hissy fit and block a lot of men are so caught up in themselves they forget how much time it takes us wemon to get ready lol .. a man its shower shot on pair of nice trousers and shirt,for wemon its mind field of choosing clothes make up and doing hair I would also get very frustrated to be let down at the last minute after spending hours getting ready xx just a thought xx | |||
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"Couldn't you manage both A lot of men on here bottle when it comes to a meet some enjoy the thrill of the chase but when it comes to the time to talk the talk and walk the walk they run and make excuses I'm not saying that's what you did but couldn't you have met with your friend before or after the meet ? I'm sure your friend would not have minded I was.with her as soon as I heard when.i was there I coukdnr just leave she was in a state. She has battled with his for a long time and at 256 with two kids. I offered to reschedule the meet but got Not Interested That's fair enough did you give her plenty of warning ? If you didn't maybe that's the main reason for the hissy fit and block a lot of men are so caught up in themselves they forget how much time it takes us wemon to get ready lol .. a man its shower shot on pair of nice trousers and shirt,for wemon its mind field of choosing clothes make up and doing hair I would also get very frustrated to be let down at the last minute after spending hours getting ready xx just a thought xx" I told her as soon as I heard which so it was not a last min thing. I also immediately tried to reschedule another day | |||
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"Couldn't you manage both A lot of men on here bottle when it comes to a meet some enjoy the thrill of the chase but when it comes to the time to talk the talk and walk the walk they run and make excuses I'm not saying that's what you did but couldn't you have met with your friend before or after the meet ? I'm sure your friend would not have minded I was.with her as soon as I heard when.i was there I coukdnr just leave she was in a state. She has battled with his for a long time and at 256 with two kids. I offered to reschedule the meet but got Not Interested That's fair enough did you give her plenty of warning ? If you didn't maybe that's the main reason for the hissy fit and block a lot of men are so caught up in themselves they forget how much time it takes us wemon to get ready lol .. a man its shower shot on pair of nice trousers and shirt,for wemon its mind field of choosing clothes make up and doing hair I would also get very frustrated to be let down at the last minute after spending hours getting ready xx just a thought xx I told her as soon as I heard which so it was not a last min thing. I also immediately tried to reschedule another day" How is your friend? | |||
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"I was with my friend from.early afternoon as soon as I heard I ended up staying well.iver the meet.time.so no.way was I going to.make it. I.offerd to reschedule to today but got a hissy fit. " I thought this meant you were still with your friend when you should have been at the meet | |||
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"Unfortunately OP the real blame has to lie with the people that make up last minute excuses because their bottle has gone.It makes cynics of us all " This ^^^ your new sounds terrible and you are doing the right thing for everyone ... bless you and hope it has a positive outcome x To all that posted negatively above, I'm sure you have also posted comments on the threads when a poster has been lied to ... maybe the OP is not the first person that has cancelled on her because of a sick friend? Perhaps he is the only genuine one? Fabland isn't the same as life unfortunately | |||
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"I was with my friend from.early afternoon as soon as I heard I ended up staying well.iver the meet.time.so no.way was I going to.make it. I.offerd to reschedule to today but got a hissy fit. " So it was on the actual day you were meant to be meeting that you found this out, and cancelled. I would think it was an excuse too I'm afraid, I would be sympathetic in my response to you, but I wouldn't be rescheduling to meet you again either. Maybe I'm just overly cynical. | |||
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"I was with my friend from.early afternoon as soon as I heard I ended up staying well.iver the meet.time.so no.way was I going to.make it. I.offerd to reschedule to today but got a hissy fit. So it was on the actual day you were meant to be meeting that you found this out, and cancelled. I would think it was an excuse too I'm afraid, I would be sympathetic in my response to you, but I wouldn't be rescheduling to meet you again either. Maybe I'm just overly cynical. " Yes I agree and sorry but something dont add up you said you were with her well over meet time so knew you wouldn't make it yet said you gave her plenty of warning.... holes are appearing in your story ... | |||
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"You never know. You might get a sympathy fuck from this thread " What a stupid thing to say, Jess | |||
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"Cancelling a meet with a Fem & Cancelling going to a Party on NYE. In real terms, how many guys get this lucky in the space of a week. Do the Maths Let’s get real people. It don’t add up. Read between the lines. " Not everyone takes this shit as serious as your pair. Log off | |||
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"It doesn't. You did the right thing. Your ill friend may not be there to talk to for very long. Sadly, there is an inexhaustible supply of self-regarding (often for so little discernible reason..) idiots to give you a hard time for not complying with their idea of what you should do, when and how. Thank you for that she is only 27 with two kids I was and still am devastated. " So sorry to hear about your friend. Ignore the person being rude re cancelled meet close friends and family come first | |||
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"It doesn't. You did the right thing. Your ill friend may not be there to talk to for very long. Sadly, there is an inexhaustible supply of self-regarding (often for so little discernible reason..) idiots to give you a hard time for not complying with their idea of what you should do, when and how. Thank you for that she is only 27 with two kids I was and still am devastated. So sorry to hear about your friend. Ignore the person being rude re cancelled meet close friends and family come first" , Well said | |||
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