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What is the general opinion on verifying someone more than once?
I've seen some where they are verified by the same person (among others) three or four times.
It seems to be treated more like a review system than a verification. A trip advisor of swingers if you will.
I'm just not sure I see the point in it unless something drastic had changed about someone, like they've grown an extra head, and now give amazing double bliwjobs all on their own. |
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We have had more than one veri from one guy we see regular ,mainly as each meet is different as we and i are getting more relaxed and confident with each other ,so its not the same every time we meets ,its evolving every time .. |
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"What is the general opinion on verifying someone more than once?
I've seen some where they are verified by the same person (among others) three or four times.
It seems to be treated more like a review system than a verification. A trip advisor of swingers if you will.
I'm just not sure I see the point in it unless something drastic had changed about someone, like they've grown an extra head, and now give amazing double bliwjobs all on their own."
Off on a tangent, we told a vanilla friend about verifying people and he coined the phrase “whipadvisor”
I lol’d |
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"What is the general opinion on verifying someone more than once?
I've seen some where they are verified by the same person (among others) three or four times.
It seems to be treated more like a review system than a verification. A trip advisor of swingers if you will.
I'm just not sure I see the point in it unless something drastic had changed about someone, like they've grown an extra head, and now give amazing double bliwjobs all on their own.
Off on a tangent, we told a vanilla friend about verifying people and he coined the phrase “whipadvisor”
I lol’d"
I tried to think of something witty to use, but words failed me. |
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"Usually with I wish this one was mine 
It’s like a cat marking its territory  "
Yeah those ones... Not so good.
Mine are more like, good to see this great guy again, enjoyed picking up where we left off. |
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"We have had more than one veri from one guy we see regular ,mainly as each meet is different as we and i are getting more relaxed and confident with each other ,so its not the same every time we meets ,its evolving every time .."
I get this, but surely it can end up putting people off. Because you end up with loads of veris and people start to assume things about you without actually reading them? |
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"How people use the verification system is an individual choice, we see them as a thank you note for a nice time and will repeat veri x"
Admitted I won't veri every time though.
I like seeing them; it shows that over time they didn't become a dick  |
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"We have had more than one veri from one guy we see regular ,mainly as each meet is different as we and i are getting more relaxed and confident with each other ,so its not the same every time we meets ,its evolving every time ..
I get this, but surely it can end up putting people off. Because you end up with loads of veris and people start to assume things about you without actually reading them?"
You don't have to show all your veris, or your summary.
But if anyone wants to judge the number of veris I have, that's a filter in itself. I swing, on a swinging site. Oh no! |
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"What is the general opinion on verifying someone more than once?
I've seen some where they are verified by the same person (among others) three or four times.
It seems to be treated more like a review system than a verification. A trip advisor of swingers if you will.
I'm just not sure I see the point in it unless something drastic had changed about someone, like they've grown an extra head, and now give amazing double bliwjobs all on their own.
Off on a tangent, we told a vanilla friend about verifying people and he coined the phrase “whipadvisor”
I lol’d
I tried to think of something witty to use, but words failed me. "
Stripadvisor? |
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"We have had more than one veri from one guy we see regular ,mainly as each meet is different as we and i are getting more relaxed and confident with each other ,so its not the same every time we meets ,its evolving every time ..
I get this, but surely it can end up putting people off. Because you end up with loads of veris and people start to assume things about you without actually reading them?"
Surely that's their problem isn't it? |
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"We have had more than one veri from one guy we see regular ,mainly as each meet is different as we and i are getting more relaxed and confident with each other ,so its not the same every time we meets ,its evolving every time ..
I get this, but surely it can end up putting people off. Because you end up with loads of veris and people start to assume things about you without actually reading them?
You don't have to show all your veris, or your summary.
But if anyone wants to judge the number of veris I have, that's a filter in itself. I swing, on a swinging site. Oh no! "
Fair enough. I didn't think of it that way. It probably does help filter out some of the judgemental people |
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"What is the general opinion on verifying someone more than once?
I've seen some where they are verified by the same person (among others) three or four times.
It seems to be treated more like a review system than a verification. A trip advisor of swingers if you will.
I'm just not sure I see the point in it unless something drastic had changed about someone, like they've grown an extra head, and now give amazing double bliwjobs all on their own.
Off on a tangent, we told a vanilla friend about verifying people and he coined the phrase “whipadvisor”
I lol’d
I tried to think of something witty to use, but words failed me.
Stripadvisor? "
I like that. Sounds more like something for exotica dancers though.
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"What is the general opinion on verifying someone more than once?
I've seen some where they are verified by the same person (among others) three or four times.
It seems to be treated more like a review system than a verification. A trip advisor of swingers if you will.
I'm just not sure I see the point in it unless something drastic had changed about someone, like they've grown an extra head, and now give amazing double bliwjobs all on their own.
Off on a tangent, we told a vanilla friend about verifying people and he coined the phrase “whipadvisor”
I lol’d
I tried to think of something witty to use, but words failed me.
Stripadvisor? "
Oh no, I liked "Whipadvisor" now I am torn I like both I think we may need a Christmas poll |
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"We have had more than one veri from one guy we see regular ,mainly as each meet is different as we and i are getting more relaxed and confident with each other ,so its not the same every time we meets ,its evolving every time ..
I get this, but surely it can end up putting people off. Because you end up with loads of veris and people start to assume things about you without actually reading them?
You don't have to show all your veris, or your summary.
But if anyone wants to judge the number of veris I have, that's a filter in itself. I swing, on a swinging site. Oh no! "
This as if we are seeing the same person it shows we are not shagging any Tom ,Dick or Harry either ..  |
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over a year ago
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If im seeing someone regularly i don't tell anyone that's between us and one veri will do. If i haven't seen them for a few months or longer then i may veri again but im a very private person and don't feel the need to shout about who ive met |
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Some people are obsessed with verifications and numbers. Its sad really but if they want to be verified multiple times its between them and who is giving them. |
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"What is the general opinion on verifying someone more than once?
I've seen some where they are verified by the same person (among others) three or four times.
It seems to be treated more like a review system than a verification. A trip advisor of swingers if you will.
I'm just not sure I see the point in it unless something drastic had changed about someone, like they've grown an extra head, and now give amazing double bliwjobs all on their own."
It might also be a way of giving a public shout out to that person, expressing your appreciation for the particular meet? |
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"Some people are obsessed with verifications and numbers. Its sad really but if they want to be verified multiple times its between them and who is giving them. "
I have loads of verifications, not everyone I meet verifies if they did I'd need a 4 page profile but doesn't mean that people with lots of veris are "obsessed" with them or that it's "sad", maybe they just meet a lot of people? |
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I see a lot have people they knew on old profiles verify them. I used to be verified on an old profile by a couple of women but when came back didn't ask them to verify me again as wasn't bothered about meeting then.
Each to their own but with hindsight maybe I should have. |
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Most of my repeat veris are from organised socials.
But some are from people I have had more than one meet with - we will never show them on our profiles, so they're little notes to say what a good time we had, and reading back through them makes me smile |
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I would say 3 times to show that you are reliable and to show the other person is reliable and to establish that you and they are able to be regulars, if that's what a subsequent reader would like, but also to show that you are regular within reason, ie don't appear to have become exclusive with that person.
Does my head in when I see someone has x number of veris and the last 3,4,5 etc are from the same person a few days apart.
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The key rule is that you met them and validate their identity to the extent that others trust you.
Whether it's Barbara Cartland romance, erotica-naif, or the author doing self promotion, theres lots if variety. Take them with the mount of salt required, as it's possibly more than a pinch.
I'm interested in honesty and not wasting my time, not much more. |
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I was gonna make this exact post earlier.
I don’t actively do repeat veri’s but a lot do them for me and I admit I find it quite cringey. One lad NAGGED for a veri a fortnight ago and when I said no as I’d already done him one he got a monk on!!
I think some people’s goal is a higher number where as I just like to give and receive as a memory and a reference.
If I had my way it would be one veri each, one time but that’s just my opinion x |
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"I was gonna make this exact post earlier.
I don’t actively do repeat veri’s but a lot do them for me and I admit I find it quite cringey. One lad NAGGED for a veri a fortnight ago and when I said no as I’d already done him one he got a monk on!!
I think some people’s goal is a higher number where as I just like to give and receive as a memory and a reference.
If I had my way it would be one veri each, one time but that’s just my opinion x"
I think it gives an indication of if someone is worth meeting again, plus the fun of the social side.
Not just d*unk one off sex.
Just an opinion. |
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"I was gonna make this exact post earlier.
I don’t actively do repeat veri’s but a lot do them for me and I admit I find it quite cringey. One lad NAGGED for a veri a fortnight ago and when I said no as I’d already done him one he got a monk on!!
I think some people’s goal is a higher number where as I just like to give and receive as a memory and a reference.
If I had my way it would be one veri each, one time but that’s just my opinion x"
I’d be proud of one verification from you  |
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"We have had more than one veri from one guy we see regular ,mainly as each meet is different as we and i are getting more relaxed and confident with each other ,so its not the same every time we meets ,its evolving every time ..
I get this, but surely it can end up putting people off. Because you end up with loads of veris and people start to assume things about you without actually reading them?
Surely that's their problem isn't it? "
Then id hope if seeing a veri from one person a few times then that person myst be doing something right to be asked back. And rather 10 veries from one than 10 veries from different folks . But at end of day . Who cares how many you have . Its the person you want to meet then take the time to know them . Not the verification on the profile ! |
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"We have had more than one veri from one guy we see regular ,mainly as each meet is different as we and i are getting more relaxed and confident with each other ,so its not the same every time we meets ,its evolving every time .."
Agreed |
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I think this is the whole thing isn’t it.
If you see it as a nice documentation of the evolution of a friendship/relationship or if you see it as lamppost pissing/number collecting.
I usually just see the latter. Once they’ve said you’re a nice person etc why do we need to know the gory details about folks’ bedrooms all the time? |
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