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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My wife is completely vanilla, but I want more from life. How can I turn her to the swinging/sharing life? I'd love to see her with another man or woman. Or do I leave her be and stay on here by myself? |
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You need to talk to her about. Don’t just blurt our I want us to be swingers and see you get fucked by other men as that will get a big no from her
But done properly and lots of talking asking questions etc she may be intrigued to find out more |
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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
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"You need to talk to her about. Don’t just blurt our I want us to be swingers and see you get fucked by other men as that will get a big no from her
But done properly and lots of talking asking questions etc she may be intrigued to find out more"
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How do you think she'd react to you asking if she'd like to try swinging? How's your sexual communication? Have you mentioned it before, it so what was her reaction?
I'd never recommend staying here without her knowledge unless you've tried communicating with her. Your post seems to imply that you don't want to give fab up whatever her reaction though so I'd say judge how you think she'll react and make your decision based on that. |
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"Google search mojo upgrade and fill it in together, you might be surprised."
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Yep good call.
Getting stuck in a sexual rut probably happens to most people. That's an easy way to open up conversation. |
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"My wife is completely vanilla, but I want more from life. How can I turn her to the swinging/sharing life? I'd love to see her with another man or woman. Or do I leave her be and stay on here by myself?"
You think she's vanilla and she probably thinks you're boring in bed
But here you are on fab, so what's to say she's not already on a similar site or having an affair. |
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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago
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You are having your fun this way, let her have her fun her way. Once she knows her relationship is open, who knows how she will choose to behave, but ...just as you are enjoying playing solo ... so might she. |
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My ex thought I was frigid... Communication is the key. Good communication. I would start with something more mainstream to be fair, suggest a movie night with fifty shades, that could open a dialogue up to other things |
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