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Attracting the wrong sex
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi everyone , I seem to be attracting a lot of male/bi attention. I’m flattered, but I am a straight guy so do I actually appeal to any women on this a thread ha!? If so let me know below. Thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone , I seem to be attracting a lot of male/bi attention. I’m flattered, but I am a straight guy so do I actually appeal to any women on this a thread ha!? If so let me know below. Thanks."
Turn the filters on and get them blocked then? |
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"Hi everyone , I seem to be attracting a lot of male/bi attention. I’m flattered, but I am a straight guy so do I actually appeal to any women on this a thread ha!? If so let me know below. Thanks."
Women often look at profiles in secret mode so you only see the guys. I use this fact to convince myself that hundreds of women are checking me out every day.
You can block men from messaging, if you want to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Women often look at profiles in secret mode so you only see the guys. I use this fact to convince myself that hundreds of women are checking me out every day.
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This made me laugh enough to have a look. Now I'm dying to see you dance like a boss 
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I thought about blocking men.
But if I had I wouldn't have got a message from a bloke who wanted to watch me fuck his wife.
I'm quite sure this isn't the norm.
A polite No thank you works for me if they're asking for things you're not into. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ll look at using the block button thanks. At least a few women find me attractive on this thread, shame my inbox isn’t the same haha! Is there anything wrong on my profile of so message me n let me know. Cheers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ll look at using the block button thanks. At least a few women find me attractive on this thread, shame my inbox isn’t the same haha! Is there anything wrong on my profile of so message me n let me know. Cheers "
It’s not the block button. It’s the message filter in the ‘account’ tab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought too about filtering but I've learned a lot from not doing so, mainly how not to send openers..but I don't want to rule out chatting to a decent personality whatever gender.
I definitely take it a compliment when I get them...and move on. |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone , I seem to be attracting a lot of male/bi attention. I’m flattered, but I am a straight guy so do I actually appeal to any women on this a thread ha!? If so let me know below. Thanks."
There probably lots of ladies that are attracted to you, but they don't like to admit it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I thought too about filtering but I've learned a lot from not doing so, mainly how not to send openers..but I don't want to rule out chatting to a decent personality whatever gender.
I definitely take it a compliment when I get them...and move on."
Yeah, I've had men message me just to offer words of advice, so I'm not gonna block a whole gender because a few guys can't read.
I'd view it as flattering if the messages said I was good looking or something, but when they're literally just ''in York for the night, wanna meet up?'', I just think ''really? that's how you're gonna try and get me into bed?''. It feels a bit wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi everyone , I seem to be attracting a lot of male/bi attention. I’m flattered, but I am a straight guy so do I actually appeal to any women on this a thread ha!? If so let me know below. Thanks.
There probably lots of ladies that are attracted to you, but they don't like to admit it."
To be fair, I wouldn't admit it if I was attracted to me either. How does that line from The Office US go? I wouldn't want to be a part of any club that would have me as a member. Same thing here. |
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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone , I seem to be attracting a lot of male/bi attention. I’m flattered, but I am a straight guy so do I actually appeal to any women on this a thread ha!? If so let me know below. Thanks."
The numbers dont lie unfortunately. I want bored one day so actually counted the fabs on one of my more popular pics. 1% ladies and 99% guys.  |
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Don’t worry about guy attention. Just take it as a compliment and move on 
