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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Met up with an old lover who’s now divorced and she has changed. Likes to be spanked, quite hard and whipped moderately, with a leather tawse.
She is so much hornier now than she was and says she is just more liberated andknows what she wants. Is this quite normal and how many other women like to be spanked etc. New to me but quite happy to oblige her as it quite turns me on as well. What do you all think? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Spanking has been a big part of my life for eleven years. My partner is an expert and used to work for Kane magazine spanking models for photo shoots and parties. I've crewed and attended numerous spanking events and been spanked by an awful lot of people, male and female including some of the best known professionals in the scene. More than happy to offer any thoughts if you think I can help. I'm not sure if you mean an actual tawse or a split tail paddle. Tawses are very heavy and can bruise nastily. |
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"Met up with an old lover who’s now divorced and she has changed. Likes to be spanked, quite hard and whipped moderately, with a leather tawse.
She is so much hornier now than she was and says she is just more liberated andknows what she wants. Is this quite normal and how many other women like to be spanked etc. New to me but quite happy to oblige her as it quite turns me on as well. What do you all think?"
It's more mainstream now.
'sex in the city' made it acceptable for women to say they enjoy sex and demand satisfaction.
"Fifty shades" made kink more mainstream |
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Once I introduced the wife to the Joy's of bdsm she took to it like a duck to water
The fact that she is in a loving and trusted relationship with someone who enjoys many facets of bdsm allows her to try pretty much anything we trust each other and she does like to give as well as receive, along with our own playroom we can encourage others to explore too |
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"Love it so much I make my own "tools" 
Fuzz"
There's joy in making the tools - and testing them! Not to forget the anticipation.
Oddly, I had trouble finding volunteers to test them - I was giving away free samples. Do people not like freebies? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m an experienced spanker in Cirencester who’d be happy to oblige if you like the idea of being put over the knee of a dominant older man. Bare bottom of course, skirt up, knickers down around your ankles....... |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
H likes the occasional caning & she says it’s never hard enough unless she can hear the “Whoosh” before the impact.
Takes her bum a while to recover from though & a post caning picture as one of our only rejected pics on here. 
S |
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Spanked, light throttling, spat upon, hair pulled, rough fucked etc.
Don't do and don't like gentle on meets. Hubby makes love to me for all my gentle needs, I just want a good hard fucking when on a meet, from males or females  |
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"Love it so much I make my own "tools"
Fuzz
There's joy in making the tools - and testing them! Not to forget the anticipation.
Oddly, I had trouble finding volunteers to test them - I was giving away free samples. Do people not like freebies?"
Yes! I’ll happily try out the robustness  of them. Have plenty willing ppl to be Subs for me!
I totally love my flogger & paddle.
Millie |
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"Spanked, light throttling, spat upon, hair pulled, rough fucked etc.
Don't do and don't like gentle on meets. Hubby makes love to me for all my gentle needs, I just want a good hard fucking when on a meet, from males or females "
We’ve had a few fems and couples mention spitting, getting curious as to how far people take it. We like spitting during oral/gagging |
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We’ve had a few fems and couples mention spitting, getting curious as to how far people take it. We like spitting during oral/gagging"
It's all part of the being "used and abused" that I love. Being made to feel like I'm no more than a plaything, a hole to be used is part of the pleasure. I don't like verbal degradation but physical is fine |
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We’ve had a few fems and couples mention spitting, getting curious as to how far people take it. We like spitting during oral/gagging
It's all part of the being "used and abused" that I love. Being made to feel like I'm no more than a plaything, a hole to be used is part of the pleasure. I don't like verbal degradation but physical is fine "
Very much like to mix it all up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’ve had a few fems and couples mention spitting, getting curious as to how far people take it. We like spitting during oral/gagging
It's all part of the being "used and abused" that I love. Being made to feel like I'm no more than a plaything, a hole to be used is part of the pleasure. I don't like verbal degradation but physical is fine
Very much like to mix it all up "
definitely brilliant comment x there's a lot of people like yourselves on here who know exactly what they are wanting and what purpose in life is xx (  |
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We’ve had a few fems and couples mention spitting, getting curious as to how far people take it. We like spitting during oral/gagging
It's all part of the being "used and abused" that I love. Being made to feel like I'm no more than a plaything, a hole to be used is part of the pleasure. I don't like verbal degradation but physical is fine "
So is it anywhere is fair game for spitting or do you have no go areas like the face ? All these questions as we’ve only just got into ‘degrading my side. Mrs has taking a liking to being called a slut (only slut, not whore!) and we like to push things every so often to test our limits ? |
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So is it anywhere is fair game for spitting or do you have no go areas like the face ? All these questions as we’ve only just got into ‘degrading my side. Mrs has taking a liking to being called a slut (only slut, not whore!) and we like to push things every so often to test our limits ?"
Anywhere. First time was a guy that suddenly spat on my face while giving light throttling and he called me slut. I came straght away
Like your Mrs, I don't mind being called slut during sex (not before or after though) but words not to be called include bitch, whore, slag etc. |
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So is it anywhere is fair game for spitting or do you have no go areas like the face ? All these questions as we’ve only just got into ‘degrading my side. Mrs has taking a liking to being called a slut (only slut, not whore!) and we like to push things every so often to test our limits ?
Anywhere. First time was a guy that suddenly spat on my face while giving light throttling and he called me slut. I came straght away
Like your Mrs, I don't mind being called slut during sex (not before or after though) but words not to be called include bitch, whore, slag etc. "
We don’t mind what’s said as degradation works for us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Met up with an old lover who’s now divorced and she has changed. Likes to be spanked, quite hard and whipped moderately, with a leather tawse.
She is so much hornier now than she was and says she is just more liberated andknows what she wants. Is this quite normal and how many other women like to be spanked etc. New to me but quite happy to oblige her as it quite turns me on as well. What do you all think?"
You lucky so and so....
Go for it, introduce different types of flogging equipment. Loads of it online and on the high Street  |
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Hi all. First Merry Christmas. Hollie my partner a total sub over 14 years has got so much worse and luckily for me tries to earn stuff. Hollie into suspended whip but finding the right is rare. Still we enjoying the search. Happy fabbing for the NY all |
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So is it anywhere is fair game for spitting or do you have no go areas like the face ? All these questions as we’ve only just got into ‘degrading my side. Mrs has taking a liking to being called a slut (only slut, not whore!) and we like to push things every so often to test our limits ?
Anywhere. First time was a guy that suddenly spat on my face while giving light throttling and he called me slut. I came straght away
Like your Mrs, I don't mind being called slut during sex (not before or after though) but words not to be called include bitch, whore, slag etc. "
Thanks for the info ! She really enjoys spitting on the ass before/during anal and during oral. May build up to spit swap one day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We enjoy spanking, flogging and whipping our subs but there is a huge difference between each one of these punishments/ pleasures "
sounds like you rather enjoy this kind of fun and not that far away from me! id love to experience some new sensations. cheers ed |
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By *aFee RougeWoman
over a year ago
Luton, Bedfordshire |
The joy of CP
there are far more similarities between how our brains process pleasure and pain than we ever knew before.
Spanking can enhance excitement and physical sensations; increase adrenalin, endorphins, and oxytocin.
Bring on corporal punishment! |
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We have ourselves down for the full range of experiences from the intimacy of spanking, through leather belts and straps, the wonderful pleasures of the cane and on to Floggers & various Whips.
Not usually all in the same day though . . . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We have now bought some wrist and ankle restraints and she loved being fucked with her arms restrained behind her back, doggy, face into the pillar , dap hard and fast. Was. Getting a bit worried I was smothering her and could she breathe, but she loved it. Grabbing her arms and pulling her head back by her hair. Never knew how much it could turn me on as well. Hidden kinks , weirdnext time it’s her wrists restrained to her ankles .............hhhmmmmm |
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"We enjoy spanking, flogging and whipping our subs but there is a huge difference between each one of these punishments/ pleasures "
This is so true x
Different intensity and durations depending on the sub or the scene x
I enjoying using a paddle or a flogger yo leaving anything from a rosy red glow to some deeper intense marks x
If you are local to me and wish to learn more please dm me x
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"We enjoy spanking, flogging and whipping our subs but there is a huge difference between each one of these punishments/ pleasures
This is so true x
Different intensity and durations depending on the sub or the scene x
I enjoying using a paddle or a flogger yo leaving anything from a rosy red glow to some deeper intense marks x
If you are local to me and wish to learn more please dm me x
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Some amazing veris there.. |
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I won't describe to myself as pain like someone is hurting you or being nasty to me because is not about pain . To same people probably could be if they experienced but i can really describe and one word comes to my mind is pleasure |
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By *aFee RougeWoman
over a year ago
Luton, Bedfordshire |
"There’s a sweet spot between pain and pleasure You need experience to see, hear and play it
Now let’s talk about canning?"
those thin red lines on your lover's bum cheek. That grunts s/he makes when the lashes hit the tender rose skin.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love the whole thing from knowing I've been naughty enough to deserve a spanking to bending over to accept it. There is nothing more intense as waiting for the first impact |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
Love impact play but there's a huge amount of trust involved so its not something I would consider with just anyone. Trust & boundaries would need to be established first and that takes time |
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"Love it so much I make my own "tools"
Fuzz
There's joy in making the tools - and testing them! Not to forget the anticipation.
Oddly, I had trouble finding volunteers to test them - I was giving away free samples. Do people not like freebies?
Yes! I’ll happily try out the robustness of them. Have plenty willing ppl to be Subs for me!
I totally love my flogger & paddle.
Millie "
Should now update I have a new profile on a certain kink website (Ian’s doing!) and happy with my new Christmas present of a personalised toy bag 
Millie x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A ex girlfriend wanted to be tied naked to the bed naked blindfolded and spanked I was a bit worried at first but got to enjoy spanking her. That was three years ago need someone to spank again |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Got to admit she has turned me on to something I never thought I would like. But naughty dirty girls need punished and a firm hand can make sure she is.............and enjoying it as I can see she’s glowing. Can wait for next thing she wants to do..
Loving it... |
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"There’s a sweet spot between pain and pleasure You need experience to see, hear and play it
Now let’s talk about canning?
Oo thin and stingy or chunky and thuddy?
thin everytime. "
i love it with a heavy, thuddy cane, the harder the better.
k |
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