One no show is rude but possibly extenuating circumstances
Second no show... Hmmmmmm
Third no show.....
You gave them a third chance??
Sorry but that's a time waster. Too many other genuine folk here to allow a fourth |
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I had a 50 mile drive to meet a girl in 2012. When i got there, she just wanted a lift to a friends house a few miles back in my direction. She talked about us having a proper meet, but nothing ever came of it. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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If someone doesn't just show up I wouldn't arrange to meet them again.
If they had let me know in advance even if it's only a few minutes with a credible reason I might take a view, but if they just don't show up, regardless of the reason I'm moving on  .
Life happens, I get that, sometimes things don't go as planned. But if they haven't let me know I just won't have enough interest or patience to invest in in someone I've never met to give them a second chance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree. One chance. If they don't show then that's it. No second chances. I've done this in the past and just wasted my time. If the person doesn't have enough self respect to tell you they can't make it, they're not for me. |
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By *urenutsMan
over a year ago
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I once drove to this couple house for a meet about 1 in the morning for a meet an they did open the door , waited for a hour. Felt like a lemon. When i drove off told her I have left can't keep waiting in the car. She message me saying I can't believe you left. |
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By *hirk999 OP Man
over a year ago
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each time I have waited and only reason they messaged was after I'd made contact asking where they were, this time there movie said they where 60 miles away but still lied . just be honest it's that easy I feel |
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"so how would you tell a time waster from a genuine person, the person in question has good if not great certifications, but 3 times a no show ???? "
Unless you have met them, everyone is potentially a time waster |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It’s fine as a lady to not give another chance and block but the way fab is going us blokes don’t stand a chance even if you think you are being lied too you still want to give a lady another chance ???? |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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"so how would you tell a time waster from a genuine person, the person in question has good if not great certifications, but 3 times a no show ???? "
Give your head a wobble. Are you playing baseball, three strikes really.
Delete block report move on.
If its happening a lot ... you're the common denominator.. change your selection process put more checks and balances in place. |
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"If someone doesn't just show up I wouldn't arrange to meet them again.
If they had let me know in advance even if it's only a few minutes with a credible reason I might take a view, but if they just don't show up, regardless of the reason I'm moving on .
Life happens, I get that, sometimes things don't go as planned. But if they haven't let me know I just won't have enough interest or patience to invest in in someone I've never met to give them a second chance. "
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