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By *Couple OP Couple
over a year ago
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My partner tells me she can't tell the difference if guy wearing condom or not !. She informs me that I should ' keep an eye on things '. Can I ask you ladies is this the case , can you tell the difference or not ???.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My partner tells me she can't tell the difference if guy wearing condom or not !. She informs me that I should ' keep an eye on things '. Can I ask you ladies is this the case , can you tell the difference or not ???.
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Yes.. I can tell.. as it feels awful.. I have tried many different ones.. and the ones I have the least problems with are skyns.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always watch while they put it on.. plus it's always nice to have a little stroke just before any penetration (they think its foreplay, infact I'm checking it's on right!)
As for noticing a sensation difference.. No.. a previous Dom friend got a bit too vigorous once. It wasn't till later I discovered bits of latex in places they shouldn't be.. Clearly the condom had broken. I hadn't noticed.. although I'm bloody sure he did since there was nothing to take off when we'd finished. Shame he didn't feel the need to tell me..  
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"Thank you ladies, now I dont need to eyes in the back of my head ???"
It's always wise to stay vigilant regardless. Some blokes will try to bareback and by the time your wife 'notices' the offending bb cock could already be inside her. If it's a group situation, make sure guys are bagged up before they do the wild thing... especially those who 'approach' from behind with their hand obscuring their tackle.
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"Thank you ladies, now I dont need to eyes in the back of my head ???"
So you don't believe your wife and prefer the word of others in forum?
Surely if your wife tells you she can't tell the difference, she is asking for your help and I understand where she's coming from.
Do you really give her safety so little regard? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Feels dryer. Hate them but no choice really the female ones are even more disgusting though  "
I dry up like the Sahara after a few condom-clad shags, so have to carry lube round to counteract it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My partner tells me she can't tell the difference if guy wearing condom or not !. She informs me that I should ' keep an eye on things '. Can I ask you ladies is this the case , can you tell the difference or not ???.
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Nope, cant tell at all unless i get all slushed up at the end, then i know the bugger has come off mid bonk grrrrr |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i cant tell the difference so long as they latex free ones, latex condoms dry me out and make me sore so i dont use them but other wise once the guys in and
going at it i really cant feel the difference |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we both hate condoms but in this day and age they have to be worn, lilly has to use latex free condoms, better to be safe than sorry, a small price to pay |
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I cant tell the difference. Obviously its fine at home but in a club i always help the cock in with my hand just to double check.
Have to say some guys are so bloody good at wiping a condom out and putting it on that you have to check cause theyve been so quick about it |
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"Thank you ladies, now I dont need to eyes in the back of my head ???"
Yeah you do! You both do! Depending on who you play with you never know what they might try. Why risk it.
You should both be aware of what is happening.
Most women I have been with feel for the band at the top before entry to be sure until trust is built. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i can completely tell!! though alot of that is because condoms make me sore after a long play session or lots of partners...i can still tell before as they just don't feel the same at all... feels more like a dildo than a cock... which isn't bad just not the same feeling but something we have to do to remain safe!
though I have never been with a partner that is circumcised so i guess that could make a difference maybe ?
(not saying you are just wondering aloud if that makes a difference?) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In 'normal' circumstances there is a difference, but in a club situation there r often too many things going on for me to really tell (cos obviously del doesn't wear one with me) so he keeps a close eye, to make sure everyone is wearing for me  |
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By *Couple OP Couple
over a year ago
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Thank you all for your replies. I think the main thing then is to ' keep a watchful eye '. Elkie, I have tried to respond to your comments but site not allowing me too !!, which is a pity.
Again thank you ladies, one and all, very helpful. |
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I often find my little fella slips out of the condom once we have finished using the cowgirl position.
It's a bit embarassing to then reach inside to pull the 'packet of love' out. I know I've been genuine, but there are the occasional raised eyebrow.
Trouble is - I really, really like cowgirl. It is less of an issue with other positions, I find. |
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"I can tell but like others say in the heat of the moment you could miss noticing."
I can generally tell, but in the heat of the moment..
Had one meet where he kept asking for without and I made my position clear. Then later, while doing doggy, after adjusting position I thought somethings different. As I went to move and check he came!
He really didn't seem to get why I was so angry that he'd slipped the condom off and shot his load in me!
And I doubt he went for a check up afterwards - unlike me, 3 hours sitting around at the clinic and one morning after pill later!!!
The icing on it? He contacted me again about 6 weeks later!!! |
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"I can tell but like others say in the heat of the moment you could miss noticing.
I can generally tell, but in the heat of the moment..
Had one meet where he kept asking for without and I made my position clear. Then later, while doing doggy, after adjusting position I thought somethings different. As I went to move and check he came!
He really didn't seem to get why I was so angry that he'd slipped the condom off and shot his load in me!
And I doubt he went for a check up afterwards - unlike me, 3 hours sitting around at the clinic and one morning after pill later!!!
The icing on it? He contacted me again about 6 weeks later!!! "
I cannot even begin to explain how angry we would be if that happened to us.
Complete disrespect. That is definitely not what the scene is all about! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can tell but like others say in the heat of the moment you could miss noticing.
I can generally tell, but in the heat of the moment..
Had one meet where he kept asking for without and I made my position clear. Then later, while doing doggy, after adjusting position I thought somethings different. As I went to move and check he came!
He really didn't seem to get why I was so angry that he'd slipped the condom off and shot his load in me!
And I doubt he went for a check up afterwards - unlike me, 3 hours sitting around at the clinic and one morning after pill later!!!
The icing on it? He contacted me again about 6 weeks later!!! "
If this happened to me I can assure you the boy (yes boy because real men don't do that kind of thing) would be getting a sharp kick to a sensitive place and kicked out promptly( I doubt I would even give him time to get dressed...)
We always make it clear that we play safe.. even though condoms make me sore after a while I still play safe because its not worth the risk to my life... if a guy even asked me to go bareback on a meet I would probably kick him out for being disrespectful because we already outline before we meet that we only play safe!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can tell but like others say in the heat of the moment you could miss noticing.
I can generally tell, but in the heat of the moment..
Had one meet where he kept asking for without and I made my position clear. Then later, while doing doggy, after adjusting position I thought somethings different. As I went to move and check he came!
He really didn't seem to get why I was so angry that he'd slipped the condom off and shot his load in me!
And I doubt he went for a check up afterwards - unlike me, 3 hours sitting around at the clinic and one morning after pill later!!!
The icing on it? He contacted me again about 6 weeks later!!! "
I would have clamped his balls in a vice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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WOW .... just goes to show the mentality on this site of some 'special' individuals.
In terms of condom / no condom - maybe it depends on the size of the gent as to whether you feel a difference or not? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I often find my little fella slips out of the condom once we have finished using the cowgirl position.
It's a bit embarassing to then reach inside to pull the 'packet of love' out. I know I've been genuine, but there are the occasional raised eyebrow.
Trouble is - I really, really like cowgirl. It is less of an issue with other positions, I find."
there are lots of companies that offer custom size condoms for a better fit so this doesnt happen... just google custom fit condoms. |
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