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How to make my missus cheat on me?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My wife is quite vanilla not into swinging but how could i plant a seed so she cheats on me would love her to fuck a black guy behind my back "
Never going to happen |
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"Not sure that would work she would start the dont you fancy me any more talk lol ive tried hints but get no real posative response"
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Well if she "starts the don't you fancy me talk" she obviously has some insecurity around that and the reasons you're asking. How about you continue that talk with some reassurance? You'll be amazed how well talking to women works along with ensuring you make them feel loved.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Show her your profile on here...
She might fancy a bit of revenge sex "
Or you could just ask her about sleeping with other men? As someone in a similar thread mentioned before, make sure to let her know your views on how love and sex aren't the same thing to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure that would work she would start the dont you fancy me any more talk lol ive tried hints but get no real posative response"
Then leave it.
Jesus can you not respect your wife and what she wants?  |
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By *TT1983 OP Man
over a year ago
leeds york |
Good idea i do treat her well she does have her insecurities though women are quite complicated if shes not into it i do t want to just put it out there or she would feel i dont want her no more |
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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago
London |
"She would not swing "
I know where you're coming from. She's hard wired into conventional forms of relationships so she is not going to swing and you cannot make her.
But, yes, revenge sex might help her along.
By the way, what are you doing on Fab if she is unaware of you being here? Are you meeting people? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If she’s perfect the way she is why change her?
Ask her outright if she wants to swing. My husband did that. And here we are. And I was 20 and newly married.
But if she says no, drop it. Leave it alone. Respect that, and respect her. If she’s made it clear she doesn’t want it, then stop. |
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From what u hage said it sounds like this is all for you and not for her - u wsnt her to cheat , u want her to have more cock- but unfortunately its not about what u want her to have its about what she wants to have |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Then u should respect her and realise that although u wsnt to swing she doesnt. Is your marriage worth it ? Because if u gey caught it sounds like it would crush her and would be over "
Exactly.
If my husband wanted me to swing and instead of actually speaking to me had cheated on me, I’d leave. I wouldn’t cheat on him back, I wouldn’t be having revenge sex. I’d leave. Or kick him out, more likely. |
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By *errysMan
over a year ago
milton keynes and kent |
Forget those thoughts and train your brain to not cum quick or carry on after you cum.
Turn yourself (in your head) into the man she cheats with.
I say these things because clearly you are not swingers.
You may have cheated on her and be suffering with guilt, but making her do the same is not the cure.
Also unfortunately for you honesty is the key. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Forget those thoughts and train your brain to not cum quick or carry on after you cum.
Turn yourself (in your head) into the man she cheats with.
I say these things because clearly you are not swingers.
You may have cheated on her and be suffering with guilt, but making her do the same is not the cure.
Also unfortunately for you honesty is the key."
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"Good idea i do treat her well she does have her insecurities though women are quite complicated if shes not into it i do t want to just put it out there or she would feel i dont want her no more"
The thing is anybody, not just women,will feel that their partner thinks they're not enough or that they are no longer interested in them if they ask them to have sex with other men for their benefit.
The bottom line is if she doesn't want to do it there's nothing you can say that will persuade her, why should she. If she quite likes the idea she's still not going to do it if she feels insecure in your relationship. I would add that you're treading on thin ice asking a woman who feels there's no emotional intimacy between you to have sex with another guy...just saying |
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Sorry to poo on your party but its just reality if u force it your only gonna make yourself frustrated sexually like someone said above live your fantasy yourself pretend to be someone else , maybe txt sex flirt with her like your this other dude see what response u get may help u and turn her on |
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And if you're really that into her with someone else, why not suggest doing it together? You can have someone else join you both and perhaps she'll feel a little more comfortable going into with you rather than just setting up an anonymous liaison with a stranger |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We would both bennefit from it shes perfect in every way i just want her to want more cock lol"
How the hell do you know she will benefit from it?
You think she'll benefit from cheating? You think her conscience can not only handle it but be ok with lying to you and sneaking around behind your back?
You want her to feel guilty and think that will benefit the both of you?
I think you REALLY need to examine your motives
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By *TT1983 OP Man
over a year ago
leeds york |
"We would both bennefit from it shes perfect in every way i just want her to want more cock lol
How the hell do you know she will benefit from it?
You think she'll benefit from cheating? You think her conscience can not only handle it but be ok with lying to you and sneaking around behind your back?
You want her to feel guilty and think that will benefit the both of you?
I think you REALLY need to examine your motives
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Ok then not cheat as such but to fuck some one else she would bennefit as she gets to orgasm somthing i cannot do using my cock as i cum too quick for her |
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"We would both bennefit from it shes perfect in every way i just want her to want more cock lol
How the hell do you know she will benefit from it?
You think she'll benefit from cheating? You think her conscience can not only handle it but be ok with lying to you and sneaking around behind your back?
You want her to feel guilty and think that will benefit the both of you?
I think you REALLY need to examine your motives
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Well said,swinging is all about being open and honest with each other,she may not be the cheating tipe, but that dose not mean she isnt the swinging tipe if you speak to her about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We would both bennefit from it shes perfect in every way i just want her to want more cock lol
How the hell do you know she will benefit from it?
You think she'll benefit from cheating? You think her conscience can not only handle it but be ok with lying to you and sneaking around behind your back?
You want her to feel guilty and think that will benefit the both of you?
I think you REALLY need to examine your motives
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Ok then not cheat as such but to fuck some one else she would bennefit as she gets to orgasm somthing i cannot do using my cock as i cum too quick for her"
Do you know how many women don't cum from penetrative sex? Fucking masses.
If she values sex highly as part of something some between 2 loving partners then you can give the impression you don't love her as much as she loves you. Seems she wants to keep the intimacy a private thing, as many many many couples do.
Hell even on a swinging site where people are "liberal" there are couples who don't swap, who only like to be watched.
Sounds to me like she thinks it will devalue your relationship and love.
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"We would both bennefit from it shes perfect in every way i just want her to want more cock lol
How the hell do you know she will benefit from it?
You think she'll benefit from cheating? You think her conscience can not only handle it but be ok with lying to you and sneaking around behind your back?
You want her to feel guilty and think that will benefit the both of you?
I think you REALLY need to examine your motives
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Ok then not cheat as such but to fuck some one else she would bennefit as she gets to orgasm somthing i cannot do using my cock as i cum too quick for her"
Have a tactical wank before sex with her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure that would work she would start the dont you fancy me any more talk lol ive tried hints but get no real posative response
Then leave it.
Jesus can you not respect your wife and what she wants? "
I find it even stranger that there’s a specific colour of penis that you would prefer her to cheat on you with. |
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By *TT1983 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Not sure that would work she would start the dont you fancy me any more talk lol ive tried hints but get no real posative response
Then leave it.
Jesus can you not respect your wife and what she wants?
I find it even stranger that there’s a specific colour of penis that you would prefer her to cheat on you with. "
Thats because i like black guys and would like her to too , not sure how to stop cumming so quick  |
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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago
London |
"Not sure that would work she would start the dont you fancy me any more talk lol ive tried hints but get no real posative response
Then leave it.
Jesus can you not respect your wife and what she wants?
I find it even stranger that there’s a specific colour of penis that you would prefer her to cheat on you with. "
Oh that's just because it's a current fixation for many these days. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can’t believe I’ve actjally read this  speaking as someone who’s wife did cheat then leave me I can assure you when it happens for real the results are pretty devastating. What if she did do it then think actually I’m better off without you and left for good?
I apologise if that’s a bit of a dark or shitty response lol wasn’t my intention to bring the mood down |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can’t believe I’ve actjally read this speaking as someone who’s wife did cheat then leave me I can assure you when it happens for real the results are pretty devastating. What if she did do it then think actually I’m better off without you and left for good?
I apologise if that’s a bit of a dark or shitty response lol wasn’t my intention to bring the mood down "
It's a valid point though. It happened to me - I was with someone who was convinced he was 'bad in bed' and wanted me to have sex with other men... this was a few years ago and I wasn't keen but he talked me into it... so I started seeing another guy, and ended up falling in love with him.
In our case, I was always honest with my original partner and we have remained good friends, but yeah, it can be a potential minefield in reality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can’t believe I’ve actjally read this speaking as someone who’s wife did cheat then leave me I can assure you when it happens for real the results are pretty devastating. What if she did do it then think actually I’m better off without you and left for good?
I apologise if that’s a bit of a dark or shitty response lol wasn’t my intention to bring the mood down
It's a valid point though. It happened to me - I was with someone who was convinced he was 'bad in bed' and wanted me to have sex with other men... this was a few years ago and I wasn't keen but he talked me into it... so I started seeing another guy, and ended up falling in love with him.
In our case, I was always honest with my original partner and we have remained good friends, but yeah, it can be a potential minefield in reality. "
Mine wasn’t something I had knowledge of lol or wanted in anyway |
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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago
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You really want her to cheat? So you are happy that she finds someone behind your back...possibly falls in love and leaves you taking half of your money at least..if you have kids take them and even more money.
If you mean you want her to have sex with someone else ok....but be part of the process |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My wife is quite vanilla not into swinging but how could i plant a seed so she cheats on me would love her to fuck a black guy behind my back "
stop paying the bills and treating her to new outfits she will soon look elsewhere   |
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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
Merseyside |
"My wife is quite vanilla not into swinging but how could i plant a seed so she cheats on me would love her to fuck a black guy behind my back "
pass her my number or pass me hers and ill see if i can persuade her  |
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maybe if she finds out your on here and talking about some black guy fucking her hard and deep behind your back and your ok with your wife going of with another guy and no doubt filling her with a big black cock , and a huge load of his cum, if you want it just tell her , you never know she might surprise you by telling you she has been fucking lots of guys for years, good luck to you and your wife, hope it works out after all there are lots of guys looking for married pussy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you do know swinging is not cheating right ??? therefore if she's cheating it means your relationship is bad ? rather than swinging your relationship is good .... big difference |
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"you do know swinging is not cheating right ??? therefore if she's cheating it means your relationship is bad ? rather than swinging your relationship is good .... big difference"
However, being on a swinging site behind your wife’s back is most definitely cheating!
Does she know you’re bi? Does she know you’re on Fab looking for men & tv’s?
If not, you’ve got very little honesty in your marriage anyway. Might as well come clean, see if she wants to join you & if not, let her leave & build a new life with someone who isn’t living a while secret life behind her back.
She deserves better day the sounds of it |
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1. You can't make your wife do anything she doesn't want to do. She's an autonomous human.
2. Her sexual fantasies are hers. Yours are yours. Maybe some of those fantasies match. If not, tough.
3. Does she know you're on here already? |
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(ray)
Sorry to say pal but it sounds like you need to iron out your own demons and desires first before you try and use phycological bullying to make her subconsciously do something she doesn't want to do.
I wish you all the best and truly hope you find happiness |
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"Not sure that would work she would start the dont you fancy me any more talk lol ive tried hints but get no real posative response
Then leave it.
Jesus can you not respect your wife and what she wants? "
He's on fab behind her back.. he obviously cannot respect her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My wife is quite vanilla not into swinging but how could i plant a seed so she cheats on me would love her to fuck a black guy behind my back "
In your mind - did this set out to be a wanking fodder thread?   |
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I would concentrate on being a better lover rather than opening up your wife to a sea of men who will blow her mind.
My ex... Struggled shall we say but I stayed with him as we were married and had a child together. Once that relationship ended and I started to play properly I remembered what I had been missing throughout my marriage. There is no way I would have stayed with him if we were in an open relationship, my head was truly turned |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"My wife is quite vanilla not into swinging but how could i plant a seed so she cheats on me would love her to fuck a black guy behind my back "
Show her your profile then hope to god she doesn't chop your dick off, she probably still won't swing but at least she wont have a husband that is trying to manipulate her into something she doesn't want to do.
This is one of the reasons I shall forever be single. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My wife is quite vanilla not into swinging but how could i plant a seed so she cheats on me would love her to fuck a black guy behind my back "
why shylock you want to force your wife into something against her will ...  |
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If the desire is all consuming for you then perhaps you should be open with her about it.
That said whatever her response is has to be accepted. Its not the kind of things that should be forced on anyone.
Speaking as a single male I love meeting couples but if I get the vibe that the wife is being pushed into things I give that couple a very wide berth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What would you do if she went along with your wish, albeit unwillingly, and then decided she'd wasted all those years with a guy who obviously didn't love or respect her ie you and left you for way more fun than you are? |
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"Not sure that would work she would start the dont you fancy me any more talk lol ive tried hints but get no real posative response"
Yeah it dont always work and that's all they said to me. But then cheating is unfaithful and you need trust |
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