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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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define ''real'' cuckold couple ? no such thing its just a sliding scale just like any other kink and yes we are a full time cuckold couple and yes i have boyfriends but no one is exclusive im far to greedy for that to happen..... |
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"Any couples actually into this as a lifestyle? As in wife has a steady boyfriend. Not just hotwifing with a bit of tease and denial thrown in for good measure. "
real cockholing is about the man having a good time as well as the wife as its all for him not the people they invite |
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over a year ago
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Had a wonderful 2 year relationship with a married couple, it would range from a full on MMF to him just watching, also a few occasions when she’d stop overnight and he’d pick up in the morning. There was never any humiliation, which I think a lot of people wrongly think cuckold is, but just a lot of mutual fun for all.i miss those days  |
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"Had a wonderful 2 year relationship with a married couple, it would range from a full on MMF to him just watching, also a few occasions when she’d stop overnight and he’d pick up in the morning. There was never any humiliation, which I think a lot of people wrongly think cuckold is, but just a lot of mutual fun for all.i miss those days "
yes its about her needs that he cant give her but they stay together |
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A cuckold is a man whose wife has had it off with another man. From that point there are any number of shades from a secret one-off at the office to an acknowledged and regular lover. If it works for you, it's real. It doesn't require anyone from FS or the outside world to define it for you. It does amuse me to see single women giving 'cuckolding' as an interest - how does that work? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any couples actually into this as a lifestyle? As in wife has a steady boyfriend. Not just hotwifing with a bit of tease and denial thrown in for good measure. "
Clem this is my lifestyle..... I have successfully trained and own 3 cuckold couples....
Meaning we have a three way bond and I will make sure everyone is happy while still pushing boundaries....
What I have found works best is to establish boundaries very early on , then push them very slowly.....
It’s been a long journey and I’m still learning.... |
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Cuck couple here wife has a couple of regular guys she meets every week and enjoys there meets. I’m lucky enough to receive pics, videos and stories of how much fun she’s had win win for us and keeps us both very happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Clem this is my lifestyle..... I have successfully trained and own 3 cuckold couples....
Meaning we have a three way bond and I will make sure everyone is happy while still pushing boundaries....
What I have found works best is to establish boundaries very early on , then push them very slowly.....
It’s been a long journey and I’m still learning...."
see this makes me laugh im not trained or owned by anyone and never will be cuck does as i tell him and i dont know of any other cuckold couple who ''needs'' training or being ''ownd'' sounds very porn film like rather than normal life like |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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oh and to those few men who have pm'ed me saying ive a weak marriage and ill leave cuck one day ....well lol after 25 years we are still together nearly all 25 yrs of those we have played this way and we are solid as a rock it works because of us and who we are cuckolding is not for everyone seen many try n fail apart from those who's been together for years..
oh and the im only with him for the money lol im very much the bread winner in my house we are a real cuckold couple not a porn script |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Clem this is my lifestyle..... I have successfully trained and own 3 cuckold couples....
Meaning we have a three way bond and I will make sure everyone is happy while still pushing boundaries....
What I have found works best is to establish boundaries very early on , then push them very slowly.....
It’s been a long journey and I’m still learning....
see this makes me laugh im not trained or owned by anyone and never will be cuck does as i tell him and i dont know of any other cuckold couple who ''needs'' training or being ''ownd'' sounds very porn film like rather than normal life like "
I don’t think there is a one size fits all for a cuckold relationship because a cuckold relationship is always evolving.....
You being 50 in a cuckold relationship is very different from a couple in their 20’s and 30’s in a cuckold relationship...
You guys being older will know what you like and don’t like because you have experience gained over the years....
Younger couples tend to want to try every dynamic in a cuckold relationship before they settle on what they like.... |
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We used to have a regular guy but since we have moved south we’ve struggle to meet regularly. I’m definitely looking for another vwe Dom guy. I’d love to find someone I can trust to take me on holiday while my cuck remains at home in chastity. |
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By *ylonbiWoman
over a year ago
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A boyfriend or bull who can perform in front of hubby.Someone to take me out on dates with hubbies full permission. Sometimes think its just never going to materialise as been left dissapointed by many guys on here x |
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"A boyfriend or bull who can perform in front of hubby.Someone to take me out on dates with hubbies full permission. Sometimes think its just never going to materialise as been left dissapointed by many guys on here x"
Seems to be a common and undoubtedly annoying theme of fab, which I think both parties have experienced, I always find when that's the case I just have a bit of a break and come back refreshed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wonder what appeals to ladies in cuckhold relationships about leaving their husband in a chastity cage whilst they go out for a date or to have sex.
Or is it the man's kink. |
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"A cuckold is a man whose wife has had it off with another man. From that point there are any number of shades from a secret one-off at the office to an acknowledged and regular lover. If it works for you, it's real. It doesn't require anyone from FS or the outside world to define it for you. It does amuse me to see single women giving 'cuckolding' as an interest - how does that work?"
Maybe they're not single women... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wonder what appeals to ladies in cuckhold relationships about leaving their husband in a chastity cage whilst they go out for a date or to have sex.
Or is it the man's kink. "
Submissive men are the biggest single group in the fetish scene. It's been no surprise at all how popular this is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wonder what appeals to ladies in cuckhold relationships about leaving their husband in a chastity cage whilst they go out for a date or to have sex.
Or is it the man's kink.
Submissive men are the biggest single group in the fetish scene. It's been no surprise at all how popular this is. "
What do women get out of that though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wonder what appeals to ladies in cuckhold relationships about leaving their husband in a chastity cage whilst they go out for a date or to have sex.
Or is it the man's kink.
Submissive men are the biggest single group in the fetish scene. It's been no surprise at all how popular this is.
What do women get out of that though "
Some women enjoy dominating men. Some of them are absolutely amazing at it too. I've been really lucky and met some women who've turned it into an art form. |
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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago
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Its certainly something we enjoy, as others have said its finding a suitable, experienced guy who fully understands our needs from such a meet , also who doesn't live hundreds of miles away .
We know so well just how much enjoyment and pleasure can come from cuckolding . |
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I find the cuckolding lifestyle as addictive as it is frustrating as it is oh so deliciously rewarding when it goes right.
Lately I've been inspired by a podcast that is run by a NYC based Bull. It inspired me so much that I have decided to host another intimate interracial cuckold party.
Finding the right experienced bi Bulls to attend on the night is always a lot of hard work but it always works out in the end.  |
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"Sounds fun  "
As an organiser its hard work which is why I only do this about once a year but it always feels worth it in the end.
Being around like minded people and not having to self censor cuckold play around others is such a great feeling. |
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Years ago I regularly saw a hotwife and we would meet 2 or 3 times a month for dates and nights at mine or hers, mostly without her cuck. It was a very exciting experience for all involved. Would love to find someone again in the North East to do this with. |
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"Any couples actually into this as a lifestyle? As in wife has a steady boyfriend. Not just hotwifing with a bit of tease and denial thrown in for good measure. "
Definitely ! I dated a hotwife for couple fo years. She wasnt a swinger at all - but a happily married lady who like to have boyfriends. We acutally met thru a vanilla site. We went to cinema, dinner, galleries. On the first dat, she told me she was married. It was such a head rush. And that she had husband and other boyfriends. As I said, she was not a swinger but loved to date. i still get a rush thinking about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A cuckold is a man whose wife has had it off with another man. From that point there are any number of shades from a secret one-off at the office to an acknowledged and regular lover. If it works for you, it's real. It doesn't require anyone from FS or the outside world to define it for you. It does amuse me to see single women giving 'cuckolding' as an interest - how does that work?"
You are absolutely spot on . A cuckold is simply a man whose wife has has sex with another man.
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"A cuckold is a man whose wife has had it off with another man. From that point there are any number of shades from a secret one-off at the office to an acknowledged and regular lover. If it works for you, it's real. It doesn't require anyone from FS or the outside world to define it for you. It does amuse me to see single women giving 'cuckolding' as an interest - how does that work?You are absolutely spot on . A cuckold is simply a man whose wife has has sex with another man. "
Well put.... |
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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago
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"A cuckold is a man whose wife has had it off with another man. From that point there are any number of shades from a secret one-off at the office to an acknowledged and regular lover. If it works for you, it's real. It doesn't require anyone from FS or the outside world to define it for you. It does amuse me to see single women giving 'cuckolding' as an interest - how does that work?"
It always makes me chuckle when people add " but we're not cuckoldlds " like stag and vixens etc . Even swinging is a form of cuckolding. No matter how much they claim it isn't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are so many forms. Ours is blended with d/s. I've not cum without permission for six years and have never had sex with another woman whereas I've been cuckolded on and off during those times and I'm very grateful to have been so and want to wish all the bulls and girls out there happy new year
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My long term relationship came to an end last year (2019). Now that I'm single again my mission this year is to find 1-3 cuckold couples that I can meet on a regular basis. One would be the ideal but past experience tells me 1-3 semi regular couples is a more realistic goal. |
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"My long term relationship came to an end last year (2019). Now that I'm single again my mission this year is to find 1-3 cuckold couples that I can meet on a regular basis. One would be the ideal but past experience tells me 1-3 semi regular couples is a more realistic goal. "
Damn - i would love this as well ! Would love to have 1 to 3 semi regular couples - its easier said than done...
FYI - cant wait for updates to your blog...! |
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"Any couples actually into this as a lifestyle? As in wife has a steady boyfriend. Not just hotwifing with a bit of tease and denial thrown in for good measure. "
Most couples who call themselves a cuckold couple don't know what real cuckolding is.
Most "cuckold" couples have never heard of a cuckold contract. |
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I have experienced this both as a cuck and a bull. Currently single so looking to play the bull. I am told this is unusual but i can appreciate it from both sides and know what the cuck wants to see and what a huge turn on it can be seeing your partner being pleasured by another man. |
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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago
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There seems to be some confusion over what is or isn't cuckolding/cuckoldry.
There's the historical/literal definition, which is: a man whose wife commits adultery (usually behind his back) and/or a man who raises children that aren't his own (again, usually unknowlingly). It is against the man's knowledge and/or consent (in the event he knows about it but doesn't address it to save face socially or whatever).
For all intents and purposes, that ^ is "real" cuckolding/cuckoldry.
Then there's the fetish/kink definition, which is, basically, a fantasy recreation of the above scenario(s) where the male is fully aware and complicit in any "adultery" going on. For this reason there's always at least a little (but also sometimes a lot) of crossover with other forms of BDSM/kink - namely Domme fem and sub man, humiliation/chastity.
And yes, there DOES need to be this colour/tone/element to the dynamic in order to qualify as cuckolding/cuckoldry. Without it, it's just simply hotwifing/wife/girlfriend-sharing, swinging, having threesomes, etc... which are separate/different. |
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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago
Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters |
Now having said that, I'd love to hear more thoughts, feelings and perspectives from cuckolds, bulls and the women in cuckold couples about what it is you actually get from it, and why it's seemingly so widespread/popular?
Like, I understand the definitions and the "what"... but I just get the appeal or the "why" on an emotional/psychological level. |
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"A cuckold is a man whose wife has had it off with another man. From that point there are any number of shades from a secret one-off at the office to an acknowledged and regular lover. If it works for you, it's real. It doesn't require anyone from FS or the outside world to define it for you. It does amuse me to see single women giving 'cuckolding' as an interest - how does that work?
It always makes me chuckle when people add " but we're not cuckoldlds " like stag and vixens etc . Even swinging is a form of cuckolding. No matter how much they claim it isn't. "
I think this is due to humiliation and cuckholding in some peoples minds being assumed as a necessary component within every cuckhold relationship. Which it is not cuckholding can take many forms and included many different elements and kinks that are unique to each couple. Some may be similar but for some these are totally different. So I believe that's where the we are not 'cuckhold' part comes in..its an effort to distinguish their kinks away from the popularised one size fits all or 'porn' fetishised version of cuckoldery.
I myself have been in cuckhold relationships some short and some 2 years plus with some couples and each one has included different kink elements to them some including humiliation and others not with the husband enjoying the wife being pleasured as he watched or myself and the wife sharing the marital bed as he would be assigned to the spare bedroom to listen and her us fuck or being sent videos and pictures when his wife would stay over at mine.
So cuckholding comes in many forms and shapes. Communicating is the best way to find out what your cuckhold couples needs are and how you can set about meeting those. |
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"I have met a very genuine cuckold couple recently (they know who they are) and when you click with a cuckold couple and start to explore with them both the fun to be had is endless. "
Good for you, you deserve it. I'm still crossing my fingers for a cuck couple that I get on well with and is local. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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cuckold is simple its married women having sex with other men thats the be all and end off to seed another mans wife as the cuckoo bird does with its eggs in another birds nest so thats the real term of cuckold everything else is added fun or added kinks so from the basic cuckold couple to the kinkest cuckold couples the are ''All'' real cuckold couples.
cuckold is century's old lots of stories written in old books dating right back to god knows when and lets face it this went on before the word was invented and before the wheel no doubt and it will continue to carry on forever in the future.
so not matter how your cuckold fun is its all real as long as your in a real relationship then anyone can cuckold... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"cuckold is simple its married women having sex with other men thats the be all and end off to seed another mans wife as the cuckoo bird does with its eggs in another birds nest so thats the real term of cuckold everything else is added fun or added kinks so from the basic cuckold couple to the kinkest cuckold couples the are ''All'' real cuckold couples.
cuckold is century's old lots of stories written in old books dating right back to god knows when and lets face it this went on before the word was invented and before the wheel no doubt and it will continue to carry on forever in the future.
so not matter how your cuckold fun is its all real as long as your in a real relationship then anyone can cuckold..."
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've enjoyed cuckold couples, the difference between swinging or hot wife is there's a transfer of power, for want of a better word, to the bull, or wife. Humiliation is not always part of the play, but loss of control for the husband.
what ever, have fun |
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My wife has been meeting with her bf for over 4 years now. Sometimes we all meet together and I will let them have fun, sometimes I join in.
Other times she goes out with him and then they come back home and fuck. Love seeing her enjoying herself |
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"We’re experienced with Cuck play. A go-to couple or guy is fine, but a regular ‘boyfriend’ for us is a step too far"
Everyone is different. Me personally I would be comfortable with both scenarios because I think a poly dynamic with work quite well for me. |
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"Would love to have a regular bf. Real life just gets in the way"
The logistics are the biggest hurdle - many moons ago, i dated a hotwife for year. She lived in london and her hubby enjoyed the fact she took several lovers.. |
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Wife has a regular boyfriend that I found for her - she spends time with him, stays at his & generally act like a normal couple when they are together.
They will often send piks & video of them together & my wife always tells me how much better he is at turning her on & fucking her than I can - such a turn on for me! |
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