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By *he_original_polo OP   Woman  over a year ago

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For those who think sexuality is as simples as 'you are who you eat' (in a sexual sense) and straight means never ever doing anything with the same gender. What do you make of the following:

A married man with children who has never touched another man sexually, yet secretly masturbates to gay porn regularly. Is he gay, straight or bi?

A man who has never had a man touch him sexually, asks a woman to fuck his arse with a cock shaped dildo. As she pushes the dildo in and out he imagines it is Vin Diesel’s cock Is he gay, straight or bi?

A man who has never had a man touch him sexually, asks a woman to fuck his arse with a cock shaped dildo. Whilst doing this another man grabs hold of the dildo and pushes it in and out a few times. The guy doesn’t mind this as he is enjoying the sensation and the woman has just started giving him a fantastic blow job, but would ask the other guy to stop if he tried to touch him. Is the guy with a dildo up him gay, straight or bi?

A man goes into a dark room and someone sucks his cock, he has no idea if it is a man or a woman and really doesn’t want to find out who it was…. A blow job is a blow job at the end of the day. Is the guy who is receiving gay, straight or bi?

A man goes into a dark room and someone sucks his cock, he has no idea if it is a man or a woman, but they do feel a bit masculine. He decides to imagine it is Megan Fox to stop him worrying about it being a man. Is the guy who is receiving gay, straight or bi?

A man starts fucking a woman in an open play room so he can watch other men masturbate, he likes to imagine he’s fucking the other men. Is the guy who is receiving gay, straight or bi?

A man starts fucking a woman in an open play room so he can watch other men masturbate. He likes to be watched this way as it makes him feel like a porn star . Is the guy who is receiving gay, straight or bi?

A man fucks a lot of women he doesn’t fancy, thought he has never had a man touch him sexually. Is he gay, straight or bi?

A woman (for a change) is in the middle of an orgy, someone has their fingers deep inside her, but she doesn’t know who and isn’t really bothered who it is. Is she a lesbian, straight or bi?

A woman is in the middle of an orgy, someone has their fingers deep inside her. When she looks down she sees the hand belongs to a woman. She also sees her playmate getting really turned on by this so allows it to continue. Is she a lesbian, straight or bi?

A woman who has sex with men for money, but only has sex with other women for pleasure. . Is she a lesbian, straight or bi?

A woman who has only ever had sexual contact with men, fantasises each night about a woman making love to her whilst she masturbates? Is she a lesbian, straight or bi?

A woman who doesn’t mind who touches her in certain group situations, young, old, fat, thin, ugly, pretty, man or woman, but winces at the thought of doing anything to another woman. Is she a lesbian, straight or bi?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"For those who think sexuality is as simples as 'you are who you eat' (in a sexual sense) and straight means never ever doing anything with the same gender. What do you make of the following:

A married man with children who has never touched another man sexually, yet secretly masturbates to gay porn regularly. Is he gay, straight or bi?

A man who has never had a man touch him sexually, asks a woman to fuck his arse with a cock shaped dildo. As she pushes the dildo in and out he imagines it is Vin Diesel’s cock Is he gay, straight or bi?

A man who has never had a man touch him sexually, asks a woman to fuck his arse with a cock shaped dildo. Whilst doing this another man grabs hold of the dildo and pushes it in and out a few times. The guy doesn’t mind this as he is enjoying the sensation and the woman has just started giving him a fantastic blow job, but would ask the other guy to stop if he tried to touch him. Is the guy with a dildo up him gay, straight or bi?

A man goes into a dark room and someone sucks his cock, he has no idea if it is a man or a woman and really doesn’t want to find out who it was…. A blow job is a blow job at the end of the day. Is the guy who is receiving gay, straight or bi?

A man goes into a dark room and someone sucks his cock, he has no idea if it is a man or a woman, but they do feel a bit masculine. He decides to imagine it is Megan Fox to stop him worrying about it being a man. Is the guy who is receiving gay, straight or bi?

A man starts fucking a woman in an open play room so he can watch other men masturbate, he likes to imagine he’s fucking the other men. Is the guy who is receiving gay, straight or bi?

A man starts fucking a woman in an open play room so he can watch other men masturbate. He likes to be watched this way as it makes him feel like a porn star . Is the guy who is receiving gay, straight or bi?

A man fucks a lot of women he doesn’t fancy, thought he has never had a man touch him sexually. Is he gay, straight or bi?

A woman (for a change) is in the middle of an orgy, someone has their fingers deep inside her, but she doesn’t know who and isn’t really bothered who it is. Is she a lesbian, straight or bi?

A woman is in the middle of an orgy, someone has their fingers deep inside her. When she looks down she sees the hand belongs to a woman. She also sees her playmate getting really turned on by this so allows it to continue. Is she a lesbian, straight or bi?

A woman who has sex with men for money, but only has sex with other women for pleasure. . Is she a lesbian, straight or bi?

A woman who has only ever had sexual contact with men, fantasises each night about a woman making love to her whilst she masturbates? Is she a lesbian, straight or bi?

A woman who doesn’t mind who touches her in certain group situations, young, old, fat, thin, ugly, pretty, man or woman, but winces at the thought of doing anything to another woman. Is she a lesbian, straight or bi?

1. straight

2. straight

3. straight

4. straight

5. straight

6. straight

7. straight

8. depends, he may not of been touched but he could be seeking to

9. straight

10. straight

11. she is comfortable with men but can only do with women she really likes, so mainly straight with a bit of bi tendency

12.straight, unless seeking a women then bi

13. probably straight

I think bi is when you really want to do things to others and on a regular basis, otherwise been touched and not caring who by is about receiving pleasure and thats it. I find it hard though to know when the line is, for me when you have emotions for the other sex is when your bi, otherwise it's just for pleasure really

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

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I think they are all just opened minded and realize that doing something either in fantasy or on the spur of the moment doest necessarily define your sexuality

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By *aceytopWoman  over a year ago

from a town near you

i think they are just sexual full stop

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If humans couldn't speak, would we need these identifier labels?

They are just labels to pigeonhole people into what constitutes "normal" which for each of us is different.

Sensual touch should be enjoyed however and whoever you want to enjoy it with.

I don't need a label, I use bi on my profile as I'll have sex with men and women. It isn't a 50% equal split though, it varies.

Sometimes im all about women, sometimes i crave men.

I tend to find individuals attractive, could be a nice haircut or a nice bum, the sex of the owner is irrelevant for me.

I understand that there are other extremes too, where people really don't want someone of the same sex touching them. We're all different, that's what keeps life exciting!

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By *uby In StockingsTV/TS  over a year ago

Cheadle


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I understand that there are other extremes too, where people really don't want someone of the same sex touching them. We're all different, that's what keeps life exciting! "

+1

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

But surely whatever anyone chooses to fantasise over or identify as their chosen sexuality is not the same issue as what constitutes the universally accepted dictionary definition of sexual activity between consenting people…….!.

i.e

People who readily engage in opposite sex only encounters are engaging in heterosexual behaviour

People who only actively engage in same sex encounters are engaging in homosexual behaviour.

People who actively engage in sex with either gender readily engage in bi-sexual activity…

So I’m quite happy using a site with a universally accepted system which allows for easy identification of individuals willing to match those dictionary definitions, but which also gives the individual an option to expand the detail of their chosen preference should they wish too……

Oop’s I guess that’s maybe a bit like having an profile….!.

Hey.... I'm just say what I think.... I'm not disrespecting anyone else’s point of view !!!

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By *he_original_polo OP   Woman  over a year ago

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Ahhh now we are getting into the area of sexuality v sexual behaviour.

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By *he_original_polo OP   Woman  over a year ago

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The site asks for your sexuality, not your sexual behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The site asks for your sexuality, not your sexual behaviour."

Yes your right it does...but surely we need that to have an acceptable gauge as to whether a potential partner is willing to engage in sexual behaviour of the sort denoted by their profile sexuality.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't think enough info exists in the scenario's for an outsider to label anyone accurately.

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By *he_original_polo OP   Woman  over a year ago

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"The site asks for your sexuality, not your sexual behaviour.

Yes your right it does...but surely we need that to have an acceptable gauge as to whether a potential partner is willing to engage in sexual behaviour of the sort denoted by their profile sexuality.....

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I do not disagree with that at all.

Though the boxes are only a rough guide... as I see it. Sexuality and even sexual behaviour is far too complex to fit into a dozen boxes and so you may as well stick to 3 and then use the profile text to explain what you are looking for/willing to do/seeking to try.

But it is getting pretty sickening to keep seeing how many people insist others are lying, being dishonest and being told to change which box they tick.

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By *he_original_polo OP   Woman  over a year ago

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"I don't think enough info exists in the scenario's for an outsider to label anyone accurately.

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Oh come now... it's never stopped plenty from telling people on the forum what they are or are not.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't think enough info exists in the scenario's for an outsider to label anyone accurately.

Oh come now... it's never stopped plenty from telling people on the forum what they are or are not."

Is that not your point ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We have straight on our profile.

We have both had orally bi experiences.

I've had it said numerous times that we are in denial. Neither of us would be interested in meeting a member of the opposite sex on a one on one basis, and neither have we had relationships with the same sex.

Our sexuality is not defined by what happens for 10 minutes in a playroom at a swing club.

Sadly some people cannot seem to grasp this

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Its a label at the end of the day, does it really matter?

I am bi (as I have had sex with both genders). I have met straight guys who obvioulsy arent and I have gay friends who have also "d*unk from the furry cup" so to speak too. So in my experience I would say, especially on Fab, that Bisexuality is by far the greatest sexuality label.

Having said that I would say we are all just sexual... if it feels good and no one is getting upset by the action then does it really matter? we are all here to explore our fantasies and enjoy the sensations.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

1. Hes a guy who’s happy pleasing himself.

2. He’s a lucky guy with a good imagination. Does the lady have a profile on here?

3. He’s a very lucky man. Does this couple have a profile on here?

4. Where is this dark-room?

5. Where is this dark room?

6. Hes a lucky guy with a good imagination.

7. He’s a lucky guy with an unrealised career in pron.

8. This man is probably divorced.

9. This lady is having a lot of fun.

10. This lady is having a lot of fun and her playmate is a happy person

11. I hope she declares her earnings for tax purposes

12. The lady should have a chat to her male partner and bring up Fab.

13. Shes doesn’t sound too fussy in a group scenario – does she have a profile on here?

You are who you are and you like what you like. If we all spent as much time doing what we like, rather than worrying about what or who we like – we would all be have tons more fun

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Why do we need labels why do we need to label ourselves straight, gay or bi surely we are all sexual beings so there for if it feels good then why not go for it. I am attracted to men but I enjoy playing with girls in the right settings. I class myself as bi playful or try sexual will try most things at least once.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This has got very complicated!

I've got a headache now, I don't feel like any sex at all, I'm going for a lie down!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

On a semi-related topic I was once posed the questions "is all masturbation gay?"

My instant reaction was "don't be pathetic" but then in effect masturbation is sexual pleasure given and received by the same person, so by extension, the same sex.

So obviously imagination plays a big part in masturbation. I would have said the people in the dark rooms are bi, but then, are they? They don't know who is pleasuring them, and they are also using imagination. How far can we extend this. If I were to have sex with a man, but imagine I were having anal with a woman, which of the 3 catagories do I belong to, if any?

I've never had any sexual contact with a male, nor would I want to....but then I have masturbated, so I've had sexual contact with myself, which is "guy on guy" does it matter that it was my own hand rather than that of another person? If another guy did it for me, but I imagined it was a girl, am I bi, have I had a bi experience?

I think the OP's question poses more questions than answers

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By *ensualtouch15Man  over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Im in general agreement that we label far too much and this should be counteracted !

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By *ezebelWoman  over a year ago

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"This has got very complicated!

I've got a headache now, I don't feel like any sex at all, I'm going for a lie down!! "

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple  over a year ago

hexham

to all the anti labeling people this is easy to say when you belong to a majority group.

However when i discovered the term bisexuality at the age of 16 it was quite literally a life saver for me, to find out i was not alone and that others shared similar feelings towards men and women was an immense relief.

People can find security, fellowship and a sense of identity in self selected labels, if you look at those who describe themselves as gender queer or as bois you will find a community that chooses to label itself as an act of defiance against the labels others have imposed all their lives.

It is easy to say its just all sex when you are a man or woman who occasionally may have same sex contact but in your day to day life does not encounter bigotry or prejudice due to your sexual choices/sexuality or gender.

This should not lead to a complacent attitude towards those for whom having a lable to identify with is important.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Eish!!!!! Boxes, boxes and more boxes. Just take a chill pill, relax, unpack, spread it all around, however you want to, make of it as you will. But all the time you want boxes that's all you are going to get. Sexuality is a very broad spectrum disorder that we are all afflicted with and suffer from, from time to time. Very few people are ever going to fit exactly into any category. As long as you have your boxes, the longer you are going to remain ignorant of their contents and more importantly worried about how they will affect you. So many people needlessly suffer from their sexuality, instead of enjoying and embracing it. Just unpack it all and then decide what you want just don't put yourself back in the box in makes no sense, you are not going to fit!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"On a semi-related topic I was once posed the questions "is all masturbation gay?"

My instant reaction was "don't be pathetic" but then in effect masturbation is sexual pleasure given and received by the same person, so by extension, the same sex.

So obviously imagination plays a big part in masturbation. I would have said the people in the dark rooms are bi, but then, are they? They don't know who is pleasuring them, and they are also using imagination. How far can we extend this. If I were to have sex with a man, but imagine I were having anal with a woman, which of the 3 catagories do I belong to, if any?

I've never had any sexual contact with a male, nor would I want to....but then I have masturbated, so I've had sexual contact with myself, which is "guy on guy" does it matter that it was my own hand rather than that of another person? If another guy did it for me, but I imagined it was a girl, am I bi, have I had a bi experience?

I think the OP's question poses more questions than answers"

Don't knock masturbation, its sex with someone you love!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Eish!!!!! Boxes, boxes and more boxes. Just take a chill pill, relax, unpack, spread it all around, however you want to, make of it as you will. But all the time you want boxes that's all you are going to get. Sexuality is a very broad spectrum disorder that we are all afflicted with and suffer from, from time to time. Very few people are ever going to fit exactly into any category. As long as you have your boxes, the longer you are going to remain ignorant of their contents and more importantly worried about how they will affect you. So many people needlessly suffer from their sexuality, instead of enjoying and embracing it. Just unpack it all and then decide what you want just don't put yourself back in the box in makes no sense, you are not going to fit!"

That's what I was going to say! It's a spectrum of various colours and variations and it's all goooood

Her

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