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Should everyone try bi?
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I think its more important that people follow their own desires without worrying about it. If you're curious then explore... Fortunately society is now more accepting than ever. Bi nights at clubs are a good place to experiment without the pressure to fulfill others needs at a private meet. Just dip your "toe" in and out as you feel comfortable! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think its more important that people follow their own desires without worrying about it. If you're curious then explore... Fortunately society is now more accepting than ever. Bi nights at clubs are a good place to experiment without the pressure to fulfill others needs at a private meet. Just dip your "toe" in and out as you feel comfortable! "
Been trying to message you for ages! |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Do you think everyone should try something bi in their life time? And has it opened your world? "
Definitely not. No one "should" try anything they aren't comfortable with. There are already far too many "shoulds". |
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"Do you think everyone should try something bi in their life time? And has it opened your world?
Definitely not. No one "should" try anything they aren't comfortable with. There are already far too many "shoulds"."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think everyone should try something bi in their life time? And has it opened your world? "
Being Bi chooses you, it's not a passing fancy ... just a thought. For me it's who I am. |
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
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"I think its more important that people follow their own desires without worrying about it. If you're curious then explore... Fortunately society is now more accepting than ever. Bi nights at clubs are a good place to experiment without the pressure to fulfill others needs at a private meet. Just dip your "toe" in and out as you feel comfortable! "
Well if anyone wants to dip their ‘toe’ with me I’d be more than happy. I’m good friends with most of my previous ‘toe’ dippers  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you think everyone should try something bi in their life time? And has it opened your world?
Definitely not. No one "should" try anything they aren't comfortable with. There are already far too many "shoulds"."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do my thing and you do your thing.
I am not in this world to live up to your expectations,
And you are not in this world to live up to mine.
You are you, and I am I,
and if by chance we find each other, it's beautiful.
If not, it can't be helped.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ll only do bi stuff with 2 women 
That would not fit the definition of "bi"....
What the women do would
Oh yes, they would be "bi" but he would not be "bi".... He would be heterosexual. "
I’d be watching bi stuff don’t that count then  |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Everyone is a little bi at least - if they are honest with themselves "
That is totally wrong and more than a bit silly. It's like saying everyone likes pain at least a little bit if they're honest with themselves, the justification being that some people are turned on by pain.
As a woman I enjoy being sex with other women, but my partner is completely turned off by guy on guy. |
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I tried and am very happy I did
I haven’t had much experience and don’t know if it will be a regular thing or not yet, but I felt so much better after doing it after years of curiosity. I’d highly recommend it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's nothing wrong with being straight.
Anyone who's even remotely curious and is in a position to try though absolutely should. "
 who said there was anything wrong with being straight |
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Obviously I agree with everyone saying no-one “should” do anything they don’t want to, but I’m also going to point out that a lot of us who actually are bi don’t really want to be anyone’s “experiment” - imagine turning up for a meet with someone only for them to turn round and say they don’t actually like your gender after all, what a frustrating waste of time that would be! |
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You're confusing sexuality for a choice here.
People don't choose what gender they like.
Are you attracted to both genders?
Are you sexually attracted to both?
Yes...
Then you could be bi or horny, have a wank before taking action.
No...
Congrats/condolences, you're not bi.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Should only try if happy, its not compulsory
I have (male) tried and enjoyed it as part of a 4 sum , may again if the atmosphere was right so not set in stone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never thought I’d ever try it . I still prefer women but I must admit it can be fun every so often especially if it’s with a couple . Best of both worlds . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think its more important that people follow their own desires without worrying about it. If you're curious then explore... Fortunately society is now more accepting than ever. Bi nights at clubs are a good place to experiment without the pressure to fulfill others needs at a private meet. Just dip your "toe" in and out as you feel comfortable! "
So true, I dipped a toe in and so glad that I did, it was the best thing I did, and have had some amazing fun that I would have missed out on had I not followed my feelings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I am meeting a couple, I just suck whatever is waved in front of my face or if I am being sucked, I don’t mind which one of the couple is doing it but I wouldn’t have a one on one meet with a guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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sites like fab open it up to a lot of people, i hadnt thought about until joining fab then just sexually explored, so tried couple guy meets, were fun,
still pref fems and cpls but good to have tried,
may even have guy meets again. |
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If some of them are going to try stuff but be a shit shag, then they could at least ensure that they won't deter others for life. Do what you want to, invest yourself in it, so that you and others with you get the most out of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm the 'straightest' man ever on paper. But our minds wonder. We think about different things and persue them. I love women and would only ever be in a relationship with a woman. But sex... Both turn me on and I enjoy both |
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By *adetMan
over a year ago
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"I'm the 'straightest' man ever on paper. But our minds wonder. We think about different things and persue them. I love women and would only ever be in a relationship with a woman. But sex... Both turn me on and I enjoy both "
Best post of the day man |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm the 'straightest' man ever on paper. But our minds wonder. We think about different things and persue them. I love women and would only ever be in a relationship with a woman. But sex... Both turn me on and I enjoy both "
Really great response. Get in contact mate! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think everyone should try something bi in their life time? And has it opened your world?
Definitely not. No one "should" try anything they aren't comfortable with. There are already far too many "shoulds".
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By (user no longer on site)
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This heralds the coming of a day I've dreaded for a while. I'm totally tolerant of anybody else's sexuality. Doesn't bother me if you're gay or bi or whatever. But the day it becomes compulsory is now looming...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you think everyone should try something bi in their life time? And has it opened your world? "
Had enough problems with a bi-fold door opening a room, think that was sufficient experimenting for me.
Why do you think people should do things they dont want to OP? |
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10 years ago the idea of bi was a million miles from my mind.
Though people and circumstances change over time.... whilst experiences can change people for the better too.
I've never looked back after trying bi.
I'd wholehearted advise anyone to try it if they had the itch...
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"Do you think everyone should try something bi in their life time? And has it opened your world? "
No.
I'm all for trying new things, and I'm glad that I realised I'm pansexual (it has opened my eyes, if not my world)
But saying everyone should try it?
No, no, no.
People should feel free to experiment as much as they want, not as much as someone else says. |
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Well, it’s certainly very erotic. Horny and exciting with a touch of kink if it’s something you never imagined enjoying, like me.
But each to his/her own. The thing I would absolutely recommend is to try new experiences that turn you on. |
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I dont think everyone should try it. Only because its not for everyone.
But i do think, if you dont want to try it or are not interested in trying it ever, that you shouldnt give those a hard time who are into it. They always say don't knock it till you try it. |
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