Hey guys. We’re hoping for some advice and guidance here.
So we’ve been a ‘cuckold’ couple for a while now, but it’s always been behind closed doors. Although we’re happy enough, a lot of people still don’t understand/approve. So we’ve always been discrete in public.
Recently our long term bf/bull/alpha has started suggesting public dating; taking my wife to restaurants, movies etc. For me this is more humiliating that just sex, this is friendship. Does that make any sense at all?
So, any advice? Is this just normal evolution of the cuckold dynamic? Or do I have cause for worry.
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over a year ago
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If you don't want it to happen then say so.
You have a say in this too.
Personally I don't get people who are into cucking. I just don't get why you would cuck the person who you love most in the world. |
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If it works for you and you agree boundaries go for it. Have heard of situations where the cuck helps prepare and dress the wife for her dates as he sits home alone. |
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Does Bull/alpha Take you wife tonhis bed?.Only if there is plenty of trust there we hope?
But if you really want to be a good cuckold then you need to be in chastity.lock your cock up and give her the key while she go's on date.Get her to send pics and vids with him while she has the key in frame.As long as you can't get to your cock and she can get to his then this is the most amount of frustration needed 
Love locking Oldskool in chastity.It works great when playing with a hard cock while his is straining in a chastity device |
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By *objgukMan
over a year ago
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I used to meet a couple where i took his wife out to dinner or the pub.
she would text him to let him know what a great time we were having.
we would then drive back to their house where he stayed upstairs listening to us play downstairs.
we all loved it! |
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Op, it's only a 'normal evolution' if you're comfortable with it. It sounds like you have doubts, so you might want to sit down with your wife and share your feelings before going any further. |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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It won't be for everyone. You need to chat with your wife about it.
I met a couple before where he was very keen on the idea and she seemed to like the idea too. But after me and her met with him she felt something was missing in the meet. |
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"Personally I don't get people who are into cucking. I just don't get why you would cuck the person who you love most in the world.
Sex is not love."
I agree but the suggestion in the op is more than sex or at least that's where his doubts lie |
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"Personally I don't get people who are into cucking. I just don't get why you would cuck the person who you love most in the world.
Sex is not love.
I agree but the suggestion in the op is more than sex or at least that's where his doubts lie"
I wasn't replying to the op  |
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"Personally I don't get people who are into cucking. I just don't get why you would cuck the person who you love most in the world.
Sex is not love.
I agree but the suggestion in the op is more than sex or at least that's where his doubts lie
I wasn't replying to the op "
Oh, my bad. Soz  |
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Something we have done quite a lot.
Sometimes Mr is allowed to follow on later and watch from a distance as we have drinks etc. He is not allowed to approach and we never aknowledge him. in fact most times we never see him. |
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"If you don't want it to happen then say so.
You have a say in this too.
Personally I don't get people who are into cucking. I just don't get why you would cuck the person who you love most in the world."
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"Hey guys. We’re hoping for some advice and guidance here.
So we’ve been a ‘cuckold’ couple for a while now, but it’s always been behind closed doors. Although we’re happy enough, a lot of people still don’t understand/approve. So we’ve always been discrete in public.
Recently our long term bf/bull/alpha has started suggesting public dating; taking my wife to restaurants, movies etc. For me this is more humiliating that just sex, this is friendship. Does that make any sense at all?
So, any advice? Is this just normal evolution of the cuckold dynamic? Or do I have cause for worry.
Thanks in advance. "
We’ve done that with her former regular. He drove to ours, I drove them both to the pub and then drove them back to ours after waiting outside for them. Then listened through the door. Extremely erotic. |
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I think its a natural evolution OP. You cant expect your wife to regularly meet up with someone for sex and not at the very least become friends if not actualy develop feelings for the guy.
There is a chance she will be discovered in public with her lover so you and her need to consider if your both okay with that or not.
If not then it is a bad idea obviously.
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"If you don't want it to happen then say so.
You have a say in this too.
Personally I don't get people who are into cucking. I just don't get why you would cuck the person who you love most in the world."
I agree, i understand the fantasy but in reallity i think it crosses lines that are hard for the male to cope with - in the cold light of day. |
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"If you don't want it to happen then say so.
You have a say in this too.
Personally I don't get people who are into cucking. I just don't get why you would cuck the person who you love most in the world.
I agree, i understand the fantasy but in reallity i think it crosses lines that are hard for the male to cope with - in the cold light of day."
A lot of people could say the same about swinging. |
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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
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"Hey guys. We’re hoping for some advice and guidance here.
So we’ve been a ‘cuckold’ couple for a while now, but it’s always been behind closed doors. Although we’re happy enough, a lot of people still don’t understand/approve. So we’ve always been discrete in public.
Recently our long term bf/bull/alpha has started suggesting public dating; taking my wife to restaurants, movies etc. For me this is more humiliating that just sex, this is friendship. Does that make any sense at all?
So, any advice? Is this just normal evolution of the cuckold dynamic? Or do I have cause for worry.
Thanks in advance. "
cant give you advice really but this id love to try... |
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