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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i always wank over my girlfriend getting fucked by someone else but in real life i dont think i cud handle it ,,,,,,,,,how do u know that u r a couple for swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you duscuss it fully with your partner, ensure you have groundrules you are both happy with and no pressure environment to see if it is for you - such as a club where there is no pressure to play, you can watch others, just play together, be watched or have others to play with you if it feels right for you both. its not for everyone but it works for my hubby & i. Good luck with what ever you decide x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you try it and if you like it, its for you, if you dont then its not"
...and you'll never know for sure until you actually do it too. But if you're dreading it at the thought stage, then it don't bode well :P
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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
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"i always wank over my girlfriend getting fucked by someone else but in real life i dont think i cud handle it ,,,,,,,,,how do u know that u r a couple for swinging"
tell me how you feel about it while I'm shagging her  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm having the exact same thoughts at the mo. Do i ask my gf or not? I am no longer meeting etc on here but chat in the forums and with old friends. Id love to get in to 3sums etc with her espec mff as i think she has a bi side but just dont know how to ask!!! |
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"thanks for answering guys ,,,but girls what was ur 1st thought when ur man talked about swinging "
i got into it with my ex, we just talked about fantasies and came to light i wanted to be with 2 guys and he organised it by telling me aboutthe life style and the rest is history as they say
and its now 9 years later  |
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By *anictechCouple
over a year ago
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"thanks for answering guys ,,,but girls what was ur 1st thought when ur man talked about swinging "
First off we were not 20 years old, we had a bit of life experience behind us.
Secondly it was (fems) idea and hubby jumped at it, we have never looked back, however we had been together a loooooong time.
I asked hubby if he was up for a couple meet, he said yes..
The worry comes in when theres a jelousy/insecure issue, if your both secure in your relationship then take the chance if you BOTH feel like you want to explore. If its one sided tho? Then your playing with fire.
Very best of luck, MT |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thanks for answering guys ,,,but girls what was ur 1st thought when ur man talked about swinging "
scared but excited... took us forever dirty talking out fantasies out in bed before we actually decided to do something about it tho. By the time we did we'd got ourselves mega horny thinking about it but it still took us a good few go's before we feel really comfortable with it. It took a little while me to disassociate sex from love and just see if for what it is... jolly good fun lol. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are you or your other half a jealous type of person?
What would you do if you saw each other playing with another person and they seemed to be enjoying it more than with you?
If you can handle the high at the time of the playing, could you handle the come down?
There is no substitute for experience, if you BOTH feel that you would like to experiment and explore sex with others then just try doing something small and see how you both feel afterwards.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thanks for answering guys ,,,but girls what was ur 1st thought when ur man talked about swinging "
i met him here and we only play with girls as he wouldn't like it and i defintely wouldn't so maybe have a chat as without it u will always wonder xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i always wank over my girlfriend getting fucked by someone else but in real life i dont think i cud handle it ,,,,,,,,,how do u know that u r a couple for swinging"
You're on here as a single male actively looking to cheat on her and you think that you;d have jealousy issues. Personally i think you need to consider whether you are emotionally mature enough to do this before you even think about asking her. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i have never meet with another woman or cheated on her i am on here to try and find out what it is all about and be 100% sure before i asked her and that way i might have some of the answers to the questions she might ask but thanks for all ur replys they r all helpfull and helping me understand |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have never meet with another woman or cheated on her i am on here to try and find out what it is all about and be 100% sure before i asked her and that way i might have some of the answers to the questions she might ask but thanks for all ur replys they r all helpfull and helping me understand "
Well why not let her look at the site and discuss it together? 
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"i always wank over my girlfriend getting fucked by someone else but in real life i dont think i cud handle it ,,,,,,,,,how do u know that u r a couple for swinging"
Hang on a minute, hope you're not one of those guys sending people messages asking them to explain in detail what they going to do to your girlfriend to work out if they up for the task. But in the end, you just wank over the idea and not meet.
Because i cant understand that bit you said, '...in real life, you dont think you could handle it...'
Common mate, reveal yourself cos i have some few words for ya this very minute  |
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