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Having a partner with a low / lower sex drive. Does it effect your relationship?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Its a topic ive come across a fair bit.
Did you start swinging because of a partner with a lower sex drive?
How does this this effect your relationship as to me sex is a huge part in a relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"female viagra???????  "
I wonder if this actually works and is not risky to take health wise.
How does this work as viagra for men gives a solid erection but for women does this mentally actually make them horny? Ive seen pills on love honey and ann summers ive used them and had her take the female ones and theyre rubbish |
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Being sexually compatible was important for us both.
We didn't come here because we didn't match up, we came here because we are both very sexual people and wanted to explore together.
I think people are forgetting that compatability should be a thing when getting into a relationship. |
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Absolutely effects a relationship, both d and I came from relationships where our sex drives did not match and mentally it took its toll resulting in the longterm relationships ending.
For us coming on fab has been a mutual desire to explore further together and because our sex drives and desires match very well. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Absolutely effects a relationship, both d and I came from relationships where our sex drives did not match and mentally it took its toll resulting in the longterm relationships ending.
For us coming on fab has been a mutual desire to explore further together and because our sex drives and desires match very well. "
But not all couples click because they have the same sex drive surely? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Mrs sex drive is way above mine but we manage to balance it out OK, her batteries run out quite quick tho haha. "
Haha so she isnt one for lasting hours then |
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But not all couples click because they have the same sex drive surely?"
Absolutely not no, and that's not what I meant by that. Just that for us our previous relationships were deeply effected by mismatched sex drives..
Our matching sex drive is just one of the many reasons we have found we work together.
Sex is not the basis of a relationship, however it is an important part. Respecting and supporting any reasons as to why one person is having a dip in sex drive is important, but long term its not always something that can be worked around x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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But not all couples click because they have the same sex drive surely?
Absolutely not no, and that's not what I meant by that. Just that for us our previous relationships were deeply effected by mismatched sex drives..
Our matching sex drive is just one of the many reasons we have found we work together.
Sex is not the basis of a relationship, however it is an important part. Respecting and supporting any reasons as to why one person is having a dip in sex drive is important, but long term its not always something that can be worked around x "
I agree. Though for some it probably isnt a huge deal, esp those who both mutually agree to swing this probably helps massively. |
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"female viagra???????
I wonder if this actually works and is not risky to take health wise.
How does this work as viagra for men gives a solid erection but for women does this mentally actually make them horny? Ive seen pills on love honey and ann summers ive used them and had her take the female ones and theyre rubbish"
I can't imagine a tablet would make a woman mentally horny.
What tends to do that within a relationship is feeling that a partner is emotionally available, feeling confident in her body and being encouraged to explore her sexuality without judgement as well as wanting to engage sexually herself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me an my wife were sexually well matched but things have changed due to stress age menopause she is no longer as sexually aroused or interested any more hence why I have come to fab sure I will get slated know but it dose really affect a realationship as far as for me |
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By *bbott24Couple
over a year ago
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Just lately the wife's libido has soared I like the hot wife play. So it suits us, I'm also happy for her to play on her own, happened after she started on here and realised how many liberated people are out there. And what is available, I'm riding the wave for as long as it lasts. |
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"Me an my wife were sexually well matched but things have changed due to stress age menopause she is no longer as sexually aroused or interested any more hence why I have come to fab sure I will get slated know but it dose really affect a realationship as far as for me "
Its the same with me
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