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The big straight bi debate
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is there still people out there who believe a guy is gay if him and a partner enjoy prostate and strapon fun ? A lady is happily allowed to play bi with a woman and alls ok but a man and his wife girl whatever is different ?
Have a look at a website strapateur guys I think on viewing and a little curiousness a good few may change there views on it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there still people out there who believe a guy is gay if him and a partner enjoy prostate and strapon fun ? A lady is happily allowed to play bi with a woman and alls ok but a man and his wife girl whatever is different ?
Have a look at a website strapateur guys I think on viewing and a little curiousness a good few may change there views on it "
It's not gay if a man wants his bum fucked by a woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bi/straight are surely anachronistic terms by now?
Many "straight" men on here seem so insecure about being thought of as having broader sexual horizons.
Methinks the laddies do object too much.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It still baffles me that a woman is able to play with other women , explore, try it out etc and she's able to use the straight label (usually with celebration )
Yet a man explores and tries things with other men, then the pitch forks come out and he suddenly has to identify as Bi.
It's wrong to have such double standards.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It still baffles me that a woman is able to play with other women , explore, try it out etc and she's able to use the straight label (usually with celebration )
Yet a man explores and tries things with other men, then the pitch forks come out and he suddenly has to identify as Bi.
It's wrong to have such double standards.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It still baffles me that a woman is able to play with other women , explore, try it out etc and she's able to use the straight label (usually with celebration )
Yet a man explores and tries things with other men, then the pitch forks come out and he suddenly has to identify as Bi.
It's wrong to have such double standards.
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Well in that scnerio both the man and woman are bi  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It still baffles me that a woman is able to play with other women , explore, try it out etc and she's able to use the straight label (usually with celebration )
Yet a man explores and tries things with other men, then the pitch forks come out and he suddenly has to identify as Bi.
It's wrong to have such double standards.
Well in that scnerio both the man and woman are bi "
But are they really? If they try it and decide they don't like it?
That's like saying I tried a vegetable and now I'm a vegetarian? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It still baffles me that a woman is able to play with other women , explore, try it out etc and she's able to use the straight label (usually with celebration )
Yet a man explores and tries things with other men, then the pitch forks come out and he suddenly has to identify as Bi.
It's wrong to have such double standards.
Well in that scnerio both the man and woman are bi
But are they really? If they try it and decide they don't like it?
That's like saying I tried a vegetable and now I'm a vegetarian?"
Vegetables are good. Just use lots of lube and maybe a condom |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It still baffles me that a woman is able to play with other women , explore, try it out etc and she's able to use the straight label (usually with celebration )
Yet a man explores and tries things with other men, then the pitch forks come out and he suddenly has to identify as Bi.
It's wrong to have such double standards.
Well in that scnerio both the man and woman are bi
But are they really? If they try it and decide they don't like it?
That's like saying I tried a vegetable and now I'm a vegetarian?"
A truly straight person wouldn’t feel a need to try  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It still baffles me that a woman is able to play with other women , explore, try it out etc and she's able to use the straight label (usually with celebration )
Yet a man explores and tries things with other men, then the pitch forks come out and he suddenly has to identify as Bi.
It's wrong to have such double standards.
Well in that scnerio both the man and woman are bi
But are they really? If they try it and decide they don't like it?
That's like saying I tried a vegetable and now I'm a vegetarian?
A truly straight person wouldn’t feel a need to try "
I disagree with that . We are all pleasure seekers to an extent |
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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago
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"Is there still people out there who believe a guy is gay if him and a partner enjoy prostate and strapon fun ? A lady is happily allowed to play bi with a woman and alls ok but a man and his wife girl whatever is different ?
Have a look at a website strapateur guys I think on viewing and a little curiousness a good few may change there views on it "
Why do things need to be labelled? If consenting adults enjoy a variety of things with each other, what difference does it make to you?
I really do not understand why people spend so much time worrying about what other people get up to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there still people out there who believe a guy is gay if him and a partner enjoy prostate and strapon fun ? A lady is happily allowed to play bi with a woman and alls ok but a man and his wife girl whatever is different ?
Have a look at a website strapateur guys I think on viewing and a little curiousness a good few may change there views on it
Why do things need to be labelled? If consenting adults enjoy a variety of things with each other, what difference does it make to you?
I really do not understand why people spend so much time worrying about what other people get up to"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm calling myself 'bi' on here, although I do not get turned on by men in the slightest, have no interest in seeing cocks. But if I met a couple and the male partner wanted to play with my cock, then I'd probably let him.
I think of myself as straight, but for the sake of argument I'm putting bi.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It still baffles me that a woman is able to play with other women , explore, try it out etc and she's able to use the straight label (usually with celebration )
Yet a man explores and tries things with other men, then the pitch forks come out and he suddenly has to identify as Bi.
It's wrong to have such double standards.
Well in that scnerio both the man and woman are bi
But are they really? If they try it and decide they don't like it?
That's like saying I tried a vegetable and now I'm a vegetarian?"
You're shifting the goalposts here. You never said they didn't like it in your first reply.
If a woman explores with another woman, she's bi. If a man explores with another man, he's bi. There's no negative connotation with being bi.
I don't understand why there's this hesitation to call someone bisexual. It's not a "label", it's their sexuality. |
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By *ucilleWoman
over a year ago
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"It still baffles me that a woman is able to play with other women , explore, try it out etc and she's able to use the straight label (usually with celebration )
Yet a man explores and tries things with other men, then the pitch forks come out and he suddenly has to identify as Bi.
It's wrong to have such double standards.
Well in that scnerio both the man and woman are bi
But are they really? If they try it and decide they don't like it?
That's like saying I tried a vegetable and now I'm a vegetarian?
You're shifting the goalposts here. You never said they didn't like it in your first reply.
If a woman explores with another woman, she's bi. If a man explores with another man, he's bi. There's no negative connotation with being bi.
I don't understand why there's this hesitation to call someone bisexual. It's not a "label", it's their sexuality."
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I've generally had fun with women, but have occasionally had fun with men. Sexuality is a wide spectrum and your own can change during your lifetime. I think folk should just embrace what they enjoy and not worry about trying to label everything. It's all about having fun after all. |
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