We've been Ghosted a few times lately. Which has really confused as we we've been talking alot on her the conversation has been going well. Even meet up for a social with one got really well again. But since then nothing. We message them all but have given up now cause we get nothing back. How's everyone else feeling on this and there rules of time limit etc
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yes, we've been ghosted. If someone doesn't respond to a message we assume they've lost interest, even if we've met for a social. The usual thing is that you suggest a date to meet, they agree but never respond to your message suggesting times |
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I only figured this out the other day, it's possible that your messages get lost amongst the barrage of messages the recipient gets.
I met on lady, she showed me her unread messages 300 in her inbox. And she had to trawl to find my messages. If you time your message wrong it means likely lost through the mass influx of 000s messages they get. If you look in your sent messages and see its not read that's a sign it's lost. Try and time it when they online. Even then it's a small window of opportunity.
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"I only figured this out the other day, it's possible that your messages get lost amongst the barrage of messages the recipient gets.
I met on lady, she showed me her unread messages 300 in her inbox. And she had to trawl to find my messages. If you time your message wrong it means likely lost through the mass influx of 000s messages they get. If you look in your sent messages and see its not read that's a sign it's lost. Try and time it when they online. Even then it's a small window of opportunity.
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I agree with this! If I’m interested in talking further to someone after exchanging a few messages then I suggest moving on to Kik |
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We don't real use 3rd party apps or messaging apps. As we try to keep it all on hear, we understand that some people do get inundated with messages. We still class us as fairly inexperienced with the swinging etc as theres only couple we've played with on regular basis. This might but people off. |
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