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over a year ago
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Hi
I visit a daytime CD club occasionally, and it also hosts regular swinging nights.
I was wondering about the attitude to lone crossdressers at these events; if I turned up at your club (see profile) would you be friendly? Intrigued? Hostile?
Thx
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"Hi
I visit a daytime CD club occasionally, and it also hosts regular swinging nights.
I was wondering about the attitude to lone crossdressers at these events; if I turned up at your club (see profile) would you be friendly? Intrigued? Hostile?
Thx
Pxxx"
The Greenhouse in Newport have a Bi night every Saturday which is popular with swingers. It's also a designated tgirl night.
For more info see http://www.gay-sauna.com/newport-gay-sauna/
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Some clubs, like Club SX, Gatehouse and Townhouse welcome Tgirls at pretty much any time. Other clubs will only "allow" us in on designated events. Then there are other swingers clubs where we are not welcome at all. It's just a case of doing a bit of research and seeing what is best for you. |
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Tbh we’re all there for the same thing and to have good night, regardless if we’re a couple single female male tv. It should be open to all and people are free to do as they please, I’ve witnessed cd/TVs on couples and singles nights and no one batted a eyelid. |
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No attitude from me. Part of why I love the scene is just seeing people shine being them self and expressing their self. It's a shame that many cross dressers I've know have had to confine it to a club environment. It's very sad and shows something of how the attitudes of the outside world can be quite oppressive. Me and my partner have cross dressing and trans gender freinds. And from our conversations we know there are some clubs were cross dressers don't feel overly welcome (especially on the main nights). To be fair some of the clubs we've been to we've got the feeling that l
cross dressers may not go down well. Not in terms of club policy, more in terms of the attitudes of the clientele. However there are some clubs that feel welcoming and safe for cross dressers which is awesome. You'll normally know these clubs because there will be a few cross dressers normally there. I could say similar things in terms of gay or bisexual men with clubs (or at least open expression of it). But I do think people are becoming more liberated in their views. Maybe one day everyone will feel secure and welcome in any club regardless of gender, how they dress or sexuality? Maybe one day the world will be like that too. |
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"No attitude from me. Part of why I love the scene is just seeing people shine being them self and expressing their self. It's a shame that many cross dressers I've know have had to confine it to a club environment. It's very sad and shows something of how the attitudes of the outside world can be quite oppressive. Me and my partner have cross dressing and trans gender freinds. And from our conversations we know there are some clubs were cross dressers don't feel overly welcome (especially on the main nights). To be fair some of the clubs we've been to we've got the feeling that l
cross dressers may not go down well. Not in terms of club policy, more in terms of the attitudes of the clientele. However there are some clubs that feel welcoming and safe for cross dressers which is awesome. You'll normally know these clubs because there will be a few cross dressers normally there. I could say similar things in terms of gay or bisexual men with clubs (or at least open expression of it). But I do think people are becoming more liberated in their views. Maybe one day everyone will feel secure and welcome in any club regardless of gender, how they dress or sexuality? Maybe one day the world will be like that too."
Well said. Hopefully I'll bump into some lovely people like yourselves one day. Xxx |
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Club SX, Townhouse and Gatehouse are very inclusive when it comes to TGirls and CD’s. And the clientele are also supportive and open minded, so I will only attend their nights and events.
It is a shame that some clubs certainly appear to want to exclude us, but I know where I prefer to spend my money   |
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