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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This might be an odd question but has anyone met their partner via FAB? I’m single and not overly fussed about meeting anyone, however I would like to meet someone who’s into this lifestyle. It’s not really the kind of thing you can bring up on a first date! I’m really curious whether people have fun love on here!!!! |
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I found my fwb on here, he isn't and never will be my "boyfriend" but we have been seeing each other for over 3 years and cohabiting for about half of that. Confuses the shit out of most people but it works for us and saves on rent, as he was round most nights anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am in the process of becoming single and yes, I’d love to meet my next partner on here so that we could enjoy the lifestyle together. I think it would be amazing to watch my partner grow in. Incidence as we experimented together x |
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Partner no. We met at playschool when we were four. We did however meet 2 bi female couples here just a few weeks apart over 3 1/2 years ago. Over that period we have formed definite unconventional relationships with.
It wasn’t something we were or had considered looking for and although our intention was to keep our adult and vanilla lives entirely apart they have merged in most senses. We’ve met each others kids and families, been on holidays together, merged friendship groups been to a wedding and recently started to convert the 2 x 2 couple relationship into a 1 x 3 couple incarnation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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MrD & myself met in pof last year.
On here now. He mentioned he was on the scene yrs ago & I told him I had dipped my toe in with my ex. We waited a while for our initially casual then more serious relationship to develop before we joined the scene.
We are loving it so far & I consider us both very fortunate to have met, be compatible, mad about each other & want to swing. Win win win xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Partner no. We met at playschool when we were four. We did however meet 2 bi female couples here just a few weeks apart over 3 1/2 years ago. Over that period we have formed definite unconventional relationships with.
It wasn’t something we were or had considered looking for and although our intention was to keep our adult and vanilla lives entirely apart they have merged in most senses. We’ve met each others kids and families, been on holidays together, merged friendship groups been to a wedding and recently started to convert the 2 x 2 couple relationship into a 1 x 3 couple incarnation. "
Wow and good on you all. |
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I’ve been with my man 4 years now , met through Fab and Eureka
Didn’t meet in the most conventional way , he will say the first time we met he knew we would be together but I didn’t see it then
Anyway conventional is boring  |
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By *aneyyMan
over a year ago
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"Partner no. We met at playschool when we were four. We did however meet 2 bi female couples here just a few weeks apart over 3 1/2 years ago. Over that period we have formed definite unconventional relationships with.
It wasn’t something we were or had considered looking for and although our intention was to keep our adult and vanilla lives entirely apart they have merged in most senses. We’ve met each others kids and families, been on holidays together, merged friendship groups been to a wedding and recently started to convert the 2 x 2 couple relationship into a 1 x 3 couple incarnation. "
Was this hard to maintain ( keeping all happy ect) or more just accidentally flowed? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This might be an odd question but has anyone met their partner via FAB? I’m single and not overly fussed about meeting anyone, however I would like to meet someone who’s into this lifestyle. It’s not really the kind of thing you can bring up on a first date! I’m really curious whether people have fun love on here!!!!"
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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We met at Xtasia a few years ago now in the sort of dungeon area? Like the poster above, the meets became longer and more frequent. We're now engaged and very happy. It does happen and can happen. I hope you find what you're looking for OP, x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This might be an odd question but has anyone met their partner via FAB? I’m single and not overly fussed about meeting anyone, however I would like to meet someone who’s into this lifestyle. It’s not really the kind of thing you can bring up on a first date! I’m really curious whether people have fun love on here!!!!"
I've heard of some yes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having read the other comments, it is a thing afterall. I've not found my fwb as yet, the people nearby don't seem to be in the same frame of mind it seems, oh well!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hi OP
We met on here 3.5 years ago, started a relationship 6 months later and we have been living together for the past 18 months... blissfully happy and completely in love.
C and P |
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I met my fwb on here. I quite literally put an advert out and he answered, we have been together since. We are not a couple who are ever going to go to ikea on Sundays, I wouldn't want to I would end up coming home with star wars bedding or something, not good. But it works for us. I get my big bed most nights and get to call him when I want him... Perfect if you ask me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This might be an odd question but has anyone met their partner via FAB? I’m single and not overly fussed about meeting anyone, however I would like to meet someone who’s into this lifestyle. It’s not really the kind of thing you can bring up on a first date! I’m really curious whether people have fun love on here!!!!"
loads on here have gotten married and met their partners but claim it is not a dating site
why not
I have spoken to a few on here that are shacked up already and met on here if things are meant to be they are meant to be |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I met my fwb on here. I quite literally put an advert out and he answered, we have been together since. We are not a couple who are ever going to go to ikea on Sundays, I wouldn't want to I would end up coming home with star wars bedding or something, not good. But it works for us. I get my big bed most nights and get to call him when I want him... Perfect if you ask me x"
what is wrong with ikea on sundays |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This might be an odd question but has anyone met their partner via FAB? I’m single and not overly fussed about meeting anyone, however I would like to meet someone who’s into this lifestyle. It’s not really the kind of thing you can bring up on a first date! I’m really curious whether people have fun love on here!!!!"
why can't you talk about it on the first date being open and honest from the start is a must surely, not found love on here more negatives from people in thanet who think we are wham bam and want it when they call the straw but got to love a trier |
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"I met my fwb on here. I quite literally put an advert out and he answered, we have been together since. We are not a couple who are ever going to go to ikea on Sundays, I wouldn't want to I would end up coming home with star wars bedding or something, not good. But it works for us. I get my big bed most nights and get to call him when I want him... Perfect if you ask me x
what is wrong with ikea on sundays "
Ikea on Sundays, you have to be in that honeymoon stage on your relationship or else it is a kind of purgatory lol "I only came in for a bookcase why do I have to walk through a load of kitchens?"!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This might be an odd question but has anyone met their partner via FAB? I’m single and not overly fussed about meeting anyone, however I would like to meet someone who’s into this lifestyle. It’s not really the kind of thing you can bring up on a first date! I’m really curious whether people have fun love on here!!!!
loads on here have gotten married and met their partners but claim it is not a dating site
why not
I have spoken to a few on here that are shacked up already and met on here if things are meant to be they are meant to be "
It's the perfect dating site for people who are looking for the same thing.  |
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We met at a club a little over 18 months ago, we're now engaged and the happiest either of us has ever been. We love that we get to share fabulous experiences together and explore our desires!
A&J x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Nice to know it is possible to find love on here. I cant be meeting the right guys then. We seem to have fun and a connection but then after 2 or 3 meets they disappear |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would love to meet someone from fab, I want a girlfriend but want someone who’s not vanilla.. someone to love who’s just as filthy as me... is it possible I ask !! ? |
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"This might be an odd question but has anyone met their partner via FAB? I’m single and not overly fussed about meeting anyone, however I would like to meet someone who’s into this lifestyle. It’s not really the kind of thing you can bring up on a first date! I’m really curious whether people have fun love on here!!!!"
i wear Calvin Klein briefs we're a match made in China   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This might be an odd question but has anyone met their partner via FAB? I’m single and not overly fussed about meeting anyone, however I would like to meet someone who’s into this lifestyle. It’s not really the kind of thing you can bring up on a first date! I’m really curious whether people have fun love on here!!!!i wear Calvin Klein briefs we're a match made in China "
China ha ha ha!!! |
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"This might be an odd question but has anyone met their partner via FAB? I’m single and not overly fussed about meeting anyone, however I would like to meet someone who’s into this lifestyle. It’s not really the kind of thing you can bring up on a first date! I’m really curious whether people have fun love on here!!!!"
I brought up Fab on a first date (OkCupid) ... turns out she was on here too! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I wouldn’t risk it on a first date personally as this is a very private part of my life and I wouldn’t want my family knowing. I’d rather get a sense of what the person is like before revealing my kinks! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn’t risk it on a first date personally as this is a very private part of my life and I wouldn’t want my family knowing. I’d rather get a sense of what the person is like before revealing my kinks! "
I agree totally it’s not something I’d reveal straight away, maybe build it into our foreplay and sense her response x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ive had one 3 year fwb arrangement and another 6 month one, i dont tend to go for one offs... relationships? Cant really say they were relationships par say but i didnt meet with other people during them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I met my ex on here, we started as casual and before we knew it things escalated.
We werent a swinging couple because neither of us wanted that but ultimately he couldn't look past how we met and constantly accuse me of cheating because I was active on here before we met he thought I would never be happy sleeping with just him.
I think how people meet is neither how nor there is you meet someone and click with them then who cares whether you met on fab or in asda |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Think most singletons want to meet someone and for them to stay in the lifestyle would be a bonus, sometimes you find people who meet in the scene and get together and leave the scene. We met in the scene and are happily together and there is loads more like us, it’s just finding the right one for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I met my fwb on here. I quite literally put an advert out and he answered, we have been together since. We are not a couple who are ever going to go to ikea on Sundays, I wouldn't want to I would end up coming home with star wars bedding or something, not good. But it works for us. I get my big bed most nights and get to call him when I want him... Perfect if you ask me x
what is wrong with ikea on sundays "
I would rather drag my testicles through broken glass the dip them in vinegar than spend 5 mins in ikea |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I’m genuinely quite happy single at the moment after coming out of a long marriage nearly a year ago, but I just can’t see me going back to vanilla now! I had a FWB I met on here who I would have liked a relationship with but it wasn’t meant to be! It’s encouraging to hear it’s happened for so many people! |
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