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By *sMinxy OP Woman
over a year ago
Scunthorpe |
A couple of times lately I have been asked to meet up with people, and when I have said I would prefer an initial meet in a public place I have in a way been called a time waster :S
I dont like to have to justify myself - But as a single woman - I am not wanting to put myself in a potentially dangerous situation...
confuzzled minxy here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're not wrong,you do what you want as long as it makes you feel comfortable,anyone that does'nt understand or agree with that is'nt worth meeting up with
Lots of people ask for a social meet first so you're not alone |
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By *hepairCouple
over a year ago
taunton |
Definitely not wrong! xxxx
Anyone refusing to meet a single fem in a public place should not be part of this community.. and as for making you feel like the guilty party?? thats just crazy.
Don't put yourself at risk with these chancers... any real people would love to meet you in a bar or coffee-shop xxxx
Plenty of other to choose from no doubt - and never forget the ladies are the boss!
Take care. xx |
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"i know Jem... but wish someone would tell these peeps the rules... I hate being called a timewaster  "
i think if u were feeling yourself u would brush it off, listen to all the ppl in this thread...they have the problem, not you  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"i know Jem... but wish someone would tell these peeps the rules... I hate being called a timewaster "
They are your rules not every persons.
Whatever suits you is what you should go with, but there isn't a right or wrong way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From a single guys point of view i would always meet in public first, never meet blindly in a secluded place
Very true, people forget that single men need to take precautions too."
 they need to with some of the Women on 'ere    
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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always safety first hun, we are a couple and we always insist on initial meeting to be in bar/coffee shop etc. never justify your reasons and if people dont like it its simply tough titty .lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"always safety first hun, we are a couple and we always insist on initial meeting to be in bar/coffee shop etc. never justify your reasons and if people dont like it its simply tough titty .lol
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That's a big +2 on that one from us too
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Surely anyone that's genuine would consider the needs of safety and security for a single woman and would be happy to satisfy that need any way she felt safe and secure?!?
Strikes me that if these people you are referring to can't see that then maybe they are the ones that arn't being completely genuine and therefore wasting time... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"always safety first hun, we are a couple and we always insist on initial meeting to be in bar/coffee shop etc. never justify your reasons and if people dont like it its simply tough titty .lol
That's a big +2 on that one from us too
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And a +3 here! When I was single, and even now as a couple I always meet for a drink first.
Infact if the guy was giving me a hard time about that , I would be seriously suspicious of his motives.
My experience has shown the guys who are worth meeting are totally ok with the meet In a pub first thing.
Ruggers is right, if its ur rule then its right for u!!!
Ps tell the.arseholes to take a running jump!!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A couple of times lately I have been asked to meet up with people, and when I have said I would prefer an initial meet in a public place I have in a way been called a time waster :S
I dont like to have to justify myself - But as a single woman - I am not wanting to put myself in a potentially dangerous situation...
confuzzled minxy here "
You're not wrong. You're sensible. |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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OP,.. I got an email from a bi guy looking for a "discrete meet". I told him I was not interested in meeting men and perhaps he could refine his search for what suited him.
He proceeded to call me a time-waster (so I blocked him). For some people, the simple point they don't get to meet you, in their eyes, makes you a time-waster.
The question is: does that then bother you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They are the timewaster not you. Your profile is very clear. Also everyone on this thread agrees with you! Don't let such idiots make you feel bad. Huggles xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"always safety first hun, we are a couple and we always insist on initial meeting to be in bar/coffee shop etc. never justify your reasons and if people dont like it its simply tough titty .lol
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we insist on the same, public meet or not at all |
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Safety first, always.
