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Iv done tinder, pof etc but it never works out as a few weeks in and i mention the lifestyle they are not in to it. Therefore i would love to find a partner in crime on here. Is Anyone else looking for this? |
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"Iv done tinder, pof etc but it never works out as a few weeks in and i mention the lifestyle they are not in to it. Therefore i would love to find a partner in crime on here. Is Anyone else looking for this? "
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over a year ago
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"Iv done tinder, pof etc but it never works out as a few weeks in and i mention the lifestyle they are not in to it. Therefore i would love to find a partner in crime on here. Is Anyone else looking for this? "
no way
not looking
because who is to say you cheat
you would have to want to have a open relationship where you can bed anyone without getting jealous |
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By *manaWoman
over a year ago
Basingstoke |
"Yes!! Its seemingly improbable for me though.. 
With 500 or so messages waiting, why wouldn't you find someone!!?"
You have to click with someone you know it's not just because they have a penis... |
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"Yes!! Its seemingly improbable for me though..
With 500 or so messages waiting, why wouldn't you find someone!!?
You have to click with someone you know it's not just because they have a penis..."
I get the clicking bit !!.. 500 plus messages, doesn't mean there is no chance... better than most ! |
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"Iv done tinder, pof etc but it never works out as a few weeks in and i mention the lifestyle they are not in to it. Therefore i would love to find a partner in crime on here. Is Anyone else looking for this? "
Admitted I've never done tinder etc.... I'm thinking if maybe you were honest in the bio and mentioned swinging then you'd get replies from people who comprehend and then save yourself the weeks of effort before shocking nillas  or have I missed the point? |
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I agree with the poster above. I state on my dating profiles that I’m open to non-monogamy. That means that things might be quieter for me on there than they might be otherwise, but saves wasting time. |
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By *manaWoman
over a year ago
Basingstoke |
"Yes!! Its seemingly improbable for me though..
With 500 or so messages waiting, why wouldn't you find someone!!?
You have to click with someone you know it's not just because they have a penis...
I get the clicking bit !!.. 500 plus messages, doesn't mean there is no chance... better than most !"
Yet here I am |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Iv done tinder, pof etc but it never works out as a few weeks in and i mention the lifestyle they are not in to it. Therefore i would love to find a partner in crime on here. Is Anyone else looking for this? "
I think based on what I read from people, myself and MrD are very lucky to have found one another.
We met on pof around this time last year. He mentioned he was part of the lifestyle years ago. I dipped my toe with my ex. So we were both open to trying it out together.
We have since fallen madly in love and joined Fab earlier this year. Best of both worlds but I get that its kinda hard to find a willing partner.
I count myself lucky 
MsDub |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think the problem is the word partner. I see it as like a mate with extra, and as I am single I can see as many people as I consider reasonable - as long as I am not hurting anyone. However some male and female Fabbers seem to confuse it with a serious relationship. |
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Whilst I'm happily here, I think to swing with another takes an incredible relationship and whilst not adverse to it in the slightest, would definitely take time away from here to build that relationship that first and come back later once well established
A lot of people say they're looking for a swinging relationship whereas, to me, it just seems like they're more looking for a person to swing with. I just feel that these two things are completely different to me |
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"Whilst I'm happily here, I think to swing with another takes an incredible relationship and whilst not adverse to it in the slightest, would definitely take time away from here to build that relationship that first and come back later once well established
A lot of people say they're looking for a swinging relationship whereas, to me, it just seems like they're more looking for a person to swing with. I just feel that these two things are completely different to me "
Totally agree |
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By *manaWoman
over a year ago
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"Whilst I'm happily here, I think to swing with another takes an incredible relationship and whilst not adverse to it in the slightest, would definitely take time away from here to build that relationship that first and come back later once well established
A lot of people say they're looking for a swinging relationship whereas, to me, it just seems like they're more looking for a person to swing with. I just feel that these two things are completely different to me "
Absolutely, me and my fwb swing together. Totally different to a relationship xx |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
Sandwich |
If comments on the forums are to be believed then there are quite a few that are looking for a relationship that encompasses some form of swinging.
I am pretty comfortable with being single and am having great fun, but I wouldn’t even consider a relationship with anyone unless they were willing to engage in some sort of swinging even if it was only soft swap. They wouldn’t be the right person for me otherwise. |
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"Whilst I'm happily here, I think to swing with another takes an incredible relationship and whilst not adverse to it in the slightest, would definitely take time away from here to build that relationship that first and come back later once well established
A lot of people say they're looking for a swinging relationship whereas, to me, it just seems like they're more looking for a person to swing with. I just feel that these two things are completely different to me "
Great point. |
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"Iv done tinder, pof etc but it never works out as a few weeks in and i mention the lifestyle they are not in to it. Therefore i would love to find a partner in crime on here. Is Anyone else looking for this? "
Not me. Happy flying solo |
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By *X guyMan
over a year ago
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"Iv done tinder, pof etc but it never works out as a few weeks in and i mention the lifestyle they are not in to it. Therefore i would love to find a partner in crime on here. Is Anyone else looking for this?
Oh god yes
Yes"
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"Yes!! Its seemingly improbable for me though..
With 500 or so messages waiting, why wouldn't you find someone!!?"
An assumption all guys make....and then cannot be bothered to at least try
My partner almost made the same mistake |
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"Yes!! Its seemingly improbable for me though..
With 500 or so messages waiting, why wouldn't you find someone!!?
You have to click with someone you know it's not just because they have a penis..."
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"Whilst I'm happily here, I think to swing with another takes an incredible relationship and whilst not adverse to it in the slightest, would definitely take time away from here to build that relationship that first and come back later once well established
A lot of people say they're looking for a swinging relationship whereas, to me, it just seems like they're more looking for a person to swing with. I just feel that these two things are completely different to me
Totally agree "
Make that 3 |
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