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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi I was discussing Gangbangs with a couple of female friends and we had some different opinions on what the woman gets from it.
If some ladies who have taken part in Gangbangs could share their experience?
Like what did you get from it and what were you expecting to get? what was the appeal, what was good/bad and would you do it again and if so why/not? |
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The deffinition of a gang bang is 3 men one woman. 
Not in my book  . As a lady who likes gangbangs the deffinition for me is 10 plus men for a gb. I like being the center of the attention and disire. The naughtniess of one cock after another. Pure raw animal lust of sex, sex and more sex.
They are very hard to organise. Yiu have to invite 3 times as many as wanted as most won't turn up. My last gb, ended up with 6 guys who could get hard and fuck with a condom. A few other chaps only wanted a bj, only wanted to fondal and suck my tits, only wanted to finger me, or to watch.
It was advertised as a gangbang!
Felt really let down and disipointed. However, I / we love gangbangs. So will partake again, but rather than advertise, just go with the flow if it happens.  |
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"The deffinition of a gang bang is 3 men one woman.
Not in my book . As a lady who likes gangbangs the deffinition for me is 10 plus men for a gb. I like being the center of the attention and disire. The naughtniess of one cock after another. Pure raw animal lust of sex, sex and more sex.
They are very hard to organise. Yiu have to invite 3 times as many as wanted as most won't turn up. My last gb, ended up with 6 guys who could get hard and fuck with a condom. A few other chaps only wanted a bj, only wanted to fondal and suck my tits, only wanted to finger me, or to watch.
It was advertised as a gangbang!
Felt really let down and disipointed. However, I / we love gangbangs. So will partake again, but rather than advertise, just go with the flow if it happens. "
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"The deffinition of a gang bang is 3 men one woman.
Not in my book . As a lady who likes gangbangs the deffinition for me is 10 plus men for a gb. I like being the center of the attention and disire. The naughtniess of one cock after another. Pure raw animal lust of sex, sex and more sex.
They are very hard to organise. Yiu have to invite 3 times as many as wanted as most won't turn up. My last gb, ended up with 6 guys who could get hard and fuck with a condom. A few other chaps only wanted a bj, only wanted to fondal and suck my tits, only wanted to finger me, or to watch.
It was advertised as a gangbang!
Felt really let down and disipointed. However, I / we love gangbangs. So will partake again, but rather than advertise, just go with the flow if it happens. "
What a let down! Organising stuff is a nightmare. And it always seems to be the single men who let you down.
Have you tried a club perhaps? |
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I had an accidental gang bang with about a dozen guys. I went to a greedy girl party and only one other woman showed up. So I got to have the gang bang that’s been on my fucket list since forever.
For me it was about a variety of men and cocks, and a lot of constant fucking. It was fun and a great experience I’m really glad I got to have, but I wouldn’t bother organising one. It didn’t leave me any more satisfied than I am with a great one to one. If one happens at a club, I’d definitely go with the flow though  |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
"I had an accidental gang bang with about a dozen guys. I went to a greedy girl party and only one other woman showed up. So I got to have the gang bang that’s been on my fucket list since forever.
For me it was about a variety of men and cocks, and a lot of constant fucking. It was fun and a great experience I’m really glad I got to have, but I wouldn’t bother organising one. It didn’t leave me any more satisfied than I am with a great one to one. If one happens at a club, I’d definitely go with the flow though "
Found reading this very horny! Impromptu situations are quite often the best. |
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"The deffinition of a gang bang is 3 men one woman.
Not in my book . As a lady who likes gangbangs the deffinition for me is 10 plus men for a gb. I like being the center of the attention and disire. The naughtniess of one cock after another. Pure raw animal lust of sex, sex and more sex.
They are very hard to organise. Yiu have to invite 3 times as many as wanted as most won't turn up. My last gb, ended up with 6 guys who could get hard and fuck with a condom. A few other chaps only wanted a bj, only wanted to fondal and suck my tits, only wanted to finger me, or to watch.
It was advertised as a gangbang!
Felt really let down and disipointed. However, I / we love gangbangs. So will partake again, but rather than advertise, just go with the flow if it happens.
What a let down! Organising stuff is a nightmare. And it always seems to be the single men who let you down.
Have you tried a club perhaps? "
It was in a club. We'd been advertising the socks off it. Us, the club, and several freinds of mine we're advertising it. Had around 45 single men the guest list. So really bad turn out. Considering so many men moan they don't get meets. It was offered on a plate, and still poor. It really makes us wonder, what do they want? Is swinging too easy now? -internet / faceless? Are there lots of dreamers, who can't do the do when it gets down to it. Am I ugly? Too fat? Too thin? Too easy? Really makes us question stuff. Swinging for us is, stuff you can't do sexually as a couple/ pair. 3some, 4somes, bi, kink ect. |
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I was one of six guys who turned up to help a lovely, slim, 25-year-old brunette tick GBs off her fuckit list. Three of the guys couldn't get hard enough to penetrate and another two shot their wads within minutes. Which left me banging away at her holes for more than an hour non-stop while she tried to stiffen up the other cocks. Dirty job but somebody had to do it. |
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In my view, three or four guys to one woman is the ideal for a successful gangbang. Having been one of 15 guys trying to keep our cocks hard while the 16th and 17th are working away at whatever holes they can get into, I've seen the enormous ego boost that the woman gets from all the attention. But for the guys, these GBs entail a lot of standing around waiting and wanking, while wondering what state the orifaces will be in by the time we get to them.
Whenever there are more than eight cocks per woman, I prefer to get into the pussy/ass early, work her up into a lather and finish off, preferably by spunking on her face, before leaving the other guys to it.
Bukkake GBs are a different story, of course. Here it's all about the maximum number in order to leave the woman in the maximum goo-glazed mess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The deffinition of a gang bang is 3 men one woman.
Not in my book . As a lady who likes gangbangs the deffinition for me is 10 plus men for a gb. I like being the center of the attention and disire. The naughtniess of one cock after another. Pure raw animal lust of sex, sex and more sex.
They are very hard to organise. Yiu have to invite 3 times as many as wanted as most won't turn up. My last gb, ended up with 6 guys who could get hard and fuck with a condom. A few other chaps only wanted a bj, only wanted to fondal and suck my tits, only wanted to finger me, or to watch.
It was advertised as a gangbang!
Felt really let down and disipointed. However, I / we love gangbangs. So will partake again, but rather than advertise, just go with the flow if it happens. "
I'm in Poole, would love to attend! |
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Have been to a few hotel gangbangs with 2 girls and about 10 guys through the night. They never wanted more than 2 at once but it was fun! Would love to do more. Have tried a few times to organise but the couple is never genuine |
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I used to attend GG nights at a club. Whilst men downstairs are in towels, that’s fine, but the minute I or the other ladies went upstairs, it was like running the gauntlet along the corridor to the playroom, which can be unnerving/encroaching on personal space, esp if you’re new to this. (I know!) but when in the room, it started with 3/4/5 which you can manage but esp as I’m Asian (apparently a rare breed!  ) I suddenly had a LOT of men around me, which again I felt I couldn’t control and so possibly made me nervous.
I had one bad experience of a guy not listening and was trying to bang me w/o a condom and I caught him around 3 times trying from different angles to do this  So I reported him to staff. another came on my shoulder (but did clean up)
What I did enjoy (once settled) was the attention and that I could pick who I wanted to play with; after that I only chose a few certain males that I knew were good and would ultimately satisfy me. 
Weirdly, I do enjoy GB porn though 
Millie x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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gangbangs ive had a few best to invite guys you've met already set the bouderies and rules before you start and make sure there is at least one person to look out for you (hubs does this for me) so that your in full control at all times as some wont stick to the rules like taking there condom off at the last moment but done right then its the best fun you can have |
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"A gangbang isn’t for me, but would love to watch if anyone’s ever organising one and an enthusiastic couple in the crowd would help? "
Go to a GG night at a club you like as you can watch as a couple. Very exciting with an audience |
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I love being gangbanged. I have a fantastic fuck buddy who arranges them for me. The most I’ve had over a whole day was over 20- they stayed for different lengths of time and some guys came more than once. It’s incredible to be fucked constantly for a whole day. Having another very soon. |
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"The deffinition of a gang bang is 3 men one woman.
Not in my book . As a lady who likes gangbangs the deffinition for me is 10 plus men for a gb. I like being the center of the attention and disire. The naughtniess of one cock after another. Pure raw animal lust of sex, sex and more sex.
They are very hard to organise. Yiu have to invite 3 times as many as wanted as most won't turn up. My last gb, ended up with 6 guys who could get hard and fuck with a condom. A few other chaps only wanted a bj, only wanted to fondal and suck my tits, only wanted to finger me, or to watch.
It was advertised as a gangbang!
Felt really let down and disipointed. However, I / we love gangbangs. So will partake again, but rather than advertise, just go with the flow if it happens.
I'm in Poole, would love to attend!"
It was last month! It was on status of at least 3 locals to you. On club meets and meets. Unless you did not look on Fabs for 4 weeks you missed it. Along with 12 other guys who messaged after, saying, " if I'd known, I'd of attended". |
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"Considering so many men moan they don't get meets. It was offered on a plate, and still poor. It really makes us wonder, what do they want? Is swinging too easy now? -internet / faceless? Are there lots of dreamers, who can't do the do when it gets down to it. Am I ugly? Too fat? Too thin? Too easy? Really makes us question stuff"
I wouldn't say that the problem is with you, but with the men.
I've watched gb porn for years, love the idea and was involved with my first party a few weeks ago. The reality of being amongst other men with hard cocks for the first time (one if whom I was at school with ) led to sensory overload.
Could I get it up? No
Was I embarrassed as hell? Yes
Did I feel guilty for not being able to perform for the lady? Yes
Will I try again on a similar situation? Probably
As with anything, there is a first time doing / trying something, and not everything works out as you've imagined it. If you enjoyed it in principle, then you can have another crack at it when you know more what to expect.
Maybe some of those guys were overwhelmed in the end. One guy at the party I was at arrived, waited 20 minutes but then got cold feet and left again. All before the lady herself got there....
But don't go blaming yourself |
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Not at all surprising that you couldn't perform when an old school mate was in the room watching - and at your first GB as well!
Don't let it put you off. Once you get yourself into the right mindset and focus, you'll find getting hard is no problem and once you're in the pussy pounding away, it's as though the problem never existed. |
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"The deffinition of a gang bang is 3 men one woman.
Not in my book . As a lady who likes gangbangs the deffinition for me is 10 plus men for a gb. I like being the center of the attention and disire. The naughtniess of one cock after another. Pure raw animal lust of sex, sex and more sex.
They are very hard to organise. Yiu have to invite 3 times as many as wanted as most won't turn up. My last gb, ended up with 6 guys who could get hard and fuck with a condom. A few other chaps only wanted a bj, only wanted to fondal and suck my tits, only wanted to finger me, or to watch.
It was advertised as a gangbang!
Felt really let down and disipointed. However, I / we love gangbangs. So will partake again, but rather than advertise, just go with the flow if it happens. "
Totally agree. After the last one I organised for a couple that were new to the scene, I said never ever again after all the time wasters and no-hopes. We invited 9 in the end, three actually showed up (all the more fun for us though).
I'd say it was three or more guys to a girl. They are normally nothing like most people imagine them to be.
The girls get complete satisfaction from it, the guys, a lot of fun, sometimes rather more than they can handle!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would love to have a gangbang but I can imagine they are pretty much impossible to arrange. It's bad eough getting one guy to turn up let alone the 10-15 I would want. |
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"I would love to have a gangbang but I can imagine they are pretty much impossible to arrange. It's bad eough getting one guy to turn up let alone the 10-15 I would want. "
If you find a local squad with good veris, try to persuade then to set something up for you.
Quite a few gangbang organisers have MM, or even MF profiles on here. |
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Yes similar to others, I went to a greedy girl night at a London club and I was one of 3 women with around 30 to 40 guys wanting sex.
I was really nervous but I got undressed and guys started to come forward and touch me. It wasn’t long before I had a few guys queueing to have sex with me.
For me it was the experience of having sex with multiple men I’d not met before nor knew there names.
I’d happily do it again but rather than arrange a gangbang I’d attend another greedy girl night and pick a few I liked. |
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By *ita7Man
over a year ago
Kettering |
From someone who puts together meets for cpls I know how much hard work you put in to have a successful gb. We are all as bad as each other cpls & singles not turning up & yes you need to ask triple the number of guys that you need to get anywhere the numbers you want. But when you pull it off. WOW what a feeling I get from making you cpls & ladies happy. If your around the northants area get in touch. Have a number of regular guys to call on that do turn up. Mostly! It's always going to be a guessing game. Good luck all |
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