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...Hard work isn't it? To the point you do wonder why bother.
I know girls here have their inboxes full of messages, each day. And you're all inundated with choice. That's fair.
But the one thing I find the most difficult here is keeping conversations going to get somewhere, before it goes to nothing, QUITE quickly.
And I'm confident with how I talk to people here. Short, sweet, sense of humour and to the point...
But I guess being part of the majority doesn't help.
The oddest thing is, I have better connections on Tinder than here, but Tinder isn't what I'm also using FS for. |
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I will only talk on here. That way I can pick and choose when i want to reply.
I've made the mistake of doing via other ways before and constant messages is a huge turn off. |
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"I will only talk on here. That way I can pick and choose when i want to reply.
I've made the mistake of doing via other ways before and constant messages is a huge turn off. "
Totally |
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"...Hard work isn't it? To the point you do wonder why bother.
I know girls here have their inboxes full of messages, each day. And you're all inundated with choice. That's fair.
But the one thing I find the most difficult here is keeping conversations going to get somewhere, before it goes to nothing, QUITE quickly.
And I'm confident with how I talk to people here. Short, sweet, sense of humour and to the point...
But I guess being part of the majority doesn't help.
The oddest thing is, I have better connections on Tinder than here, but Tinder isn't what I'm also using FS for."
maybe youre picking the women that are exceptionally popular, eg women in hot pics if you are totally pointless even if you get a reply one day your messages the next may be lost in the pile    |
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"I will only talk on here. That way I can pick and choose when i want to reply.
I've made the mistake of doing via other ways before and constant messages is a huge turn off. "
Fair point actually.
By the way... The photography in your shots.... 
As for the subject... Well ; ) (raises eyebrow) |
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"...Hard work isn't it? To the point you do wonder why bother.
I know girls here have their inboxes full of messages, each day. And you're all inundated with choice. That's fair.
But the one thing I find the most difficult here is keeping conversations going to get somewhere, before it goes to nothing, QUITE quickly.
And I'm confident with how I talk to people here. Short, sweet, sense of humour and to the point...
But I guess being part of the majority doesn't help.
The oddest thing is, I have better connections on Tinder than here, but Tinder isn't what I'm also using FS for.maybe youre picking the women that are exceptionally popular, eg women in hot pics if you are totally pointless even if you get a reply one day your messages the next may be lost in the pile "
Of course, to be fair I would expect that of any with the hot photos. You know your message is needle in a haystack. But I would imagine the ones you have replied to, you would check back on when they reply back. But I'm not receiving 150 messages a day, so I wouldn't know about the experience: ) |
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"...Hard work isn't it? To the point you do wonder why bother.
I know girls here have their inboxes full of messages, each day. And you're all inundated with choice. That's fair.
But the one thing I find the most difficult here is keeping conversations going to get somewhere, before it goes to nothing, QUITE quickly.
And I'm confident with how I talk to people here. Short, sweet, sense of humour and to the point...
But I guess being part of the majority doesn't help.
The oddest thing is, I have better connections on Tinder than here, but Tinder isn't what I'm also using FS for."
I hear you fella.
Likewise I have far more success on zoosk and tinder than I do here.
As you said, females here are "pestered" by messages. I think that in itself makes them very choosy (which is ok, I appreciate they have every right to be) and in some cases, makes them snobbish too. I'm convinced that few of them have no intention to meet anyway, they just come online to get their ego massage! Lol
Before I send a message, I always take my time to read all of their profiles. I also make an effort in writing a message that is 20/30 words long, I keep it friendly polite respectful and of course, I try to get their attention by mentioning something that was in their profiles.
Unfortunately I got No luck whatsoever.
Now let's face it! I know im not Daniel Craig ok? Point taken!
And I understand one will never be "everyone is cup of tea". But surely ONE! out of the so many single woman and couples I've messaged should at least work!
I don't seem to be able to hook up to anyone. It's actually demoralising.
I think the site, possibly due to its nature, it's very "materialistic" so to speak.
Most females on here go for "looks and sizes" and each of them have a model set in their mind.
It's nothing wrong with you! (or me I hope! Lol)
My advice to you is, don't take it personally. Just take the whole thing for what it should be: "a bit of fun"!
Don't read too much into it.
Wish you luck!
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"...Hard work isn't it? To the point you do wonder why bother.
I know girls here have their inboxes full of messages, each day. And you're all inundated with choice. That's fair.
But the one thing I find the most difficult here is keeping conversations going to get somewhere, before it goes to nothing, QUITE quickly.
And I'm confident with how I talk to people here. Short, sweet, sense of humour and to the point...
But I guess being part of the majority doesn't help.
The oddest thing is, I have better connections on Tinder than here, but Tinder isn't what I'm also using FS for.
I hear you fella.
Likewise I have far more success on zoosk and tinder than I do here.
As you said, females here are "pestered" by messages. I think that in itself makes them very choosy (which is ok, I appreciate they have every right to be) and in some cases, makes them snobbish too. I'm convinced that few of them have no intention to meet anyway, they just come online to get their ego massage! Lol
Before I send a message, I always take my time to read all of their profiles. I also make an effort in writing a message that is 20/30 words long, I keep it friendly polite respectful and of course, I try to get their attention by mentioning something that was in their profiles.
Unfortunately I got No luck whatsoever.
Now let's face it! I know im not Daniel Craig ok? Point taken!
And I understand one will never be "everyone is cup of tea". But surely ONE! out of the so many single woman and couples I've messaged should at least work!
I don't seem to be able to hook up to anyone. It's actually demoralising.
I think the site, possibly due to its nature, it's very "materialistic" so to speak.
Most females on here go for "looks and sizes" and each of them have a model set in their mind.
It's nothing wrong with you! (or me I hope! Lol)
My advice to you is, don't take it personally. Just take the whole thing for what it should be: "a bit of fun"!
Don't read too much into it.
Wish you luck!
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As you say re: models and sizes... Most are also here to fill a fantasy or find their kink they don't usually get |
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"I will only talk on here. That way I can pick and choose when i want to reply.
I've made the mistake of doing via other ways before and constant messages is a huge turn off. "
With your profile, I’m surprised you can find the messages from folk you’re interested in. After asking, I have found that my messages disappear into single females bulging inboxes and they’re not being rude. I have a two message rule because of this. One unread for a while, then send another. Half the time, I get one back saying they’d missed the first and pick up where we left of or move to kik/SC or just exchange numbers like we did in the 90’s.
When I’ve met single females got chatting about fab and for a laugh shown each other our phones, they’ve often had 300+ unread messages from only a couple of days, if not that day |
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