So yesterday morning was contacted by a cpl to meet within the hr , get showered , shaved , trimmed etc , communication was great filthy messaging constants anyhow they couldn't meet after I told them I was ready.
They apologised and arranged for fri eve , after a whole day of messaging they finally tell me their will be a charge of around 250-300 !! for the things we discussed I mean wtf is going on here ?? so many of these shits spoiling this site now |
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"So yesterday morning was contacted by a cpl to meet within the hr , get showered , shaved , trimmed etc , communication was great filthy messaging constants anyhow they couldn't meet after I told them I was ready.
They apologised and arranged for fri eve , after a whole day of messaging they finally tell me their will be a charge of around 250-300 !! for the things we discussed I mean wtf is going on here ?? so many of these shits spoiling this site now"
There must have been red flags before it got to the point of actually agreeing to meet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whilst naming names is not permitted it might be an idea if Fab implemented a report system.
Serial reports gives that account a red flag next to its username therefore warning it has a unreliable history.
It wouldn't time wasters but in time it would dilute the amount of them |
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"I hve had couples arrange to meet and the last 6 have all pulled out last minute. Either fantasists, or fakes. Thinking bout leaving the site its so rife."
I cannot think of one scheduled meet that we have pulled out of. The only times men have pulled out on us has been when they’ve started dating someone after making a date with us. WeNEVER agree to meet someone spontaneously and immediately. To us, that’s asking for trouble. We tend to carry on weeks of communicating before setting a date. We also check out their verifications, seeing if the verifiers all use each other as verifiers. Perhaps taking it a bit slower would help; getting to know the couple over time? Social meets first? |
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"I hve had couples arrange to meet and the last 6 have all pulled out last minute. Either fantasists, or fakes. Thinking bout leaving the site its so rife.
I cannot think of one scheduled meet that we have pulled out of. The only times men have pulled out on us has been when they’ve started dating someone after making a date with us. WeNEVER agree to meet someone spontaneously and immediately. To us, that’s asking for trouble. We tend to carry on weeks of communicating before setting a date. We also check out their verifications, seeing if the verifiers all use each other as verifiers. Perhaps taking it a bit slower would help; getting to know the couple over time? Social meets first? "
yet there's 1,000s on here who meet spontaneously i used to do all the planning and had messer's galour yet the last few years of being spontaneous i get hardly any timewasters so its what works for the person best i say .... and op as soon as the message's got graphic i would have stopped as thats a sure sign that its not going to happen . |
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"Yes seems like best option just never been scares the shit out me tbh lol  "
No need to be scared of clubs. No doubt everyone is nervous for their first visit (we still get a bit nervous now). But once in there the nerves go. |
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By *hangerMan
over a year ago
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"I cannot think of one scheduled meet that we have pulled out of. The only times men have pulled out on us has been when they’ve started dating someone after making a date with us. WeNEVER agree to meet someone spontaneously and immediately. To us, that’s asking for trouble. We tend to carry on weeks of communicating before setting a date. We also check out their verifications, seeing if the verifiers all use each other as verifiers. Perhaps taking it a bit slower would help; getting to know the couple over time? Social meets first? "
Totally agree!
Too many people want instant gratification these days! |
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