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By *rmrs1234 OP Couple
over a year ago
Waterford |
Sooo our first meet is tomorrow. We/I have been chatting to this guy for a while now and the stars aligned for us to be able to meet up on a rare kid free afternoon. Im nervous as hell. I have a knot in my stomach. Anyone any advice for a first meet. |
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By *rmrs1234 OP Couple
over a year ago
Waterford |
"Relax and dont take drink . Are you really that nervous . Feick sake never bodared me when i met people. I might have got a little excited but thats all . "
Neither of us drink so that wont be a problem. Good for you that it didnt bother you |
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By *rmrs1234 OP Couple
over a year ago
Waterford |
"Nerves are normal  . My only advice is make sure you all know each other's boundaries, don't be afraid to say stop and enjoy ."
have told him to stay away from my feet ha ha unless he wants a black eye as a going away present lol |
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By *rmrs1234 OP Couple
over a year ago
Waterford |
"Nerves are very normal. Communicate clearly, hold your boundaries, trust your instincts. Have fun. "
Im looking forward to it but i think the nerves are more from body insecurities as opposed to anything going wrong if that makes sense |
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"Nerves are very normal. Communicate clearly, hold your boundaries, trust your instincts. Have fun.
Im looking forward to it but i think the nerves are more from body insecurities as opposed to anything going wrong if that makes sense"
Just looked at your pics.
Wow. Lucky guy!
You have nothing to worry about, your body is lovely! |
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"Nerves are very normal. Communicate clearly, hold your boundaries, trust your instincts. Have fun.
Im looking forward to it but i think the nerves are more from body insecurities as opposed to anything going wrong if that makes sense"
That's normal too. Trust me x
You'll be fine. |
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By *rmrs1234 OP Couple
over a year ago
Waterford |
"Nerves are very normal. Communicate clearly, hold your boundaries, trust your instincts. Have fun.
Im looking forward to it but i think the nerves are more from body insecurities as opposed to anything going wrong if that makes sense
That's normal too. Trust me x
You'll be fine. "
Thank you xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sooo our first meet is tomorrow. We/I have been chatting to this guy for a while now and the stars aligned for us to be able to meet up on a rare kid free afternoon. Im nervous as hell. I have a knot in my stomach. Anyone any advice for a first meet. "
Just checked your profile, you have nothing to be nervous about! |
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"Nerves are very normal. Communicate clearly, hold your boundaries, trust your instincts. Have fun.
Im looking forward to it but i think the nerves are more from body insecurities as opposed to anything going wrong if that makes sense"
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Your pictures give a fairly clear idea of how you look. You'll be fine |
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By *rmrs1234 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"We also have our first meet with a man tomorrow...similar situation!
Planned to meet for a coffee...but have booked a hotel room for the day ‘just in case’. Super nervous but also very excited!"
Eeek i hope you have a ball xxxx |
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By *rmrs1234 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Sooo our first meet is tomorrow. We/I have been chatting to this guy for a while now and the stars aligned for us to be able to meet up on a rare kid free afternoon. Im nervous as hell. I have a knot in my stomach. Anyone any advice for a first meet.
Just checked your profile, you have nothing to be nervous about! "
thank you. Too sweet |
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By *rmrs1234 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Nerves are very normal. Communicate clearly, hold your boundaries, trust your instincts. Have fun.
Im looking forward to it but i think the nerves are more from body insecurities as opposed to anything going wrong if that makes senseI
Your pictures give a fairly clear idea of how you look. You'll be fine"
Thank you xxx well if he dont like it, then theres not a lot i can do about it. Hopefully the stockings etc will distract him enough from everything else ha ha |
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"Nerves are very normal. Communicate clearly, hold your boundaries, trust your instincts. Have fun.
Im looking forward to it but i think the nerves are more from body insecurities as opposed to anything going wrong if that makes senseI
Your pictures give a fairly clear idea of how you look. You'll be fine
Thank you xxx well if he dont like it, then theres not a lot i can do about it. Hopefully the stockings etc will distract him enough from everything else ha ha"
Don't put yourself down. |
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By *rmrs1234 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Nerves are very normal. Communicate clearly, hold your boundaries, trust your instincts. Have fun.
Im looking forward to it but i think the nerves are more from body insecurities as opposed to anything going wrong if that makes senseI
Your pictures give a fairly clear idea of how you look. You'll be fine
Thank you xxx well if he dont like it, then theres not a lot i can do about it. Hopefully the stockings etc will distract him enough from everything else ha ha
Don't put yourself down. "
im a divil for doing it and overthinking things. Id be a lot better off just going with the flow sometimes and tomorrow! thank you for your kind words |
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"Nerves are very normal. Communicate clearly, hold your boundaries, trust your instincts. Have fun.
Im looking forward to it but i think the nerves are more from body insecurities as opposed to anything going wrong if that makes senseI
Your pictures give a fairly clear idea of how you look. You'll be fine
Thank you xxx well if he dont like it, then theres not a lot i can do about it. Hopefully the stockings etc will distract him enough from everything else ha ha
Don't put yourself down.
im a divil for doing it and overthinking things. Id be a lot better off just going with the flow sometimes and tomorrow! thank you for your kind words"
Well as one of the guys we met said to me when I complained he hadn't told me my mascara had run
" I wasn't looking at your face! "
In other words the thing you're concentrating on will be the last thing they're looking at
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By (user no longer on site)
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I remember my first meet with a couple, they came to mine and I was striding around waiting for them like I was waiting for a baby! My mouth was dry and I could hardly speak when they arrived but we all settled down with a couple of drinks on the sofa and had a good laugh. I didn’t know what the signal would be to start the fun but the lady kicked it all off by sitting on my kitchen work surface with her legs open and no knickers. I knew it was time to play! |
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