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Why is it so difficult to find real cuckold couples on here that don’t just think cuckolding is about having a threesome... the amount of people that will tick it or say they are a cuck couple without understanding it is rife !!!
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"Why is it so difficult to find real cuckold couples on here that don’t just think cuckolding is about having a threesome... the amount of people that will tick it or say they are a cuck couple without understanding it is rife !!!
Anyone else think this? Or me just being a moaner lol"
There is no universal definition of cuckolding, it means different things to different people. |
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"Why is it so difficult to find real cuckold couples on here that don’t just think cuckolding is about having a threesome... the amount of people that will tick it or say they are a cuck couple without understanding it is rife !!!
Anyone else think this? Or me just being a moaner lol
There is no universal definition of cuckolding, it means different things to different people."
However there is a definition on Wikipedia!  |
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A Cuckhold to me is a man's partner being fucked by another man.
The man of the partner is usually restrained and made to watch. However, this may not be the case.
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"Why is it so difficult to find real cuckold couples on here that don’t just think cuckolding is about having a threesome... the amount of people that will tick it or say they are a cuck couple without understanding it is rife !!!
Anyone else think this? Or me just being a moaner lol"
What’s your definition? |
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"Why is it so difficult to find real cuckold couples on here that don’t just think cuckolding is about having a threesome... the amount of people that will tick it or say they are a cuck couple without understanding it is rife !!!
Anyone else think this? Or me just being a moaner lol
There is no universal definition of cuckolding, it means different things to different people.
However there is a definition on Wikipedia! "
Great. Now you all need to do is to get everyone to conform to the wiki definition. Good luck with that. |
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By *ongarMan
over a year ago
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I had a great experience this week from a couple who wanted a guy with a rugby build to ‘help’ fuck his wife.
I hadn’t actually realised this would turn into a cuck situation, the wife made the guy watch us fuck and she wanted it hard and insisted I came inside, she then made her husband clean up, I had no idea this would happen l, found it odd at first but it seriously turned me on ln so much I’m back for more this week!
So this was a couple who wasn’t actually asking for a cuckold who don’t have cuck on their profile but clearly wanted it in this situation.
It’s odd people are not actually asking for what they want, Fab you would think is exactly the place to be open as there is always someone to fit your requirement. Maybe they are just not sure of how to change the profiles as their tastes change or maybe they think a guy isn’t going to want to be in that situation and bomb. |
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It’s odd people are not actually asking for what they want, Fab you would think is exactly the place to be open as there is always someone to fit your requirement. Maybe they are just not sure of how to change the profile "
Are you considering changing your own profile as a result of this encounter? Yours says "I only practice safe sex" yet you played bareback and came inside the lady. |
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By *lyreelMan
over a year ago
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It’s odd people are not actually asking for what they want, Fab you would think is exactly the place to be open as there is always someone to fit your requirement. Maybe they are just not sure of how to change the profile
Are you considering changing your own profile as a result of this encounter? Yours says "I only practice safe sex" yet you played bareback and came inside the lady. "
Haha....busted!!!! Well spotted young lady!! |
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"Why is it so difficult to find real cuckold couples on here that don’t just think cuckolding is about having a threesome... the amount of people that will tick it or say they are a cuck couple without understanding it is rife !!!
Anyone else think this? Or me just being a moaner lol"
The same can very much be said of single blokes too - It's amazing how many dont 'get' the cuckold scene at all. Amazing too how many fellas chicken out when arrangements start to harden up.  |
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"Why is it so difficult to find real cuckold couples on here that don’t just think cuckolding is about having a threesome... the amount of people that will tick it or say they are a cuck couple without understanding it is rife !!!
Anyone else think this? Or me just being a moaner lol
There is no universal definition of cuckolding, it means different things to different people."
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"A Cuckhold to me is a man's partner being fucked by another man.
The man of the partner is usually restrained and made to watch. However, this may not be the case.
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There is true at a very basic level but it goes far deeper than this in many cases. Also, everyone is different and has their own dynamic |
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full on cuckold couple here ...our problem is lack of understanding from single guys ...wannabe porn stars ....or just plain wannabes .... as one person has already said no 2 cuckold couples are the same from mild to full on.... its the same with most things in these adult life styles most see it first in a porn film and then think I want some of that and when it comes to real life they just don't have a bloody clue .... the latest one for us is people think we are a cuckold couple because we are not happy ??? lol we are the most together couple total love n trust and totally together in fact I dare most people to find a closer couple ..... |
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"Why is it so difficult to find real cuckold couples on here that don’t just think cuckolding is about having a threesome... the amount of people that will tick it or say they are a cuck couple without understanding it is rife !!!
Anyone else think this? Or me just being a moaner lol
There is no universal definition of cuckolding, it means different things to different people."
Fully agree. |
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We consider ourselves to be a real cuckold couple but others may think it dosnt ho far enough. I love to see guys and have them fuck me while hubby watches and once we get to know a guy hubby might leave me alone with him for a while which we both love. I also love hubby to dress up sexy while he watches as you can see from the photos in our profile. |
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"Why is it so difficult to find real cuckold couples on here that don’t just think cuckolding is about having a threesome... the amount of people that will tick it or say they are a cuck couple without understanding it is rife !!!
Anyone else think this? Or me just being a moaner lol
There is no universal definition of cuckolding, it means different things to different people."
That is definitely true |
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"Yes well said. I'm trying to find a couple. But no joy around Wales at all not even a single or married female. Only bi guy's looking to suck me lol no chance "
But if you were blindfolded, would you even know? |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
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"Why is it so difficult to find real cuckold couples on here that don’t just think cuckolding is about having a threesome... the amount of people that will tick it or say they are a cuck couple without understanding it is rife !!!
Anyone else think this? Or me just being a moaner lol"
You have to also realise that some so called bulls use it as a ruse to get familiar with the wife and once in (kinda) forget that there is indeed a 3rd person there at all.
A cuckold relationship is a 3 way relationship, it's not just the bull & the wife - the cuckolds needs & requirements need to be taken into consideration too. |
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Amongst the couples I've played with I've had a husband watch and wank but not join in, another just watch and not even get undressed and another stayed downstairs whilst we played upstairs and he came up and joined in later. Even had one sit in the pub opposite my place whilst I fucked his wife and she filmed it for him to see when they were home. The 'cuckold' word was never ever mentioned with any of those couples it was just fun within mutually agreed boundaries. Who knows or cares what it's defined as provided all involved are happy with what's happening. Also enjoyed some good old MFM with couples. All good |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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"Why is it so difficult to find real cuckold couples on here that don’t just think cuckolding is about having a threesome... the amount of people that will tick it or say they are a cuck couple without understanding it is rife !!!
Anyone else think this? Or me just being a moaner lol
You have to also realise that some so called bulls use it as a ruse to get familiar with the wife and once in (kinda) forget that there is indeed a 3rd person there at all.
A cuckold relationship is a 3 way relationship, it's not just the bull & the wife - the cuckolds needs & requirements need to be taken into consideration too."
For me, I enjoy the interaction with the cuck as much as I do the hotwife. I really love seeing the reactions of the cuck to certain things I may do or suggest. |
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"I think some click the cuckold box because there are aspects of it they enjoy, "
Agreed, I also believe like the majority of fantasies are better when they are played out in the mi d and just the physical act |
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"The cuckold need is always taken into consideration when I play ... it’s about all 3 being involved xx any bull who doesn’t understand this is not a bull x"
Is a bull still a bull when he refers to sex as play? |
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Don't get hung up on titles. Every 'cuckold' couples understanding of their lifestyle is different. Treat them as individuals rather than stereotypes, just be yourself and you'll soon meet a compatible couple. |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
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"We are a real cuckold couple but would add that it's also difficult to find a bull who fully understand the dynamics and his role"
Very true, we recently met up with a guy who was EXCELLENT in the bedroom, he catered for my wifes needs very well & I enjoyed the thrill of watching them together very much & after 3 meetings with him things (in the bedroom) were starting to progress nicely.
However, outside the bedroom he seemed to view me with a lot of contempt and disrespect. I had established with him that we weren't to be considered a sub cpl outside of sex but his tone with me was always abrupt & 'off' and it became clear to me that I was never going to get it from him & that he only considered 2 people to be in that relationship and not 3.
The final straw for me came when I received a really flippant reply to a text I had spent a long time planning & writing which really annoyed me and after discussion with her we pulled the plug.
I am NOT the needy type by any stretch but I was sharing with him THE MOST valuable & precious thing I have & I expect to be treated accordingly.
He initially contacted us stating he was experienced in this field however - outside of fucking - he really didnt have a clue and clearly didnt take into account the needs of ALL other parties.
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"We are a real cuckold couple but would add that it's also difficult to find a bull who fully understand the dynamics and his role
Very true, we recently met up with a guy who was EXCELLENT in the bedroom, he catered for my wifes needs very well & I enjoyed the thrill of watching them together very much & after 3 meetings with him things (in the bedroom) were starting to progress nicely.
However, outside the bedroom he seemed to view me with a lot of contempt and disrespect. I had established with him that we weren't to be considered a sub cpl outside of sex but his tone with me was always abrupt & 'off' and it became clear to me that I was never going to get it from him & that he only considered 2 people to be in that relationship and not 3.
The final straw for me came when I received a really flippant reply to a text I had spent a long time planning & writing which really annoyed me and after discussion with her we pulled the plug.
I am NOT the needy type by any stretch but I was sharing with him THE MOST valuable & precious thing I have & I expect to be treated accordingly.
He initially contacted us stating he was experienced in this field however - outside of fucking - he really didnt have a clue and clearly didnt take into account the needs of ALL other parties.
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We totally get that and have experienced simular situations too a bull needs to understand that he needs to put the needs of the couple before his. It's not just about giving the wife a good fucking the dynamics are much deeper than that. |
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"We are a real cuckold couple but would add that it's also difficult to find a bull who fully understand the dynamics and his role
Very true, we recently met up with a guy who was EXCELLENT in the bedroom, he catered for my wifes needs very well & I enjoyed the thrill of watching them together very much & after 3 meetings with him things (in the bedroom) were starting to progress nicely.
However, outside the bedroom he seemed to view me with a lot of contempt and disrespect. I had established with him that we weren't to be considered a sub cpl outside of sex but his tone with me was always abrupt & 'off' and it became clear to me that I was never going to get it from him & that he only considered 2 people to be in that relationship and not 3.
The final straw for me came when I received a really flippant reply to a text I had spent a long time planning & writing which really annoyed me and after discussion with her we pulled the plug.
I am NOT the needy type by any stretch but I was sharing with him THE MOST valuable & precious thing I have & I expect to be treated accordingly.
He initially contacted us stating he was experienced in this field however - outside of fucking - he really didnt have a clue and clearly didnt take into account the needs of ALL other parties.
We totally get that and have experienced simular situations too a bull needs to understand that he needs to put the needs of the couple before his. It's not just about giving the wife a good fucking the dynamics are much deeper than that. "
I've been meeting cuckold couples for over 20 years now. Initially as the 20 something young stud and now as the more mature Bull. The big differentiator between a guy to fuck your wife, more stag/vixen and a Bull is the engagement before and after the meet. Cuckolding a husband is 99% done when you're not there. |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
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"We are a real cuckold couple but would add that it's also difficult to find a bull who fully understand the dynamics and his role
Very true, we recently met up with a guy who was EXCELLENT in the bedroom, he catered for my wifes needs very well & I enjoyed the thrill of watching them together very much & after 3 meetings with him things (in the bedroom) were starting to progress nicely.
However, outside the bedroom he seemed to view me with a lot of contempt and disrespect. I had established with him that we weren't to be considered a sub cpl outside of sex but his tone with me was always abrupt & 'off' and it became clear to me that I was never going to get it from him & that he only considered 2 people to be in that relationship and not 3.
The final straw for me came when I received a really flippant reply to a text I had spent a long time planning & writing which really annoyed me and after discussion with her we pulled the plug.
I am NOT the needy type by any stretch but I was sharing with him THE MOST valuable & precious thing I have & I expect to be treated accordingly.
He initially contacted us stating he was experienced in this field however - outside of fucking - he really didnt have a clue and clearly didnt take into account the needs of ALL other parties.
We totally get that and have experienced simular situations too a bull needs to understand that he needs to put the needs of the couple before his. It's not just about giving the wife a good fucking the dynamics are much deeper than that.
I've been meeting cuckold couples for over 20 years now. Initially as the 20 something young stud and now as the more mature Bull. The big differentiator between a guy to fuck your wife, more stag/vixen and a Bull is the engagement before and after the meet. Cuckolding a husband is 99% done when you're not there. "
Sorry, but I disagree with the last bit. It is possible to be a bull and to show respect (esp when it has been agreed in advance).
If not then that guy is a opportunist & a fraud (in my opinion) |
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I find the term cuckold gets thrown around very loosely on here. Yes I enjoy seeing my mrs get fucked but it does not mean we are a cuckold, I'm involved in the meet just as much as she is |
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I find the term cuckold gets thrown around very loosely on here. Yes I enjoy seeing my mrs get fucked but it does not mean we are a cuckold, I'm involved in the meet just as much as she is |
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"We are a real cuckold couple but would add that it's also difficult to find a bull who fully understand the dynamics and his role
Very true, we recently met up with a guy who was EXCELLENT in the bedroom, he catered for my wifes needs very well & I enjoyed the thrill of watching them together very much & after 3 meetings with him things (in the bedroom) were starting to progress nicely.
However, outside the bedroom he seemed to view me with a lot of contempt and disrespect. I had established with him that we weren't to be considered a sub cpl outside of sex but his tone with me was always abrupt & 'off' and it became clear to me that I was never going to get it from him & that he only considered 2 people to be in that relationship and not 3.
The final straw for me came when I received a really flippant reply to a text I had spent a long time planning & writing which really annoyed me and after discussion with her we pulled the plug.
I am NOT the needy type by any stretch but I was sharing with him THE MOST valuable & precious thing I have & I expect to be treated accordingly.
He initially contacted us stating he was experienced in this field however - outside of fucking - he really didnt have a clue and clearly didnt take into account the needs of ALL other parties.
We totally get that and have experienced simular situations too a bull needs to understand that he needs to put the needs of the couple before his. It's not just about giving the wife a good fucking the dynamics are much deeper than that.
I've been meeting cuckold couples for over 20 years now. Initially as the 20 something young stud and now as the more mature Bull. The big differentiator between a guy to fuck your wife, more stag/vixen and a Bull is the engagement before and after the meet. Cuckolding a husband is 99% done when you're not there.
Sorry, but I disagree with the last bit. It is possible to be a bull and to show respect (esp when it has been agreed in advance).
If not then that guy is a opportunist & a fraud (in my opinion)"
What exactly a Bull is defined by the couples desires and needs. I didn't say anything about being disrespectful?
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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"We are a real cuckold couple but would add that it's also difficult to find a bull who fully understand the dynamics and his role
Very true, we recently met up with a guy who was EXCELLENT in the bedroom, he catered for my wifes needs very well & I enjoyed the thrill of watching them together very much & after 3 meetings with him things (in the bedroom) were starting to progress nicely.
However, outside the bedroom he seemed to view me with a lot of contempt and disrespect. I had established with him that we weren't to be considered a sub cpl outside of sex but his tone with me was always abrupt & 'off' and it became clear to me that I was never going to get it from him & that he only considered 2 people to be in that relationship and not 3.
The final straw for me came when I received a really flippant reply to a text I had spent a long time planning & writing which really annoyed me and after discussion with her we pulled the plug.
I am NOT the needy type by any stretch but I was sharing with him THE MOST valuable & precious thing I have & I expect to be treated accordingly.
He initially contacted us stating he was experienced in this field however - outside of fucking - he really didnt have a clue and clearly didnt take into account the needs of ALL other parties.
We totally get that and have experienced simular situations too a bull needs to understand that he needs to put the needs of the couple before his. It's not just about giving the wife a good fucking the dynamics are much deeper than that.
I've been meeting cuckold couples for over 20 years now. Initially as the 20 something young stud and now as the more mature Bull. The big differentiator between a guy to fuck your wife, more stag/vixen and a Bull is the engagement before and after the meet. Cuckolding a husband is 99% done when you're not there.
Sorry, but I disagree with the last bit. It is possible to be a bull and to show respect (esp when it has been agreed in advance).
If not then that guy is a opportunist & a fraud (in my opinion)"
I have to agree. There has to be respect. Some guys forget that most couples are not cuckold 100% of the time. Its merely something they both enjoy and the bull is there for both their pleasure, just in different ways. |
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"Why is it so difficult to find real cuckold couples on here that don’t just think cuckolding is about having a threesome... the amount of people that will tick it or say they are a cuck couple without understanding it is rife !!!
Anyone else think this? Or me just being a moaner lol"
you don't find them they find you we met one in a club and was with them 2 years ened it when he wanted to taste johns cum out of her pusy she did not want it |
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"We are a real cuckold couple but would add that it's also difficult to find a bull who fully understand the dynamics and his role
Very true, we recently met up with a guy who was EXCELLENT in the bedroom, he catered for my wifes needs very well & I enjoyed the thrill of watching them together very much & after 3 meetings with him things (in the bedroom) were starting to progress nicely.
However, outside the bedroom he seemed to view me with a lot of contempt and disrespect. I had established with him that we weren't to be considered a sub cpl outside of sex but his tone with me was always abrupt & 'off' and it became clear to me that I was never going to get it from him & that he only considered 2 people to be in that relationship and not 3.
The final straw for me came when I received a really flippant reply to a text I had spent a long time planning & writing which really annoyed me and after discussion with her we pulled the plug.
I am NOT the needy type by any stretch but I was sharing with him THE MOST valuable & precious thing I have & I expect to be treated accordingly.
He initially contacted us stating he was experienced in this field however - outside of fucking - he really didnt have a clue and clearly didnt take into account the needs of ALL other parties.
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Well said, my friend. |
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We love all aspects of MMF play. Sometimes Mrs. cuckolds me, sometimes I cuckold her, and sometimes we just go at it. We also love playing with other couples. We’re not sure where that puts us on the continuum. Perhaps we should pick a role and stick to it (lol). But it’s more fun this way. “Sweetheart, which of us is going to be the bitch tonight, or do you want to play it straight?” |
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and this is the number one problem with people not understanding cuckold couples many forget that most cuckold couples have been together for years and have very strong relationships |
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"We love all aspects of MMF play. Sometimes Mrs. cuckolds me, sometimes I cuckold her, and sometimes we just go at it. We also love playing with other couples. We’re not sure where that puts us on the continuum. Perhaps we should pick a role and stick to it (lol). But it’s more fun this way. “Sweetheart, which of us is going to be the bitch tonight, or do you want to play it straight?” "
We're exactly like this. Sometimes we might play a cuckold game, sometimes a sub/dom game, but we're not after these things all of the time. This is why we always take the lead when arranging a meet, and spell out clearly what we're looking for. Mostly works, but some people can't cope with the nuances and want a black and white world: "but if you're playing cuckold then you must be cuckold" kinda thing. |
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"and this is the number one problem with people not understanding cuckold couples many forget that most cuckold couples have been together for years and have very strong relationships"
and built on trust to we found he gets as much out of it as her its a 2 way thing |
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"Why is it so difficult to find real cuckold couples on here that don’t just think cuckolding is about having a threesome... the amount of people that will tick it or say they are a cuck couple without understanding it is rife !!!
Anyone else think this? Or me just being a moaner lol
You have to also realise that some so called bulls use it as a ruse to get familiar with the wife and once in (kinda) forget that there is indeed a 3rd person there at all.
A cuckold relationship is a 3 way relationship, it's not just the bull & the wife - the cuckolds needs & requirements need to be taken into consideration too."
Umm no , that’s your definition, as has been said before almost everyone has a different definition in the swinging community. In its original form though, the cuckold may not even know his wife is being fucked by another man, let alone there being a relationship between the two men. |
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Umm no , that’s your definition, as has been said before almost everyone has a different definition in the swinging community. In its original form though, the cuckold may not even know his wife is being fucked by another man, let alone there being a relationship between the two men."
the original term was for women who cheated on there husbands who became labled cucks but we talking about cuckolding within the kink/swing scene totally different than the original label |
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Umm no , that’s your definition, as has been said before almost everyone has a different definition in the swinging community. In its original form though, the cuckold may not even know his wife is being fucked by another man, let alone there being a relationship between the two men.
the original term was for women who cheated on there husbands who became labled cucks but we talking about cuckolding within the kink/swing scene totally different than the original label"
And the point I was making is that almost every couple on here is looking for different variations on the theme, a three way relationship is just one. Others look for something different. The poster I was replying to said there had to be a 3 way relationship, I’m merely pointing out that there doesn’t have to be. |
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Interesting thread.
I don't feel I am a cuckold, though I do thing we do cucky things. We've yet to find a man that quite gets it, for various reasons it seems to not quite happen. I think it's because mrs N doesn't really want it to, to be honest.
I think it could become that if we met the same man a few times and it became more friendship and trust based. However Mrs N doesn't want a regular so it's hard to imagine how I will ever really be cuckolded. |
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"We are a real cuckold couple but would add that it's also difficult to find a bull who fully understand the dynamics and his role
Very true, we recently met up with a guy who was EXCELLENT in the bedroom, he catered for my wifes needs very well & I enjoyed the thrill of watching them together very much & after 3 meetings with him things (in the bedroom) were starting to progress nicely.
However, outside the bedroom he seemed to view me with a lot of contempt and disrespect. I had established with him that we weren't to be considered a sub cpl outside of sex but his tone with me was always abrupt & 'off' and it became clear to me that I was never going to get it from him & that he only considered 2 people to be in that relationship and not 3.
The final straw for me came when I received a really flippant reply to a text I had spent a long time planning & writing which really annoyed me and after discussion with her we pulled the plug.
I am NOT the needy type by any stretch but I was sharing with him THE MOST valuable & precious thing I have & I expect to be treated accordingly.
He initially contacted us stating he was experienced in this field however - outside of fucking - he really didnt have a clue and clearly didnt take into account the needs of ALL other parties.
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That is a real shame and an unpleasant thing to have happened to you both. You did the right thing in kicking him into touch - plenty of fish in the sea. Hope it has not put you off though. |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
Wirral |
"Why is it so difficult to find real cuckold couples on here that don’t just think cuckolding is about having a threesome... the amount of people that will tick it or say they are a cuck couple without understanding it is rife !!!
Anyone else think this? Or me just being a moaner lol
You have to also realise that some so called bulls use it as a ruse to get familiar with the wife and once in (kinda) forget that there is indeed a 3rd person there at all.
A cuckold relationship is a 3 way relationship, it's not just the bull & the wife - the cuckolds needs & requirements need to be taken into consideration too.
Umm no , that’s your definition, as has been said before almost everyone has a different definition in the swinging community. In its original form though, the cuckold may not even know his wife is being fucked by another man, let alone there being a relationship between the two men."
If the husband doesnt know his wife is being fucked then it isnt called cuckolding - it's simply called 'cheating' |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
Wirral |
"We are a real cuckold couple but would add that it's also difficult to find a bull who fully understand the dynamics and his role
Very true, we recently met up with a guy who was EXCELLENT in the bedroom, he catered for my wifes needs very well & I enjoyed the thrill of watching them together very much & after 3 meetings with him things (in the bedroom) were starting to progress nicely.
However, outside the bedroom he seemed to view me with a lot of contempt and disrespect. I had established with him that we weren't to be considered a sub cpl outside of sex but his tone with me was always abrupt & 'off' and it became clear to me that I was never going to get it from him & that he only considered 2 people to be in that relationship and not 3.
The final straw for me came when I received a really flippant reply to a text I had spent a long time planning & writing which really annoyed me and after discussion with her we pulled the plug.
I am NOT the needy type by any stretch but I was sharing with him THE MOST valuable & precious thing I have & I expect to be treated accordingly.
He initially contacted us stating he was experienced in this field however - outside of fucking - he really didnt have a clue and clearly didnt take into account the needs of ALL other parties.
That is a real shame and an unpleasant thing to have happened to you both. You did the right thing in kicking him into touch - plenty of fish in the sea. Hope it has not put you off though."
Thank you, it has upset my wife cos she was building her confidence with him & she has told me that it'll certainly make her think twice about doing it again. She feels I may have been 'extra sensitive' but I explained that that is easy for her to say when all of her bases were being covered when most of mine weren't. |
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By *ylonbiWoman
over a year ago
Manchester |
Seems almost impossible to find a guy who is confident attractive and a genuine "bull".They all say understand cuck /hotwife life but o what surprise they want to meet wife without hubby being present. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am keenly seeking a cuck couple with whom to meet but it’s tough.
For me, having the husband as part of the scenario is important.
I get the impression that many have a subconscious distrust of guys due to the number trying to simply shag the wife and not including the husband in the dynamic
Three peoples involvement is what makes it such an erotic scenario |
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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago
Bury/Bolton |
"Seems almost impossible to find a guy who is confident attractive and a genuine "bull".They all say understand cuck /hotwife life but o what surprise they want to meet wife without hubby being present."
This
Funny thing is you can usually spot it on the profile or the first message in most cases, the understanding is so poor. |
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Finding the right cuckold dynamic can be incredibly frustrating. That has been my experience and also the experience of the vast majority of cuckold couples that I have chatted with or met over the years.
On the flip side when the dynamic works its incredibly rewarding.
I see a bit of a similarity with BDSM. You get lifestyle kinksters and those that just like to dabble from time to time. Once I took that into account I gave up looking for the perfect cuckold couple (my version of a unicorn) and accepted the fact that most couples prefer to just dip in and out when the mood takes them. By definition its not quite as rewarding but still a whole lot of fun.
With regard to proving my credentials as a Bull the blogs that I have written about past experiences tend to work as a very effective CV lol |
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"Seems almost impossible to find a guy who is confident attractive and a genuine "bull".They all say understand cuck /hotwife life but o what surprise they want to meet wife without hubby being present. This
Funny thing is you can usually spot it on the profile or the first message in most cases, the understanding is so poor. "
Lots of wannabes out there. But also plenty of people with experience who fully understand the cuckold dynamic. As with most things on here it just takes a little while to sift through the rubbish. |
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I am looking for another couple to play with. I cockold means different thing to differnt people aswell as it also depends on the mood. I used to meet a cockold coulke and sometime he would watch other join in and the best ones he would be sent out of the room.
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By *ongarMan
over a year ago
Maidstone / Tunbridge Wells |
I had my second meet and after chatting since the last meet and them knowing I was up for role play and cuck scenarios we planned it better set some guidelines and escalated the play.
I personally absolutely love this, the couple also seem to be over the moon, both have messaged me with separate thankyou messages and both have suggestions for our next meet.
I think this play does need guidelines and planning, lots of emotions going on with the couple dynamic and I’m giving quite a lot of aftercare to both of them.
Next meet planning on the go  |
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"I had my second meet and after chatting since the last meet and them knowing I was up for role play and cuck scenarios we planned it better set some guidelines and escalated the play.
I personally absolutely love this, the couple also seem to be over the moon, both have messaged me with separate thankyou messages and both have suggestions for our next meet.
I think this play does need guidelines and planning, lots of emotions going on with the couple dynamic and I’m giving quite a lot of aftercare to both of them.
Next meet planning on the go "
Sounds good. Sounds like you "get it". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seems almost impossible to find a guy who is confident attractive and a genuine "bull".They all say understand cuck /hotwife life but o what surprise they want to meet wife without hubby being present. This
Funny thing is you can usually spot it on the profile or the first message in most cases, the understanding is so poor. "
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"God I hate the term "bull" 
I don’t like it either, much as I love playing with couples. Feels disrespectful somehow, to me at least."
Its a lazy generally understood term like BBC which I have far less enthusiasm for. I suppose both are effective ways of reaching target audiences though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A Cuckhold to me is a man's partner being fucked by another man.
The man of the partner is usually restrained and made to watch. However, this may not be the case.
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now we talking lv it  |
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Hi all , we are very genuine but lately had a string of timewasters that had caused us to cancel and both last minute, the problem I’m having is finding The right group of guys or an already established group . |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
Wirral |
"I had my second meet and after chatting since the last meet and them knowing I was up for role play and cuck scenarios we planned it better set some guidelines and escalated the play.
I personally absolutely love this, the couple also seem to be over the moon, both have messaged me with separate thankyou messages and both have suggestions for our next meet.
I think this play does need guidelines and planning, lots of emotions going on with the couple dynamic and I’m giving quite a lot of aftercare to both of them.
Next meet planning on the go "
Its good that you value aftercare as you do - as some 'bulls' (I too hate that term) just tend to focus on the female which in turn can leave one member of the trio feeling out in the cold.
Yours is very much the way I would like our 3rd party to proceed. |
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