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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What are they?
This isn’t a thread for shaming, arguing, calling fetishes disgusting etc. Pleaaaaaase be nice.
What fetishes do you just simply not understand? |
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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago
Coventry |
"What are they?
This isn’t a thread for shaming, arguing, calling fetishes disgusting etc. Pleaaaaaase be nice.
What fetishes do you just simply not understand?"
Anything involving pain. Not for us but each to their own |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The whole buying used knickers thing. For fucks sake, just steal them off the washing line. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Foot fetish for me, I don’t find it unpleasant or pleasant, I just don’t understand the attraction, anyone with this fetish be able to give me their views on it ? Haha |
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"What are they?
This isn’t a thread for shaming, arguing, calling fetishes disgusting etc. Pleaaaaaase be nice.
What fetishes do you just simply not understand?"
Totally lost on inflation.
Don't really understand it. |
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When guys want to wear nappies and be treated like a baby. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"The whole buying used knickers thing. For fucks sake, just steal them off the washing line. "
Those would be clean...
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"Foot worship"
. It's not a fetish for me but part of forepkay if the lady likes it.
I don't like total head hoods. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it pegging where you put things down his japs eye? What’s that all about ??????? I’ve been for tests and it is not nice, can’t understand what pleasure you would get?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's so many fetishes that lots of people haven't even heard of .and lots people find disgusting. I think each to their own. I personally think that there are a lot of people interested in the fetish life now than there ever been before. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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all of them
i can't even find someone for vanilla sex
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The knot tying thing, looks like a boy scout's wet dream! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When guys want to wear nappies and be treated like a baby."
I find it very strange |
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"Is it pegging where you put things down his japs eye? What’s that all about ??????? I’ve been for tests and it is not nice, can’t understand what pleasure you would get??"
That’s sounding. Mr. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Foot worship"
Love kissing a ladies pretty feet and toes , I must say but mine are off limits for some reason! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it pegging where you put things down his japs eye? What’s that all about ??????? I’ve been for tests and it is not nice, can’t understand what pleasure you would get??
That’s sounding. Mr. "
Thanks for the education ?? i saw it once and the thought of it still makes me shudder. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Foot worship
Love kissing a ladies pretty feet and toes , I must say but mine are off limits for some reason! "
Can I ask what it is you love so much about this ? Intrigued to learn more |
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"Is it pegging where you put things down his japs eye? What’s that all about ??????? I’ve been for tests and it is not nice, can’t understand what pleasure you would get??"
No that's sounding.  |
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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago
Essex |
Toe sucking, its just not my thing. I couldn't let any one suck my toes but then I have certain fetishes that people don't get.
We all have our own certain thing that gets us off and it would be a boring world if we all liked the same thing. X |
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Feet, watersports, sounding, used knickers, tights/ stockings, stuff in public potentially involving those who don't consent. |
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I've tried urethral sounding and I've tried water sports (giving and receiving). Couldn't see what was erotic about either of them.
If that's your thing then good on you, but I just didn't find it in any way arousing and couldn't see how it was meant to give pleasure. |
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Feet....don't do feet!!! Don't even like my own haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most of them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Humiliation, slave stuff and foot things.
But if we all liked the same stuff it would be boring  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I ignore them in the false hope they'll go away  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The whole Daddy thing. |
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
Preston |
I watched a thing about a man who placed slugs on his penis.
Nope. Not for me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Scat fetish  |
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Cock and ball torture.
Ouch!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Foot worship
Love kissing a ladies pretty feet and toes , I must say but mine are off limits for some reason!
Can I ask what it is you love so much about this ? Intrigued to learn more "
I couldn’t tell you why. It’s not all feet just petite well looked after feet! The darker the nail varnish on her toes the better ??????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Toe sucking, its just not my thing. I couldn't let any one suck my toes but then I have certain fetishes that people don't get.
We all have our own certain thing that gets us off and it would be a boring world if we all liked the same thing. X"
Each to their own I suppose ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Foot worship
Love kissing a ladies pretty feet and toes , I must say but mine are off limits for some reason!
Can I ask what it is you love so much about this ? Intrigued to learn more
I couldn’t tell you why. It’s not all feet just petite well looked after feet! The darker the nail varnish on her toes the better ???????"
Ah I see, I understand a little bit more : ) thanks for sharing |
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
Preston |
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I couldn’t tell you why. It’s not all feet just petite well looked after feet! The darker the nail varnish on her toes the better ???????"
I don't really get the foot thing but mine would cause you issues. Well looked after and really dark polish but......size 8 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Scat ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Balloons "
What’s ballon fetish ? Or is it as literal as it seems |
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By *m A FuckerMan
over a year ago
kingswood,surrey/leysdown kent |
"Foot worship"
yes this
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I couldn’t tell you why. It’s not all feet just petite well looked after feet! The darker the nail varnish on her toes the better ???????
I don't really get the foot thing but mine would cause you issues. Well looked after and really dark polish but......size 8 "
More foot to kiss xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men dressed up as babies. |
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"Pet play. "
Oh f is that a thing?????
Please don't tell me anymore. My spaniel can't take it.
Jo x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There too big a list |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Watersports, scat, face spitting, daddy/little girl, nappies...each to their own but some make me worry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Feet, I just don't understand the attraction behind it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Foot worship
Love kissing a ladies pretty feet and toes , I must say but mine are off limits for some reason!
Can I ask what it is you love so much about this ? Intrigued to learn more "
I'll tell ya what I get out of it, how it was born with me.
My feet are incredibly sensitive. I'd never let a soul near them, serious case of touch them and I'm kicking like a raging cassowary.
I trusted B so much that when he took my foot to give it attention I was nervous yes, but I wasn't on edge as such.
It took time, but now he can touch my feet, rub my feet, put my toes in his mouth and even bite my feet.
For me the foot thing isn't a foot thing, it's an intimacy thing, a sign of how comfortable I am with him and the trust I have in him. Almost a wall that's been knocked down if that makes sense.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cuckold but the most confusing are the ladies looking for black men only yet married or partner is white if that interested why not marry one or at least partner be black |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are they?
This isn’t a thread for shaming, arguing, calling fetishes disgusting etc. Pleaaaaaase be nice.
What fetishes do you just simply not understand?"
NSA sex  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Scat watersports and how does someone suddenly think I know what might turn me on. Oh I know I’ll smear shit all over me mmmm. Nope nada nup noooo |
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"Foot worship
Love kissing a ladies pretty feet and toes , I must say but mine are off limits for some reason!
Can I ask what it is you love so much about this ? Intrigued to learn more
I'll tell ya what I get out of it, how it was born with me.
My feet are incredibly sensitive. I'd never let a soul near them, serious case of touch them and I'm kicking like a raging cassowary.
I trusted B so much that when he took my foot to give it attention I was nervous yes, but I wasn't on edge as such.
It took time, but now he can touch my feet, rub my feet, put my toes in his mouth and even bite my feet.
For me the foot thing isn't a foot thing, it's an intimacy thing, a sign of how comfortable I am with him and the trust I have in him. Almost a wall that's been knocked down if that makes sense.
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Makes perfect sense and is really sweet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"all of them
i can't even find someone for vanilla sex
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have you tried Neapolitan
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"Cuckold but the most confusing are the ladies looking for black men only yet married or partner is white if that interested why not marry one or at least partner be black"
If they were married to a black man they might want white men  |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
I think I "get" most of them to an extent. I can understand the reasoning behind a fetish or kink without finding it appealing myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Foot worship
Love kissing a ladies pretty feet and toes , I must say but mine are off limits for some reason!
Can I ask what it is you love so much about this ? Intrigued to learn more
I'll tell ya what I get out of it, how it was born with me.
My feet are incredibly sensitive. I'd never let a soul near them, serious case of touch them and I'm kicking like a raging cassowary.
I trusted B so much that when he took my foot to give it attention I was nervous yes, but I wasn't on edge as such.
It took time, but now he can touch my feet, rub my feet, put my toes in his mouth and even bite my feet.
For me the foot thing isn't a foot thing, it's an intimacy thing, a sign of how comfortable I am with him and the trust I have in him. Almost a wall that's been knocked down if that makes sense.
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Makes perfect sense and is really sweet!"
Perhaps it is the intimacy that turns me on so much! I have found most ladies really like it as feet can be so sensitive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When guys want to wear nappies and be treated like a baby."
That! |
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"I think I "get" most of them to an extent. I can understand the reasoning behind a fetish or kink without finding it appealing myself."
Same. When i don't understand something i ask people about it. |
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Shiting on someone or having someone shit on you its bad enough sitting on the loo smelling ya own never mind having someone elses on ya face or where ever |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cuckold but the most confusing are the ladies looking for black men only yet married or partner is white if that interested why not marry one or at least partner be black"
That's because black men are fetishized. Women love fucking black guys but not necessarily being with them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Scat fetish "
This!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cuckold but the most confusing are the ladies looking for black men only yet married or partner is white if that interested why not marry one or at least partner be black
That's because black men are fetishized. Women love fucking black guys but not necessarily being with them "
Some women do not all ..they don't appeal to me ( bbc ) |
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A tame one but, spanking. What is the attraction in making my ass look like cooked lobster? It certainly does nothing for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some women do not all ..they don't appeal to me ( bbc ) "
ITV, CNN whatever you like |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pegging "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I "get" most of them to an extent. I can understand the reasoning behind a fetish or kink without finding it appealing myself.
Same. When i don't understand something i ask people about it."
Absolutely, I don't think anyone will be offended by being asked why they like something, what emotions, feelings or sensations something will evoke. What is offensive is saying something is gross or wrong without at least trying to learn something.
Scat and other things don't appeal to me in the slightest, yet I'd still be interested to know the origins of why it "does it" for other people.
We could probably learn stuff about ourselves too if we uncovered why or where things come from.
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BBW. Especially guys who want to fuck them, but don't want relationships with them. I hope it's not because they think they're "easy". |
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Pretty much most things we're not personally into. BDSM, dom/sub, feet, daddy/baby, pain... most things really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"BBW. Especially guys who want to fuck them, but don't want relationships with them. I hope it's not because they think they're "easy"."
I'm afraid you're probably right |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not sure if I'm using the correct term but feeders I'll never understand. I can't comprehend why you'd get off on the fact you're helping to put a life at risk o.O |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t judge people for their kinks if they’re safe, sane, consensual and legal. One I’ve never “gotten” however, is findom on behalf of the payee (I don’t mean paying a professional dominant, that’s entirely different). I’d be happy for someone to explain it for me though. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"I think I "get" most of them to an extent. I can understand the reasoning behind a fetish or kink without finding it appealing myself.
Same. When i don't understand something i ask people about it.
Absolutely, I don't think anyone will be offended by being asked why they like something, what emotions, feelings or sensations something will evoke. What is offensive is saying something is gross or wrong without at least trying to learn something.
Scat and other things don't appeal to me in the slightest, yet I'd still be interested to know the origins of why it "does it" for other people.
We could probably learn stuff about ourselves too if we uncovered why or where things come from.
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Exactly. It's an opportunity to learn something. I find other people's interests fascinating. |
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Not sure if it’s a fetish’s as such but I dont get the ‘daddy’ thing
I can’t think of any more of a turn off than to get a message from a guy referring to himself as daddy or daddy Dom
Those words word never come out of my mouth during sex
Each to their own but I just don’t get it
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The wires got connected in a different way. That's not a fetish, as far as I know -merely a reflection on how other peoples random connections are going to seem alien to us. It's wonderful that we're all so different.
I don't get how you'd be satisfied if someone went along with your fetish, in a very poor am dram style. I'd need close to reality
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure if it’s a fetish’s as such but I dont get the ‘daddy’ thing
I can’t think of any more of a turn off than to get a message from a guy referring to himself as daddy or daddy Dom
Those words word never come out of my mouth during sex
Each to their own but I just don’t get it
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I’d feel like a bit of a plum referring to myself as daddy and god forbid I get called it one day, I’d pull out and get out probably ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Feet, just don't get it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who like fucking objects in garbage bags or heavy plastic scares the crap out of me simply because you do not know what is in it.
And yes this is a fetish.
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Lots don't get the feet thing..
The two I don't get are scat..
Bloody horrible horrible horrible... How can that be sex
And the Adult baby thing which to be fair I think is more about regression to a time in our lives when we felt happy and secure... Not sex in my opinion |
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Whilst not being a foot fetishist, I do enjoy painting a lady's toe nails.
But that's more about the dominance/serving side of it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cuckolding completely messes with my head
CBT makes me squirm in such a bad way
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
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What fetishes do you just simply not understand?"
Just about all of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All sexual activity is filth and an abomination. I joined this site looking for a fab swing for my garden......but you deviants have corrupted my mind with your filth !!
I love finding out about other people's kinks and why how etc |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
NW London |
I will never understand humiliation/degradation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cuckolding.
I don't get it. Why would you treat your partner like shit for a random guy you're having sex with?!?
I really wonder how many guys just go along with it to keep their partner happy. What do they get out of it?
Why would you deny sex to the person you love most in the world in favour of some random guy?
I think some people are influenced by porn too much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I recently heard about sounding on here and it put me in pain
when I googled it.
I don't know how anyone would find it appealing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anything with shit or piss, BDSM, midget porn, bukake, cuckold list goes on |
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There's many I'm not personally into but I'm yet to find one I totally can't understand the psychology behind. I used to be baffled by small penis humiliation but then I spoke to a guy who was into it and I kind of get it now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Feet. Watersports. Schoolgirl roleplay |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also, not sure if it's classed as a fetish, but I'd include anal in my previous list |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont understand the whole being called daddy attraction |
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By *erri AnneTV/TS
over a year ago
Shannon and Costa Blanca |
"Watersports "
I agree watersport is the one I will never understand |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Foot worship"
Niether did i until tonight |
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"When guys want to wear nappies and be treated like a baby.
I find it very strange "
That one is actually quite easy to understand for me.
Submissive guys are quite often A-type personalities. Being sub allows them to get away from being in charge and making decisions/thinking/being responsible.
When they submit they can let go completely knowing their Dom(me) is in complete control and will look after them.
Ageplay is just an extrapolation of that.
To become helpless and have someone look after you. (A lot of ageplay and adult baby stuff is asexual or non contact)
It can be a very heady experience for a sub. |
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"Pegging "
Oh dude!
You don't get pegging?
Well, just inside your bumbum, is a gland called the prostate, curious little doughnut full of sensitive nerve endings that light up when it's rubbed or pressure is applied. Makes a guy feel amazing and often gives an earth shattering orgasm when stimulated especially with additional stimulation on the exterior.
You should really try it sometime. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I find it more interesting learning more about what is actually out there as I seem to find new ones each week. Even though a lot of it isn’t my cup of tea I’m fascinated by them And automatically my mind goes to how on earth would that work in a practical sense during sex.... |
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Cleaning up someone else's cream pie. |
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By *ttis669Man
over a year ago
warrington |
"The whole buying used knickers thing. For fucks sake, just steal them off the washing line. "
Then theyre not 'used'  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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2 women having sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cleaning up someone else's cream pie."
I have a deep yearning to do this and i dont really know why |
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Ball busting
I have had many a message asking me if I would do this
I would have thought it to be so dangerous , actually physically damaging - could be ruined for life
Don’t get that at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cuckold but the most confusing are the ladies looking for black men only yet married or partner is white if that interested why not marry one or at least partner be black"
I prefer black men my husband is very white he’s almost translucent haha for me it’s an attitude thing I don’t say only black men yet at clubs I end up talking and playing with black men every time. The black men I have met have sent much better messages than any white men have been more respectful and have put effort in with me and my husband not just me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cleaning up someone else's cream pie."
This  borrrrkkkk |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Foot worship"
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anything that leaves a mark - why voluntarily go for domestic violence? |
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over a year ago
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"When guys want to wear nappies and be treated like a baby.
I find it very strange "
Escapism...complete control given to someone else. No worries, stress, complications, upset (unless your balloon pops). Half an hour or an hour of complete unconditional love, care, warmth.
I don't do it myself but I know a couple of AB's. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"anything that leaves a mark - why voluntarily go for domestic violence?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's so many fetishes that lots of people haven't even heard of .and lots people find disgusting. I think each to their own. I personally think that there are a lot of people interested in the fetish life now than there ever been before. "
Your my fetish x |
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over a year ago
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"Not sure if it’s a fetish’s as such but I dont get the ‘daddy’ thing
I can’t think of any more of a turn off than to get a message from a guy referring to himself as daddy or daddy Dom
Those words word never come out of my mouth during sex
Each to their own but I just don’t get it
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All of the above and don't like gimp masks...pain pee or poo, also grown men in bàby clothes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure if it’s a fetish’s as such but I dont get the ‘daddy’ thing
I can’t think of any more of a turn off than to get a message from a guy referring to himself as daddy or daddy Dom
Those words word never come out of my mouth during sex
Each to their own but I just don’t get it
All of the above and don't like gimp masks...pain pee or poo, also grown men in bàby clothes "
yes i agree men in baby gear god lol oh and men with beer bellies in latex not good |
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Foot worshipping. I just can't see it |
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"Not sure if it’s a fetish’s as such but I dont get the ‘daddy’ thing
I can’t think of any more of a turn off than to get a message from a guy referring to himself as daddy or daddy Dom
Those words word never come out of my mouth during sex
Each to their own but I just don’t get it
All of the above and don't like gimp masks...pain pee or poo, also grown men in bàby clothes yes i agree men in baby gear god lol oh and men with beer bellies in latex not good "
The experience of wearing latex can be as big a part of the experience as how it looks. It feels like no other clothing in my opinion. |
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over a year ago
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The whole daddy kink
Im not a fan |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure if it’s a fetish’s as such but I dont get the ‘daddy’ thing
I can’t think of any more of a turn off than to get a message from a guy referring to himself as daddy or daddy Dom
Those words word never come out of my mouth during sex
Each to their own but I just don’t get it
All of the above and don't like gimp masks...pain pee or poo, also grown men in bàby clothes yes i agree men in baby gear god lol oh and men with beer bellies in latex not good
The experience of wearing latex can be as big a part of the experience as how it looks. It feels like no other clothing in my opinion."
I'm not into it myself, but the baby fetish thing is often due to needing to feel wanted and cared for - it's a very basic human instinct that some people like to fetishise. Most fetishes can be linked to very basic human needs and psychological requirements, therefore there's nothing weird about it in my view. Good luck to them for being able to express themselves in a positive way which doesn't harm anyone else. |
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"Cleaning up someone else's cream pie."
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Yes that's an odd one, i really love cleaning another guy's cum out of my wife, it's my favourite thing to do! But I've got no interest in cleaning cum out of anyone else, and no interest in cleaning out my own, although i will do if asked/pushed.. |
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over a year ago
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Tarmacing why |
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over a year ago
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I 'get' most kinks but I dont get anything out of most of them
I think the one I understand least is the shibari rope thing.
I understand wanting to tie someone up but I dont understand spending hours over it making elaborate knots  |
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"I 'get' most kinks but I dont get anything out of most of them
I think the one I understand least is the shibari rope thing.
I understand wanting to tie someone up but I dont understand spending hours over it making elaborate knots "
Agreed. Thats the word i was looking for earlier. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Good not understand everyone |
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over a year ago
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Cuckolding is the main one
Pain
Watersports
“Daddy”
The pregnant breastfeeding thing.
There’s too many! |
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"Cuckolding is the main one
Pain
Watersports
“Daddy”
The pregnant breastfeeding thing.
There’s too many! "
You’re so vanilla |
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over a year ago
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"Cuckolding is the main one
Pain
Watersports
“Daddy”
The pregnant breastfeeding thing.
There’s too many!
You’re so vanilla "
I didn’t think I was though. But yeah maybe I am. I’m happy with that though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Cuckolding is the main one
Pain
Watersports
“Daddy”
The pregnant breastfeeding thing.
There’s too many! "
Yes to the pregnant breastfeeding one. Never got it. |
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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago
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"I 'get' most kinks but I dont get anything out of most of them
I think the one I understand least is the shibari rope thing.
I understand wanting to tie someone up but I dont understand spending hours over it making elaborate knots "
You really need to get the knots right, get it wrong and it could go really wrong.
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over a year ago
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Pain. Not things like spanking or using a crop but inflicting full on pain that you generally try to avoid as much as you can in life. Boggles my mind just as much as people who watch horror films alone |
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over a year ago
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"Balloons "
Balloons??? I need more education obviously! |
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over a year ago
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"Pain. Not things like spanking or using a crop but inflicting full on pain that you generally try to avoid as much as you can in life. Boggles my mind just as much as people who watch horror films alone "
I always say I don’t mind a pink bum but I don’t want a red bum |
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over a year ago
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"Is it pegging where you put things down his japs eye? What’s that all about ??????? I’ve been for tests and it is not nice, can’t understand what pleasure you would get??"
Sounding is the name you’re looking for
Urethral sounds
Pegging is being fucked with a dildo or strap on |
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There’s a few I really don’t understand...cuckolding is the main one anything to do with feet ...Grown men dressed as babies .... Being humiliated and Being called Daddy .... |
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over a year ago
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"Not sure if it’s a fetish’s as such but I dont get the ‘daddy’ thing
I can’t think of any more of a turn off than to get a message from a guy referring to himself as daddy or daddy Dom
Those words word never come out of my mouth during sex
Each to their own but I just don’t get it
All of the above and don't like gimp masks...pain pee or poo, also grown men in bàby clothes yes i agree men in baby gear god lol oh and men with beer bellies in latex not good
The experience of wearing latex can be as big a part of the experience as how it looks. It feels like no other clothing in my opinion."
yes but i had a good friend on another site part of a couple he was a big guy 6'6 strong but rotund lovely guy and he put a pic up wearing some kind of latex fetish gear he didn't look good |
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"Watersports
This for us too"
yup, and anything to do with poo, just dont get it.
And please, no PM's as to the whys and wherefores...not looking to be converted or educated. |
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over a year ago
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"Not sure if it’s a fetish’s as such but I dont get the ‘daddy’ thing
I can’t think of any more of a turn off than to get a message from a guy referring to himself as daddy or daddy Dom
Those words word never come out of my mouth during sex
Each to their own but I just don’t get it
All of the above and don't like gimp masks...pain pee or poo, also grown men in bàby clothes yes i agree men in baby gear god lol oh and men with beer bellies in latex not good
The experience of wearing latex can be as big a part of the experience as how it looks. It feels like no other clothing in my opinion.yes but i had a good friend on another site part of a couple he was a big guy 6'6 strong but rotund lovely guy and he put a pic up wearing some kind of latex fetish gear he didn't look good "
Just because he "didn't look good" in your eyes does that fucking matter? What matters is did HE FEEL GOOD? You aren't really understanding the not shaming people thing here are you?
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over a year ago
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"Not sure if it’s a fetish’s as such but I dont get the ‘daddy’ thing
I can’t think of any more of a turn off than to get a message from a guy referring to himself as daddy or daddy Dom
Those words word never come out of my mouth during sex
Each to their own but I just don’t get it
All of the above and don't like gimp masks...pain pee or poo, also grown men in bàby clothes yes i agree men in baby gear god lol oh and men with beer bellies in latex not good
The experience of wearing latex can be as big a part of the experience as how it looks. It feels like no other clothing in my opinion.yes but i had a good friend on another site part of a couple he was a big guy 6'6 strong but rotund lovely guy and he put a pic up wearing some kind of latex fetish gear he didn't look good "
Good job at no shaming and keeping it nice |
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"Not sure if it’s a fetish’s as such but I dont get the ‘daddy’ thing
I can’t think of any more of a turn off than to get a message from a guy referring to himself as daddy or daddy Dom
Those words word never come out of my mouth during sex
Each to their own but I just don’t get it
All of the above and don't like gimp masks...pain pee or poo, also grown men in bàby clothes yes i agree men in baby gear god lol oh and men with beer bellies in latex not good
The experience of wearing latex can be as big a part of the experience as how it looks. It feels like no other clothing in my opinion.yes but i had a good friend on another site part of a couple he was a big guy 6'6 strong but rotund lovely guy and he put a pic up wearing some kind of latex fetish gear he didn't look good
Good job at no shaming and keeping it nice"
They can't help themselves.. |
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I once read a thing in a magazine about a (rather large) American lady that was being jetted around the states and making a VERYYYY good income farting on Men’s faces.
I don’t get it myself but good luck to that girl. |
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over a year ago
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"I once read a thing in a magazine about a (rather large) American lady that was being jetted around the states and making a VERYYYY good income farting on Men’s faces.
I don’t get it myself but good luck to that girl. "
A bit off subject but did you see the woman who farted her friends baby gender reveal?!
Also I heard about someone who would go on cam and get paid thousands of dollars to bite the heads off of gummy bears as the guy watching her would wank |
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And another one is ‘extreme insertions’
That absolutely baffles me
Have seen bumholes looking absolutely destroyed and me being an over thinker questioning how they manage to hold a poo in |
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over a year ago
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"And another one is ‘extreme insertions’
That absolutely baffles me
Have seen bumholes looking absolutely destroyed and me being an over thinker questioning how they manage to hold a poo in "
they dont they wear adult pampers |
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"And another one is ‘extreme insertions’
That absolutely baffles me
Have seen bumholes looking absolutely destroyed and me being an over thinker questioning how they manage to hold a poo in they dont they wear adult pampers "
Omg that is a joke right ? |
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Bodily fluids in general, I honestly can't get my head around the pee/poo thing
I have fetishes for clothing not really into Leather, Rubber or Latex but I do understand it, but someone peeing on you not for me. |
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over a year ago
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"The whole daddy kink
Im not a fan "
Me neither |
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Feet. It's just the one of the few things I don't get. |
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"I once read a thing in a magazine about a (rather large) American lady that was being jetted around the states and making a VERYYYY good income farting on Men’s faces.
I don’t get it myself but good luck to that girl.
A bit off subject but did you see the woman who farted her friends baby gender reveal?!
Also I heard about someone who would go on cam and get paid thousands of dollars to bite the heads off of gummy bears as the guy watching her would wank"
DREAM JOB!!
Yes. It’s that girl that falls over on purpose. I need a niche |
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"BBW. Especially guys who want to fuck them, but don't want relationships with them. I hope it's not because they think they're "easy"."
You could say that about any woman on here. You want to fuck other people but couldn’t in a conventional relationship, but get a woman with "low self esteem" of a sex site, open a couples profile and fill your boots.
When you want to settle down bin the "tart" for a vestal virgin. |
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"Cuckold but the most confusing are the ladies looking for black men only yet married or partner is white if that interested why not marry one or at least partner be black"
When I met as a Domme I only met white men. I was married to a black man, my current partner is white and can't even say "submissive: it's a fantasy! |
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"I think I "get" most of them to an extent. I can understand the reasoning behind a fetish or kink without finding it appealing myself."
So can I: mostly. |
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over a year ago
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Poo |
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"I 'get' most kinks but I dont get anything out of most of them
I think the one I understand least is the shibari rope thing.
I understand wanting to tie someone up but I dont understand spending hours over it making elaborate knots "
Hmmm I've only ever had this done once by a guy. I didn't really find it sexual, but something in the way he held me and pulled me in as he tightened and pulled them knots did something. |
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over a year ago
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Had someone drink my piss and wanted me to use his mouth as an ashtray, didn't get that at all but he loved it lol x |
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over a year ago
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Tentacle porn!! WTF!!
Someone mentioned it in another thread so I had to check it out!
Other than captain birdseye slapping his mast about to this stuff does any one else find it arousing?! |
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over a year ago
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Oh there’s a few things that we don’t understand like brat play ( where they behave and act like a spoilt child ) that’s really popular on here lol and baby play ( where people wear nappies and adult sized baby clothes ) nothing against it just don’t understand but I’m sure there’s loads who don’t understand our type of play either. Each to their own as they say . |
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over a year ago
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Into the fetish world myself where I have seen a lot. I can understand most of the fetishes. One thing I can never get my mind around, is findom. In most cases, the domme just gets the money and goes away. The sub is not even around to see the domme. What's actually happening there? |
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over a year ago
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"The whole buying used knickers thing. For fucks sake, just steal them off the washing line. "
Sniff appeal then falls flat |
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People that have sex with their car.
Slot of people wouldn't understand what turns me on so not judging |
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Even in this UN-Politically correct forum we find it almost frightening to say openly that we do not find non Europeans physically attractive.
They might be absolutely lovely people who we would be happy to share vanilla time and chat about football or knitting. When it comes down to raw sex which is based on pure physical attraction, the desire is just not there.
We now stand back and wait for the abuse. |
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"When guys want to wear nappies and be treated like a baby."
This?? I just dont get it at all!!! |
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"Even in this UN-Politically correct forum we find it almost frightening to say openly that we do not find non Europeans physically attractive.
They might be absolutely lovely people who we would be happy to share vanilla time and chat about football or knitting. When it comes down to raw sex which is based on pure physical attraction, the desire is just not there.
We now stand back and wait for the abuse."
What would you class as non European? American? Canadian? Australian? Are you saying that you wouldn’t find anyone from these countries physically attractive? I’m not knocking your preferences just genuinely interested |
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Think the only one I cant really understand is scat. |
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over a year ago
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"Think the only one I cant really understand is scat. "
The smell alone would make me sick |
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"Is it pegging where you put things down his japs eye? What’s that all about ??????? I’ve been for tests and it is not nice, can’t understand what pleasure you would get??"
Sounding...I have been sounded to...sexy as fuck |
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over a year ago
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It's good that there is still no condemnation for people's kinks but i have read quite a few comments that show clearly they don't understand the kink they've mentioned and assumed it's something that it isn't at all. If i come across a term i haven't heard i educate myself before making a decision if it's a possibility for me rather than guessing. |
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over a year ago
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"Even in this UN-Politically correct forum we find it almost frightening to say openly that we do not find non Europeans physically attractive.
They might be absolutely lovely people who we would be happy to share vanilla time and chat about football or knitting. When it comes down to raw sex which is based on pure physical attraction, the desire is just not there.
We now stand back and wait for the abuse."
Where is the fetish in your post? |
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"The whole buying used knickers thing. For fucks sake, just steal them off the washing line. "
But they'd be clean off the washing line. Or do you mean the dirty linen basket?  |
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"It's good that there is still no condemnation for people's kinks but i have read quite a few comments that show clearly they don't understand the kink they've mentioned and assumed it's something that it isn't at all. If i come across a term i haven't heard i educate myself before making a decision if it's a possibility for me rather than guessing."
That is the hypocrisy of the Fab forums...judgement from closed minds... |
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over a year ago
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"And another one is ‘extreme insertions’
That absolutely baffles me
Have seen bumholes looking absolutely destroyed and me being an over thinker questioning how they manage to hold a poo in they dont they wear adult pampers
Omg that is a joke right ? "
lol it was a guess at best |
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over a year ago
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over a year ago
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"Even in this UN-Politically correct forum we find it almost frightening to say openly that we do not find non Europeans physically attractive.
They might be absolutely lovely people who we would be happy to share vanilla time and chat about football or knitting. When it comes down to raw sex which is based on pure physical attraction, the desire is just not there.
We now stand back and wait for the abuse.
Where is the fetish in your post? "
That’s what I’m wondering |
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