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How to tell Mrs I like anal play
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’d like my Mrs to play with my ass but I’m not sure what she’d think, I play with my own when I wank and love it but it’s not a comfortable convo to have....help?... |
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I honestly don't know any other way to have uncomfortable conversations than by just diving straight in. Maybe not over dinner with the vicar but as pillow talk possibly or in an exchange of fantasies?
Ask her if there's something she would really like you to do but is worried that you'll think she's a bit of a perve, reassure her of your willingness to hear her out without judgement and then tell her your fantasy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Start a conversation about what you both like sexually. Make her feel comfortable then ask about hers. Once she asks you tell her.
Failing that just write "Cucumber and Vaseline for Joejames21" on the shopping list. |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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"I’d like my Mrs to play with my ass but I’m not sure what she’d think, I play with my own when I wank and love it but it’s not a comfortable convo to have....help?..."
Has she ever got close to your ass during foreplay? If she has, you could moan encouragingly to see if she picks up on the enjoyment you get from it. If not, then go the talking about fantasies route. Good luck. |
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"I’d like my Mrs to play with my ass but I’m not sure what she’d think, I play with my own when I wank and love it but it’s not a comfortable convo to have....help?..."
Have you watched the film 'Road trip'?
It's a teen comedy like American pie, but involving a group of American male students who have to go on a road trip
At one point they need gas money and go to make a deposit in the sperm bank.
One of them asks the attractive nurse to give him a hand. She does so, with a prostate massage which surprised him, but by the end of the film, he's suggesting to his girlfriend that she could possibly add another finger...
The film is generally sex positive and could open up a conversation. At least see her reaction to the act, whether she is disgusted or turned on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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next time youre having sex say you need a pee and come back in with a big black dildo up your arse and if she asks say "i slipped" but feels really good    |
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(Ray) just talk to her about it as in any other part of your relationship be open and honest that's what I did with Lou just said I fancied trying it and she threw in a rimming for good measure lol |
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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago
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Next time she’s giving you a blow job. Look down at her and say in your sexiest voice
“ hey love would you stick an ole finger up me arse for a bit seeing as you are down there “
Always works for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try something like this...
You know I think we could try a few things different in the bedroom, what do you think if I put a finger in your other hole whilst we are fucking? Maybe you should try it on me first just so I can see if it would be comfortable for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On several occasions I’ve had this conversation.
You need to find the right moment, and tell your partner what you like. You need to see her reaction . Could be a hard no way, or a maybe .
In my experience a partner would want to please and pleasure you just as much as you doing the same. |
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