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By *rybe4udie OP Couple
over a year ago
Limerick city |
We have been apart of the community for a while now and we love it but we haven't had a play meet, we had a social but Mrs. was unsure if she wanted to play and I would not pressure her or allow anyone else to.
I love the forums, the stuff that is spoken about every day are the things I used to think and fantasize about but knew none of my mates had the same thoughts but since joining Fab it's a relief that I'm not some weirdo as was pointed out by an ex some time ago and I love being apart of it even if we never had a meet.
Sorry for babbling the question is,
Are we seen as a pain in the ass for taking up space for others who want to have meets? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have been apart of the community for a while now and we love it but we haven't had a play meet, we had a social but Mrs. was unsure if she wanted to play and I would not pressure her or allow anyone else to.
I love the forums, the stuff that is spoken about every day are the things I used to think and fantasize about but knew none of my mates had the same thoughts but since joining Fab it's a relief that I'm not some weirdo as was pointed out by an ex some time ago and I love being apart of it even if we never had a meet.
Sorry for babbling the question is,
Are we seen as a pain in the ass for taking up space for others who want to have meets? "
Of course not, use Fab how you see fit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don’t meet privately anymore. Quite a recent thing. But we do still enjoy going to clubs and the social side of that. If we do play there it’s never prearranged. There’s no right or wrong way to use fab and you should never feel pressured into doing anything you don’t want to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don’t meet privately anymore. Quite a recent thing. But we do still enjoy going to clubs and the social side of that. If we do play there it’s never prearranged. There’s no right or wrong way to use fab and you should never feel pressured into doing anything you don’t want to. "
Exactly the right way to approach Fab!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have been apart of the community for a while now and we love it but we haven't had a play meet, we had a social but Mrs. was unsure if she wanted to play and I would not pressure her or allow anyone else to.
I love the forums, the stuff that is spoken about every day are the things I used to think and fantasize about but knew none of my mates had the same thoughts but since joining Fab it's a relief that I'm not some weirdo as was pointed out by an ex some time ago and I love being apart of it even if we never had a meet.
Sorry for babbling the question is,
Are we seen as a pain in the ass for taking up space for others who want to have meets? "
You're not taking up any space. Plus I've seen plenty of people who are here for the forums etc and don't intend to meet. You don't have to meet anyone to make a contribution to the site. The only people who think there is any kind of obligation involved in being here are those with unrealistic expectations who don't get how the real world works. Do what's right for you two and no one else. |
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"We have been apart of the community for a while now and we love it but we haven't had a play meet, we had a social but Mrs. was unsure if she wanted to play and I would not pressure her or allow anyone else to.
I love the forums, the stuff that is spoken about every day are the things I used to think and fantasize about but knew none of my mates had the same thoughts but since joining Fab it's a relief that I'm not some weirdo as was pointed out by an ex some time ago and I love being apart of it even if we never had a meet.
Sorry for babbling the question is,
Are we seen as a pain in the ass for taking up space for others who want to have meets? "
 if others have any issues with your use of this place, they are firmly theirs and not yours, do what you want to without guilty thoughts or obligation to rest of us. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
The whole point is to be who you feel you are.
I used to think I had some kinky and weird likes but jesus I'm vanilla compared to most on here.
I like the forums and chatting being honest,try being a single unverified man then you'll know what its like to feel you're only taking up space onnthis |
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Sometimes it's just nice to feel you're not an oddball. If I mentioned half the stuff that's talked about on here to my off fab friends they'd be horrified, being on fab gives me somewhere to express that part of myself. We do meet now and again but compared to many we're light weight  .
Do what you want to do |
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"We have been apart of the community for a while now and we love it but we haven't had a play meet, we had a social but Mrs. was unsure if she wanted to play and I would not pressure her or allow anyone else to.
I love the forums, the stuff that is spoken about every day are the things I used to think and fantasize about but knew none of my mates had the same thoughts but since joining Fab it's a relief that I'm not some weirdo as was pointed out by an ex some time ago and I love being apart of it even if we never had a meet.
Sorry for babbling the question is,
Are we seen as a pain in the ass for taking up space for others who want to have meets? "
Not at all we dont always meet or go to clubs but we enjoy coming on here for a perv read others expieriances and geting ideas from others always enjoy a chat and reading thru the forums some good stuff on here. And im sure when your both ready to meet or añthing you will do.
Oh and if you fancied going to a club you dont have to play with anyone you dont even have to take your clothes off if your not comfortable with doing so. Just remember your in control nobody else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope - a lot only chat on the forums as they like the interactions with like-minded people.
It’s crazy how people see ‘swinging’ - like something disgusting? When it’s essentially ‘adult-tinder’ just clear intentions....
Welcome to the both of you! |
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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough |
We've met several couples who were just interested in talking with a "real couple." They asked lots of questions and probably left with even more. We've later met a few of those couples for various levels of play.
Bottom line: take your time, set your standards and levels, have fun! |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Use Fab how you want to. We rarely meet off here, but I like the forums for fun, but there is often some good information and advice from the forumites especially from me    "
Yes, I was thinking of you
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Use Fab how you want to. We rarely meet off here, but I like the forums for fun, but there is often some good information and advice from the forumites especially from me
Yes, I was thinking of you
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i knew it can i be a pain in your bum |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Use Fab how you want to. We rarely meet off here, but I like the forums for fun, but there is often some good information and advice from the forumites especially from me
Yes, I was thinking of you
i knew it can i be a pain in your bum "
You wish |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Use Fab how you want to. We rarely meet off here, but I like the forums for fun, but there is often some good information and advice from the forumites especially from me
Yes, I was thinking of you
i knew it can i be a pain in your bum
You wish "
i do lol |
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As others have said, you are under no obligation to meet, and should do what feels right for you.
The only people I have a problem with on here are those who say they want to meet, but never actually do. As long as you're honest about not meeting, as your post has stated clearly, you're not hurting anyone and doing right by yourselves.
If you enjoy it, good for you. |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"We have been apart of the community for a while now and we love it but we haven't had a play meet, we had a social but Mrs. was unsure if she wanted to play and I would not pressure her or allow anyone else to.
I love the forums, the stuff that is spoken about every day are the things I used to think and fantasize about but knew none of my mates had the same thoughts but since joining Fab it's a relief that I'm not some weirdo as was pointed out by an ex some time ago and I love being apart of it even if we never had a meet.
Sorry for babbling the question is,
Are we seen as a pain in the ass for taking up space for others who want to have meets? "
. You are not taking up anyone’s time or space you need to go at your own pace.As has been pointed out lots of people are on the forums and never meet.You may want to consider attending a organised social in your area to meet other Fabswingers have a drink , share stories , talk about what is going on in the world.You may make some new friends and if you feel a connection or spark then perhaps a meet happens but as long as you are all comfortable with it.Also have a look in the club reviews section to see if there are any clubs in or near your area again it a chance to make a connection nothing has to happen until you are comfortable with it.Best of luck with whatever you decide just go at your own pace. |
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