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Dodged a Bullet

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Looks like I dodged a bullet last night folks,

I had a newish single male profile messaging me about me fucking him while he fucked his gf. I was interested but skeptical.

After not much chatting at all he basically gave me his full address and told me to head over right now, which i explained was not possible cos i had stuff to do. But also he was completely unverified, id only seen one pic of him and he was a singles profile not a couples. Most importantly the profile said straight!

I said the only way i would ve comfortable is if he set up a proper couples profile and they got themselves photo verified. So he set up the couples profile as suggested then asked me how to di a photo veri.

After i explained he needed to take that all important photo with his missus, the account was deleted or blocked me.

Mkst likely this was just a straight boy pushing his luck and his gf didnt know what was going on. At worst i just avoided a gay bashing. Ten years on this site makes me glad i can now spot the warning signs!

Anyone else had similar experiences?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well profiles like that I just ignore them without even engaging

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Unfortunately mysterious girlfriends, where there's no evidence that they're interested or exist, are very common.

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By *urenutsMan over a year ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1

There are lots of them around. You have spot them and block

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

It could also be someone being malicious with another persons address. Please report if the single profile is still here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For want of a more appropriate phrase..'do not think with your balls'..

A social, non hasty meeting to get to know the individuals concerned is the only way forward....

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By *AYENCouple over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Always a social first - it's our golden, never to be broken rule.

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By *wosmilersCouple over a year ago

Heathrowish

We received a message from a new "couple" yesterday.

The message complimented our pictures and stated that "I will....", "I have...", etc.

We then ascertained that the male of the couple was a single guy who hoped to find a partner for fun with others.

I suppose it is one way of getting around our block on messages from single males.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Always a social first - it's our golden, never to be broken rule. "

Me too. That and independently verify that people are who they say they are.

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By *uckslut and MCouple over a year ago

Poole

My fella has a single male account. He will set up surprise meets for me through there. Although we are both mentioned on his veris, as a playing couple. So there are gen, profiles that play like this.

Yours, sounded very much like a dodged bullet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Must of been the weekend for weirdos

Had a message from single woman non verified in anyway asking me to join her in her truck stop last night !!! Lol lovely pics no doubt pinched from somewhere but the implications for the less fab weathered female I dread to think !!!

Stay safe people !!

It was an instant block btw

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Must of been the weekend for weirdos

Stay safe people !!

It was an instant block btw

Yeah, the other thing is, would a woman really say that?

If the answer is probably not, swerve.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dont even reply, always ask for a photo of them both with a name written down on a word you have just made up then call female 9/10 there single men

Be carefull

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yeah, the other thing is, would a woman really say that?

If the answer is probably not, swerve. "

Theres a single fem account local to me whose status currently says "So horny. My g string is dripping with precum".

Thought precum was in interesting word to use. Associate it more with a fella than a female. Makes me think its another dude faking it

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

Don't forget to help Admin by reporting please

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