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Is it all about swapping?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We are a couple that have joined the site so the wife can explore her bisexual side. We are happy to meet couples or females, but we're not interested in swapping. Girly play and sticking with our partners is what we are looking for!
Are there like minded people on fab, as they seem hard to find? Or is swapping the priority? X  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes we have the same outlook.
Everyone is different with what they want it is what makes things interesting.
Em x
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Maybe it's where we live that's the issue. Just find it extremely hard to find like minded people x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You know what you want so stick to your guns - just be prepared to be VERY patient and wait for the right opportunity."
That's the plan I think, we're not willing to bend our boundaries for anyone. Just frustrating as we want to have so much fun. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know what you want so stick to your guns - just be prepared to be VERY patient and wait for the right opportunity.
That's the plan I think, we're not willing to bend our boundaries for anyone. Just frustrating as we want to have so much fun. X"
It is for us, we’re only interested in full swap couples x just preference |
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over a year ago
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"We are a couple that have joined the site so the wife can explore her bisexual side. We are happy to meet couples or females, but we're not interested in swapping. Girly play and sticking with our partners is what we are looking for!
Are there like minded people on fab, as they seem hard to find? Or is swapping the priority? X "
It is what we want to, don't worry about it, the right couple will come along at some point! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It is for us, we’re only interested in full swap couples x just preference"
Everyone has different preferences which is great. We just realise that swapping is the main reason for swinging. We just want to branch out and see if other couples/ females are inti the same.
What di you like about swapping? X
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We are a couple that have joined the site so the wife can explore her bisexual side. We are happy to meet couples or females, but we're not interested in swapping. Girly play and sticking with our partners is what we are looking for!
Are there like minded people on fab, as they seem hard to find? Or is swapping the priority? X
It is what we want to, don't worry about it, the right couple will come along at some point!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are a couple that have joined the site so the wife can explore her bisexual side. We are happy to meet couples or females, but we're not interested in swapping. Girly play and sticking with our partners is what we are looking for!
Are there like minded people on fab, as they seem hard to find? Or is swapping the priority? X "
There are couples on here the same as yourself, you just need to do the leg work and find them, talk to each other about it, your boundaries will probably change of you like the lifestyle, ours have  |
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"We are a couple that have joined the site so the wife can explore her bisexual side. We are happy to meet couples or females, but we're not interested in swapping. Girly play and sticking with our partners is what we are looking for!
Are there like minded people on fab, as they seem hard to find? Or is swapping the priority? X "
That’s all we’re looking for too. Had a couple where the male got quite irate when he realized we weren’t swapping !
There’s loads of couples looking for the same, just be very clear when you set out the ground rules early |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We are a couple that have joined the site so the wife can explore her bisexual side. We are happy to meet couples or females, but we're not interested in swapping. Girly play and sticking with our partners is what we are looking for!
Are there like minded people on fab, as they seem hard to find? Or is swapping the priority? X
That’s all we’re looking for too. Had a couple where the male got quite irate when he realized we weren’t swapping !
There’s loads of couples looking for the same, just be very clear when you set out the ground rules early "
I just think it's where we live, that the issue. If we lived closer to a main city, it would be easier to find like minded people. We just need to do the graft and start traveling lol. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We are a couple that have joined the site so the wife can explore her bisexual side. We are happy to meet couples or females, but we're not interested in swapping. Girly play and sticking with our partners is what we are looking for!
Are there like minded people on fab, as they seem hard to find? Or is swapping the priority? X
There are couples on here the same as yourself, you just need to do the leg work and find them, talk to each other about it, your boundaries will probably change of you like the lifestyle, ours have "
I think time will tell, but we're sticking to what we want. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We’re a bit out of the way as well, but have been chatting to a few couples to arrange something when we go to Glasgow or Edinburgh for a night away. "
Do you video call them? To break the ice, Or just a conversation on here/kik? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A lot of people compromise on here and that is how things fall apart.
Stick to what you are comfortable with and you cant go wrong x"
How do you find like minded people? X |
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"We are a couple that have joined the site so the wife can explore her bisexual side. We are happy to meet couples or females, but we're not interested in swapping. Girly play and sticking with our partners is what we are looking for!
Are there like minded people on fab, as they seem hard to find? Or is swapping the priority? X "
We are the same a you, it does narrow down your chances but there are couples out there. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know what you want so stick to your guns - just be prepared to be VERY patient and wait for the right opportunity."
Agree with this. I have no interest in full swap whatsoever. We very much like the social aspect and being watched. And when I find females that I find attractive and we connect then it’s a bonus. Don’t let people badger you into doing something you don’t want to do, on the site and off it.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We are a couple that have joined the site so the wife can explore her bisexual side. We are happy to meet couples or females, but we're not interested in swapping. Girly play and sticking with our partners is what we are looking for!
Are there like minded people on fab, as they seem hard to find? Or is swapping the priority? X
We are the same a you, it does narrow down your chances but there are couples out there. Xx"
That's good to know. It is difficult, but we'll get there lol xx |
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you dont want to hear this but
taking your time and making sure and not rushing things.
hardest thing we find is either a girl just wanting just to be with me with mike there or them not able to fully interact with mike.
It is like i want my cake and eat it and they cant so easy to understand why it is hard to find
needle in a haystack but worth it when you find the needle |
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"We’re a bit out of the way as well, but have been chatting to a few couples to arrange something when we go to Glasgow or Edinburgh for a night away.
Do you video call them? To break the ice, Or just a conversation on here/kik? "
Usually just a conversation on here then if we get along chat on whatsapp or Kik |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You know what you want so stick to your guns - just be prepared to be VERY patient and wait for the right opportunity.
Agree with this. I have no interest in full swap whatsoever. We very much like the social aspect and being watched. And when I find females that I find attractive and we connect then it’s a bonus. Don’t let people badger you into doing something you don’t want to do, on the site and off it.
L xx"
Definitely! The social aspect is the most important for us. Love watching other couples play, and also being watched by them. We will stick to our guns. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"you dont want to hear this but
taking your time and making sure and not rushing things.
hardest thing we find is either a girl just wanting just to be with me with mike there or them not able to fully interact with mike.
It is like i want my cake and eat it and they cant so easy to understand why it is hard to find
needle in a haystack but worth it when you find the needle "
Yeah! We have fou d a couple on out level, but that's it really. Just want to see if other people are interested in the same thing x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We’re a bit out of the way as well, but have been chatting to a few couples to arrange something when we go to Glasgow or Edinburgh for a night away.
Do you video call them? To break the ice, Or just a conversation on here/kik?
Usually just a conversation on here then if we get along chat on whatsapp or Kik"
We do have kik, which we prefer a short video call, just to prove that we are genuine x
Lots of people get irritated by it x
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"We’re a bit out of the way as well, but have been chatting to a few couples to arrange something when we go to Glasgow or Edinburgh for a night away.
Do you video call them? To break the ice, Or just a conversation on here/kik?
Usually just a conversation on here then if we get along chat on whatsapp or Kik
We do have kik, which we prefer a short video call, just to prove that we are genuine x
Lots of people get irritated by it x
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We tried one account for us to share on Kik but whenever the other person went on, it deleted the previous chats.
It’s hard work keeping track of messages between here, Kik and WhatsApp ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We’re a bit out of the way as well, but have been chatting to a few couples to arrange something when we go to Glasgow or Edinburgh for a night away.
Do you video call them? To break the ice, Or just a conversation on here/kik?
Usually just a conversation on here then if we get along chat on whatsapp or Kik
We do have kik, which we prefer a short video call, just to prove that we are genuine x
Lots of people get irritated by it x
We tried one account for us to share on Kik but whenever the other person went on, it deleted the previous chats.
It’s hard work keeping track of messages between here, Kik and WhatsApp ! "
Yeah! We will find a solution. Thanks for the advice x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are a couple that have joined the site so the wife can explore her bisexual side. We are happy to meet couples or females, but we're not interested in swapping. Girly play and sticking with our partners is what we are looking for!
Are there like minded people on fab, as they seem hard to find? Or is swapping the priority? X
We are the same a you, it does narrow down your chances but there are couples out there. Xx
That's good to know. It is difficult, but we'll get there lol xx "
Looks like you a good meet already this month, patience needed for the next meet. X |
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"We are a couple that have joined the site so the wife can explore her bisexual side. We are happy to meet couples or females, but we're not interested in swapping. Girly play and sticking with our partners is what we are looking for!
Are there like minded people on fab, as they seem hard to find? Or is swapping the priority? X "
We are the same, on here for me to explore my bi side nothing more |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We are a couple that have joined the site so the wife can explore her bisexual side. We are happy to meet couples or females, but we're not interested in swapping. Girly play and sticking with our partners is what we are looking for!
Are there like minded people on fab, as they seem hard to find? Or is swapping the priority? X
We are the same a you, it does narrow down your chances but there are couples out there. Xx
That's good to know. It is difficult, but we'll get there lol xx
Looks like you a good meet already this month, patience needed for the next meet. X"
Tbh, we really get on with that couple. We're still open to meeting new people, as you don't know how long they will be in this lifestyle. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We are a couple that have joined the site so the wife can explore her bisexual side. We are happy to meet couples or females, but we're not interested in swapping. Girly play and sticking with our partners is what we are looking for!
Are there like minded people on fab, as they seem hard to find? Or is swapping the priority? X
We are the same, on here for me to explore my bi side nothing more "
It's nice to know that other couples have the same interest, even if it's a low percentage on Fab. |
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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago
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To be honest, even in South East we are struggling to find other couples.
Our main focus is for soft swing fun for Mrs T to explore her bi side...(we have recently decided to explorer MFM however)...but we are not looking for swapping either.
We have met some couples who do full swap but have been happy to respect our boundaries. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To be honest, even in South East we are struggling to find other couples.
Our main focus is for soft swing fun for Mrs T to explore her bi side...(we have recently decided to explorer MFM however)...but we are not looking for swapping either.
We have met some couples who do full swap but have been happy to respect our boundaries."
I guess it comes down to the couple or person that your meeting. Their personality and what they want. If you get a good vibe with people, then it becomes easy. We will definitely stick with our boundaries.
How do you find soft swap? X |
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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago
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"To be honest, even in South East we are struggling to find other couples.
Our main focus is for soft swing fun for Mrs T to explore her bi side...(we have recently decided to explorer MFM however)...but we are not looking for swapping either.
We have met some couples who do full swap but have been happy to respect our boundaries.
I guess it comes down to the couple or person that your meeting. Their personality and what they want. If you get a good vibe with people, then it becomes easy. We will definitely stick with our boundaries.
How do you find soft swap? X"
Absolutely love it!! Wish we could do it more often...
Lovely profile by the way  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To be honest, even in South East we are struggling to find other couples.
Our main focus is for soft swing fun for Mrs T to explore her bi side...(we have recently decided to explorer MFM however)...but we are not looking for swapping either.
We have met some couples who do full swap but have been happy to respect our boundaries.
I guess it comes down to the couple or person that your meeting. Their personality and what they want. If you get a good vibe with people, then it becomes easy. We will definitely stick with our boundaries.
How do you find soft swap? X
Absolutely love it!! Wish we could do it more often...
Lovely profile by the way "
Thank you! Xx |
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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago
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"We are a couple that have joined the site so the wife can explore her bisexual side. We are happy to meet couples or females, but we're not interested in swapping. Girly play and sticking with our partners is what we are looking for!
Are there like minded people on fab, as they seem hard to find? Or is swapping the priority? X "
We literally only play with girls. Gem doesn't want to play with guys so we joined to find ladies for threesomes ect. It was really quite hard and slow moving at first. It took close to a year to get our first meet from here. But we have had a few now and some brilliant encounters at clubs too. Managed to make lots of new friends too! We wondered if this was the place for us because we don't swap but everyone we have spoken to have been lovely. Hope you find what you're looking for.
Gem |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We are a couple that have joined the site so the wife can explore her bisexual side. We are happy to meet couples or females, but we're not interested in swapping. Girly play and sticking with our partners is what we are looking for!
Are there like minded people on fab, as they seem hard to find? Or is swapping the priority? X
We literally only play with girls. Gem doesn't want to play with guys so we joined to find ladies for threesomes ect. It was really quite hard and slow moving at first. It took close to a year to get our first meet from here. But we have had a few now and some brilliant encounters at clubs too. Managed to make lots of new friends too! We wondered if this was the place for us because we don't swap but everyone we have spoken to have been lovely. Hope you find what you're looking for.
Gem"
First, can I say what a hot profile you have. And second, we totally agree. We're happy to meet couples, but only for female play. I don't think we would be on this site if we had to wait a year. Fair play to you both! Finding unicorns are hard. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We are very similar apart from a little bit of soft swaps as well, agree it's very hard to find what we are after too"
Maybe Fab should have an option on each profile stating, full swap, soft swap, female play. At the top of the profile. That would be so much easier to find people who have the same interests. That choice thing at the bottom doesn't really work. X |
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"We are a couple that have joined the site so the wife can explore her bisexual side. We are happy to meet couples or females, but we're not interested in swapping. Girly play and sticking with our partners is what we are looking for!
Are there like minded people on fab, as they seem hard to find? Or is swapping the priority? X "
We are the same |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We are a couple that have joined the site so the wife can explore her bisexual side. We are happy to meet couples or females, but we're not interested in swapping. Girly play and sticking with our partners is what we are looking for!
Are there like minded people on fab, as they seem hard to find? Or is swapping the priority? X
We are the same "
Yaya! More |
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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago
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"We are very similar apart from a little bit of soft swaps as well, agree it's very hard to find what we are after too
Maybe Fab should have an option on each profile stating, full swap, soft swap, female play. At the top of the profile. That would be so much easier to find people who have the same interests. That choice thing at the bottom doesn't really work. X"
We find people dont read profiles, we always say withings the 1st couple of messages that we dont do full swaps and if they arent interested then we have spent ages laying the ground work |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We are very similar apart from a little bit of soft swaps as well, agree it's very hard to find what we are after too
Maybe Fab should have an option on each profile stating, full swap, soft swap, female play. At the top of the profile. That would be so much easier to find people who have the same interests. That choice thing at the bottom doesn't really work. X
We find people dont read profiles, we always say withings the 1st couple of messages that we dont do full swaps and if they arent interested then we have spent ages laying the ground work "
Absolutely! You do all that work, check their profile and then, BANG! They say we like to swap. Completely annoys us. I think it should be mandatory at the top of the profile stating your intentions. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is the exact reason we joined to wife wanted some lady love, hubby happy for it to happen. You are not alone
We've been blocked by people when we say no full swap
Oh well their loss "
Definitely their loss. |
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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago
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"This is the exact reason we joined to wife wanted some lady love, hubby happy for it to happen. You are not alone
We've been blocked by people when we say no full swap
Oh well their loss "
Absolutely! Peterborough’s not too far way from us.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is the exact reason we joined to wife wanted some lady love, hubby happy for it to happen. You are not alone
We've been blocked by people when we say no full swap
Oh well their loss
Absolutely! Peterborough’s not too far way from us.... "
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We don't mind this infact quite like it. As I love girl on girl and he loves watching. But have got to a meet, to be told I can play with her and him. But my fella can only play with me. A very sneeky way to get a unicorn. We've walked out on meets like this. |
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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago
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"There nothing quiet like a message of a single bloke who profile is a cock pic with starting line of Your wife’s got big tits ??
Is it so hard to read a profile ??
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We get these all the time, even got 1 message last week that Sony read 'want to bang?' |
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"We are a couple that have joined the site so the wife can explore her bisexual side. We are happy to meet couples or females, but we're not interested in swapping. Girly play and sticking with our partners is what we are looking for!
Are there like minded people on fab, as they seem hard to find? Or is swapping the priority? X
We are the same, on here for me to explore my bi side nothing more
It's nice to know that other couples have the same interest, even if it's a low percentage on Fab."
It is, Ray and I have discussed our boundaries and we are both set with what we want/dont want and we both agree with all of them and we shouldn't change any just for things to happen sooner x |
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Can't get my head around couple rules. I'm straight, but the number of times it's the woman who scares me off, or that I can't play even a little with the man, or does agree, then changes the rules and gets all protective half way through!!
Perhaps I'm a bit autistic, but I struggle with changes to what was advertised!!!! |
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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago
Biggleswade |
"Can't get my head around couple rules. I'm straight, but the number of times it's the woman who scares me off, or that I can't play even a little with the man, or does agree, then changes the rules and gets all protective half way through!!
Perhaps I'm a bit autistic, but I struggle with changes to what was advertised!!!!"
That’s fair, but not limited to Soft Play couples. All should agree boundaries before any play |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don't mind this infact quite like it. As I love girl on girl and he loves watching. But have got to a meet, to be told I can play with her and him. But my fella can only play with me. A very sneeky way to get a unicorn. We've walked out on meets like this. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We don't mind this infact quite like it. As I love girl on girl and he loves watching. But have got to a meet, to be told I can play with her and him. But my fella can only play with me. A very sneeky way to get a unicorn. We've walked out on meets like this. "
I don't blame you. That could completely put you off meeting. Some people are just assholes x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There nothing quiet like a message of a single bloke who profile is a cock pic with starting line of Your wife’s got big tits ??
Is it so hard to read a profile ??
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It isn't hard! But people are lazy and try to be sneaky. I think you can only send messages if your verified. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s not all about swapping, it’s about having a good time and personally we would always want to have everyone involved, not just girl on girl then playing with own partners, after all as a lady you never fantasised about being spit roasted? As a man have you never wanted a double blowjob? If you can answer a genuine no then fine, crack on, but deep down if you want to try all the naughty delights of swinging, you need to consider why you won’t go that far and what the issue is before involving others xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We just want to be in same room on same bed with no swapping but not had single bite because of this "
How long have you been on the swinging scene?
Is it still classed as Swinging? X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We are a couple that have joined the site so the wife can explore her bisexual side. We are happy to meet couples or females, but we're not interested in swapping. Girly play and sticking with our partners is what we are looking for!
Are there like minded people on fab, as they seem hard to find? Or is swapping the priority? X
We are the same, on here for me to explore my bi side nothing more
It's nice to know that other couples have the same interest, even if it's a low percentage on Fab.
It is, Ray and I have discussed our boundaries and we are both set with what we want/dont want and we both agree with all of them and we shouldn't change any just for things to happen sooner x"
Totally agree x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It’s not all about swapping, it’s about having a good time and personally we would always want to have everyone involved, not just girl on girl then playing with own partners, after all as a lady you never fantasised about being spit roasted? As a man have you never wanted a double blowjob? If you can answer a genuine no then fine, crack on, but deep down if you want to try all the naughty delights of swinging, you need to consider why you won’t go that far and what the issue is before involving others xx"
It really does depend on what you join the site for. By breaking your own boundaries, that you set, could have repercussions on your relationship (depending on how strong you are). Completely agree that you might want to explore more, but it's about communicating between each other. For us, boundaries are boundaries. X |
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We’re happy for soft swap or fem/fem and play with own partners. We certainly don’t find it boring as some say in their profiles as we have great sex with each other also. We both have permission to full swap but neither wants to, so we’re VERY happy in our boundaries (which we find very horny) |
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"We are a couple that have joined the site so the wife can explore her bisexual side. We are happy to meet couples or females, but we're not interested in swapping. Girly play and sticking with our partners is what we are looking for!
Are there like minded people on fab, as they seem hard to find? Or is swapping the priority? X "
This is how we play, Hubby has no interest in playing with others.. |
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"We’re happy for soft swap or fem/fem and play with own partners. We certainly don’t find it boring as some say in their profiles as we have great sex with each other also. We both have permission to full swap but neither wants to, so we’re VERY happy in our boundaries (which we find very horny) "
Yeah! We completely get that people can be versatile. So you meet different people for different experiences. It just some couples are to pushy and want more, which ruin it for everyone. X |
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"We are a couple that have joined the site so the wife can explore her bisexual side. We are happy to meet couples or females, but we're not interested in swapping. Girly play and sticking with our partners is what we are looking for!
Are there like minded people on fab, as they seem hard to find? Or is swapping the priority? X
This is how we play, Hubby has no interest in playing with others.."
Mr said " your sexy and everything I need, why would I need another woman to please me". To be fair, that's how I feel about men. So that's how we come to the conclusion about our boundaries and girly play is the only thing missing in my life. X |
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"Maybe we should organise a soft swing event for us all. The men can kick back with a beer while the ladies get warmed up!"
Maybe an even for girly play/soft swap. Ladies/couples can decide what they want then x |
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"We’re happy for soft swap or fem/fem and play with own partners. We certainly don’t find it boring as some say in their profiles as we have great sex with each other also. We both have permission to full swap but neither wants to, so we’re VERY happy in our boundaries (which we find very horny)
Yeah! We completely get that people can be versatile. So you meet different people for different experiences. It just some couples are to pushy and want more, which ruin it for everyone. X"
No one should EVER be pushy, that’s a massive no and “we’ll see you later”! Everyone should respect everyone’s boundaries and all have a good time. |
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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago
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"Maybe we should organise a soft swing event for us all. The men can kick back with a beer while the ladies get warmed up!
Maybe an even for girly play/soft swap. Ladies/couples can decide what they want then x "
Any club watching this thread...could be a money earner! |
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"We’re happy for soft swap or fem/fem and play with own partners. We certainly don’t find it boring as some say in their profiles as we have great sex with each other also. We both have permission to full swap but neither wants to, so we’re VERY happy in our boundaries (which we find very horny)
Yeah! We completely get that people can be versatile. So you meet different people for different experiences. It just some couples are to pushy and want more, which ruin it for everyone. X No one should EVER be pushy, that’s a massive no and “we’ll see you later”! Everyone should respect everyone’s boundaries and all have a good time."
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"Maybe we should organise a soft swing event for us all. The men can kick back with a beer while the ladies get warmed up!
Maybe an even for girly play/soft swap. Ladies/couples can decide what they want then x
Any club watching this thread...could be a money earner!"
Definitely! We would be there in a heart beat. X |
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"Can't get my head around couple rules. I'm straight, but the number of times it's the woman who scares me off, or that I can't play even a little with the man, or does agree, then changes the rules and gets all protective half way through!!
Perhaps I'm a bit autistic, but I struggle with changes to what was advertised!!!!"
We quite clearly say whats on offer. They agree, then they change the rules. Is our exspriance. For example, this Sat my birthday gang bang. Safe sex, no anal, gb. We've been offered so many, anal's bukkes, bj's ect. I think its quite clear whats on offer. Thinking with there manhoods! |
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"Maybe we should organise a soft swing event for us all. The men can kick back with a beer while the ladies get warmed up!
Maybe an even for girly play/soft swap. Ladies/couples can decide what they want then x
Any club watching this thread...could be a money earner!
Definitely! We would be there in a heart beat. X "
Hold that thought! I have 2 girlie freinds, on here, that are just as much sluts as I am. We are getting New year out the way, then gonna arrange a ffffff in a club.
If you read a reveiw left for Gems, not so long back. There was an improptu ffff on the orgy bed. Although us sluts need cock too. So after a time limit, we'd let the boys join in.  |
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There is a massive difference between soft swap (which we get involved in regularly and thoroughly enjoy) & just girl on girl, with men playing with there own partners.
Soft swap is when you do everything with others like kissing and oral but don’t penetrate others, that’s a far cry from what the OP is looking for |
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"We are a couple that have joined the site so the wife can explore her bisexual side. We are happy to meet couples or females, but we're not interested in swapping. Girly play and sticking with our partners is what we are looking for!
Are there like minded people on fab, as they seem hard to find? Or is swapping the priority? X "
Same as us not really looking to swap just have fun and a play |
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"Maybe we should organise a soft swing event for us all. The men can kick back with a beer while the ladies get warmed up!
Maybe an even for girly play/soft swap. Ladies/couples can decide what they want then x
Any club watching this thread...could be a money earner!
Definitely! We would be there in a heart beat. X
Hold that thought! I have 2 girlie freinds, on here, that are just as much sluts as I am. We are getting New year out the way, then gonna arrange a ffffff in a club.
If you read a reveiw left for Gems, not so long back. There was an improptu ffff on the orgy bed. Although us sluts need cock too. So after a time limit, we'd let the boys join in. "
Yeah! That would be fine. The people can decide what they want. People like us can go back to their partners and others can soft swap. X |
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over a year ago
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"We go to clubs and just play alone its just the enjoyment and the atmosphere being naked in a jacuzzi with strangers is a awesome feeling and such a turn on to fuck in front of people"
I don't know what nearest club is to us x |
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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago
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"We go to clubs and just play alone its just the enjoyment and the atmosphere being naked in a jacuzzi with strangers is a awesome feeling and such a turn on to fuck in front of people
I don't know what nearest club is to us x "
Checked the list...Newport has one...Chameleons |
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"We go to clubs and just play alone its just the enjoyment and the atmosphere being naked in a jacuzzi with strangers is a awesome feeling and such a turn on to fuck in front of people
I don't know what nearest club is to us x
Checked the list...Newport has one...Chameleons"
Are they any good? Have you been to them? X |
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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago
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"We go to clubs and just play alone its just the enjoyment and the atmosphere being naked in a jacuzzi with strangers is a awesome feeling and such a turn on to fuck in front of people
I don't know what nearest club is to us x
Checked the list...Newport has one...Chameleons
Are they any good? Have you been to them? X"
We’ve only been to a club near us. It is fun, and as said earlier fucking in front of other people is sexy as hell!
Meeting other couples depends on how confident you are... |
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"We are a couple that have joined the site so the wife can explore her bisexual side. We are happy to meet couples or females, but we're not interested in swapping. Girly play and sticking with our partners is what we are looking for!
Are there like minded people on fab, as they seem hard to find? Or is swapping the priority? X "
This is exactly what my girlfriend and I used to do - both orally bi, we met couples (mostly) for fun evenings where we enjoyed sharing mutual masturbation and oral between us all.
Totally amazing! |
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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago
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"We are a couple that have joined the site so the wife can explore her bisexual side. We are happy to meet couples or females, but we're not interested in swapping. Girly play and sticking with our partners is what we are looking for!
Are there like minded people on fab, as they seem hard to find? Or is swapping the priority? X
We literally only play with girls. Gem doesn't want to play with guys so we joined to find ladies for threesomes ect. It was really quite hard and slow moving at first. It took close to a year to get our first meet from here. But we have had a few now and some brilliant encounters at clubs too. Managed to make lots of new friends too! We wondered if this was the place for us because we don't swap but everyone we have spoken to have been lovely. Hope you find what you're looking for.
Gem
First, can I say what a hot profile you have. And second, we totally agree. We're happy to meet couples, but only for female play. I don't think we would be on this site if we had to wait a year. Fair play to you both! Finding unicorns are hard. X"
Thank you! Yours is great too! Yeah we have managed to find friends in couples and had some same partner same room fun as couples and I've played with the girl in a couple while the guys watch. We go to clubs alongside using fab and tbh we do have more luck there. The elusive single lady does exist though! We have found a lovely regular lady which suits us down to the ground. It can be a bit tedious trying to find people who want the same thing as you do x
Gem |
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"We go to clubs and just play alone its just the enjoyment and the atmosphere being naked in a jacuzzi with strangers is a awesome feeling and such a turn on to fuck in front of people
I don't know what nearest club is to us x
Checked the list...Newport has one...Chameleons
Are they any good? Have you been to them? X"
Try xtasia if like the night club feel, dancing and flirting might be the best way to break into the club scene. |
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"We go to clubs and just play alone its just the enjoyment and the atmosphere being naked in a jacuzzi with strangers is a awesome feeling and such a turn on to fuck in front of people
I don't know what nearest club is to us x
Checked the list...Newport has one...Chameleons
Are they any good? Have you been to them? X Try xtasia if like the night club feel, dancing and flirting might be the best way to break into the club scene. "
Where abouts is that? That sounds more up our street x |
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"We go to clubs and just play alone its just the enjoyment and the atmosphere being naked in a jacuzzi with strangers is a awesome feeling and such a turn on to fuck in front of people
I don't know what nearest club is to us x
Checked the list...Newport has one...Chameleons
Are they any good? Have you been to them? X Try xtasia if like the night club feel, dancing and flirting might be the best way to break into the club scene.
Where abouts is that? That sounds more up our street x "
West Bromwich, near Birmingham. It's ideal if you like a nightclub with good music, with playrooms too |
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"We go to clubs and just play alone its just the enjoyment and the atmosphere being naked in a jacuzzi with strangers is a awesome feeling and such a turn on to fuck in front of people
I don't know what nearest club is to us x
Checked the list...Newport has one...Chameleons
Are they any good? Have you been to them? X Try xtasia if like the night club feel, dancing and flirting might be the best way to break into the club scene.
Where abouts is that? That sounds more up our street x West Bromwich, near Birmingham. It's ideal if you like a nightclub with good music, with playrooms too "
We will look into the going up there x |
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I’m sure you’d will be ok
The area definitely helps
Hence why I’m luckless atm
But I just flicked through your pics being nosey and I had to zoom in and look a fe times
Check your July 8th pic
Funniest pic
Looks like you've got a foot for a cock
Imagine that
Whole new meaning to I’ll stick my foot right up your arse lol
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"I’m sure you’d will be ok
The area definitely helps
Hence why I’m luckless atm
But I just flicked through your pics being nosey and I had to zoom in and look a fe times
Check your July 8th pic
Funniest pic
Looks like you've got a foot for a cock
Imagine that
Whole new meaning to I’ll stick my foot right up your arse lol
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Thanks!
I've just seen it  lol. It's quite funny x |
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"I’m sure you’d will be ok
The area definitely helps
Hence why I’m luckless atm
But I just flicked through your pics being nosey and I had to zoom in and look a fe times
Check your July 8th pic
Funniest pic
Looks like you've got a foot for a cock
Imagine that
Whole new meaning to I’ll stick my foot right up your arse lol
Thanks!
I've just seen it lol. It's quite funny x "
Gotta put that as profile pic for a bit and call your selfs dick foot n the sexatons or something |
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Tina doesn't play with guys so we only meet with women for ffm or occasionally couples for the situation you describe.
We had to be patient to get our first meet but somehow the meets became easier to get after that.
Keep at it and I'm sure you'll find what you're looking for. |
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"Tina doesn't play with guys so we only meet with women for ffm or occasionally couples for the situation you describe.
We had to be patient to get our first meet but somehow the meets became easier to get after that.
Keep at it and I'm sure you'll find what you're looking for. "
Thanks! The overall message from everyone seems to be," be patient, so we will take our time. X |
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"Tina doesn't play with guys so we only meet with women for ffm or occasionally couples for the situation you describe.
We had to be patient to get our first meet but somehow the meets became easier to get after that.
Keep at it and I'm sure you'll find what you're looking for.
Thanks! The overall message from everyone seems to be," be patient, so we will take our time. X"
Exactly that! Clubs are easier and safer by far. Not had a bad time in one yet
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"We go to clubs and just play alone its just the enjoyment and the atmosphere being naked in a jacuzzi with strangers is a awesome feeling and such a turn on to fuck in front of people
I don't know what nearest club is to us x
Checked the list...Newport has one...Chameleons
Are they any good? Have you been to them? X Try xtasia if like the night club feel, dancing and flirting might be the best way to break into the club scene.
Where abouts is that? That sounds more up our street x "
I think clubs are great chams is so relaxed great atmosphere and staff are friendy very welcoming id suggest clubs highy recomended ones as there are ceedy places out there... also remember boundaries what you say goes. |
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"as you said way back you do need to do the legwork get out and meet some people internet tells you the basics but someone who matches all your crityeria could be a complete twat when you meet
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We are new to it all so we are looking for the same as you guys for now, may be open to more in future but yes not looking for swapping partners. happy with just girl play or everyone playing but just penetration with own partner if that makes sense |
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Are there like minded people on fab, as they seem hard to find? Or is swapping the priority? X "
I think what you are asking for sounds perfectly reasonable. It's certainly something we would do if we were attracted to a couple and that's what they wanted. We are prepared to go further but that doesn't mean we wouldn't respect somebody's wishes or miss out on something very pleasurable with a couple we like.
Just make sure you are clear on your profile what you want and anybody you are in contact with will know that's the situation with you.
Unfortunately for you you're living in a less-populated part of the country. I'd say you are likely to find the right couple for you around big towns and cities. |
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"We are a couple that have joined the site so the wife can explore her bisexual side. We are happy to meet couples or females, but we're not interested in swapping. Girly play and sticking with our partners is what we are looking for!
Are there like minded people on fab, as they seem hard to find? Or is swapping the priority? X
I think what you are asking for sounds perfectly reasonable. It's certainly something we would do if we were attracted to a couple and that's what they wanted. We are prepared to go further but that doesn't mean we wouldn't respect somebody's wishes or miss out on something very pleasurable with a couple we like.
Just make sure you are clear on your profile what you want and anybody you are in contact with will know that's the situation with you.
Unfortunately for you you're living in a less-populated part of the country. I'd say you are likely to find the right couple for you around big towns and cities. "
Yeah! Transparency is important. Thanks for the advice and maybe we should move to a city  x |
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