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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How to start meeting couples?any tips?  im scared shit.
Come and meet us we will brake you in as slowly or quickly as one wishes  xx"
Mmmm... stunning pics... 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How to start meeting couples?any tips? im scared shit.
Go to clubs. Message and chat x"
Not very outgoing if im honest .and to go to clubs you would need company... more fun to it. |
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"How to start meeting couples?any tips? im scared shit.
Go to clubs. Message and chat x
Not very outgoing if im honest .and to go to clubs you would need company... more fun to it."
I go clubs by myself quite a bit. A lot of clubs have host/esses or club buddies so you aren't left being a wallflower x |
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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago
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Look for couples on here that you like the look of...and just start chatting. That’s the first step.
Then...arrange a social...there’s no pressure to do anything, you’re just meeting for a drink.
Have as many socials as you need to get comfortable...then when ready to play, perhaps meet them at a club (safety first!) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How to start meeting couples?any tips? im scared shit.
Go to clubs. Message and chat x
Not very outgoing if im honest .and to go to clubs you would need company... more fun to it.
I go clubs by myself quite a bit. A lot of clubs have host/esses or club buddies so you aren't left being a wallflower x"
Oh gosh!your brave... |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"How to start meeting couples?any tips? im scared shit.
Go to clubs. Message and chat x
Not very outgoing if im honest .and to go to clubs you would need company... more fun to it."
Not at all - swingers clubs are not like vanilla clubs: People go to meet, interact and have sex. If you go alone you would very quickly have someone take you under their wing, look after you, and not necessarily want sex with you. Any fear or apprehension disappears as soon as you go through the door. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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Id you don't want to go to clubs or socials and I understand why you don't i wouldn't go by myself either I don't have the confidence. All you can really do is try and vet any couple that messages you as best you can. Talk to then for a good while. They usually have their rules on how they play so make sure all that is clear before you meet and don't agree to anything if you are not 100 per cent comfortable. Some of the couples have rules as long as your arm and act like you are a plaything there for their pleasure they seem to forget that it should be fun for you as well.Talk to both and make sure you are all on the same page and most importantly have fun there are some great couples out there it's like anything in fab it's just a case of finding them. Good luck xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How to start meeting couples?any tips? im scared shit.
Come and meet us we will brake you in as slowly or quickly as one wishes xx
Mmmm... stunning pics...
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Likewise
Come to a club with us |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How to start meeting couples?any tips? im scared shit.
Go to clubs. Message and chat x
Not very outgoing if im honest .and to go to clubs you would need company... more fun to it
Not at all - swingers clubs are not like vanilla clubs: People go to meet, interact and have sex. If you go alone you would very quickly have someone take you under their wing, look after you, and not necessarily want sex with you. Any fear or apprehension disappears as soon as you go through the door."
You could be right too...don't have experience when it comes to clubs.never been to one. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Id you don't want to go to clubs or socials and I understand why you don't i wouldn't go by myself either I don't have the confidence. All you can really do is try and vet any couple that messages you as best you can. Talk to then for a good while. They usually have their rules on how they play so make sure all that is clear before you meet and don't agree to anything if you are not 100 per cent comfortable. Some of the couples have rules as long as your arm and act like you are a plaything there for their pleasure they seem to forget that it should be fun for you as well.Talk to both and make sure you are all on the same page and most importantly have fun there are some great couples out there it's like anything in fab it's just a case of finding them. Good luck xx"
Cheers!I just have to bite that bullet one day. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How to start meeting couples?any tips? im scared shit.
Come and meet us we will brake you in as slowly or quickly as one wishes xx
Mmmm... stunning pics...
Likewise
Come to a club with us "
Have to move to England |
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"How to start meeting couples?any tips? im scared shit.
Go to clubs. Message and chat x
Not very outgoing if im honest .and to go to clubs you would need company... more fun to it.
I go clubs by myself quite a bit. A lot of clubs have host/esses or club buddies so you aren't left being a wallflower x
Oh gosh!your brave... "
I was shaking with nerves the first few times I went on my own but got made to feel welcome. I'm a naturally chatty person, more so with nerves. I talk complete gibberish sometimes. But, I'm not the only one who's nervous. Loads who go are x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How to start meeting couples?any tips? im scared shit.
Come and meet us we will brake you in as slowly or quickly as one wishes xx
Mmmm... stunning pics...
Likewise
Come to a club with us
Have to move to England "
Lol or visit x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How to start meeting couples?any tips? im scared shit.
Go to clubs. Message and chat x
Not very outgoing if im honest .and to go to clubs you would need company... more fun to it.
I go clubs by myself quite a bit. A lot of clubs have host/esses or club buddies so you aren't left being a wallflower x
Oh gosh!your brave...
I was shaking with nerves the first few times I went on my own but got made to feel welcome. I'm a naturally chatty person, more so with nerves. I talk complete gibberish sometimes. But, I'm not the only one who's nervous. Loads who go are x"
I would probably laugh my ass off,always do when im nervous...and talk total crap too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How to start meeting couples?any tips? im scared shit.
Come and meet us we will brake you in as slowly or quickly as one wishes xx
Mmmm... stunning pics...
Likewise
Come to a club with us
Have to move to England
Lol or visit x "
Might consider some day... |
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"Come to Surrey. We'll take good care of you.
It seems you are not short of offers!
No,im not,that's for sure... but to find the right one will take time. "
That's the thing. Take your time. Chat. If you feel comfortable chatting with somebody, take the next step and meet them socially. When you feel comfortable socially take another step.
Just try to find people who will let you go at your own pace. You'll know when you find couples like that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I thought this was going to be a thread about unicorns. I was going to recommend the large cuddly ones on sale at Aldi at the moment.
I will close the door behind me x "
Oh no,stay for a bit... don't be shy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Come to Surrey. We'll take good care of you.
It seems you are not short of offers!
No,im not,that's for sure... but to find the right one will take time.
That's the thing. Take your time. Chat. If you feel comfortable chatting with somebody, take the next step and meet them socially. When you feel comfortable socially take another step.
Just try to find people who will let you go at your own pace. You'll know when you find couples like that. "
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"Take your time and when it feels right you will know you have found the right couple
D.
Im just afraid that I could chicken out... "
when you find the couple you are comfortable with it shouldn’t matter if you chicken out, just go with the flow and see what happens  someone mentioned group socials, I also think they are a good idea too
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