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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Many men get turned on by stockings and heels. Some even expect it.
Many women get turned on by wearing such items.
I like dressing up to go out but a morning or afternoon posh coffee are a jeans jobby and I'm not going to pander to a (casual) guy's whims. Of course my lingerie will coordinate.
Ladies, what does it take for you to get dressed up?
Men, what do you offer in hope that a lady dresses up? |
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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago
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"Many men get turned on by stockings and heels. Some even expect it.
Many women get turned on by wearing such items.
I like dressing up to go out but a morning or afternoon posh coffee are a jeans jobby and I'm not going to pander to a (casual) guy's whims. Of course my lingerie will coordinate.
Ladies, what does it take for you to get dressed up?
Men, what do you offer in hope that a lady dresses up? "
. For us the dressing up is all part and parcel of a meet and the buzz before meeting. But we agreed with u regarding casual meet. In an evening its a date of a fashion when u meet so therefore the expectation should be to make a good impression and see what happens from there. Lack of effort in an evening is a turn off |
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I dress how I like, for myself. Generally meeting someone from Fab I'll put an effort in (often a big one), but it'll be to my liking rather than anyone's expectations. And anyone who tries to dictate how I dress is rapidly shut down. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like wearing stockings but only for special friends ... other wise I'll stick to hiking socks and DMs"
 I've pre-empt Ed this sort of response in my second post, but you beat me  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I like wearing stockings but only for special friends ... other wise I'll stick to hiking socks and DMs
I've pre-empt Ed this sort of response in my second post, but you beat me "
Pre-empted ffs predictive text lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Many men get turned on by stockings and heels. Some even expect it.
Many women get turned on by wearing such items.
I like dressing up to go out but a morning or afternoon posh coffee are a jeans jobby and I'm not going to pander to a (casual) guy's whims. Of course my lingerie will coordinate.
Ladies, what does it take for you to get dressed up?
Men, what do you offer in hope that a lady dresses up? . For us the dressing up is all part and parcel of a meet and the buzz before meeting. But we agreed with u regarding casual meet. In an evening its a date of a fashion when u meet so therefore the expectation should be to make a good impression and see what happens from there. Lack of effort in an evening is a turn off"
I agree, to me an evening meet is like a date and all parties should make an effort. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Many men get turned on by stockings and heels. Some even expect it.
Many women get turned on by wearing such items.
I like dressing up to go out but a morning or afternoon posh coffee are a jeans jobby and I'm not going to pander to a (casual) guy's whims. Of course my lingerie will coordinate.
Ladies, what does it take for you to get dressed up?
Men, what do you offer in hope that a lady dresses up? "
Never tried stockings and heel would make me uncomfortable, so out of league  jeans all time fav even in office |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I dress how I like, for myself. Generally meeting someone from Fab I'll put an effort in (often a big one), but it'll be to my liking rather than anyone's expectations. And anyone who tries to dictate how I dress is rapidly shut down. "
You dress for you and that way you feel comfortable and not out of place.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I’m going out for a morning shopping I always make the effort, always nice skirt or dress, matching nylons (usually stockings) and lowish heels.
That’s the excuse I need
R xx"
I'm assuming you can finance this persona... Stockings esp ff are damn expensive and guys don't often care if they ruin them, so they have to be saved for special days/dates. |
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By *atinocoupleCouple
over a year ago
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We adore stockings and heels. Some of our favourite parties have had some exquisite lingerie on show. For us, the act of dressing up for someone you have yet to meet, is exciting and part of the experience. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well I always dress to impress myself so what I offer is enough respect for her and myself to make a effort in looking and smelling good, still awaiting that opportunity on here x"
A woman can dress up a pair of jeans. It's not like going out in joggers. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We adore stockings and heels. Some of our favourite parties have had some exquisite lingerie on show. For us, the act of dressing up for someone you have yet to meet, is exciting and part of the experience. "
As part of a couple I may feel differently. |
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By *atinocoupleCouple
over a year ago
SF, NY, London (in that order) |
"We adore stockings and heels. Some of our favourite parties have had some exquisite lingerie on show. For us, the act of dressing up for someone you have yet to meet, is exciting and part of the experience.
As part of a couple I may feel differently. "
Yes I think that if mr chooses the outfit for Mrs to wear or indeed Mrs chooses the outfit to wear for a meet it changes the dynamic in quite an erotic way. It's like foreplay, for us at least |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I LOOOVVVVEEEE Heel and stockings women by women I do get turned on by this as well as my fetish. I love pretty feet too my other fetish.
What I expect of myself as a man before meeting any lady is to be well groomed and smelling like Hugo Boss 'Soul'. Treat her through out the evening or day with good deeds and be submissive and attentive to her needs.
I must add the art of taken off a women's heel, with manicure and pedicured hands and feet with the smell of tights or stockings and her seductive fragrance lipstick... empowers me to give my all to her.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As my gallery clearly shows, you wouldn't catch me dressing in stockings and heels just to please some horny randy guy......   "
Your gallery makes me horny and randy...x |
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"If I’m going out for a morning shopping I always make the effort, always nice skirt or dress, matching nylons (usually stockings) and lowish heels.
That’s the excuse I need
R xx
I'm assuming you can finance this persona... Stockings esp ff are damn expensive and guys don't often care if they ruin them, so they have to be saved for special days/dates. "
Hiya Cupcake xxx
Yes FFs are expensive.... but worth every penny. I only used to wear them for evenings out - or special occasions  , but increasingly wearing them when out in the day ... but not black ones!!, usually either nude or tan colours!
Clearly a lady of taste yourself, love the smile xxx
R xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We adore stockings and heels. Some of our favourite parties have had some exquisite lingerie on show. For us, the act of dressing up for someone you have yet to meet, is exciting and part of the experience.
As part of a couple I may feel differently.
Yes I think that if mr chooses the outfit for Mrs to wear or indeed Mrs chooses the outfit to wear for a meet it changes the dynamic in quite an erotic way. It's like foreplay, for us at least "
I'd love this. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I’m going out for a morning shopping I always make the effort, always nice skirt or dress, matching nylons (usually stockings) and lowish heels.
That’s the excuse I need
R xx
I'm assuming you can finance this persona... Stockings esp ff are damn expensive and guys don't often care if they ruin them, so they have to be saved for special days/dates.
Hiya Cupcake xxx
Yes FFs are expensive.... but worth every penny. I only used to wear them for evenings out - or special occasions , but increasingly wearing them when out in the day ... but not black ones!!, usually either nude or tan colours!
Clearly a lady of taste yourself, love the smile xxx
R xx"
Thank you |
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By *atinocoupleCouple
over a year ago
SF, NY, London (in that order) |
"We adore stockings and heels. Some of our favourite parties have had some exquisite lingerie on show. For us, the act of dressing up for someone you have yet to meet, is exciting and part of the experience.
As part of a couple I may feel differently.
Yes I think that if mr chooses the outfit for Mrs to wear or indeed Mrs chooses the outfit to wear for a meet it changes the dynamic in quite an erotic way. It's like foreplay, for us at least
I'd love this. "
It adds to the experience and massively improves the reclaim sex. Its a surprisingy intimate thing to share with your partner |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think most ladies like to dress up for a meet, in a dress or skirt , matching bra and thong or basque and stocking too because they want to make a good impression to the guy they meet plus the lady feels sexy too |
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"Always stocking and heels for a meet, it is part of the foreplay for us both to get ready to a high standard before any liaison "
Can't fault this lady's choice. Any doubts? Check out the profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love to see a lady in stockings but I think that's the response the OP is expecting. What I'm not sure is what ladies would like to see men dressed in?"
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Nicely fitted clothes, maybe a suit, so many men make so little effort... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love to see a lady in stockings but I think that's the response the OP is expecting. What I'm not sure is what ladies would like to see men dressed in?mm
Nicely fitted clothes, maybe a suit, so many men make so little effort..."
I will wear a nice shirt and jeans if I am meeting for a private meets and same when I go a club and in the end the lady wants to see what’s in them jeans just like us guys who like to see what’s under that dress or skirt |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I love to see a lady in stockings but I think that's the response the OP is expecting. What I'm not sure is what ladies would like to see men dressed in?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me the biggest turn on is knowing that my wife is wearing lingerie for me during our night out.
We often have weekends away, she will wear stockings / lingerie every day and night and so will I.
The excitement is...
When we get back to the hotel room ??
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