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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We figured we are all here for the same reason so what the hell  "
Not necessarily people can spot others ex’s or partners or parents and inform said person for spite! Doesn’t mean they are on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It shows that we are genuine people."
I’m genuine! I just don’t want my teenagers being given stick because their mums on a swinging site. Not everyone is as liberal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have had our face pics public in the past, if someone we know has spotted us then they have to remember they are here for the same thing lol "
Not necessarily true. As I said above |
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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago
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"We have had our face pics public in the past, if someone we know has spotted us then they have to remember they are here for the same thing lol
Not necessarily true. As I said above "
Suppose, but most are suppose it’s just what each individual person is comfortable with and suits there life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have seen family members on here and we're really not bothered. We have bumped into people we know outside of fab in clubs and didnt feel the need to put bags on our heads |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have seen family members on here and we're really not bothered. We have bumped into people we know outside of fab in clubs and didnt feel the need to put bags on our heads "
Doesn’t bother me either but my kids would be so I don’t |
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What’s the worst that could happen??
Bob and Helen bump into me, and they say... “Saw you on Fab last night”
I’d reply with. “Thanks, so how long have you been swinging for”
Give me one scenario where showing my face is bad?? |
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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago
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"What’s the worst that could happen??
Bob and Helen bump into me, and they say... “Saw you on Fab last night”
I’d reply with. “Thanks, so how long have you been swinging for”
Give me one scenario where showing my face is bad??"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What’s the worst that could happen??
Bob and Helen bump into me, and they say... “Saw you on Fab last night”
I’d reply with. “Thanks, so how long have you been swinging for”
Give me one scenario where showing my face is bad??"
If my sons mates seen his mums fanny an tits! Imagine!! I have teens so they would be mortified |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What’s the worst that could happen??
Bob and Helen bump into me, and they say... “Saw you on Fab last night”
I’d reply with. “Thanks, so how long have you been swinging for”
Give me one scenario where showing my face is bad??"
Please come into the office, several of the students... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What’s the worst that could happen??
Bob and Helen bump into me, and they say... “Saw you on Fab last night”
I’d reply with. “Thanks, so how long have you been swinging for”
Give me one scenario where showing my face is bad??"
Do you have children? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have seen family members on here and we're really not bothered. We have bumped into people we know outside of fab in clubs and didnt feel the need to put bags on our heads
Doesn’t bother me either but my kids would be so I don’t "
Ours is 9 years old so we dont have the same situations to worry about. Maybe in your situation its right for you x |
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Kind of walked into a minefield here!! I don’t have kids, no.
But if I did, I would be open (not details open), but would make them aware that it’s ok to be sexual, and with consent there are other possibilities you can explore healthy. There are web sites and clubs that allow you to be who you want to be.
I was brought up knowing sex is a good thing, and as long as I’m not hurting or breaking the law and above all being safe, I can explore my sexuality and fantasies.
It doesn’t bother me what people’s opinions of me are, as long as I know I’m safe, it’s consensual and it’s within the law then all is good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What’s the worst that could happen??
Bob and Helen bump into me, and they say... “Saw you on Fab last night”
I’d reply with. “Thanks, so how long have you been swinging for”
Give me one scenario where showing my face is bad??"
You volunteer for a cause you love, but they are a faith-based organisation and you would be out on your ear immediately if you were ever exposed as having a non-traditional sex life.
Or slut-shamed to your kids by a spiteful ex.
Or lose your job because your contract has a clause about bringing the organisation into disrepute.. |
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"Kind of walked into a minefield here!! I don’t have kids, no.
But if I did, I would be open (not details open), but would make them aware that it’s ok to be sexual, and with consent there are other possibilities you can explore healthy. There are web sites and clubs that allow you to be who you want to be.
I was brought up knowing sex is a good thing, and as long as I’m not hurting or breaking the law and above all being safe, I can explore my sexuality and fantasies.
It doesn’t bother me what people’s opinions of me are, as long as I know I’m safe, it’s consensual and it’s within the law then all is good. "
Until a couple of weeks ago I’d have agreed with you! Then my daughter, who’s in year 10, was confronted by a male classmate who said that her mum was a prostitute!
Word of my swinging got around from some of the mums from back in their primary school days - and being a swinger makes us ‘free prostitutes’ in their eyes! Hence my face pics are hidden!
I don’t care what people say about me to my face - but I care when they upset my kids! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Private life. Key word: private. I don't tell people what I do cos I figure they don't give a toss and have better things to think about. Wanting to be private doesn't make you fake or ashamed or repressed or anything else. It just means that you've learnt that the philosophy of not saying anything to anyone makes a more peaceful life. Business and the minding of one's own.  |
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"What’s the worst that could happen??
Bob and Helen bump into me, and they say... “Saw you on Fab last night”
I’d reply with. “Thanks, so how long have you been swinging for”
Give me one scenario where showing my face is bad??
You volunteer for a cause you love, but they are a faith-based organisation and you would be out on your ear immediately if you were ever exposed as having a non-traditional sex life.
Or slut-shamed to your kids by a spiteful ex.
Or lose your job because your contract has a clause about bringing the organisation into disrepute.."
If the cause I loved was faith based, would I not be a hypocrite. I’d either close fab and join the charity or continue with fab and not join the cause.
An ex shaming you is not ok, and shouldn’t be put up with. Those who are reading this and are in this situation, there is help out there if such a situation arises.
When joining a company, you should be familiar with their policies, if in doubt ask the question (don’t be a numpty and say “I’m on a swinging site! What does the company think”, say something like, I’m wanting clarification regarding this clause, can you give me some examples”)
I know watching an interview with a news reader, they were asked “is there anything we may find on the internet that could be seen as taboo?”
***please know I’m not saying we all have to show our faces, it’s a personal choice, and I’m just voicing my opinions and thoughts. There is no right or wrong answer to this*** |
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"What’s the worst that could happen??
Bob and Helen bump into me, and they say... “Saw you on Fab last night”
I’d reply with. “Thanks, so how long have you been swinging for”
Give me one scenario where showing my face is bad??"
With your face there are no downsides! It says here in my book of compliments  |
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"What’s the worst that could happen??
Bob and Helen bump into me, and they say... “Saw you on Fab last night”
I’d reply with. “Thanks, so how long have you been swinging for”
Give me one scenario where showing my face is bad??
With your face there are no downsides! It says here in my book of compliments "
Thank you. Cute bum btw!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have an evil angry soon to be ex who tries to paint me out to be a bad mother. If he got wind that I was on here, he would try & use it against me in our separation and custody of our 2 kids.
Hence so public face pics. I even hesitated about showing any tatts as it makes me recognisable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What’s the worst that could happen??
Bob and Helen bump into me, and they say... “Saw you on Fab last night”
I’d reply with. “Thanks, so how long have you been swinging for”
Give me one scenario where showing my face is bad??
You volunteer for a cause you love, but they are a faith-based organisation and you would be out on your ear immediately if you were ever exposed as having a non-traditional sex life.
Or slut-shamed to your kids by a spiteful ex.
Or lose your job because your contract has a clause about bringing the organisation into disrepute.."
Totally agree. Not everyone in life would understand, agree & be liberal. |
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On the odd occasion I will have a face picture showing, but due to work reasons, I don't have any permanently..
I have no issues however people choose to display their pictures. As long as they are willing to share once a mutual interest has been established.
L x |
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By *ucidityWoman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"Private life. Key word: private. I don't tell people what I do cos I figure they don't give a toss and have better things to think about. Wanting to be private doesn't make you fake or ashamed or repressed or anything else. It just means that you've learnt that the philosophy of not saying anything to anyone makes a more peaceful life. Business and the minding of one's own. "
I like this a lot. |
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"What’s the worst that could happen??
Bob and Helen bump into me, and they say... “Saw you on Fab last night”
I’d reply with. “Thanks, so how long have you been swinging for”
Give me one scenario where showing my face is bad??
Do you have children?"
Or a job with a disrepute clause.....
Sometimes I think people are incredibly naive. |
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"I have no time for ppl who won't show Thier face but expect me to meet them , no chance sorry "
Which is different to having your face pic on public display. Most are happy to share pics privately but the OP is about having face pics on public. |
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"What’s the worst that could happen??
Bob and Helen bump into me, and they say... “Saw you on Fab last night”
I’d reply with. “Thanks, so how long have you been swinging for”
Give me one scenario where showing my face is bad??
If my sons mates seen his mums fanny an tits! Imagine!! I have teens so they would be mortified"
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"What’s the worst that could happen??
Bob and Helen bump into me, and they say... “Saw you on Fab last night”
I’d reply with. “Thanks, so how long have you been swinging for”
Give me one scenario where showing my face is bad??
You volunteer for a cause you love, but they are a faith-based organisation and you would be out on your ear immediately if you were ever exposed as having a non-traditional sex life.
Or slut-shamed to your kids by a spiteful ex.
Or lose your job because your contract has a clause about bringing the organisation into disrepute..
If the cause I loved was faith based, would I not be a hypocrite. I’d either close fab and join the charity or continue with fab and not join the cause.
An ex shaming you is not ok, and shouldn’t be put up with. Those who are reading this and are in this situation, there is help out there if such a situation arises.
When joining a company, you should be familiar with their policies, if in doubt ask the question (don’t be a numpty and say “I’m on a swinging site! What does the company think”, say something like, I’m wanting clarification regarding this clause, can you give me some examples”)
I know watching an interview with a news reader, they were asked “is there anything we may find on the internet that could be seen as taboo?”
***please know I’m not saying we all have to show our faces, it’s a personal choice, and I’m just voicing my opinions and thoughts. There is no right or wrong answer to this***"
In the two interviews for my last job I had to give full disclosure to every site I'm on.
Also any adult sites I'd visited, what porn I watched, as well as my sexuality and sexual preferences.
Having disclosed, there's an "implied" discretion around how my profile and gallery present.
Hence, no public facepics.
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"What’s the worst that could happen??
Bob and Helen bump into me, and they say... “Saw you on Fab last night”
I’d reply with. “Thanks, so how long have you been swinging for”
Give me one scenario where showing my face is bad??
You volunteer for a cause you love, but they are a faith-based organisation and you would be out on your ear immediately if you were ever exposed as having a non-traditional sex life.
Or slut-shamed to your kids by a spiteful ex.
Or lose your job because your contract has a clause about bringing the organisation into disrepute..
If the cause I loved was faith based, would I not be a hypocrite. I’d either close fab and join the charity or continue with fab and not join the cause.
An ex shaming you is not ok, and shouldn’t be put up with. Those who are reading this and are in this situation, there is help out there if such a situation arises.
When joining a company, you should be familiar with their policies, if in doubt ask the question (don’t be a numpty and say “I’m on a swinging site! What does the company think”, say something like, I’m wanting clarification regarding this clause, can you give me some examples”)
I know watching an interview with a news reader, they were asked “is there anything we may find on the internet that could be seen as taboo?”
***please know I’m not saying we all have to show our faces, it’s a personal choice, and I’m just voicing my opinions and thoughts. There is no right or wrong answer to this***
In the two interviews for my last job I had to give full disclosure to every site I'm on.
Also any adult sites I'd visited, what porn I watched, as well as my sexuality and sexual preferences.
Having disclosed, there's an "implied" discretion around how my profile and gallery present.
Hence, no public facepics.
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That's really not ok. |
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"I have no time for ppl who won't show Thier face but expect me to meet them , no chance sorry
Which is different to having your face pic on public display. Most are happy to share pics privately but the OP is about having face pics on public."
oh lol you would be surprised how many men ask to meet me but won't show Thier face pic , there is no way it's going to happen |
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"Why would you not show your Face if you’re planning to meet someone. "
maybe ask the guys who won't ? I'm mainly told it's because Thier married but 95% of my meets are with married or attached men
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What’s the worst that could happen??
Bob and Helen bump into me, and they say... “Saw you on Fab last night”
I’d reply with. “Thanks, so how long have you been swinging for”
Give me one scenario where showing my face is bad??
You volunteer for a cause you love, but they are a faith-based organisation and you would be out on your ear immediately if you were ever exposed as having a non-traditional sex life.
Or slut-shamed to your kids by a spiteful ex.
Or lose your job because your contract has a clause about bringing the organisation into disrepute.."
This!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have no time for ppl who won't show Thier face but expect me to meet them , no chance sorry
Which is different to having your face pic on public display. Most are happy to share pics privately but the OP is about having face pics on public."
Exactly. |
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I have no issue with it.
Bumped into someone at a party who recognised me from here, got chatting, ended up having a lot of fun with her!
Wouldn’t have happened, possibly, without that recognition. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kind of walked into a minefield here!! I don’t have kids, no.
But if I did, I would be open (not details open), but would make them aware that it’s ok to be sexual, and with consent there are other possibilities you can explore healthy. There are web sites and clubs that allow you to be who you want to be.
I was brought up knowing sex is a good thing, and as long as I’m not hurting or breaking the law and above all being safe, I can explore my sexuality and fantasies.
It doesn’t bother me what people’s opinions of me are, as long as I know I’m safe, it’s consensual and it’s within the law then all is good. "
Myself and my children do have an open relationship and we talk about sex and relationships and ethics. What made you assume I don’t? I just don’t want anyone giving my children grief as there mums on a sex site as it would destroy them. I put them before myself!! |
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My close family and friends that count know about this side of me. Nothing to hide and yes I have been recognised but it no longer bothers me.
Wasn't always the case though so fully understand why people do not show their face on their public profile.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Kind of walked into a minefield here!! I don’t have kids, no.
But if I did, I would be open (not details open), but would make them aware that it’s ok to be sexual, and with consent there are other possibilities you can explore healthy. There are web sites and clubs that allow you to be who you want to be.
I was brought up knowing sex is a good thing, and as long as I’m not hurting or breaking the law and above all being safe, I can explore my sexuality and fantasies.
It doesn’t bother me what people’s opinions of me are, as long as I know I’m safe, it’s consensual and it’s within the law then all is good.
Until a couple of weeks ago I’d have agreed with you! Then my daughter, who’s in year 10, was confronted by a male classmate who said that her mum was a prostitute!
Word of my swinging got around from some of the mums from back in their primary school days - and being a swinger makes us ‘free prostitutes’ in their eyes! Hence my face pics are hidden!
I don’t care what people say about me to my face - but I care when they upset my kids! "
Exactly...
Do what feels right for you. But people, jealous people, can be cruel & evil ... |
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"What’s the worst that could happen??
Bob and Helen bump into me, and they say... “Saw you on Fab last night”
I’d reply with. “Thanks, so how long have you been swinging for”
Give me one scenario where showing my face is bad??
You volunteer for a cause you love, but they are a faith-based organisation and you would be out on your ear immediately if you were ever exposed as having a non-traditional sex life.
Or slut-shamed to your kids by a spiteful ex.
Or lose your job because your contract has a clause about bringing the organisation into disrepute..
If the cause I loved was faith based, would I not be a hypocrite. I’d either close fab and join the charity or continue with fab and not join the cause.
An ex shaming you is not ok, and shouldn’t be put up with. Those who are reading this and are in this situation, there is help out there if such a situation arises.
When joining a company, you should be familiar with their policies, if in doubt ask the question (don’t be a numpty and say “I’m on a swinging site! What does the company think”, say something like, I’m wanting clarification regarding this clause, can you give me some examples”)
I know watching an interview with a news reader, they were asked “is there anything we may find on the internet that could be seen as taboo?”
***please know I’m not saying we all have to show our faces, it’s a personal choice, and I’m just voicing my opinions and thoughts. There is no right or wrong answer to this***
In the two interviews for my last job I had to give full disclosure to every site I'm on.
Also any adult sites I'd visited, what porn I watched, as well as my sexuality and sexual preferences.
Having disclosed, there's an "implied" discretion around how my profile and gallery present.
Hence, no public facepics.
That's really not ok."
Why's it not OK? |
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"I only have mine in my friends pics for professional reasons, would hate a patient to recognise me!
I'm happy to share with anyone other wise "
Same here! I have seen some of my patients on here. I know for a fact that they wouldn't be discreet about it.
Unfortunately I believe there is still a stigma attached to swinging. |
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By *jr41Couple
over a year ago
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"What’s the worst that could happen??
Bob and Helen bump into me, and they say... “Saw you on Fab last night”
I’d reply with. “Thanks, so how long have you been swinging for”
Give me one scenario where showing my face is bad??
You volunteer for a cause you love, but they are a faith-based organisation and you would be out on your ear immediately if you were ever exposed as having a non-traditional sex life.
Or slut-shamed to your kids by a spiteful ex.
Or lose your job because your contract has a clause about bringing the organisation into disrepute..
If the cause I loved was faith based, would I not be a hypocrite. I’d either close fab and join the charity or continue with fab and not join the cause.
An ex shaming you is not ok, and shouldn’t be put up with. Those who are reading this and are in this situation, there is help out there if such a situation arises.
When joining a company, you should be familiar with their policies, if in doubt ask the question (don’t be a numpty and say “I’m on a swinging site! What does the company think”, say something like, I’m wanting clarification regarding this clause, can you give me some examples”)
I know watching an interview with a news reader, they were asked “is there anything we may find on the internet that could be seen as taboo?”
***please know I’m not saying we all have to show our faces, it’s a personal choice, and I’m just voicing my opinions and thoughts. There is no right or wrong answer to this***
In the two interviews for my last job I had to give full disclosure to every site I'm on.
Also any adult sites I'd visited, what porn I watched, as well as my sexuality and sexual preferences.
Having disclosed, there's an "implied" discretion around how my profile and gallery present.
Hence, no public facepics.
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Had a similar interview for a job in Cheltenham. Wouldn't be a Government job by any chance? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can be dangerous... I remember when I was a teen a friends Mum / Dad got outed due to having pictures on there profile, it split the family. Really sad thinking back to it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What’s the worst that could happen??
Bob and Helen bump into me, and they say... “Saw you on Fab last night”
I’d reply with. “Thanks, so how long have you been swinging for”
Give me one scenario where showing my face is bad??
You volunteer for a cause you love, but they are a faith-based organisation and you would be out on your ear immediately if you were ever exposed as having a non-traditional sex life.
Or slut-shamed to your kids by a spiteful ex.
Or lose your job because your contract has a clause about bringing the organisation into disrepute..
If the cause I loved was faith based, would I not be a hypocrite. I’d either close fab and join the charity or continue with fab and not join the cause.
An ex shaming you is not ok, and shouldn’t be put up with. Those who are reading this and are in this situation, there is help out there if such a situation arises.
When joining a company, you should be familiar with their policies, if in doubt ask the question (don’t be a numpty and say “I’m on a swinging site! What does the company think”, say something like, I’m wanting clarification regarding this clause, can you give me some examples”)
I know watching an interview with a news reader, they were asked “is there anything we may find on the internet that could be seen as taboo?”
***please know I’m not saying we all have to show our faces, it’s a personal choice, and I’m just voicing my opinions and thoughts. There is no right or wrong answer to this***
In the two interviews for my last job I had to give full disclosure to every site I'm on.
Also any adult sites I'd visited, what porn I watched, as well as my sexuality and sexual preferences.
Having disclosed, there's an "implied" discretion around how my profile and gallery present.
Hence, no public facepics.
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I’d check your pics. As there’s a very clear face one in public |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone has their own opinions and makes their own choices, we choose not to publicly show our pics, it’s our preference and we feel no good can come from being recognised on this site by acquaintances. |
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We put our face pics up sometimes for a few days or so just so newer people that veiw our profile might be able to catch a glimpse of us. Other than that we try to only show our faces privately when we are comfortable people are real to avoid people stealing images of our faces. |
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If you are
Loaded
Self employed
Porn star
Criminal
Drug dealer
Work only from home for some foreign company
Online card whizz etc
Etc
Then fine go for it .Show the world how proud and open minded you are .
If you work in the public sector teacher,doctor,legal etc /have kids in school I'd say nope it is very irresponsible to show your face where someone else could bring your reputation and that if who you work for into disrepute .
It's also going to be very unfair exposing your kids /friends etc to your lifestyle if you end up in the news or in social media which is very possible .
Sad but just the way it is :/
Kids are v clever these days too .I certainly don't underestimate them . ..
Each to their own though.Everyone lives their own life their way and has to accept the consequences of anything that goes wrong .
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"What’s the worst that could happen??
Bob and Helen bump into me, and they say... “Saw you on Fab last night”
I’d reply with. “Thanks, so how long have you been swinging for”
Give me one scenario where showing my face is bad??
You volunteer for a cause you love, but they are a faith-based organisation and you would be out on your ear immediately if you were ever exposed as having a non-traditional sex life.
Or slut-shamed to your kids by a spiteful ex.
Or lose your job because your contract has a clause about bringing the organisation into disrepute..
If the cause I loved was faith based, would I not be a hypocrite. I’d either close fab and join the charity or continue with fab and not join the cause.
An ex shaming you is not ok, and shouldn’t be put up with. Those who are reading this and are in this situation, there is help out there if such a situation arises.
When joining a company, you should be familiar with their policies, if in doubt ask the question (don’t be a numpty and say “I’m on a swinging site! What does the company think”, say something like, I’m wanting clarification regarding this clause, can you give me some examples”)
I know watching an interview with a news reader, they were asked “is there anything we may find on the internet that could be seen as taboo?”
***please know I’m not saying we all have to show our faces, it’s a personal choice, and I’m just voicing my opinions and thoughts. There is no right or wrong answer to this***
In the two interviews for my last job I had to give full disclosure to every site I'm on.
Also any adult sites I'd visited, what porn I watched, as well as my sexuality and sexual preferences.
Having disclosed, there's an "implied" discretion around how my profile and gallery present.
Hence, no public facepics.
I’d check your pics. As there’s a very clear face one in public "
True.....
But like I said, full disclosure.  |
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There is no shame whatsoever in being on a swingers site. I also don't get why some on here refer to it as naughty fun? come again what's so naughty about it. The bottom line is we're socially conditioned by society. |
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Am not ashamed.. i always had face pictures on public but now i have them as friends only just to keep them guessing i suppose because then they have to send that friend request lol...
I always have that nasty ex as someone’s commented before.. only I told him about this place to try in hope it would get him off my case haha no such luck... haha told my mum all about it didn’t he it’s a good job my mum and i have the kind of relationship we’re she told him to f**k off because it’s my business... if anything that made us more open i even placed a butt plug in her hand a few weeks ago and asked her to help me with it hahaha still laugh about her reaction now  |
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"If you are
Loaded
Self employed
Porn star
Criminal
Drug dealer
Work only from home for some foreign company
Online card whizz etc
Etc
Then fine go for it .Show the world how proud and open minded you are .
If you work in the public sector teacher,doctor,legal etc /have kids in school I'd say nope it is very irresponsible to show your face where someone else could bring your reputation and that if who you work for into disrepute .
It's also going to be very unfair exposing your kids /friends etc to your lifestyle if you end up in the news or in social media which is very possible .
Sad but just the way it is :/
Kids are v clever these days too .I certainly don't underestimate them . ..
Each to their own though.Everyone lives their own life their way and has to accept the consequences of anything that goes wrong .
etc
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Brave or fortunate. In an ideal world we all would. It would certainly make it harder for the fantasists.
It's not worth loosing my job, so it has to remain in the private category until actually chatting with individuals and considering meeting.
One reason why I understand folks preference for meeting in clubs. |
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"It shows that we are genuine people.
No it shows that you are happy for everyone to know you are a swinger. With that may come a lack of discretion. A reason to avoid."
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"Private life. Key word: private. I don't tell people what I do cos I figure they don't give a toss and have better things to think about. Wanting to be private doesn't make you fake or ashamed or repressed or anything else. It just means that you've learnt that the philosophy of not saying anything to anyone makes a more peaceful life. Business and the minding of one's own. "
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I'm open about myself to everyone around me. My workplace knows about my lifestyle. My family and friends do too. I have no issues with them at all. Their just happy I can be who I want to be. Hence showing my face. |
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I have my face on here public, just in pieces so unless someone knows me really well they wont put it together.
I dont show my face cos I have kids. Plus alot of the guys from here are just here for an easy Shag and if they see me out they think it's ok to be really rude because I'm on fab and obviously I'm easy *rolls eyes* |
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My children are all grown. I work for myself. At almost 60 I can do what I like when I like.
I'm not ashamed to be on here but there are aspects of my life I'm discreet about: how much money I have, how many times I have a dump a day, how much I weigh, my sexual preferences.
We live in a time where people feel the need to share the minutea of their lives with all and sundry, claiming it's liberating and proves how liberal and open they are: good for them.
Some of us don't feel the need to virtual signal. |
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On a side note to this thread, i found out yesterday that by default the privacy settings on here are quite open! Profiles can be googled and looked at without being a member on here, which given the nature of the site, seems a little foolish to easily be googled/indexed. I suspect this setting may have got a few people in trouble..  |
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Or to put it another way.. Karen from next door, hears through the grapevine that your profile name is iamswinger1, googles the name, clicks on the fab swingers site and up comes your profile, with the really easily identifiable tattoo and your living room curtains and ornaments visible, all they had to do was Google, no signing up, nothing ! I'm quite shocked that this is the default privacy settings, infact it wouldn't surprise me if most of the profiles on here are searchable from Google. By the way we don't have face pics due to being in the public sector, however we are in no way ashamed! |
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"Or to put it another way.. Karen from next door, hears through the grapevine that your profile name is iamswinger1, googles the name, clicks on the fab swingers site and up comes your profile, with the really easily identifiable tattoo and your living room curtains and ornaments visible, all they had to do was Google, no signing up, nothing ! I'm quite shocked that this is the default privacy settings, infact it wouldn't surprise me if most of the profiles on here are searchable from Google. By the way we don't have face pics due to being in the public sector, however we are in no way ashamed! "
And not just the pics. A long list of who they fucked, etc etc. |
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