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By *rof_cpl OP Couple
over a year ago
Gerrards Cross |
Some people on the forums seem to have trouble getting any attention, some people (generally single ladies) say they get so many they can't read them.
I'd be interested to know from a few singles and couples...
1) How many unsolicited winks do you get in an average day?
2) How many unsolicited messages?
3) Are you a single man/woman, couple etc?
4) Do you block any age ranges or singles from messaging you?
I say "unsolicited" because clearly if you're sending loads of winks and messages that's going to skew the results.
Not very scientific, I know, but I'd love to see a small sample of the results so we can compare.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One or two winks a day
Good few unsolicited messages a day
We are a couple
No singles can message us, think we have an age limit too.
Got 65 views today so far...dont know if thats alot or not. No one to compare to! |
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1) A couple but nothing major
2) Depends on the status written on our profile but 1-2 if we’ve not been overly active.
3) we’re a couple
4) We don’t block anyone no, you just never know if there’s a diamond in there lol |
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1) Around 3 on average (4 today)
2) Somewhere between 1 and 5 on average (3 today)
3) I'm a single "etc".... 
4) I have an age range set and cannot be messaged by newbies or those who are not verified |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A few here and there but all the good guys are getting lost with all the desperate and seedy guys that bombard women’s mail box as I chat and then nothing as I believe women now can’t be bothered to read their male |
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"Today 150 messages 1420 views and lots of winks
Reason for this was I uploaded a new pic "
I rem_mber when I was last on here as a couple our views rocketed whenever my partner loaded a new picture. We often got best part of a hundred messages a day but when she was previously on as a single girl frequently received 200,300 a day! I would think that is fairly typical? As a single guy if I get more than 20 views a day I think I've done well! And unsolicited mail from other than gay or bi guys is unheard of! I feel privileged if I actually get a reply from a lady who I've messaged!
Such is life???  Rather shows the ratio Male to female? |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
We're a couple - we have filters set to not allow messages from anyone without public pics but that doesn't work.
We don't really count and as there's two of us on and off here all day, it's hard to give definite figures but we get around ten winks and twenty messages each day. More if we've just uploaded pics or changed status.
Bry (and Char) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1) winks - 2 in past 4 weeks.
2 messages - 7 in past 4 weeks. 1 from a couple who I did try to respond to and the rest from guys asking me to try bi - which I'm not interested in
3) Single guy
4) I don't think I have blocked anyone
I dread to think how many unsolicited mail and winks are received by women so at least try to make mine relevant to them. |
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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago
Kidderminster |
"Some people on the forums seem to have trouble getting any attention, some people (generally single ladies) say they get so many they can't read them.
I'd be interested to know from a few singles and couples...
1) How many unsolicited winks do you get in an average day?
2) How many unsolicited messages?
3) Are you a single man/woman, couple etc?
4) Do you block any age ranges or singles from messaging you?
I say "unsolicited" because clearly if you're sending loads of winks and messages that's going to skew the results.
Not very scientific, I know, but I'd love to see a small sample of the results so we can compare.
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1) 0-1
2) 0-1
3) Couple
4) over 60s, males and tv/ts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1) How many unsolicited winks do you get in an average day?
As few as none, as many as a dozen depending on the day and whether we're online I guess!
2) How many unsolicited messages?
1 or 2
3) Are you a single man/woman, couple etc?
A couple
4) Do you block any age ranges or singles from messaging you?
Single males blocked from messaging most of the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some people on the forums seem to have trouble getting any attention, some people (generally single ladies) say they get so many they can't read them.
I'd be interested to know from a few singles and couples...
1) How many unsolicited winks do you get in an average day?
2) How many unsolicited messages?
3) Are you a single man/woman, couple etc?
4) Do you block any age ranges or singles from messaging you?
I say "unsolicited" because clearly if you're sending loads of winks and messages that's going to skew the results.
Not very scientific, I know, but I'd love to see a small sample of the results so we can compare.
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As a "single" (here anyway) male, after extensive review and careful calculations, on average I get:
1) Winks - 0
2) Messages - 0
4) Don't block anyone at all.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1) How many unsolicited winks do you get in an average day?
Not sure really between 6/10 a day.
2) How many unsolicited messages? between 5/15 a day
3) Are you a single man/woman, couple etc?
We are a couple
4) Do you block any age ranges or singles from messaging you?
Yes age 35+ |
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"Some people on the forums seem to have trouble getting any attention, some people (generally single ladies) say they get so many they can't read them.
I'd be interested to know from a few singles and couples...
1) How many unsolicited winks do you get in an average day?
2) How many unsolicited messages?
3) Are you a single man/woman, couple etc?
4) Do you block any age ranges or singles from messaging you?
I say "unsolicited" because clearly if you're sending loads of winks and messages that's going to skew the results.
Not very scientific, I know, but I'd love to see a small sample of the results so we can compare.
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1 - don't know as we bulk delete them
2 - will vary from day to day but in the range of 200 to 300
3 - we are a couple
4 - no we don't filter people out |
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By *rof_cpl OP Couple
over a year ago
Gerrards Cross |
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1 - don't know as we bulk delete them
2 - will vary from day to day but in the range of 200 to 300
3 - we are a couple
4 - no we don't filter people out"
Wow, that's a lot for a couple compared to the other couples. Do you post photos regularly? Do they generally come from men or couples? |
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By *rof_cpl OP Couple
over a year ago
Gerrards Cross |
"1) How many unsolicited winks do you get in an average day?
Not sure really between 6/10 a day.
2) How many unsolicited messages? between 5/15 a day
3) Are you a single man/woman, couple etc?
We are a couple
4) Do you block any age ranges or singles from messaging you?
Yes age 35+"
That's interesting. We definitely noticed that the number of messages we got dropped the day we turned 40, presumably because so many set their filters at 40.
Also, I read that last bit as "we block anybody over the age of 35" until I realised it was the other way around. |
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1) About 10 or if I'm online more, about 15/20
2) 5-15
3) single man
4) Don't block but think I have preferences up.
If on forums then messages, views, winks go up but tend to be from straight / bi curious. |
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1 - don't know as we bulk delete them
2 - will vary from day to day but in the range of 200 to 300
3 - we are a couple
4 - no we don't filter people out
Wow, that's a lot for a couple compared to the other couples. Do you post photos regularly? Do they generally come from men or couples?"
It depends on how active we are in the forums or chat rooms plus it goes up if we post pics or videos. The are from a variety but firstly men, then couples and a few from single women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never counted, don't think I've actually left my profile on show for a full day. I post in forums. Single female, age filters etc set. I get a message wink or friend request every few minutes when I am on with profile on show. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1.winks between 5-10 more if add new vid or pic
2. anywhere from 1 to 10 messages
3.we are a couple
4. We have an age limit but also a range we are willing to travel for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Knew ladies and couples were in demand on here but that us ridiculous!!!
I get maybe 1 message every couple of days (mainly men asking if they can come and fuck me now!) Probably the same for winks
As others have said I am really appreciative if I get a reply from a lady I have messaged.
Don't think i have any restriction.
Was actually wondering what I am here for, as it seems the only men in demand are the young with a 6 pack types |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As most of the single blokes.
No winks or one a month if I’m lucky.
Not many messages either, unlike one of the bloke commenting I know why I’m still on the site.
This site has a way of surprising sometimes.  |
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"Today 150 messages 1420 views and lots of winks
Reason for this was I uploaded a new pic "
WTF !!!
I got half a wink because a fly flew in somebody’s eye and 1 message off a single guy asking how much to give him a baby oh and they must be the 2 winks I received but only after messaging the single guy back  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Usually none. If I'm lucky il get a reply back from a message which I have sent.
I had a wink from a man today and that was the first wink for a few months. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0 winks
0 initial messages
5 views a day mainly men
But if I send a message 7 out of 10 reply.. I read persons profile and spend time writing message..
Unfortunately I'm nearly 50 haven't been to the gym in 10 years and not packing a huge toten pole cock... so I can't blame ladies for passing me by.
There are some blokes on here getting lots of attention and the rest are here to make the numbers up... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"3 winks weekly - all men
0 messages a day
It’s all systems go with me !   "
It's a wounder when I got my pics fabbed, then see that 9 times out of 10 it was a gay guy that fabbed em!
Turned off fabs on my pics today lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1/2 winks and messages a day.
Single female.
Filters ON!
Tried no filters and averaged 150-500 a day. Put the filters on and less traffic, less hassle and better quality |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1) About 2 unsolicited winks per week on avearge (sometimes none, sometimes 4 or 5)
2) About 1 or 2 unsolicited messages per week
3) I'm a single man
4) I block single males and TVs |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Deonds in the way and how active I have been in forums or putting pice up etc.
But can get up to 20 winks
Usually about 5 to 10 new messages the odd time more.
Have 132 views so far today.
Ye I'm a single woman I have my filters set pretty right. Age is 38 to 51 I think no newbies or no one with no publics pics can message mind you people cheat to get past that one. Cos of my filters I don't get too many before that it was a nightmare.
Even with them set it's hard to keep chats going with people who you talk to and answer new mails it's why recently I've become more fussy about answering mails. |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
Lincolnshire |
"Some people on the forums seem to have trouble getting any attention, some people (generally single ladies) say they get so many they can't read them.
I'd be interested to know from a few singles and couples...
1) How many unsolicited winks do you get in an average day?
2) How many unsolicited messages?
3) Are you a single man/woman, couple etc?
4) Do you block any age ranges or singles from messaging you?
I say "unsolicited" because clearly if you're sending loads of winks and messages that's going to skew the results.
Not very scientific, I know, but I'd love to see a small sample of the results so we can compare.
1 - don't know as we bulk delete them
2 - will vary from day to day but in the range of 200 to 300
3 - we are a couple
4 - no we don't filter people out"
Wow! That's 50-60,000 messages per year, do you employ a fab secretary? |
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By *rof_cpl OP Couple
over a year ago
Gerrards Cross |
Well, we changed our filters to allow single men to message us for 24 hours and we got 13 winks and 10 messages.
I can see why people filter them out though. Our favourite one just said "I bet she couldn't take my whole cock in her mouth and pussy" |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
Lincolnshire |
"Well, we changed our filters to allow single men to message us for 24 hours and we got 13 winks and 10 messages.
I can see why people filter them out though. Our favourite one just said "I bet she couldn't take my whole cock in her mouth and pussy" "
We used to get 10-15 per day - We added No Married Men and No Dick Pics to our profile and it dropped to 3-4, added Face Pic req. and it dropped to 1 or 2 which means I can use message notification |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1) How many unsolicited winks do you get in an average day?
2) How many unsolicited messages?
3) Are you a single man/woman, couple etc?
4) Do you block any age ranges or singles from messaging you?
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As a pair of "fatties" we don't get a great deal of attention. If we put a new picture up, then we get one or 2 winks, but on an average day we get zero winks or messages.
1). Maybe 1 or 2 if we put a new picture up
2). Again, but a lot, usually zero messages, but if New picture then 1 or 2
3). Couple
4). Never block any range, but will block individuals
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Knew ladies and couples were in demand on here but that us ridiculous!!!
I get maybe 1 message every couple of days (mainly men asking if they can come and fuck me now!) Probably the same for winks
As others have said I am really appreciative if I get a reply from a lady I have messaged.
Don't think i have any restriction.
Was actually wondering what I am here for, as it seems the only men in demand are the young with a 6 pack types "
Resonates  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We get reasonably good amount ,most of them from single guys.
Funniest part is, they wink and then also send friends request same time , needless to say , we block them lol
We get two or four winks from cpls . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some people on the forums seem to have trouble getting any attention, some people (generally single ladies) say they get so many they can't read them.
I'd be interested to know from a few singles and couples...
1) How many unsolicited winks do you get in an average day?
2) How many unsolicited messages?
3) Are you a single man/woman, couple etc?
4) Do you block any age ranges or singles from messaging you?
I say "unsolicited" because clearly if you're sending loads of winks and messages that's going to skew the results.
Not very scientific, I know, but I'd love to see a small sample of the results so we can compare.
1 - don't know as we bulk delete them
2 - will vary from day to day but in the range of 200 to 300
3 - we are a couple
4 - no we don't filter people out
Wow! That's 50-60,000 messages per year, do you employ a fab secretary? "
I don't believe the 200 to 300 a day . Especially as no one else is even close
I got it once for a day when top of fab photos . Certainly not a regular day |
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