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Do you like being called a Milf?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Milfs and gilfs are much more of a turn on that younger girls fact! Like look at some of the women that have posted above there are really attractive, and have the sexiest pics! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Or being told “I love older women”?
Makes me feel older than I am.
I hate both. If I wanted to be called that I’d refer to myself that way "
The only thing anyone should call you is hot!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or being told “I love older women”?
Makes me feel older than I am.
I hate both. If I wanted to be called that I’d refer to myself that way "
Your just absolutely sexy as fk! Check my profile it’s says you like them big, I’m 8 inch on soft’ |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It depends who's saying it and how.
I'm happy with my age so I'm not offended by it. But I don't want someone to like me just because of it."
I think this hits the nail on the head |
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"So is milf an age thing then?
L x"
I think so. It's more of an objectification of an older woman, or at least a woman older than the person who is calling them a milf, rather than a fetish for someone who's had kids. |
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"I think so. It's more of an objectification of an older woman, or at least a woman older than the person who is calling them a milf, rather than a fetish for someone who's had kids. "
Ahh, well that makes a little more sense I suppose haha
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never correlated MILF with age just motherhood and that covers most ages though not all ladies! Have friends who haven't been able to have children and it does upset them so no, I'm not fond of it |
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"I think so. It's more of an objectification of an older woman, or at least a woman older than the person who is calling them a milf, rather than a fetish for someone who's had kids.
Ahh, well that makes a little more sense I suppose haha
Damn it.. Now I'm upset I've lost my title "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I (the wife) don't mind it now because our children are older. Didn't like it as much when they were babies. The husband was called a DILF the other night. That put a big smile on his face x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or being told “I love older women”?
Makes me feel older than I am. "
Personally I hate being referred to Milf - the assumption I have children due to my age is infuriating! |
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Not terms that I would use, it’s a porn thing I guess?
However, as a GGTSLTF, I’m attracted to women of a similar age to me and indeed had some terrific sex during the last few years. Who’d have thought? |
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By *hine100Man
over a year ago
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"Hate it, hate being called a cougar or a bbw, chubby chasers really turn me off. Not judging but I'm a woman, not a fetish. "
The problem with all these terms is the way they're used. Respect and consent are so important and I can't help feeling that many of the times these terms are applied it's not in the way the recipient would like or choose. |
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Well the term is certainly flexible as I have seen women in their thirties referring to themselves as MILFs on their profiles. I think the term has become rather mashed up with other concepts like Cougar and Hotwife, and so no longer is about motherhood or being particularly middle aged.
Personally I don't have a problem with any of these terms. For me as a Mum and middle aged woman, and I must confess an incurable slutty exhibitionist, I take them in the usually positive spirit they are given.
Also, as one of the contributors indicated, young guys lack perspective on age and so don't fully appreciate that the term may not always be appropriate, even if they thought it would be taken as a compliment.
Seeing as I am very definitely growing old disgracefully, I will continue to take any such comments as a compliment, but understand other women may feel differently. |
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"Not terms that I would use, it’s a porn thing I guess?
However, as a GGTSLTF, I’m attracted to women of a similar age to me and indeed had some terrific sex during the last few years. Who’d have thought?"
No, the film American Pie, porn stole it from that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The term milf is only a porn name and noone would actually know in real life if a woman is a milf only by asking them they would know if they are a mother. |
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