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Is age just a number??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all.
Might be a daft question to many, but was just wondering what people's views are on age. Is it naughty, nice or just totally wrong on every level to be getting involved with someone half your age on here? X
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all.
Might be a daft question to many, but was just wondering what people's views are on age. Is it naughty, nice or just totally wrong on every level to be getting involved with someone half your age on here? X
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I've always said age should not be an issue if you have a connection with someone |
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There seems to be a bit of a double standard when an older guy goes with a younger girl vs a younger guy with an older woman.
But age is just a number as long as everyone is on board, honest and having fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had a couple meets with ladies in their 40s and they were the most pleasurable and fun meets I've had in a while  so surely if everyone is happy and attracted to eachother then no issues at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use it as a rough guide I’m not hardened with my age limits, I know I tend to go for my age or younger most of the time however I’ve also played with older guys who definitely don’t look their age. The problem with ages on here is that most of the men tend to have a fab age which is a few years younger than their real age - some can get away with it, others not so much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age is irrelevant (as long as everyone is legal obviously) I think attraction and a spark is more important. We worry too much about numbers e.g. age, money, the time, weight etc  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Age is irrelevant (as long as everyone is legal obviously) I think attraction and a spark is more important. We worry too much about numbers e.g. age, money, the time, weight etc "
This is so true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age isn’t just a number, no matter what people try and say. But it’s entirely up to you the age range you play and meet with (as long as they’re legal). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My perception is a lot of younger people can generally show their age in emotional maturity, but that is not the case with all of them. After being pursued for over a year by a lad in his early 20s I finally met him last weekend, breaking my own comfort zone with age. I was really surprised how mature and intelligent he was, we spoke late into the night and it was like no age gap at all. So I think sometimes you need to give the younger people a chance  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Age is irrelevant (as long as everyone is legal obviously) I think attraction and a spark is more important. We worry too much about numbers e.g. age, money, the time, weight etc
This is so true "
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"Age is irrelevant (as long as everyone is legal obviously) I think attraction and a spark is more important. We worry too much about numbers e.g. age, money, the time, weight etc
This is so true
Init lol "
Certainly is.....wouldn’t it be fun if we didn’t have to put our ages on our profile |
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We find people use "age is just a number" when they are outside of our preferences. This is usually followed by childlike/immature responses proving to us that there's more to it than that...at least in our experience. |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
Just meet who you are attracted to and don’t worry about their age, some young people look older than their years and some older people look younger so you can’t really go by age, go have fun  |
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Let's not forget the bigger picture here.
This is a swinging site first & foremost. Where grown adults meet other sexually compatable grown adults to have sex with.
Why, if it doesn't bother you about having sex with someone twice older or twice younger should you be worried about what others think.
We are all here to enjoy ourselves, and enjoy ourselves we shall. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all.
Might be a daft question to many, but was just wondering what people's views are on age. Is it naughty, nice or just totally wrong on every level to be getting involved with someone half your age on here? X
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it is just a number and a fine example would be the nepalese until recently they didnt celebrate birthdays  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all.
Might be a daft question to many, but was just wondering what people's views are on age. Is it naughty, nice or just totally wrong on every level to be getting involved with someone half your age on here? X
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If you were say 24 then yes it would be very wrong but as long as its legal crack on |
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Age isn't just a number.
Most people in their 20s haven't experienced much in life and can be rather one dimensional.
I often get on well with older people but tend not to be sexually attracted to them.
So for me, my age range is those I'm more likely to get on with and be attracted to. |
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18 years between D and I, and honestly it never really comes up, if we are meeting people on here, I do prefer older but it's not a hard set rule.. as long as its legal then there is no judgement.
As for long term, we have children the same age, I have been through life's challenges as much as the next 40 something unfortunately and we have come through a lot together, maturity wise we are both fairly on par.. And I suppose I am not the typically 'stereotyped' 20 something, who wants to party, stay up past their bedtime and shirk responsibilities as some seem to think that's all we are good for.
Anyway.. Stepping off my soap box |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"18 years between D and I, and honestly it never really comes up, if we are meeting people on here, I do prefer older but it's not a hard set rule.. as long as its legal then there is no judgement.
As for long term, we have children the same age, I have been through life's challenges as much as the next 40 something unfortunately and we have come through a lot together, maturity wise we are both fairly on par.. And I suppose I am not the typically 'stereotyped' 20 something, who wants to party, stay up past their bedtime and shirk responsibilities as some seem to think that's all we are good for.
Anyway.. Stepping off my soap box "
Well said, mind you dont slip getting down |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No its more than a number anybody saying any different is deluded ask Garry Glitter. "
I am sure no one here who said it is condoning paedophilia jeeze, what a thing to post. |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands |
"I use it as a rough guide I’m not hardened with my age limits, I know I tend to go for my age or younger most of the time however I’ve also played with older guys who definitely don’t look their age. The problem with ages on here is that most of the men tend to have a fab age which is a few years younger than their real age - some can get away with it, others not so much. "
As is the case with a sizeable number of women, 8 to 10 year age reduction can be found on this site. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I use it as a rough guide I’m not hardened with my age limits, I know I tend to go for my age or younger most of the time however I’ve also played with older guys who definitely don’t look their age. The problem with ages on here is that most of the men tend to have a fab age which is a few years younger than their real age - some can get away with it, others not so much.
As is the case with a sizeable number of women, 8 to 10 year age reduction can be found on this site."
Wow, I'd have never have thought that. Can understand why guys do it but Women too.... surely they must realise they'll be sussed out on an actual meet lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its more than a number to me
I find i get on better with men around my age or older.
I wouldn't feel comfortable going too low,doesn't mean its wrong,just doesn't sit well with me ."
Exactly this. It's not for me but that's just me, if it's right for someone else that's brilliant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes - just a number (I would say that, wouldn't I)
Get to know the person behind the number before you judge them, or their potential as a partner in rude stuff. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We find Personality is far more important than age and most couples we speak to say the same, we have played with couples a lot lot younger and older than us ,its all about personality |
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"Age isn’t just a number, no matter what people try and say. But it’s entirely up to you the age range you play and meet with (as long as they’re legal). "
it is just a number. But for some they make a big issue out of it
If anyone has a dislike to me or my age they can always cross the road.
I meet many on here, and age, doesn't come into it all. Its more about there being an attraction and connection for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile shows age 37 or more so I think you know the answer ........ either that or one haa as of of the cold isn’t being honest about their preferences. Said and meant in a non judgemental manner ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes age is just a number, I can put a lot of younger guys to shame with my experience and I am a good stayer, but it’s up to everyone do decide what age group they want to meet and you see it so often from couples and single ladies how many time wasters from some of the younger guys but it’s every ones choice |
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On Fab it really shouldn’t matter. Preferences aside it’s nice to experiment surely? As long as there is an attraction.
In the dating world and if looking for a LTR, I feel it does matter. As good as it would be for my ego, what future would I have with a girl half my age? Currently dating six years younger than me. |
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"Hi all.
Might be a daft question to many, but was just wondering what people's views are on age. Is it naughty, nice or just totally wrong on every level to be getting involved with someone half your age on here? X
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I suppose like anything else.. sexuality, body shape, ethnicity etc etc it's just another preference that people might have for various reasons. |
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I was going to say it’s just a number but I’m not so sure.
I don’t have do much in common with most under 30s (although I do have friends in their 20s).
Top end I guess the same applies when you approach 60.
What’s the old adage, half your age plus 7? |
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"Age is deffo just a number .... I’m in good shape look after myself look 20yrs younger ... it’s just numbers that have no meaning at all "
What if the preference has little to do with physical appearance? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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While our preference is 45-65, we have had couples in their 20's approach us, and there has been naught chat/play online only. We are in our early 60s, and why someone in their 20's would want to play with geezers like us is beyond me! |
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"If i find someone attractive it doesn't matter what age they are."
I am older but you wouldn't be able to judge the 'attraction' as your profile won't allow me to contact you...!
No matter but perhaps you will allow me to tell you you have an awesome body - I have good massage skill if you are interested...? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age is just a number. It's all about the attraction and chemistry. I have a regular female friend that I go to the club's with who is 28. At 49 I'm very flattered that she finds me attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We never use to meet folk under 30 but recently changed as Me (spice) had FF she was 26 it was very hot so changed our minds on that lol but spice prefers men over 30 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I’m 97 years old and I still enjoy sex with 18 year old ladies on a regular basis...I’m also completely senile and impotent, but that doesn’t stop me....what was I saying?!? Oh yes...I remember when all this was trees! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Half your age plus seven is considered the ideal age difference for men seeking women.
The formula becomes a problem as you get older. 70 year male, 42 year old female!
Not sure if that works. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on what you're seeking. I'd be happy to meet someone older as long as there's mutual attraction.
I wouldn't want the age gap to be fetished though... Not interested in being a "cub" (or a "daddy" on the other end of the spectrum).
Some people struggle to connect with someone much older or younger though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Makes absolutely no difference to me.
It's about a connection, I'm 39 my hubby is 54. I can not even put into words how much I love him and adore his company & his love back to me.
Just go for it. Age is just a number x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just a number for me to a degree my partner is 47. Guys my age have never really appealed hence I play with those 30 plus. That lower limit is rigid. The upper one I'm a little more flexible on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all.
Might be a daft question to many, but was just wondering what people's views are on age. Is it naughty, nice or just totally wrong on every level to be getting involved with someone half your age on here? X
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Well half my age is 17 so definitely very wrong for me lol |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"Our rule is half your age +7.
well it depends on how old you are as we have 2 grown-up children "
This is exactly it though, Lots say "I have children older than you" etc..
I'm ten years your senior & I have kids at primary school so most of the mums/dads are around H's age so it's that age we tend to socialise with.
Age "Is" just a number...It's your outlook that ages & is the defining factor for us.
Not saying we are big fans of radio 1 & the crap that's on it most of the time, but neither do we play golf & go on saga cruises etc.
I'm busy planning a trip next year to the Nurburgring on my M/C not interested in dossing on a beach somewhere...
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