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"A friend of mine was attacked while dogging. She almost ran over the guy trying to escape. Wondering how often this happens?  "
I've always thought that dogging seems a risky hobby, there's no checks, no security, and it's possible that the police might turn up and arrest you all. We prefer clubs for random meets with strangers... and you don't need to wash & valet your car afterwards.
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"A friend of mine was attacked while dogging. She almost ran over the guy trying to escape. Wondering how often this happens? "
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It's not particularly safe for anyone, let alone a lady on her own, anything could happen. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"After a good bit of fun with four guys watching we left but were followed by a guy in his pick up! It was scary for pups we drove around an estate ! Had to throw him off scent before we went home"
That is really scary. Haven't done this for years, boy racers spoiled it by being abusive and chucking bricks at cars. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not personally but a guy told me of a tail when he went and they shut the window on his cock trapping it between the glass and frame.  "
Ouch!!! That made me draw in like a box turtle!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A friend of mine was attacked while dogging. She almost ran over the guy trying to escape. Wondering how often this happens? ,
It's not particularly safe for anyone, let alone a lady on her own, anything could happen."
Exactly! Fortunately, my lady has no interest in this. If she did, I certainly wouldn't let her go alone! |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"A friend of mine was attacked while dogging. She almost ran over the guy trying to escape. Wondering how often this happens? ,
It's not particularly safe for anyone, let alone a lady on her own, anything could happen.
Exactly! Fortunately, my lady has no interest in this. If she did, I certainly wouldn't let her go alone!"
Absolutely, it's changed for the worse over the years. |
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Investigated it once years ago and thought most of the guys were rather odd/ scary/ sad (take your pick!). No inclination to try again, but I did enjoy a VERY pre-arranged meet with a couple in a 'dogging like location', which was rather fun … if not entirely comfortable!! Regards traditional dogging, like so many tings it's a great idea, but the reality is not quite s exciting as you imagine. |
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A friend and his wife were returning one evening from a weekend away and got frisky. They stopped at an industrial estate and caught by Police whilst at it.
They apologised and treated it as a joke until the police arrested them. They were offered a caution and accepted.
The prob was that he's a teacher and when the letter arrived, he realised that by accepting the caution he accepted being guilty and had to declare to his employer and to the agency dealing with clearing him to work with kids and vulnerable persons. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"A friend and his wife were returning one evening from a weekend away and got frisky. They stopped at an industrial estate and caught by Police whilst at it.
They apologised and treated it as a joke until the police arrested them. They were offered a caution and accepted.
The prob was that he's a teacher and when the letter arrived, he realised that by accepting the caution he accepted being guilty and had to declare to his employer and to the agency dealing with clearing him to work with kids and vulnerable persons. "
The laws very ambiguous on dogging. We were ok, we used to have an off duty policeman join us.
 . The police used to drive through and as long as we were discrete, they
weren't bothered. Your fiend was very unlucky. |
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(Before I met Ian) Been caught a couple of times by police with a vanilla ex bf but no caution. One was a site that was ‘remote’ but then roadworks forced us to move locations which meant we got spotted but as we had most of our clothes on, no caution issued.
Did go to one known site but didn’t enjoy it; too weird. 
Millie x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not personally but a guy told me of a tail when he went and they shut the window on his cock trapping it between the glass and frame. "
How tall was the guy ? A car window frame is pretty high. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never done it, thought a lot about trying it out with someone, but I’m scared the shit out of it from the stories one reads...
I think playing out a dogging scenario in a remote outdoors location is as far as I would go
But hey maybe I’m just a chicken! |
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Been spoken to by the police before when i stopped in a layby for a ciggy. I was wearing a pink leather dress and high heels at the time though. As i wasnt doing anything illeagal there was nothing they could do! X |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Been spoken to by the police before when i stopped in a layby for a ciggy. I was wearing a pink leather dress and high heels at the time though. As i wasnt doing anything illeagal there was nothing they could do! X"
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Seems a little seedy and dangerous, there is no way I'd put my partner in that situation."
It wasn't seedy for us as they were known to us and the men looked after the ladies. It was just outdoor fun |
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"A friend of mine was attacked while dogging. She almost ran over the guy trying to escape. Wondering how often this happens?
I've always thought that dogging seems a risky hobby, there's no checks, no security, and it's possible that the police might turn up and arrest you all. We prefer clubs for random meets with strangers... and you don't need to wash & valet your car afterwards.
Cal"
We agree, also how do you know when the strangers you're dogging with last had a wash or shower?   |
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We used to love going dogging with the trill of being watched but in recent years it has got more dangerous. We have had someone try follow us and we having to duck and dive through estates to loose them.
Also found some guys not only get their dicks out but camera phones out and we don’t wish to be be on anyone’s device with our faces showing so unfortunately had to stop.
May try having a little in car in a quiet spot but will be on high alert of yobs and sneaky footage collectors. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We used to love going dogging with the trill of being watched but in recent years it has got more dangerous. We have had someone try follow us and we having to duck and dive through estates to loose them.
Also found some guys not only get their dicks out but camera phones out and we don’t wish to be be on anyone’s device with our faces showing so unfortunately had to stop.
May try having a little in car in a quiet spot but will be on high alert of yobs and sneaky footage collectors. "
That's one of my biggest concerns for my single lady friends, that they'd be followed home by someone that means them harm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We used to love going dogging with the trill of being watched but in recent years it has got more dangerous. We have had someone try follow us and we having to duck and dive through estates to loose them.
Also found some guys not only get their dicks out but camera phones out and we don’t wish to be be on anyone’s device with our faces showing so unfortunately had to stop.
May try having a little in car in a quiet spot but will be on high alert of yobs and sneaky footage collectors. "
That's scary |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whole Dogging idea is scary to me... With group of strangers alone, very little space to manevour, if something bad happens. Risky fun not my cup of tea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tried dogging a few years ago.....got my tickets for Crufts and.....ummm...........it didn’t end well. As the nice policeman asked ‘how low can you get?’ ...to which I replied ‘oh, about a dachshund’  |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Whole Dogging idea is scary to me... With group of strangers alone, very little space to manevour, if something bad happens. Risky fun not my cup of tea. "
Which is why we had a regular group, much safer
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whole Dogging idea is scary to me... With group of strangers alone, very little space to manevour, if something bad happens. Risky fun not my cup of tea.
Which is why we had a regular group, much safer
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Is it like arranged meeting and pretend to be strangers?  |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Whole Dogging idea is scary to me... With group of strangers alone, very little space to manevour, if something bad happens. Risky fun not my cup of tea.
Which is why we had a regular group, much safer
Is it like arranged meeting and pretend to be strangers? "
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It was allsorts, others watching others play, in a car and maybe joining in, having sex in the woods, just outdoor fun. You would get new doggers come along, but there were enough people there, so we felt safe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whole Dogging idea is scary to me... With group of strangers alone, very little space to manevour, if something bad happens. Risky fun not my cup of tea.
Which is why we had a regular group, much safer
Is it like arranged meeting and pretend to be strangers? .
It was allsorts, others watching others play, in a car and maybe joining in, having sex in the woods, just outdoor fun. You would get new doggers come along, but there were enough people there, so we felt safe "
So it can be called outdoor club meet, without any club |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Whole Dogging idea is scary to me... With group of strangers alone, very little space to manevour, if something bad happens. Risky fun not my cup of tea.
Which is why we had a regular group, much safer
Is it like arranged meeting and pretend to be strangers? .
It was allsorts, others watching others play, in a car and maybe joining in, having sex in the woods, just outdoor fun. You would get new doggers come along, but there were enough people there, so we felt safe
So it can be called outdoor club meet, without any club "
You can call it what you like, it was fun
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whole Dogging idea is scary to me... With group of strangers alone, very little space to manevour, if something bad happens. Risky fun not my cup of tea.
Which is why we had a regular group, much safer
Is it like arranged meeting and pretend to be strangers? .
It was allsorts, others watching others play, in a car and maybe joining in, having sex in the woods, just outdoor fun. You would get new doggers come along, but there were enough people there, so we felt safe
So it can be called outdoor club meet, without any club
You can call it what you like, it was fun
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I am sure it would have been confused fun.
Dogger saw new guy: hey you seems new, we liked you, want to join,
New guy: yeah sure I was just passing by, happy to join but don't have gloves hope it is fine?
Just imagining |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Whole Dogging idea is scary to me... With group of strangers alone, very little space to manevour, if something bad happens. Risky fun not my cup of tea.
Which is why we had a regular group, much safer
Is it like arranged meeting and pretend to be strangers? .
It was allsorts, others watching others play, in a car and maybe joining in, having sex in the woods, just outdoor fun. You would get new doggers come along, but there were enough people there, so we felt safe
So it can be called outdoor club meet, without any club
You can call it what you like, it was fun
I am sure it would have been confused fun.
Dogger saw new guy: hey you seems new, we liked you, want to join,
New guy: yeah sure I was just passing by, happy to join but don't have gloves hope it is fine?
Just imagining "
You always have gloves in the winter
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whole Dogging idea is scary to me... With group of strangers alone, very little space to manevour, if something bad happens. Risky fun not my cup of tea.
Which is why we had a regular group, much safer
Is it like arranged meeting and pretend to be strangers? .
It was allsorts, others watching others play, in a car and maybe joining in, having sex in the woods, just outdoor fun. You would get new doggers come along, but there were enough people there, so we felt safe
So it can be called outdoor club meet, without any club
You can call it what you like, it was fun
I am sure it would have been confused fun.
Dogger saw new guy: hey you seems new, we liked you, want to join,
New guy: yeah sure I was just passing by, happy to join but don't have gloves hope it is fine?
Just imagining
You always have gloves in the winter
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Ouch even lube will not help if such gloves are used, can't imagine both (guy and lady) both will get scar one outside other inside..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most of you start off as strangers, bit like going to a house party, but outside "
Caveat with outside we have hijack topic... Surely OP will not appreciate, and won't hesitate to use hand gloves without lube on me |
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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago
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Been followed home a couple of times - well they tried to but both got bored when they realised I was driving back up to Newcastle and not back to Leeds city centre.
Saying that I've been followed home twice from socials too |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Instead of dogging we took ourselves to an adult cinema. Warm, dark, safe and lots of non threatening gents. "
Fortunately we had no threatening gents, just knobhead not racers. Cinemas are good too |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Been followed home a couple of times - well they tried to but both got bored when they realised I was driving back up to Newcastle and not back to Leeds city centre.
Saying that I've been followed home twice from socials too"
Yes that can happen anywhere, be safe |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Instead of dogging we took ourselves to an adult cinema. Warm, dark, safe and lots of non threatening gents.
Fortunately we had no threatening gents, just knobhead not racers. Cinemas are good too "
*boy* racers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not personally but a guy told me of a tail when he went and they shut the window on his cock trapping it between the glass and frame. "
.. bloody hell that's awful.. theres some rite dicks out there .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have been followed home a few times in the past.. were really cautious tbh do spotted em straight away.. dogging was great at one time but boy racers , carpark closures have fooked it .. |
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"Instead of dogging we took ourselves to an adult cinema. Warm, dark, safe and lots of non threatening gents.
Fortunately we had no threatening gents, just knobhead not racers. Cinemas are good too "
Did that in a cinema i was working in at the time
Millie x |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"We have been followed home a few times in the past.. were really cautious tbh do spotted em straight away.. dogging was great at one time but boy racers , carpark closures have fooked it .. "
Same here |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Instead of dogging we took ourselves to an adult cinema. Warm, dark, safe and lots of non threatening gents.
Fortunately we had no threatening gents, just knobhead not racers. Cinemas are good too
Did that in a cinema i was working in at the time
Millie x"
Haha
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Dashcams don’t help, known or incidents where people have been playing and someone simply recored the footage and threatened the couple to leak it online with faces showing and all.
That’s our biggest worry, not being exposed as it’s a private lifestyle we chose to have and not for the whole world to know about it and identify us. |
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"Dashcams don’t help, known or incidents where people have been playing and someone simply recored the footage and threatened the couple to leak it online with faces showing and all.
That’s our biggest worry, not being exposed as it’s a private lifestyle we chose to have and not for the whole world to know about it and identify us. "
It's a shame there are people like that. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Dashcams don’t help, known or incidents where people have been playing and someone simply recored the footage and threatened the couple to leak it online with faces showing and all.
That’s our biggest worry, not being exposed as it’s a private lifestyle we chose to have and not for the whole world to know about it and identify us. "
That definitely is a problem |
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